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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? " Wouldn't bother Me . | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? " Id prefer this than being approached in public | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? " Personally I'd find it more appropriate to get a message, but again it's on the tone of the message!! Would be a bit freaky to walk up to someone if you didn't know them got to have some discretion | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? " We like it , and it happens all the time | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? " Totally creepy | |||
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"I've had it a lot. That's how my couples profile started funnily enough, he spotted me in our gym and messaged me So it's not all negative " Exactly how we see it . Truly can't see why anyone would see it as creepy . | |||
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"Happened to me before, I was working taking photographs of families at a works PR day, saw a kid on one of our quad bikes so went to take a picture and see's his mum pretty much eye banging me. 10 minuets later I got a fab email off her. " Eye banging hahaha love it! | |||
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"They'd be blocked instantly. That's creepy" Why? They could only recognise you from here if: (A) you have clear face pics....so anyone might recognise you. (B) you have actually met. What's the problem....? It's not like they "outed" you in the middle of Sainsburys! | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? " I've had it a few times, even had friend requests on Facebook. One fella had just got engaged extremely inappropriate I thought. Blocked. | |||
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"They'd be blocked instantly. That's creepy Why? They could only recognise you from here if: (A) you have clear face pics....so anyone might recognise you. (B) you have actually met. What's the problem....? It's not like they "outed" you in the middle of Sainsburys!" I've had someone threaten to "out" me in the middle of sainsburys and i fucking work there! I got a message from a guy who spotted me at work. Didn't want to take no for an answer and made veiled threats of coming up to me at work. Reported and blocked. | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? " Me & Kim got pulled up by a copper on here once while out in the car, he got to the window then told his colleague "its ok they can go" he later messaged Kim on here lol. | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? Me & Kim got pulled up by a copper on here once while out in the car, he got to the window then told his colleague "its ok they can go" he later messaged Kim on here lol." Hope he didn't expect anything for the service | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? Me & Kim got pulled up by a copper on here once while out in the car, he got to the window then told his colleague "its ok they can go" he later messaged Kim on here lol. Hope he didn't expect anything for the service " That's another story, he was a nice bloke that Kim liked so you will have to use you imagination lol. | |||
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"I've had a few messages like that. It doesn't bother me as long as they let me know who they are, with a face pic. If they stay anonymous then I block them. What I don't like is if men message me on POF to say they've seen me on Fab, especially if I've blocked them on here. That's creepy " Agree with this U seen me, let me know see u too. Who knows maybe cld be attracted to each other. if no face pic, straight to the block basket ur ass is heading lol | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? " It would depend on the tone of the message. We've had it happen twice and both were totally different in their message approach. One, came across really creepy and freaked us out. The other, ended up with us meeting them and becoming friends. | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? Id prefer this than being approached in public " definitely!! I actually did this cos I saw a guy id met, he was with his gf(who I didn't know existed!!) thought better of saying hi and just messaged later. not every one want their laundry out in public, send a message later, def not creepy!!!!! | |||
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"A bloke we had been messaging on here came up to me in town and spoke to me . I was with my daughter and a friend a block after a polite message telling him not discrete at all x marie x" Yeah but your towns very small. Word gets out and it wouldn't be good. Can't blame you x | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? " Happened before several times when I had face pics and didn't bother me at all! | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? " Had it happen a few times, totally fine with it. They are there for fun times, so are we | |||
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"I was stalked this way for over a year. We exchanged a few messages til I got freaked out when he said he recognised me off facebook because we had a friend in common. I didn't confirm it, but he went on intermittently for a year. He would message the time and place he had seen me, with 'i saw you but you didn't see me' or message the title of a place I had been and say something like 'the food was good wasn't it'. In the end I went to the mutual vanilla friend who knows what I do, and sent her his pics (face was blurred) to see if by chance she recognised him. She did because he had sent her the same pics! Basically a sex pest who was married with kids. My friend told me his name and sent me a pic of what he looked like. We worked for same company! I replied to his latest message using his real name and asked how his wife was. He freaked out, cacked himself and kept apologising saying he had wanted to speak to me but did not know how, and begging me not to tell his wife. I didn't of course, just wanted him to stop scaring people. In some circumstances, it might be quite hot to send a message on fab, if you're on the same train for example, and then its up to them if they want to engage. " Haa that's great shows how bullies are always weak bet now he is worried about you getting in touch with him | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? " not too creepy sometimes it would not bother me, i guess it depends what sort of a mood im in. | |||
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"If someone recognised you out and about didn't approach you, but then messaged you later to say "hey I saw you at xyz", would you like that or find it creepy? " Neither, depending upon the context of the message and how the person sending then goes onto conducting themselves in any further messages (if any) But essentially what happens in Fab.... you can guess the rest.. | |||
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