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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I recently at tease met up with a young couple and also last night a young single men of 28. I am almost 40 and have never met people younger than 30 for maturity reasons and also just dont find that connection normally.

I have to say the young couple were lovely and had a great time and the young mans first time at a club ever so between me and a few friends we calmed his nerves and he experienced hi 1st mff.

He left with a smile from ear to ear and similar for me.

I have never met with men younger than 30 so was pleasantly pleased.

Has anyones experiences been similar when on this one occasion it was all right and the connection was there and boy did it all work?

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

I am usually put off younger guys for the same reason, not much in common to talk about. But if a young guy can get my attention and keep it, i wouldnt say no. xxx. Come on you younger guys out there get yaself to a club and build ya confidence, them guys who say, ohhhh i cant go to a club alone, well see it can be worth the effort and we dont bite lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to go to a club, but it is a bit daunting, especially given the few other meets I've had. I tend to be nervous with new people under normal circumstances, let alone when everyone's naked. My nearest club's AbFabs, but I've heard it can be a bit hard for single guys to. get involved there. Can anyone recommend somewhere more single guy friendly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40?

really _ruit? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think the same, would never play with anyone younger than 40, but I met a lovely mature young man who was 26 and it was great (he was much more sensible than me) and our favourite couple are in their 20s too, you just cant tell to be honest

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Have to say I had my doubts about meeting younger guys and my doubts were well founded and proven right. I obviously picked the wrong ones.

However my enlightenment was with older guys. I had met a few couples as a couple and while the women were mid 40s and fit, the guys were usually nearer if not over 50 and struggled getting or maintaining an errection leaving me frustrated. This did put me off guys approaching 50 or over but I have recently been pleasantly surprised by a couple of 50+ guys I met at parties who performed far better than guys 10 years younger.

I still like to stick to my preferred age group but just goes to show you can't judge all guys the same

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Never played with a young guy, but my missus did have a rule of no one under 23 ish when we started.

Well on our first time at La Chambre, she was attracted to a lady straight away, an hour or so later after having fun with said lady, she finds out she was only 19. tut tut.

She had broken her own rule on her own, no help needed from me or anyone else.

I'm rubbish with telling peoples ages, so unless you have it tattooed on your ass in a five bar gate style, I would have no idea.

Consequently the OH age rules where no under 23 ish no over 30's.

The second couple we played with that night were over 30. lol

When she mentions her age limits it's always good to tease her, about her track record, the naughty cradle snatcher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never bothered with an upper or lower age limit, especially at a club. Some of the guys have looked 20, some have definitely been at least 70! If they are old enough to be in the club, they are old enough to play with!!

x

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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"40?

really _ruit? xx"

Blush. Yes at the end of the year. Mind you the young man thought i was early 30s lol. That felt good lol

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By *WLondonMixMan
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill


"40?

really _ruit? xx

Blush. Yes at the end of the year. Mind you the young man thought i was early 30s lol. That felt good lol"

May I extend his compliment (or accurate statement :P) to your well written profile and extremely tasteful picture (bath shot with the candle)

As to the gent who said about clubs being daunting or others about playing with younger couples, maybe be nice to hear from young perspective. Last night went rio's ( both first ever club) With a special lady who was my age and we found that even though we were the youngest we got on well with few couples even played with one with my ladies first bi experience followed by a short 4some with another 2 ladies. I must admit it must be daunting for a single guy in an establishment such as this, however I had people talking to me when I was alone and wasn't so bad. Confidence and patience pays off no matter the age. Everyone has there preferences and you got to respect that. Alas to conclude my bit of advice remember, not everone you talk to is going to play but talking is always a good start and is never waste of time to try as builds your confidence and the social side of swinging is just as importent in clubs.( Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just wouldn't work for me at all, a young man. If I met in clubs, went dogging just had straight forward nsa sex without seeing/knowing the name of my playmate then the last thing I'm going to care about is the persons age!

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By *anderer2018Man
over a year ago

Bangkok


"I'd love to go to a club, but it is a bit daunting, especially given the few other meets I've had. I tend to be nervous with new people under normal circumstances, let alone when everyone's naked. My nearest club's AbFabs, but I've heard it can be a bit hard for single guys to. get involved there. Can anyone recommend somewhere more single guy friendly?"

I have similar issues I would very much like to go to a club. I am usually pretty good at talking to new people however I'm concerned that if I go to a club it will be very difficult to stand out from the other single guys of which I'm sure there will be many, and will potentially have wasted my evening and money leaving disappointed when I could just arrange a meet with my fb instead!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

In a club the youngest ive knowingly played with was 28. Nice guy a little chat and a shag, it was fine. Away from a club no, i want to be able to have a proper conversation and not worrying if hes a friend of my sons. Under 30's just dont cut it with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met several young men over the years and in general have always found them a delight.

They are generally keen and I find it a privilege to be part of their learning curve or finding out about their sexuality.

Some are nervous, some are cocky, some need re-assurance, some have thrown me round like a rag doll (no mean feat lol)

You have to judge each one on his own merits.

The only thing I would say is that if all you are looking for is sex, let them know because the only issue I have had is that one or two have become clingy or wanted more than I can offer beyond the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age has never bothered me either way its the connection with the person that's paramount to me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rather refreshing indeed, to read a forum post like this, where folks actually seem to be 'singing the praises' of younger guys for once! Of course, there are many out there, who are immature, pests etc but, we aren't all bad you know!!

I've always fancied the idea of attending a club but, from reading so so so many different posts on here, that to be honest, have torn younger guys apart - the idea of plucking up the courage to go it alone & once you arrive, have that preconceived opinion made about you, is not very appealing at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age has never bothered me either way its the connection with the person that's paramount to me xx "
me too xxx i love younger men and men my own age just have to click and feel right xx

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Age has never bothered me either way its the connection with the person that's paramount to me xx me too xxx i love younger men and men my own age just have to click and feel right xx"

completely agree. love younger guys and happy to be an educator

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"Age has never bothered me either way its the connection with the person that's paramount to me xx me too xxx i love younger men and men my own age just have to click and feel right xx

completely agree. love younger guys and happy to be an educator "

How about educating an older one I'm sure i need it?

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Age has never bothered me either way its the connection with the person that's paramount to me xx me too xxx i love younger men and men my own age just have to click and feel right xx

completely agree. love younger guys and happy to be an educator

How about educating an older one I'm sure i need it?"

hope its not maths...

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Age has never bothered me either way its the connection with the person that's paramount to me xx me too xxx i love younger men and men my own age just have to click and feel right xx

completely agree. love younger guys and happy to be an educator

How about educating an older one I'm sure i need it?

hope its not maths... "

abc in sex

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"Age has never bothered me either way its the connection with the person that's paramount to me xx me too xxx i love younger men and men my own age just have to click and feel right xx

completely agree. love younger guys and happy to be an educator

How about educating an older one I'm sure i need it?

hope its not maths... "

I had a deprived childhood need to make up for it!

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

We have a lower age limit of 30 on our profile for our own reasons. Yet still have come home today to messages from a 23yr old and one from a 21 yr old plus all the other "wanna shag ya wife" messages from other people. We have always politely declined but have to say today they got a very not polite "fuck off if you can't read a profile" back.

We only have so much patience and it just ran out. Ooops.

Might go and open some wine and take some deep breaths

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"I'd love to go to a club, but it is a bit daunting, especially given the few other meets I've had. I tend to be nervous with new people under normal circumstances, let alone when everyone's naked. My nearest club's AbFabs, but I've heard it can be a bit hard for single guys to. get involved there. Can anyone recommend somewhere more single guy friendly?

I have similar issues I would very much like to go to a club. I am usually pretty good at talking to new people however I'm concerned that if I go to a club it will be very difficult to stand out from the other single guys of which I'm sure there will be many, and will potentially have wasted my evening and money leaving disappointed when I could just arrange a meet with my fb instead! "

I disagree with both these posts. You haven't even tried and are talking yourselves out of some great experiences. Give the clubs a go. You will stand out simply by being prepared to talk to people. You are allowed to chat with other guys.

If the measure of success in a club is getting a shag, then you may be disappointed. But if you go with the intention to get to know a few people, anything could happen.

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By *anderer2018Man
over a year ago

Bangkok


"I'd love to go to a club, but it is a bit daunting, especially given the few other meets I've had. I tend to be nervous with new people under normal circumstances, let alone when everyone's naked. My nearest club's AbFabs, but I've heard it can be a bit hard for single guys to. get involved there. Can anyone recommend somewhere more single guy friendly?

I have similar issues I would very much like to go to a club. I am usually pretty good at talking to new people however I'm concerned that if I go to a club it will be very difficult to stand out from the other single guys of which I'm sure there will be many, and will potentially have wasted my evening and money leaving disappointed when I could just arrange a meet with my fb instead!

I disagree with both these posts. You haven't even tried and are talking yourselves out of some great experiences. Give the clubs a go. You will stand out simply by being prepared to talk to people. You are allowed to chat with other guys.

If the measure of success in a club is getting a shag, then you may be disappointed. But if you go with the intention to get to know a few people, anything could happen."

Fair comment never really looked at it like that! Well I suppose I will just have to find me a club or party then!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I met with a 22 year old last week and rest assured, he did NOT need educating!!

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By *WLondonMixMan
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

Society has always revolved around the revolutionaries of tomorrow. Each new found knowledge passed onto the next generation to be improved or falsified. Sex should definitely come under knowledge as both an art form and way of pleasure. There are some of the youth who have things to teach people many years there senior, and visa versa. End of the day inter age mingling can only produce good results, as long as connection is there.

That was one lucky 23yo.. Hopefully plans for scotland works out and can further your belief in the youth of which you could easily pass as

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By *WLondonMixMan
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

*22year old* does anyone actually use Preview message option lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


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I have similar issues I would very much like to go to a club. I am usually pretty good at talking to new people however I'm concerned that if I go to a club it will be very difficult to stand out from the other single guys of which I'm sure there will be many, and will potentially have wasted my evening and money leaving disappointed when I could just arrange a meet with my fb instead! "

If you go to a club with the attitude of "I've paid my money, I'm due a shag" then you will likely be disappointed and rightly so.

If you go to a club to enjoy the experience and the possibilities which may lay ahead.... you might just enjoy it.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I think the club thing say more about the "type of person" that goes to the club, rather than the age...

because like polo said, you do get guys with the attitude of "I've paid my money, i am owed" and regardless of what age they are they tend to get very short shrift...

Same with guys who wander around clubs patrolling all the play areas like lost sheep... Same with guys who don't say boo to a goose and get way too close whenever someone starts to playing... the jangle of keys while they just stand there wanking...

it doesn't matter what age people are..... those who just chat to people and have a laugh will do better than the "silent assasins....

that is the problem in clubs... if you talk to people then age becomes less of an issue.... the rejected like to think age is the reason why they were rejected... when it could have been other things...the "chip on the shoulder" mentality....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humm ive meet 3/4 20 somethings and have to say only one needed alittle direction.

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