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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

would u like to be first of a virgin guy? Xox

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Done it a few times

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Done it a few times "

"You've never been with a guy before? Well, you'll remember me."

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Done it a few times

"You've never been with a guy before? Well, you'll remember me."

"

Ohhh im soo straight lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first..."

Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Most virgins have no idea what they are doing....watch way to much porn and tend to last 10 seconds.

No offence but i don't like being left frustrated and having to finish myself off.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...

Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?"
no its awful...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...

Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful..."

Why is that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most virgins have no idea what they are doing....watch way to much porn and tend to last 10 seconds.

No offence but i don't like being left frustrated and having to finish myself off. "

If noone teaches them, they cant learn lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The only time I gave ever slept with a male virgin was when I lost my virginity.

I have no desire to do so again out of choice. However, I would be happy to be a first for a bi-curious lady, because we share the same basic physiology.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I prefer men with a bit of experience below their belts & I wouldn't want to be teaching them how to touch me.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Most virgins have no idea what they are doing....watch way to much porn and tend to last 10 seconds.

No offence but i don't like being left frustrated and having to finish myself off.

If noone teaches them, they cant learn lol"

This is a swinging site... I doubt many want to have to teach. I would maybe consider it if a knew a chap well but for a meet would prefer someone who is more likely to know what they're doing.

Nita

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...

Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...

Why is that?"
why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

OP .... you need a cougar to show u the ropes ..

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

No one taught me. I had to find out for myself, as did everyone else on here....we have all taken time to learn what we like, what we dont like. That takes time.

As for wanting to educate someone.... I have a partner, he is quite skilled and already knows how to please me...we meet people on here that know what they want.

Another way to look at it.....you go out for a meal and have a choice...an amazing meal cooked by someone like gorden ramsey or something cooked by someone who has no skill at all....and if im honest, could probably burn water.

Claridges here i come everytime.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP .... you need a cougar to show u the ropes .."

Opps do i? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...

Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...

Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?"

It could be special, couldnt it?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...

Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...

Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?

It could be special, couldnt it?"
i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op I like the approach they are biting at the bit to give you a chance we'll done pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...

Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...

Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?

I see. Im glad u share ur thoughts xx

It could be special, couldnt it?i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...

Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...

Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?

It could be special, couldnt it?i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others.."
your just a rebel Suzy

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...

Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...

Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?

It could be special, couldnt it?i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others.. your just a rebel Suzy "
i just know the effects i have on others..and for some the most loving thing to do, is to leave them alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...

Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...

Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?

It could be special, couldnt it?i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others.."

Well Suzy, this is gonna sound very corny, but with a face like yours, I'm betting you'd be unforgettable for any guy, virgin or no virgin, and for absolutely the right reasons!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...

Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...

Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?

It could be special, couldnt it?i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others..

Well Suzy, this is gonna sound very corny, but with a face like yours, I'm betting you'd be unforgettable for any guy, virgin or no virgin, and for absolutely the right reasons! "
its not my face..its my energy that leaves an imprint and i know i do it, can do it and use it consciously at times..im different. i can live with that, however i dont inflict on the uninitiated x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"would u like to be first of a virgin guy? Xox"

I have been, many moons ago. I was a virgin at the time too.

Now, no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it once with my ex wasn't all that to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"would u like to be first of a virgin guy? Xox

I have been, many moons ago. I was a virgin at the time too.

Now, no thank you."

Noone wants virgin lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never have and don't plan to start now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first...

Isnt it good to be unforgettable for someone?no its awful...

Why is that?why would i want to be remembered as someones first..?

It could be special, couldnt it?i dont want to be remebered..if you want it to be special my suggestion is that you go find a girlfriend and experience something lasting and memorable even if it doesnt last in the long run. i dont want to be seen as someone special, when i am not to that person and i wouldnt wish to do the same to others..

Well Suzy, this is gonna sound very corny, but with a face like yours, I'm betting you'd be unforgettable for any guy, virgin or no virgin, and for absolutely the right reasons! its not my face..its my energy that leaves an imprint and i know i do it, can do it and use it consciously at times..im different. i can live with that, however i dont inflict on the uninitiated x"

Hmmm! I can well believe it! Well, if you ever feel like inflicting it on me, I'll happily play along!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most virgins have no idea what they are doing....watch way to much porn and tend to last 10 seconds.

No offence but i don't like being left frustrated and having to finish myself off.

If noone teaches them, they cant learn lol"

Normally people expect to pay for education

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

What if it's not a virgin but someone that's not had sex in a while. Is there a difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have. Never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't think a virgin should want to be on this site. Agree with Suzy, your first time will be one of your most memorable, just for the simple fact it was your first. It will mean so much more if there is some feeling behind it with someone you consider special (at the time)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What if it's not a virgin but someone that's not had sex in a while. Is there a difference? "

I think its a big difference lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to pm me OP. Ask on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No need to pm me OP. Ask on here."

Why is that. Whats wrong with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance, i think losing your virginity should be special and with someone special to you. This is how i have always thought unfortunatly my virginity was stolen. First times should be special and not just to get it out of the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No need to pm me OP. Ask on here.

Why is that. Whats wrong with them?"

They are inexperienced and have alot to learn. I am not prepared to teach or be used as a guinea pig for their development. Virgins on a swinging site may appeal to some but certainly NOT me.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I went with one a couple of years ago. He didn't tell me he was a virgin and hadn't even kissed anyone before which left me a little confused about his actions during the meet. Wish he had told me as it would have been a much better experience for both of us. He only confessed when we had finished. We didn't manage to get the whole way as he couldn't keep it up as was nervous, and commented afterwards 'Well, lots of new things done today' and I was like 'WTF?'

Would have met again as he was a nice guy and, once I had known, it would have been a lot different the 2nd time but we were never free at the same time, and after a few months conversation just fizzled out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I went with one a couple of years ago. He didn't tell me he was a virgin and hadn't even kissed anyone before which left me a little confused about his actions during the meet. Wish he had told me as it would have been a much better experience for both of us. He only confessed when we had finished. We didn't manage to get the whole way as he couldn't keep it up as was nervous, and commented afterwards 'Well, lots of new things done today' and I was like 'WTF?'

Would have met again as he was a nice guy and, once I had known, it would have been a lot different the 2nd time but we were never free at the same time, and after a few months conversation just fizzled out"

Haha it sounds a bit funny ??

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I prefer a man to be experienced personally.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer a man to be experienced personally.

Miss"

So how they get experience? Lol

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Definitely not. I agree that someone's first time should be special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the whole 'your first time should be special' stance.

That said, how many here could claim that their first time was 'special'? I know I can't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get the whole 'your first time should be special' stance.

That said, how many here could claim that their first time was 'special'? I know I can't."

And why they think they cant be that special?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I get the whole 'your first time should be special' stance.

That said, how many here could claim that their first time was 'special'? I know I can't."
mine was and i married the first man i slept with..not that i recommend this route..but there is something to be said for having a person to explore, have feelings for and have an opportunity to experience a relationship alongside the sex, when you are new to the whole thing..imo....and that is why OP im not that special for a virgin and , why i think you deserve someone 'better' in other ways for your first time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the whole 'your first time should be special' stance.

That said, how many here could claim that their first time was 'special'? I know I can't."

My first time was special. We were teenagers in love and it was his first time too. It was technically a bit crap but we thought it was beautiful and amazing.

Nell

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I prefer a man to be experienced personally.

Miss

So how they get experience? Lol"

Others will happily meet them im sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer a man to be experienced personally.

Miss

So how they get experience? Lol

Others will happily meet them im sure "

Where are they? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope..did it once in my teens..never again with conscious choice..why?, cos i dont want to be rem#embered as anyone's first..."

That. I did it once. she was on holiday too.

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