Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
![]() | Back to forum list |
![]() | Back to Swingers Chat |
Jump to newest | ![]() |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"My wife knows I'm bisexual and did before we was married,at first she would say to me that it was okay to go onto swinger's site's and she would like to watch me with another guy having sex. But all that has changed now,and all I get is negative attitude from her even to the extent that she's starting to call me a poof and talking to me like I'm dirt. I'm so confused why she has completely changed her tune." May be she feels threatened ? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"As much as it drives people round the bend people frequently change, and have a right to change. So, don't get hung up about the past and be confrontational about that. What you need to do is to both communicate. For example why is she thinking differently? You have to bear in mind most wifes would be very adverse to what you want to do, so she might have good reasons to feel the way she does. Even if you don't think they are good reasons, you have to respect how she feels. As for her talking to you like dirt, I have no advice other that to talk to a marrage councillor. " ![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"My wife knows I'm bisexual and did before we was married,at first she would say to me that it was okay to go onto swinger's site's and she would like to watch me with another guy having sex. But all that has changed now,and all I get is negative attitude from her even to the extent that she's starting to call me a poof and talking to me like I'm dirt. I'm so confused why she has completely changed her tune." Would she join the site with you? And yes ask her why she's calling you names out of the blue | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Maybe she was hoping it was just a fantasy and know she realizes it's more than that she's not sure. You need to talk to her. x" ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"My wife knows in bi curious, she has welcomed this into our relationship and is fully supportive of it too. She wasn't best happy to find me on here to start with, but we talked, and talked, and talked more! Now she is here with me, and enjoying the fun times we have had so far. My best advice, speak to your wife, don't hide anything and most of all... tell her how much you love her still ![]() ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"she thought she could change you, now she cant, she will disempower you.im really sorry..big hugs xx" ![]() | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It would help if you hit the "quote" button so that person knows you're replying to their comment. As for your situation there could be all sorts of reasons for the change of course by your wife. It might not even be that you are the problem. Maybe she is using your bisexuality as an excuse to cover up something she is afraid to confront. The only way you will resolve it is for you both to discuss this attitude change as adults. Refusing to speak about it or becoming aggressive (even verbally) is not being a communicative adult. It's resorting to juvenile name calling & bullying. Discussing it on the forums with strangers might comfort you in the absence of discussing it with your wife, but ultimately even that is not going to resolve the issue. Good luck. I hope you both get to the bottom of what is clearly an upsetting time for you both. " . Thank you in | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top | ![]() |