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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'd be blocked instantly. That's creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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Wouldn't bother Me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened last nite and I was pleasantly surprised and flattered to be recognized and complemented. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like being recognized locally so it's a block from me

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I have seen someone off here at my local asda.. did not react or send them a message.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

It would depend on the tone of the message and if they made us aware of who they were.

We've had the occasional message saying they've seen us elsewhere without telling us who they are...that's creepy and usually not true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My FB and I have had this happen , she has had nude pics published in readers wives....she found it a turn on knowing the guy had seen her totally naked albeit in a magazine.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Total block

Not into this at all

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

It's not that creepy. Definitely better (and more discrete) than hearing "Hey, are you on FabSwingers.com?" In Tesco. That happened to a mate of mine, which is how her husband found out she was cheating on him. If you recognise someone on here out in public, please don't say anything about this site in earshot of whoever they're with.

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I was stalked this way for over a year. We exchanged a few messages til I got freaked out when he said he recognised me off facebook because we had a friend in common. I didn't confirm it, but he went on intermittently for a year. He would message the time and place he had seen me, with 'i saw you but you didn't see me' or message the title of a place I had been and say something like 'the food was good wasn't it'.

In the end I went to the mutual vanilla friend who knows what I do, and sent her his pics (face was blurred) to see if by chance she recognised him. She did because he had sent her the same pics! Basically a sex pest who was married with kids. My friend told me his name and sent me a pic of what he looked like. We worked for same company! I replied to his latest message using his real name and asked how his wife was. He freaked out, cacked himself and kept apologising saying he had wanted to speak to me but did not know how, and begging me not to tell his wife. I didn't of course, just wanted him to stop scaring people.

In some circumstances, it might be quite hot to send a message on fab, if you're on the same train for example, and then its up to them if they want to engage.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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Id prefer this than being approached in public

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World

Creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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Personally I'd find it more appropriate to get a message, but again it's on the tone of the message!! Would be a bit freaky to walk up to someone if you didn't know them got to have some discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they not approach in public I don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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We like it , and it happens all the time

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We went to the local pub quiz and when we got home someone messaged to say he recognised us from Quest. He said he hadn't come to chat because we were with another couple. I thought that was very tactful of him and I liked the fact he had recognised us .SallyS

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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

I've been messaged twice by the same woman once she said she saw me in the local co-op and the other time walking along the road with my headphones on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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Totally creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had that a few times even tho I post to say hi if anyone sees me...my important people know what I get up to so doesn't matter if people say hi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was to be totally honest, I wouldn't give a shit because if they saw me at XYZ then they also must have been at XYZ, but either way I have more things to worry about than someone outing me for being somewhere.

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By *unnynbugsCouple
over a year ago

Neath

I'd have no problem being recognised in public. My partner is on here with me and knows everything. Besides I'm not ashamed of me and my partner being swingers. I'm really quite proud we have that level of trust between us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was spotted in the local Aldi a while back. Except that I'd never been there.

I assume that the lady didn't approach "me" at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time! Yesterday on way to tattoo studio, in supermarket, at service station. Guys just message me to say they had spotted me. Doesn't bother me....apart from the time I was out with no make up! I blame the long purple curls!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey some good responses. I guess I should add, I would send my face pic, and there is no notion of "outing" anyone! Just a playful message. I certainly wouldn't want to freak anyone out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if you have face pictures on you profile for all to see you're opening yourself up to be recognised.....a message later from someone saying "hi I saw you in Tesco's/local pub etc" even if you feel creeped out by it is much better than them walking up to you in said places and saying "hi aren't you on fab?" to your face.....

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Agree it would be down to the tone and who it was. If it was just a 'saw you in tesco' message then that would be creepy. Something a bit more conversational and open ended, accompanied by their face pic wouldn't be so bad.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I'd find it creepy as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been recognised quite a few times. It really doesn't bother me it's nice to be complemented xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it a lot. That's how my couples profile started funnily enough, he spotted me in our gym and messaged me So it's not all negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be all good with it and start up a chat with the person. I've seen a few people in some of my social meet up groups from fab and made contact and just went from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had it a lot. That's how my couples profile started funnily enough, he spotted me in our gym and messaged me So it's not all negative "

Exactly how we see it .

Truly can't see why anyone would see it as creepy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me before, I was working taking photographs of families at a works PR day, saw a kid on one of our quad bikes so went to take a picture and see's his mum pretty much eye banging me. 10 minuets later I got a fab email off her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't have a problem providing they didn't approach us in public and didn't send a creepy " I know where u were" message. Out face pics are friends only so chances would be slim anyway...if someone approached us in public then I would be mortified seen as 9 times out of 10 we have our babies with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me before, I was working taking photographs of families at a works PR day, saw a kid on one of our quad bikes so went to take a picture and see's his mum pretty much eye banging me. 10 minuets later I got a fab email off her. "

Eye banging hahaha love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was with my mother in Tescos and recognized someone talked to here, could see he recognized me too.

Once got over panic he was going to approach, we shared sly smile and carried on. At checkout had warm feeling knowing he knew what I looked like naked.

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

There is a word and it is Discretion.

When used correctly it should negate the problem of seeing another member in public.

Just saying

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Happened a few times to us now, we'd rather be messaged than openly spoken to in the street as usually we have our kids with us..

I don't think it's creepy, I'd rather know than not know tbh, What would you rather get "I saw you in the high st today" or "I've seen you 28 times in the last fortnight"

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They'd be blocked instantly. That's creepy"

Why? They could only recognise you from here if:

(A) you have clear face pics....so anyone might recognise you.

(B) you have actually met.

What's the problem....? It's not like they "outed" you in the middle of Sainsburys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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I've had it a few times, even had friend requests on Facebook. One fella had just got engaged extremely inappropriate I thought. Blocked.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"They'd be blocked instantly. That's creepy

Why? They could only recognise you from here if:

(A) you have clear face pics....so anyone might recognise you.

(B) you have actually met.

What's the problem....? It's not like they "outed" you in the middle of Sainsburys!"

I've had someone threaten to "out" me in the middle of sainsburys and i fucking work there!

I got a message from a guy who spotted me at work. Didn't want to take no for an answer and made veiled threats of coming up to me at work. Reported and blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they were discreet about it it wouldn't bother me, no harm in that. If they came up to me tho and blurted it out all over tesco i wouldn't be best pleased

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

If you think it creepy don't have face pics on your profiles.

We would not mid we would not mind someone approaching us if we were by ourselves but would object if we were in company of others

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By *unnynbugsCouple
over a year ago

Neath

Bunny here. I wouldn't mind if someone gave me a shout. But i doubt they would bother lol probably just to compliment Bugs

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I'd be amazed if someone recognised me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me if it was a female that recognised me

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Oldies by bother me and it has happened last year a guy saw me shopping in tesco and messaged me to say he's admired my profile for a while and that my boobs are much bigger than they appear to be one here

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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Me & Kim got pulled up by a copper on here once while out in the car, he got to the window then told his colleague "its ok they can go" he later messaged Kim on here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have public face pics but I'm not that naive to discount the possibility that someone could recognise me.

Regardless of my status I'd find that creepy as fuck if someone messaged me to that affect.

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By *reakish DesireCouple
over a year ago

Bisexuals

Definitely creepy and an instant block shortly afterwards 0_o

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

I'd be impressed if they recognised me in male mode. But if it got me some fun, woohoo.

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

It's a risk I suppose we all take being on here and when someone recognised us which has only happened once we just walked on by trying to act normal as we were with Andys mom !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would reply with "lol ok then" and not give it another thought x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this - apparently from the local tesco I shopped in 6 months ago.

Kinda weird

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By *unnynbugsCouple
over a year ago

Neath


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

Me & Kim got pulled up by a copper on here once while out in the car, he got to the window then told his colleague "its ok they can go" he later messaged Kim on here lol."

Hope he didn't expect anything for the service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the state of her teeth tbh

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

my response would be "why didn't you come over and fuck me?" as usually I'm outdoors dressed and looking to be used in the woods

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We would want to know why they didnt come over and say hi at the time....we could of been up for playing if they had

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We have recognised a few on here one guy we have actually played with actually works at same plant as me b, but he has kept it descrete . And two couples from wife's company also on site but have not played . Also a very horny lady from site works at our local supermarket we haven't played with her yet but intend to.

. But we keep it to site only as it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been spotted about 10 times whilst I've been out, walking the dog, down the aisle in Asda, out in my car. The guy in Asda followed me down 2 ailes and was smiling at me and when I was walking my dog the guy was in a van and was parked up and then drove past me very slow staring at me, they all messaged saying they seen me at such and such a place

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On my old profile,i was spotted by someone i'd chatted to.It was in the train station,he wasn't discreet at all and came over to speak.I wasn't happy about it ,i've seen a couple of men i've recognised but would never dream of approaching them.

Miss

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

Me & Kim got pulled up by a copper on here once while out in the car, he got to the window then told his colleague "its ok they can go" he later messaged Kim on here lol.

Hope he didn't expect anything for the service "

That's another story, he was a nice bloke that Kim liked so you will have to use you imagination lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

come and say hi, I don't bite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few messages like that.

It doesn't bother me as long as they let me know who they are, with a face pic.

If they stay anonymous then I block them.

What I don't like is if men message me on POF to say they've seen me on Fab, especially if I've blocked them on here.

That's creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few messages like that.

It doesn't bother me as long as they let me know who they are, with a face pic.

If they stay anonymous then I block them.

What I don't like is if men message me on POF to say they've seen me on Fab, especially if I've blocked them on here.

That's creepy "

Agree with this

U seen me, let me know see u too. Who knows maybe cld be attracted to each other.

if no face pic, straight to the block basket ur ass is heading lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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It would depend on the tone of the message.

We've had it happen twice and both were totally different in their message approach.

One, came across really creepy and freaked us out.

The other, ended up with us meeting them and becoming friends.

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

I had facial pics on public but had to set to friends only as ive had blokes shouting mazza in the street and being the ditzy cow i am, looked I dont mind the odd message of 'i saw u today' but shouting names out is just out of order. Wot happened to discretion

Mazza x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on the tone of the message. We had a message recently asking if we were at X doing Y, we were at X but wasn't us as it happens. It was a nice message, didn't find it creepy at all and I'd rather a message on here than be approached in public, especially as we were with friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If any ladies see me in the shops, give me a wink and I'll buy the whipped cream...

Other than that I'd rather someone didn't start mentioning the fact I'm on here in public. A message later on wouldn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

Id prefer this than being approached in public "

definitely!! I actually did this cos I saw a guy id met, he was with his gf(who I didn't know existed!!) thought better of saying hi and just messaged later. not every one want their laundry out in public, send a message later, def not creepy!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt find it creepy at all would be happy, id be slightly miffed to say the least if i was dropping my kids off at school and someone walked up to me and said "hey i seen you on fab swingers hiws it going"

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother us at all. We would just say they should of said hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd find it a wee bit creepy, but it's preferable to being approached in public I suppose. I'm always getting messages saying they've seen me somewhere and it's never actually been me, so I've got a few doppelgängers knocking around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bloke we had been messaging on here came up to me in town and spoke to me . I was with my daughter and a friend a block after a polite message telling him not discrete at all x marie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've meet someone off here, a year after they claimed to have spotted me in my local supermarket. After checking the times I concluded they had in fact seen me lol

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'd think it was total creepies.

I've been spotted out and about before and that's also bad.

Both are bad. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bloke we had been messaging on here came up to me in town and spoke to me . I was with my daughter and a friend a block after a polite message telling him not discrete at all x marie x"

Yeah but your towns very small. Word gets out and it wouldn't be good. Can't blame you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could then answer 'yes ive been recognised outside of fab' - as yet i havent -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a funny one sat nite in a local bar I was browsing fab and a message came up saying I can see you in yuppies bar. I momentary panicked n looked round as I was on my own by this point but still hosting my social. Then I spotted a very nice man grinning at me from the dance floor. xxx

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By *unnynbugsCouple
over a year ago

Neath

No one has any fear about me recognising them when I'm out and about because I rarely pay any attention other than task at hand lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spotted someone who I fancied for about three years and she the same on here and now we arranging to meet ! Gotta love that arse !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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Happened before several times when I had face pics and didn't bother me at all!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I would be very surprised.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

It will never happen to me but if it did discretion would be valued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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Had it happen a few times, totally fine with it. They are there for fun times, so are we

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"I was stalked this way for over a year. We exchanged a few messages til I got freaked out when he said he recognised me off facebook because we had a friend in common. I didn't confirm it, but he went on intermittently for a year. He would message the time and place he had seen me, with 'i saw you but you didn't see me' or message the title of a place I had been and say something like 'the food was good wasn't it'.

In the end I went to the mutual vanilla friend who knows what I do, and sent her his pics (face was blurred) to see if by chance she recognised him. She did because he had sent her the same pics! Basically a sex pest who was married with kids. My friend told me his name and sent me a pic of what he looked like. We worked for same company! I replied to his latest message using his real name and asked how his wife was. He freaked out, cacked himself and kept apologising saying he had wanted to speak to me but did not know how, and begging me not to tell his wife. I didn't of course, just wanted him to stop scaring people.

In some circumstances, it might be quite hot to send a message on fab, if you're on the same train for example, and then its up to them if they want to engage. "

Haa that's great shows how bullies are always weak bet now he is worried about you getting in touch with him

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

As I have said before iam a single guy no kids live with a house mate work nights even my parents know I swing so wanna call me out go for it lol I will wave and ask if they have any good meets lol

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By *un bbw loverMan
over a year ago

coventry


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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not too creepy sometimes it would not bother me, i guess it depends what sort of a mood im in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy?

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Neither, depending upon the context of the message and how the person sending then goes onto conducting themselves in any further messages (if any)

But essentially what happens in Fab.... you can guess the rest..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a couple on fab a few years ago next thing it turned creepy when the guy from the question asked how was so and so I told him I don't know who u mean he then came up with my sisters name so I denied knowing her then he produced my ex wife's name I again denied knowing her he then went on to describe her where she was from where she worked and so on and asked if she knew i was on here again I denied I knew the person he was on about because at the end of the day my family and ex are my business and not spend to be used against me and I want my fab life to remain separate from my normal life so in the end I closed my account and re opened it a few weeks later but it cost me my fab friends as when I reopened account I was now out of their age range

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It has never happened to us but provided the message wasn't creepy it wouldn't bother us and would rather a message than being approached in public.

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over a year ago

I have not been recognised but have recognised a couple of couples but never said anything. One was a couple I knew quite well but hid their naughty side from anyone and another was a lady I worked with who was quite flirty by personality in general and so it would not surprise anyone. Would never say anything to them unless in an appropriate situation but it is very horny to see their posts and their photos and also see them in normal everyday life, especially when we go our for diner or meet them at a party. If I were to mention it I would only do it in andppropaite need very non creepy and open way so everyone would know who each other was.

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