FabSwingers.com forum: sick of people asking for cash on this site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fed up of this site now suppose to be a swingers site not a escorts site. I do understand about going halfs on hotel rooms. Not paying for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

report the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

It's against the rules of the site so block and report them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So your it's for the prospective meet to pay for the room if you're meeting? Paying for half a room for fun isn't the same as paying for sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

3 times today ive been aaked for cash off women

I do report but there seems to be more and more of it now this site has changed so much since i first joined dont seem to be many genuine swingers anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are asking for cash block and report if they are asking to share Costs that's a private matter so do the sums add up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If arranging a meet with someone and niether party can accomodate spliting the cost of a hotel is not the same as a women saying yeah i can meet for £80

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So your it's for the prospective meet to pay for the room if you're meeting? Paying for half a room for fun isn't the same as paying for sex. "
it's part of the coarse omg ... splash the cash ....live a little. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negotiate.

Start low.......a happy meal and a bottle of MD 20/20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I have every been asked for cash in any shape or form. I have to admit it weirds me out when a lot of the complaining focuses around the exchange of cash for services. Maybe you profile tells the story of a man that leads a life where money is plenty and female company not so plenty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If arranging a meet with someone and niether party can accomodate spliting the cost of a hotel is not the same as a women saying yeah i can meet for £80"
report and block you have had meets so can judge I'm sure but we all need to report as it makes for a better site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if the high volume of folk looking to meet maybe leaves some guys with less confidence vulnerable to things like that.

The first message I got on here was from a guy offering me money, surely an escort site would be where you would go.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

OP , can you lend me a tenner ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't say I have every been asked for cash in any shape or form. I have to admit it weirds me out when a lot of the complaining focuses around the exchange of cash for services. Maybe you profile tells the story of a man that leads a life where money is plenty and female company not so plenty."
had some fantastic experiences in hotels so I will say those who care share lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly stick to a escort site and to the other person why does it suggest i have money to offer it doesnt

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

I've had a few of those recently - reported them but they are still on site so not sure reporting them does much good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying that did she look like an £80.00 fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do stay in hotels alot maybe 3 times a week so i can accomodate in hotels so i dont ask for half of that

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

Swinger site should be sharing of costs worst case.

Escort site is booking and paying for a service.

Unfortunately there are always going to be opportunists who will tout for business on here. So, report if you are bothered by it and move on I guess.

Though I do see your point in raising it as a topic on the forum as it is a good discussion point.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Friend worked as concierge at a posh Kensington apartment complex that had a lot of escorts visiting. He was always saying how he was amazed at how fkin ugly most of the girls were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if she paid for the hotel and you went there and played doesn't that make you and escort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have never encountered being asked for cash and we have never requested cash ourselves either.....we have met loads and loads of genuine swingers.......go to clubs...... plenty of fun there....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmm let me think about that one NO. Are we now getting on the stupidity side ao of a husband and wife goes to a hotel and the husbamd pays as a suprise it makes the wife an escort does it

Seems funny why your deffending the cash situation so much.

Also the cash in that situation would be going to the hotel not to a women like a wage

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Must admit clubs are the way forward i think i do attend quiet a few clubs now cause of travelling around alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should off said if it's £80 then you owe me £80 as my rate is £160

I've never been asked for payment but like they say report and block.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Hit the quote button under the post you're replying to. Makes it easier to know who you're answering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do stay in hotels alot maybe 3 times a week so i can accomodate in hotels so i dont ask for half of that "

Just block them easy peasy

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By *isselvieWoman
over a year ago

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Well, I won't ask, but will accept cash.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

£80 that's cheap. I'm joking!

Report & block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I literally had someone asking to pay me to suck my dick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and report....don't need this to be a prossies site.....

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I can understand if your hosting an MMMMMMMMMF event to ask for a contribution towards the hotel room costs...it also shows a sign of commitment.

We have had several men appear in our inbox pissed off because they habe given money and then been blocked.

Personally apply a level of common sense....if they ask for money dont give it! And if you do get fooled then dont cry about it.

That might sound harsh but if gulible enough to fall for a scam then at least do sonething about it rather than crack on to someone else

Remember bank transactions can be traced to a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask for a pony instead....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend on here was asked if she was willing to accept payment for a meet she said no but was very persistent

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Can I ask for a pony instead....

£25, that's cheap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I ask for a pony instead....

Will a my little pony cover it ?

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By *xx1Man
over a year ago

"Fed up of this site now suppose to be a swingers site not a escorts site. I do understand about going halfs on hotel rooms. Not paying for sex."

What is the cash for?

Are you asking them to travel to you or would it be for sexual favours?

Can't say I've ever encountered such a transaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have very reasonable rates, if anyone fancy treating themselves and do a good discount for group bookings.

Laura only though I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would a no thx I m not interested make you happier op ?

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I, as well as others I'm sure, am getting fed up with being offered cash for services or just time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give us £20 or we'll burst your football Paul

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

We don't get offered anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get offered money all the time..........usually to leave?

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