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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Those who won't meet in public first, are they;

Shy

Nervous

Playing away

Other

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Most probably busy people who like to meet and fuck rather than just dream about it

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


"Most probably busy people who like to meet and fuck rather than just dream about it"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Those who won't meet in public first, are they;

Shy

Nervous

Playing away

Other"

Probably any one of these things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those who won't meet in public first, are they;

Shy

Nervous

Playing away

Other"

Or serial killers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those who won't meet in public first, are they;

Shy

Nervous

Playing away

Other"

Do you mean a social meet before a play meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no interest in meeting people in public....I go by the chat and pics and a phone call x

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Or a bloke hiding behind a womans' profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most probably busy people who like to meet and fuck rather than just dream about it"

I've met many publicly before and gone on to fuck them, the reason I meet socially first is due to the amount of people on here that look nothing like their pics as they're 10 years out of date. I want to feel attracted to them, I'm not gonna fuck someone I don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's their personal preference maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm assuming OP means a social meet before play. No, never done that, always get straight to the play.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I usually think they feel its instashag and don't want to put any effort in .Or they maybe hiding something that means they don't feel they can be seen in public with someone.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to meet socially first.. especially if it's with someone new..

How do you know if you like them enough to fuck them from just chatting on here or wherever ...

In my experience people who say they won't meet in public are either fakes or they have something to hide

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Most probably busy people who like to meet and fuck rather than just dream about it

I've met many publicly before and gone on to fuck them, the reason I meet socially first is due to the amount of people on here that look nothing like their pics as they're 10 years out of date. I want to feel attracted to them, I'm not gonna fuck someone I don't like. "

this is oh so true as well as a picture can look pleasing on the eye but after a five minute conversation face to face the person in front of you can now appear very unattractive .

the same the other way round the picture can appear so so but after a five minute conversation with the person in front of you they can suddenly appear very desirable indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd much rather meet in public first. Gets the whole 'fuck, they look nothing like their profile' worries out of the way. That way, if they don't, you can walk away without obligation (or run!!!!) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those who won't meet in public first, are they;

Shy

Nervous

Playing away

Other"

Horses for courses. We wouldn't have the time r inclination for 2 separate meets 1 to look 1 to f**k!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first, always help to avoid disasters or disappointment, both ways, in the long run.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Most probably busy people who like to meet and fuck rather than just dream about it

I've met many publicly before and gone on to fuck them, the reason I meet socially first is due to the amount of people on here that look nothing like their pics as they're 10 years out of date. I want to feel attracted to them, I'm not gonna fuck someone I don't like.

this is oh so true as well as a picture can look pleasing on the eye but after a five minute conversation face to face the person in front of you can now appear very unattractive .

the same the other way round the picture can appear so so but after a five minute conversation with the person in front of you they can suddenly appear very desirable indeed. "

This why we only play in clubs - you get the chance to look at and speak to potential playmates before either party makes any commitment to play. We aren't at all interested in public/social meets - we have our vanilla friends for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those who won't meet in public first, are they;

Shy

Nervous

Playing away

Other"

FAKE!! It's because the person you think you are talking to doesn't actually exist in the real world...

For me, if someone says they won't/can't meet in public I see it as an excellent filter

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Most probably busy people who like to meet and fuck rather than just dream about it

I've met many publicly before and gone on to fuck them, the reason I meet socially first is due to the amount of people on here that look nothing like their pics as they're 10 years out of date. I want to feel attracted to them, I'm not gonna fuck someone I don't like.

this is oh so true as well as a picture can look pleasing on the eye but after a five minute conversation face to face the person in front of you can now appear very unattractive .

the same the other way round the picture can appear so so but after a five minute conversation with the person in front of you they can suddenly appear very desirable indeed.

This why we only play in clubs - you get the chance to look at and speak to potential playmates before either party makes any commitment to play. We aren't at all interested in public/social meets - we have our vanilla friends for that."

makes sense sadly I hate clubs as a single male private parties yes because I was invited clubs no ,

clubs make me think of puppies following around their masters waiting for scraps from the table .

a feeling that will never work for me and a feeling that comes about because of my sexuality .

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Those who won't meet in public first, are they;

Shy

Nervous

Playing away

Other

FAKE!! It's because the person you think you are talking to doesn't actually exist in the real world...

For me, if someone says they won't/can't meet in public I see it as an excellent filter"

I totally agree and used to on my old profile,i understand people say its not for them ,especially couples.However for single women its a matter of safety,so if a man wanted to meet but couldn't commmit half an hour for a coffee it was a no thanks.

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