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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many white couples, hotwifing etc, etc want to see, or the woman wants to have sex with a black guy!!!!! Why didn't you ladies marry or become involved with a black guy in the first place? Why are you with your white partners/husbands, when you really want black cock? I'm not been judgemental, just a question that goes enters my mind now and then.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does******** ffs.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


" So many white couples, hotwifing etc, etc want to see, or the woman wants to have sex with a black guy!!!!! Why didn't you ladies marry or become involved with a black guy in the first place? Why are you with your white partners/husbands, when you really want black cock? I'm not been judgemental, just a question that goes enters my mind now and then. "

I'd like to know this too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time "

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh. "

So am i to see if you get any different (honest) answers this time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh.

So am i to see if you get any different (honest) answers this time "

Doubt we will get them.......I've denied myself too long, pressure from family etc, but I'm at an age now to say "yea I love black guys" and am happily to be in a relationship with one.......long may it continue.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh.

So am i to see if you get any different (honest) answers this time

Doubt we will get them.......I've denied myself too long, pressure from family etc, but I'm at an age now to say "yea I love black guys" and am happily to be in a relationship with one.......long may it continue. "

Yep doubt as well hence my first reply.

love the honesty if only more people where as honest as you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh.

So am i to see if you get any different (honest) answers this time

Doubt we will get them.......I've denied myself too long, pressure from family etc, but I'm at an age now to say "yea I love black guys" and am happily to be in a relationship with one.......long may it continue.

Yep doubt as well hence my first reply.

love the honesty if only more people where as honest as you

"

They won't reply lol.......watch this space.....to admit that you prefer a gorgeous black man to your husband must be difficult, I'm honestly not been horrible or nasty, just something I have personally gone through, and pleased I'm out the other end......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they just want to use the black guy as a disposable sex toy as they are said to have big cocks. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dated a few black guys when I was in my twenties, but I dated white men too, and had an Indian boyfriend at one point. Married a white man in the end.

My husband loves to watch me with black guys as he loves the skin contrast.

Me personally, I like a man who excites my mind - and for that it doesn't matter what race you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because they just want to use the black guy as a disposable sex toy as they are said to have big cocks. XXX

"

That's very sad if true, but I'm doubting it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less chance of them fucking off with a black man maybe

At the end of the day there only meeting to fuck

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh.

So am i to see if you get any different (honest) answers this time

Doubt we will get them.......I've denied myself too long, pressure from family etc, but I'm at an age now to say "yea I love black guys" and am happily to be in a relationship with one.......long may it continue.

Yep doubt as well hence my first reply.

love the honesty if only more people where as honest as you

They won't reply lol.......watch this space.....to admit that you prefer a gorgeous black man to your husband must be difficult, I'm honestly not been horrible or nasty, just something I have personally gone through, and pleased I'm out the other end......"

Why make such an assumption? The same could be said of any couple, isn't your partner good enough hence the need to swing?

People have fantasies, it doesn't diminish their relationship.

Foolish statement in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see where you're coming from, I mean, why ask to borrow my friends Ford all the time when I bought a Fiat for the same price.

I guess some people just want different things sometimes... Shocker.

But I do find it sometimes odd that a white woman is with a white man but only exclusively wants black cock. I could imagine the man in that case feeling a bit off... But then, it depends on if the man wants that or the wife.

Short answer, we all want different things in different ways. I'm not attracted to black people, and I hate huge massive cocks. But sometimes, you know... I just want something different, hence me being Bi. Im greedy C xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dated a few black guys when I was in my twenties, but I dated white men too, and had an Indian boyfriend at one point. Married a white man in the end.

My husband loves to watch me with black guys as he loves the skin contrast.

Me personally, I like a man who excites my mind - and for that it doesn't matter what race you are."

Fair enough, so you not really into black guys, where as I am........and I'm doubting I'm a swinger, tbh.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Because they just want to use the black guy as a disposable sex toy as they are said to have big cocks. XXX

That's very sad if true, but I'm doubting it is. "

sadly that is true in some cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they just want to use the black guy as a disposable sex toy as they are said to have big cocks. XXX

"

For all couples a single man whether black or white is a disposable sex toy. Actually despite people talking about making a connection is it not about using people as disposable sex toys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But I do find it sometimes odd that a white woman is with a white man but only exclusively wants black cock. I could imagine the man in that case feeling a bit off... But then, it depends on if the man wants that or the wife.

My point exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP but I think that statement's a bit daft... it's like saying, why would a bisexual woman marry a man when they only want to meet single women on here.

Why does it bother you anyway?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Probably for the same reason why any couple swings they want new and different experiences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because they just want to use the black guy as a disposable sex toy as they are said to have big cocks. XXX

That's very sad if true, but I'm doubting it is.

sadly that is true in some cases "

Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It dont matter what colour a guy is on fab. Just gonna be a cock to whoever we meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry OP but I think that statement's a bit daft... it's like saying, why would a bisexual woman marry a man when they only want to meet single women on here.

Why does it bother you anyway?"

I've fallen in love, and feeling a bit, " WOW" why would you want anyone apart from that person you are in love with? ......I was a hardened swinger, believe me, you couldn't make up what I got up too......great times, great memories. Perhaps I should of started this thread with " how the hell can you fuck other people when you are in love? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol this thread has totally turned around, excuse me!!! I've been on night shifts, and a bit do lally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry OP but I think that statement's a bit daft... it's like saying, why would a bisexual woman marry a man when they only want to meet single women on here.

Why does it bother you anyway?

I've fallen in love, and feeling a bit, " WOW" why would you want anyone apart from that person you are in love with? ......I was a hardened swinger, believe me, you couldn't make up what I got up too......great times, great memories. Perhaps I should of started this thread with " how the hell can you fuck other people when you are in love? ""

Because theres more to a solid relationship then sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry OP but I think that statement's a bit daft... it's like saying, why would a bisexual woman marry a man when they only want to meet single women on here.

Why does it bother you anyway?

I've fallen in love, and feeling a bit, " WOW" why would you want anyone apart from that person you are in love with? ......I was a hardened swinger, believe me, you couldn't make up what I got up too......great times, great memories. Perhaps I should of started this thread with " how the hell can you fuck other people when you are in love? "

Because theres more to a solid relationship then sex "

Definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably beacause they fell in love with a white guy but find black guys with big cocks sexually attractive...... Just a guess

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By *lackburn_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Blackburn

To try something new? I've never been with a black man, my hubby isn't white either. But we've talked about me being with a black man not because I'd prefer him over my husband just to try something different

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably beacause they fell in love with a white guy but find black guys with big cocks sexually attractive...... Just a guess "

If you crave another man's cock, that's not love!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they just want to use the black guy as a disposable sex toy as they are said to have big cocks. XXX

"

Black guys are Novelties Too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Perhaps I'm not understanding the couples dynamic on here!!! I apologise and appauld those of you that can have a relationship where you share each other.

Something I couldn't do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It dont matter what colour a guy is on fab. Just gonna be a cock to whoever we meet"

We have never treated any of my guys as though they are just a cock!

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"To try something new? I've never been with a black man, my hubby isn't white either. But we've talked about me being with a black man not because I'd prefer him over my husband just to try something different "

newsflash the only thing differences is the skin colour

i want people to meet me because they genuinely find me attractive not to just try something different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It dont matter what colour a guy is on fab. Just gonna be a cock to whoever we meet

We have never treated any of my guys as though they are just a cock!"

My hat goes off to you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably beacause they fell in love with a white guy but find black guys with big cocks sexually attractive...... Just a guess

If you crave another man's cock, that's not love!!! "

I don't crave another mans cock, I just crave other men !! I still love and fancy and enjoy sex with my husband though.

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By *lackburn_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Blackburn


"To try something new? I've never been with a black man, my hubby isn't white either. But we've talked about me being with a black man not because I'd prefer him over my husband just to try something different

newsflash the only thing differences is the skin colour

i want people to meet me because they genuinely find me attractive not to just try something different "

I wouldn't go near someone I didn't find attractive, I couldn't have sex just for the sake of having sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time "

I've just thought the exact same thing. Not read the post yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they just want to use the black guy as a disposable sex toy as they are said to have big cocks. XXX

"

I suspect this too!

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By *hrisANtifCouple
over a year ago

Napoli, Italy

This is abit of a stupid question, kind of like asking why a girl didn't just marry a vibrator!! Also quite an offensive question, the girls you are asking "why are they involved with their white husbands" maybe they love them perhaps? Personally I would never touch a black guy (just my preference) but even when I go with other white guys I never think "why am I with my husband and not this guy" that would undermine the whole point of swinging and become cheating! Swinging is something which enhances our sex life as it is for most true swinging couples whichever colour / gender / age / etc they choose to swing with! Your question makes it out like black men are somehow superior which is both offensive and unfounded!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a woman but at a guess:

1. Racism: maybe the young generation will be freer in their choices than us old farts were.

2. Lots of white people live in fairly monocultural areas and so meet more white people.

3. Sexual tastes develop over time.

4. Liking a change from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is abit of a stupid question, kind of like asking why a girl didn't just marry a vibrator!! Also quite an offensive question, the girls you are asking "why are they involved with their white husbands" maybe they love them perhaps? Personally I would never touch a black guy (just my preference) but even when I go with other white guys I never think "why am I with my husband and not this guy" that would undermine the whole point of swinging and become cheating! Swinging is something which enhances our sex life as it is for most true swinging couples whichever colour / gender / age / etc they choose to swing with! Your question makes it out like black men are somehow superior which is both offensive and unfounded! "

That's so totally true! I have had some amazing sex with a variety of men, both black and white, since we've been swininging. My husband has had great sex with a variety of women. Some of these men I always look forward to more. I love the variety that comes from different partners. But neither of us ever wish we were married to any of our wonderful friends that we enjoy playing with.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Because they just want to use the black guy as a disposable sex toy as they are said to have big cocks. XXX

"

A large majority of black men on here actually market themselves almost like a sex toy with the whole BBC thing. The myth that black men have huge cocks is exactly that - A MYTH.

I loathe the idea of selling yourself purely on the colour of your skin. I'm not attracted to someone based on what colour they are. I have had relationships with men of differing ethnic backgrounds. Of them all the guy with the biggest cock was Kurdish and the best fuck overall was white British.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has no appeal to us

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Probably beacause they fell in love with a white guy but find black guys with big cocks sexually attractive...... Just a guess

If you crave another man's cock, that's not love!!! "

I occasionally crave other people (male & female) that doesn't mean that I don't love Mr B. (And vice versa)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry OP but I think that statement's a bit daft... it's like saying, why would a bisexual woman marry a man when they only want to meet single women on here.

Why does it bother you anyway?

I've fallen in love, and feeling a bit, " WOW" why would you want anyone apart from that person you are in love with? ......I was a hardened swinger, believe me, you couldn't make up what I got up too......great times, great memories. Perhaps I should of started this thread with " how the hell can you fuck other people when you are in love? ""

Is this not the nub of your question how do people in love maintain a relationship but still sleep with others? The race point being incidental. All l know is that some couples do, swinging is not for everybody!

For many couples it is just an optional extra which adds, they love their partners enjoying themselves. It is like eating a takeaway it does not affect their relationship as home cooking is what they crave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh.

So am i to see if you get any different (honest) answers this time

Doubt we will get them.......I've denied myself too long, pressure from family etc, but I'm at an age now to say "yea I love black guys" and am happily to be in a relationship with one.......long may it continue.

Yep doubt as well hence my first reply.

love the honesty if only more people where as honest as you

They won't reply lol.......watch this space.....to admit that you prefer a gorgeous black man to your husband must be difficult, I'm honestly not been horrible or nasty, just something I have personally gone through, and pleased I'm out the other end......

Why make such an assumption? The same could be said of any couple, isn't your partner good enough hence the need to swing?

People have fantasies, it doesn't diminish their relationship.

Foolish statement in my opinion."

Do people not understand what swinging is?

Why get married at all if they just want to fuck other people....?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Perhaps I'm not understanding the couples dynamic on here!!! I apologise and appauld those of you that can have a relationship where you share each other.

Something I couldn't do. "

At least you're honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't believe as humans were built to be monagamous , we are one of the only mammals who are. Just my opinion

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Sorry OP but I think that statement's a bit daft... it's like saying, why would a bisexual woman marry a man when they only want to meet single women on here.

Why does it bother you anyway?

I've fallen in love, and feeling a bit, " WOW" why would you want anyone apart from that person you are in love with? ......I was a hardened swinger, believe me, you couldn't make up what I got up too......great times, great memories. Perhaps I should of started this thread with " how the hell can you fuck other people when you are in love? ""

I can answer this from my point of view. We have been together almost two years and we are still 'on the scene', mainly socially. I meet women on my own and men/TVs with black cop. He meets them on his own too, and I know it doesn't mean we love each other any the less. It Si just sex. The experiences we share are shared experiences. You are right, we don't crave other people or need them sexually and our relationship is so much more than that ... in some ways I dont think we are hardened swingers either. I totally see your point though in that we only rarely play now, but don't see couples who swing as loving each other any more or less than ones who dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this not the nub of your question how do people in love maintain a relationship but still sleep with others? The race point being incidental. All l know is that some couples do, swinging is not for everybody!

For many couples it is just an optional extra which adds, they love their partners enjoying themselves. It is like eating a takeaway it does not affect their relationship as home cooking is what they crave."

Oh gosh yeah. Sometimes i totally crave the greasy saltiness of a take-away dinner. The sheer unhealthiness makes it so desirable. But I will always love hubby's home cooking the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer....because you don't choose who you fall in love with. Superficial physical attributes are less important when looking for a life partner. I could just have easily met, fallen in love with and married a black, asian etc etc man. I didn't. It just so happened to be a white guy.....now when i'm looking for extra sex i'm able to select certain attributes in a person that i find attractive. I find some black guys incredibly attractive. I also find other guys attractive but that' s harder to describe on my profile....i know it if i see it. I don't see what the issue is with that....its not that i didn't want a black partner. It's just that i met a white guy that rocked my world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry OP but I think that statement's a bit daft... it's like saying, why would a bisexual woman marry a man when they only want to meet single women on here.

Why does it bother you anyway?

I've fallen in love, and feeling a bit, " WOW" why would you want anyone apart from that person you are in love with? ......I was a hardened swinger, believe me, you couldn't make up what I got up too......great times, great memories. Perhaps I should of started this thread with " how the hell can you fuck other people when you are in love? ""

You know this is a swingers forum right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh.

So am i to see if you get any different (honest) answers this time

Doubt we will get them.......I've denied myself too long, pressure from family etc, but I'm at an age now to say "yea I love black guys" and am happily to be in a relationship with one.......long may it continue.

Yep doubt as well hence my first reply.

love the honesty if only more people where as honest as you

They won't reply lol.......watch this space.....to admit that you prefer a gorgeous black man to your husband must be difficult, I'm honestly not been horrible or nasty, just something I have personally gone through, and pleased I'm out the other end......

Why make such an assumption? The same could be said of any couple, isn't your partner good enough hence the need to swing?

People have fantasies, it doesn't diminish their relationship.

Foolish statement in my opinion.

Do people not understand what swinging is?

Why get married at all if they just want to fuck other people....?!"

Maybe because a marriage is about a lot more than sex!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marriage is about more than sex or race??Lots more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marriage is about more than sex or race??Lots more..."

Exactly. If I'd married the girlfriend I had the best sexual chemistry with, it would have been a fucking disaster of a relationship. Absolutely not the right environment to raise children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could write a shit ton about this! I guess it's all down to size or colour? ... We're all made of the same stuff! Any colour or creed has its attributes! You can't help what you like! Simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh.

So am i to see if you get any different (honest) answers this time

Doubt we will get them.......I've denied myself too long, pressure from family etc, but I'm at an age now to say "yea I love black guys" and am happily to be in a relationship with one.......long may it continue.

Yep doubt as well hence my first reply.

love the honesty if only more people where as honest as you

They won't reply lol.......watch this space.....to admit that you prefer a gorgeous black man to your husband must be difficult, I'm honestly not been horrible or nasty, just something I have personally gone through, and pleased I'm out the other end......

Why make such an assumption? The same could be said of any couple, isn't your partner good enough hence the need to swing?

People have fantasies, it doesn't diminish their relationship.

Foolish statement in my opinion.

Do people not understand what swinging is?

Why get married at all if they just want to fuck other people....?!

Maybe because a marriage is about a lot more than sex!!! "

I know...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time "

I'm single so I have no ulterior motive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh.

So am i to see if you get any different (honest) answers this time

Doubt we will get them.......I've denied myself too long, pressure from family etc, but I'm at an age now to say "yea I love black guys" and am happily to be in a relationship with one.......long may it continue.

Yep doubt as well hence my first reply.

love the honesty if only more people where as honest as you

They won't reply lol.......watch this space.....to admit that you prefer a gorgeous black man to your husband must be difficult, I'm honestly not been horrible or nasty, just something I have personally gone through, and pleased I'm out the other end......

Why make such an assumption? The same could be said of any couple, isn't your partner good enough hence the need to swing?

People have fantasies, it doesn't diminish their relationship.

Foolish statement in my opinion.

Do people not understand what swinging is?

Why get married at all if they just want to fuck other people....?!

Maybe because a marriage is about a lot more than sex!!!

I know..."

But you asked why you'd marry someone if you wanted to fuck others? Was it sarcastic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably beacause they fell in love with a white guy but find black guys with big cocks sexually attractive...... Just a guess

If you crave another man's cock, that's not love!!! "

I dont mean to sound overly harsh but your talking garbage i love my wife more than anything i would give my last breath to make sure she was safe and happy but i still enjoy screwing other women we are human after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably beacause they fell in love with a white guy but find black guys with big cocks sexually attractive...... Just a guess

If you crave another man's cock, that's not love!!! "

Honestly, it's a swinging forum. This is like me preaching the bible at a Richard Dawkins book signing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny how the girls want black , but us white guys not fussed for a black puss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"funny how the girls want black , but us white guys not fussed for a black puss"

Speak for yourself. Black is beautiful.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"funny how the girls want black , but us white guys not fussed for a black puss"

Nonsense seen plenty of posts from white guys looking for black women

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

There are so many middle aged white couples who only want to meet black guys. I do, like the OP, wonder why .... I have heard, from a number of black guys why .... but not from any white couple themselves. The fact is that I dont think many of the women in these couples would have ever considered having a relationship with a black guy, no matter who they ended uo married to.

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over a year ago


"There are so many middle aged white couples who only want to meet black guys. I do, like the OP, wonder why .... I have heard, from a number of black guys why .... but not from any white couple themselves. The fact is that I dont think many of the women in these couples would have ever considered having a relationship with a black guy, no matter who they ended uo married to."

I answered. I guess my response didnt count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh.

So am i to see if you get any different (honest) answers this time

Doubt we will get them.......I've denied myself too long, pressure from family etc, but I'm at an age now to say "yea I love black guys" and am happily to be in a relationship with one.......long may it continue.

Yep doubt as well hence my first reply.

love the honesty if only more people where as honest as you

They won't reply lol.......watch this space.....to admit that you prefer a gorgeous black man to your husband must be difficult, I'm honestly not been horrible or nasty, just something I have personally gone through, and pleased I'm out the other end......

Why make such an assumption? The same could be said of any couple, isn't your partner good enough hence the need to swing?

People have fantasies, it doesn't diminish their relationship.

Foolish statement in my opinion.

Do people not understand what swinging is?

Why get married at all if they just want to fuck other people....?!

Maybe because a marriage is about a lot more than sex!!!

I know...

But you asked why you'd marry someone if you wanted to fuck others? Was it sarcastic? "

Yes I was being sarcastic. I the post above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are so many middle aged white couples who only want to meet black guys. I do, like the OP, wonder why .... I have heard, from a number of black guys why .... but not from any white couple themselves. The fact is that I dont think many of the women in these couples would have ever considered having a relationship with a black guy, no matter who they ended uo married to.

I answered. I guess my response didnt count."

I was going to like it but I'm still flabbergasted at people that come on a swinging forum to preach monogamy

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"There are so many middle aged white couples who only want to meet black guys. I do, like the OP, wonder why .... I have heard, from a number of black guys why .... but not from any white couple themselves. The fact is that I dont think many of the women in these couples would have ever considered having a relationship with a black guy, no matter who they ended uo married to.

I answered. I guess my response didnt count."

Did you want a personal response or acknowledgement? You answered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh.

So am i to see if you get any different (honest) answers this time

Doubt we will get them.......I've denied myself too long, pressure from family etc, but I'm at an age now to say "yea I love black guys" and am happily to be in a relationship with one.......long may it continue.

Yep doubt as well hence my first reply.

love the honesty if only more people where as honest as you

They won't reply lol.......watch this space.....to admit that you prefer a gorgeous black man to your husband must be difficult, I'm honestly not been horrible or nasty, just something I have personally gone through, and pleased I'm out the other end......

Why make such an assumption? The same could be said of any couple, isn't your partner good enough hence the need to swing?

People have fantasies, it doesn't diminish their relationship.

Foolish statement in my opinion.

Do people not understand what swinging is?

Why get married at all if they just want to fuck other people....?!

Maybe because a marriage is about a lot more than sex!!!

I know...

But you asked why you'd marry someone if you wanted to fuck others? Was it sarcastic?

Yes I was being sarcastic. I the post above. "

Sorry, I need to go to the Sheldon Cooper school of Sarcasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are so many middle aged white couples who only want to meet black guys. I do, like the OP, wonder why .... I have heard, from a number of black guys why .... but not from any white couple themselves. The fact is that I dont think many of the women in these couples would have ever considered having a relationship with a black guy, no matter who they ended uo married to.

I answered. I guess my response didnt count.

Did you want a personal response or acknowledgement? You answered. "

You just commented that you didnt hear anything from the white couples....that was all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go again.....

i wonder if there will be any different responses this time

Oh shush, and let's see any answers, I'm interested tbh.

So am i to see if you get any different (honest) answers this time

Doubt we will get them.......I've denied myself too long, pressure from family etc, but I'm at an age now to say "yea I love black guys" and am happily to be in a relationship with one.......long may it continue.

Yep doubt as well hence my first reply.

love the honesty if only more people where as honest as you

They won't reply lol.......watch this space.....to admit that you prefer a gorgeous black man to your husband must be difficult, I'm honestly not been horrible or nasty, just something I have personally gone through, and pleased I'm out the other end......

Why make such an assumption? The same could be said of any couple, isn't your partner good enough hence the need to swing?

People have fantasies, it doesn't diminish their relationship.

Foolish statement in my opinion.

Do people not understand what swinging is?

Why get married at all if they just want to fuck other people....?!

Maybe because a marriage is about a lot more than sex!!!

I know...

But you asked why you'd marry someone if you wanted to fuck others? Was it sarcastic?

Yes I was being sarcastic. I the post above.

Sorry, I need to go to the Sheldon Cooper school of Sarcasm. "

Got the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not here we dont

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