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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just recently we have had people asking for face pics straight away, without sending thiers first or even a promise of reciprocating on return.

We usually only send if we have chatted a while and get a good vibe etc.

I feel if you sent them straight off you might as well have them on your profile for everyone to see?!

Thoughts appreciated

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I always ask for one straight away no point chatting to someone I don't find attractive I feel I would be wasting their time as well as my own. I do send one back if I think there a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't ask straight away, but we'd want to swap them soon, there's no point chatting online too much before being disappointed to see that there's no physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always ask for one straight away no point chatting to someone I don't find attractive I feel I would be wasting their time as well as my own. I do send one back if I think there a chance. "

I do understand that view also like you say no point if your not attracted, but think its just rude to ask without sending or a introduction first, then are offended by a refusal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always ask for one straight away no point chatting to someone I don't find attractive I feel I would be wasting their time as well as my own. I do send one back if I think there a chance.

I do understand that view also like you say no point if your not attracted, but think its just rude to ask without sending or a introduction first, then are offended by a refusal "

Yep there's no need to be rude or pushy about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with what others have said, why waste our time and yours if their isn't an attraction then no point x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send one. As a single guy if you don't there is no chance of a reply xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel that if you don't have any face pics in public and you message first, then its only polite to attach a face pic. Similarly, if you're going to ask for one then attach one yourself also. As others have said, really no point wasting time if there's no attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel that if you don't have any face pics in public and you message first, then its only polite to attach a face pic. Similarly, if you're going to ask for one then attach one yourself also. As others have said, really no point wasting time if there's no attraction. "
This is what I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see a face pic with first message...otherwise there may not be a second message...

its not blind date is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to see a face pic with first message...otherwise there may not be a second message...

its not blind date is it? "
True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First face pic should be sent by whoever initiated first contact in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont reply to a first message unless it has a face pic or they have one public on their profile ... I dont like talking to faceless people that i might not find attractive ... Waste of both our times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send a face pic, but it comes with a warning I'm fucking ugly, I don't get many replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First face pic should be sent by whoever initiated first contact in my opinion."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont reply to a first message unless it has a face pic or they have one public on their profile ... I dont like talking to faceless people that i might not find attractive ... Waste of both our times "

Proper gutted I'm 1 year outside your age range girlinlingerie . I was going to send you a face pic

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I feel that if you don't have any face pics in public and you message first, then its only polite to attach a face pic. Similarly, if you're going to ask for one then attach one yourself also. As others have said, really no point wasting time if there's no attraction. "

This

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham


"I feel that if you don't have any face pics in public and you message first, then its only polite to attach a face pic. Similarly, if you're going to ask for one then attach one yourself also. As others have said, really no point wasting time if there's no attraction. "

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ exactly what the lady says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont reply to a first message unless it has a face pic or they have one public on their profile ... I dont like talking to faceless people that i might not find attractive ... Waste of both our times

Proper gutted I'm 1 year outside your age range girlinlingerie . I was going to send you a face pic "

Dave you are also miles out my distance range (not that fab lets you apply this filter)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's true but I visit Glasgow quite regular as I have family up there, well just outside of Glasgow in Carluke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't send, and don't expect, a face photo with a first message. It needs to be shared quite early on but you can tell within a few messages whether there's a possible interest and whether it's worth swapping face photos. I don't need to see the faces of men I'm never going to reply to, or vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen your face Ruby and it's very pretty

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