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By *WLondonMix OP   Man
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

One thing that has always confused me is the particular system of using a 'put this in subject' approach of making message stand out, as initial proof of reading profile. 8-10 have the 'codeword' at bottom of profile which is rather useless as surely when you go onto a profile and check names & ages a quick flick of the eye generally unlocks the secret words.... Would it not be more efficient to dot a few words around in profile or is there an easier system to let prospects stand out?

It isn't hard to read a profile and is often quite enjoyable specially the well written and sometimes comical ones lol. Sending a message which suits the profile is not hard however the subject can be difficult... On another not what's the most eye catching subject titles you have had? X

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

My profile has gotten longer due to being asked the same question over and over. So I thought I would try and cover all bases. I don't have any code words in mine, but it does make me laugh when reference is made to the chocolate hob nobs and coffee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get mails from guys saying 'you must have too much time on your hands to have written that'. What is too much time? You just have spare time to fill. I don't watch tv much so I write or draw or paint. The written word is not a chore to me.

I don't want to meet up with anyone who sees reading and writing as alien.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive spotted codewords without reading the profile properly, I just skim read, so the codeword isnt that great a way of ensuring you've read the profile. Of course if they ask you questions on it then your stumped. Maybe put a series of clues, a clue to take the reader to a certain city to find the next clue taped onto a dustbin, and that clue lead you to another city or another country, eventually leading up to the big one, the codeword that goes into the title. Be like the Da Vinci code. It could work

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have a code word in my profile but very few people actually notice it. Probably 9 times out of 10 they dont notice it so it works for.me.

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By *WLondonMix OP   Man
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

LOL oh my that deserved the extra time for my tired hands to put the caps lock on!(Btw if you liked that book should read 'lost symbol' by same author dan brown) I don't see long profiles as Tedious to read as long as they are informative and well written. Writing is becoming a lost art as many threads have stated, so I can appreciate and often compliment when I see profiles that catch my eye. To be fair the questioning or inquisition shouldn't be necessary as in a first mail it is often good advice to have the content suit the profile. With a few well crafted phrases aimed towards major points on a profile works wonders. Often try same approach in subject title, and works a lot better then 'hey' or 'oi oi sexaloy' :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will write their profile with whatever they are comfortable with. I enjoy longer profiles if its interesting, funny and I want to learn more about that person. I wont bother reading what doesnt interest me. And if people feel happier having a coe word then its all good. And Ive read all of Dan Brown's books.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Da Vinci remains my fave tho, I do love it

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

here we go again. people expecting us poor single guys to read profiles. we have enough to do mass mailing the same email to every lady on the site you know, and thats on top of wanking over your profile pics, sending friend requests to see your private pics and posting in the forums about never getting any meets.

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By *WLondonMix OP   Man
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

Mathew reily is a great author some similar books to dan brown, slightly more action orientated but still quite a good read.

people will write as they wish and naturally ( as were on this theme) dont judge a book by its cover, ie: short profile small personality (would be ignorent to think this but somepeople on site never fail to suprise lol). i do think code words do work in certain ways as there is no foolproof way of determining if someone has read the profile by subject text

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By *unkytigersCouple (FF)
over a year ago

southend

We recently had someone who managed to write the code word we have, but totally miss the fact that we are 2 women!!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I find it entertaining when people quote the wrong 'codeword' and then try to claim they read the whole profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing that has always confused me is the particular system of using a 'put this in subject' approach of making message stand out, as initial proof of reading profile. 8-10 have the 'codeword' at bottom of profile which is rather useless as surely when you go onto a profile and check names & ages a quick flick of the eye generally unlocks the secret words.... Would it not be more efficient to dot a few words around in profile or is there an easier system to let prospects stand out?

It isn't hard to read a profile and is often quite enjoyable specially the well written and sometimes comical ones lol. Sending a message which suits the profile is not hard however the subject can be difficult... On another not what's the most eye catching subject titles you have had? X "

If ya adopted that system on here the only mail ya would get would be from James bond xx

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By *WLondonMix OP   Man
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

Or when guys msg when Not looking for men are on profiles. I don't mind getting a compliment on my pics or profile and genrally send one or two from private as thank you, but when there nessaging asking if a want a blowie, I politely say no thanks if they persist I just claim I charge 200 and they runna mile :D then again the offer been accepted by few but then I just dissapoint with a feck off msg :D

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By *carletRomanceCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We use a codeword - ok it's not a perfect idea but most of the mail we get using it is an actual message that indicates they read our profile.

Saying that we still get one or two that use the codeword and have totally ignored the rest of the profile - like using it's an instant pass or something.

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