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Is it possible to be too polite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I bern taking the polite approach which works ok, but is it possible that some just don't like it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.

overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand why anyone would not want to be polite.

In my opinion, I wouldn't change the way I am for anyone on here.

If you or anyone else is polite I'd stay that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is .

some folk don't get fuck off

that is why we have a block button

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We are who we are and we are polite people so we won't be changing that any time soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is its either impossible, or there's just a very very fine balance between going either way. If you're too polite, it's creepy however, if you aren't polite then everyone will tell you you're on to plums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good manners are always a good thing

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.

overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy."

You mean theres men on a sex site that just wants to fuck??

Well I never........

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I bern taking the polite approach which works ok, but is it possible that some just don't like it at all"

If they don't it means you wouldn't get along. Are you really asking that often asked question "why do women go for bad guys?" They don't by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being polite doesn't always work, I try to reply to every message I receive if I'm not interested I always type "polite no thank you happy swinging stay safe always" I get horrible messages back or bombarded like they don't understand I just said no thanks.... Block button is very very useful lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bern taking the polite approach which works ok, but is it possible that some just don't like it at all"

I've also thought this, after going round in circles, not pushing the envelope, and trying to balance the conversation, I just feel like somebody should just say 'bend over and let me fuck you so the niegbours know my name!'

But you know, it might change her _iew of me.

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

sometimes I feel like I am too polite. but too be fair I have made far better friends being nice and having a natter.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I bern taking the polite approach which works ok, but is it possible that some just don't like it at all

I've also thought this, after going round in circles, not pushing the envelope, and trying to balance the conversation, I just feel like somebody should just say 'bend over and let me fuck you so the niegbours know my name!'

But you know, it might change her _iew of me. "

There is a middle ground

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By *VK_RugbyCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Be yourself otherwise you are pretending to someone your not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bern taking the polite approach which works ok, but is it possible that some just don't like it at all

I've also thought this, after going round in circles, not pushing the envelope, and trying to balance the conversation, I just feel like somebody should just say 'bend over and let me fuck you so the niegbours know my name!'

But you know, it might change her _iew of me.

There is a middle ground "

Saying 'please' after?

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By *eliaknightCouple
over a year ago

St Austell


"i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.

overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy.

You mean theres men on a sex site that just wants to fuck??

Well I never........ "

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By *onny bigMan
over a year ago

london harrow


"I can't understand why anyone would not want to be polite.

In my opinion, I wouldn't change the way I am for anyone on here.

If you or anyone else is polite I'd stay that way "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bern taking the polite approach which works ok, but is it possible that some just don't like it at all

I've also thought this, after going round in circles, not pushing the envelope, and trying to balance the conversation, I just feel like somebody should just say 'bend over and let me fuck you so the niegbours know my name!'

But you know, it might change her _iew of me. "

Hell yeah!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.

overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy.

You mean theres men on a sex site that just wants to fuck??

Well I never........ "

worded that wrong...

if often needs pointing out to polite men that we owe them nothing. especially if we don't wanna fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.

overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy.

You mean theres men on a sex site that just wants to fuck??

Well I never........

worded that wrong...

if often needs pointing out to polite men that we owe them nothing. especially if we don't wanna fuck them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I've also thought this, after going round in circles, not pushing the envelope, and trying to balance the conversation, I just feel like somebody should just say 'bend over and let me fuck you so the niegbours know my name!'

But you know, it might change her _iew of me.

Hell yeah!!!! "
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Who knew?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Be as polite as you want to, no right or wrong if you are happy with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wiping your cock on the curtains when you have finished is good manners lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I have to second guess every refusal I have ever had and that is a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.

overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy."

That's me!

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By *aughtyHOTWifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Bath

Politeness with a hint naughtiness is always a good to start with us, And remembering not asking the same old 'how are you finding it on here' or similar as will not hit the spot, also men asking about our meets? I mean WTF has it got to do with them lol;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like polite. thing is, on a sex site being polite just means you want a fuck so i can ignore polite men if i choose to do so.

overly polite puts me off and comes across as creepy.

That's me! "

only slightly.

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Fuck me please, any which way you want to. Not please fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was brought up to show respect and am always polite. Trouble is, so many people mess me about, sometimes I want to be very unlady like. I find it better to just keep my mouth shut as hate confrontation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good manners are free,i should think most of us are grown up people,i love politeness and manners ,much nicer than want a f..k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being polite doesn't always work, I try to reply to every message I receive if I'm not interested I always type "polite no thank you happy swinging stay safe always" I get horrible messages back or bombarded like they don't understand I just said no thanks.... Block button is very very useful lol "

Why don't people take no for an answer and move on?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not wiping your cock on the curtains when you have finished is good manners lol"
curtains no the ladies hair yes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a difference between being polite, being respectful and being assertive.

I do try to be polite but you have to read the social situation before doing much else I find.

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