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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A swinging site

Or a site where people join in hope of a quick shag?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Adult Social Media Site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I joined all those years ago for a quick shag, so did hundreds other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Adult Social Media Site"

And if you're lucky you might get a meet

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Hundreds of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like FB, but you can post 30 photos of your cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like FB, but you can post 30 photos of your cock."

and fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like FB, but you can post 30 photos of your cock."

You can post more as a site supporter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fuck knows any more...

the whole internet is a giant fuck site for sex pests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a site where one can find long term friends one has sex with,or one off sex with someone one fancies. If you want actual swinging I suggest you take a partner to a swingers club and socialise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A shag site for me.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"It's a site where one can find long term friends one has sex with,or one off sex with someone one fancies. If you want actual swinging I suggest you take a partner to a swingers club and socialise. "

Agreed - I have been on/off this site for years. And the amount of swinging this site generates is not that great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a swingers site. However I would be interested to know what newbies hear about it and what their expectations are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a site where one can find long term friends one has sex with,or one off sex with someone one fancies. If you want actual swinging I suggest you take a partner to a swingers club and socialise.

Agreed - I have been on/off this site for years. And the amount of swinging this site generates is not that great"

What do you consider to be swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me a swingers site. However I would be interested to know what newbies hear about it and what their expectations are. "

I think it's a 'get a fuck'site now

No genuine swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me a swingers site. However I would be interested to know what newbies hear about it and what their expectations are.

I think it's a 'get a fuck'site now

No genuine swinging "

What do you define 'genuine' swinging as?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me a swingers site. However I would be interested to know what newbies hear about it and what their expectations are.

I think it's a 'get a fuck'site now

No genuine swinging "
many guys that message me seem to think that. They all want 121.. and if i wanted 121 i could get that without here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fuck site for us , always was

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"It's a site where one can find long term friends one has sex with,or one off sex with someone one fancies. If you want actual swinging I suggest you take a partner to a swingers club and socialise.

Agreed - I have been on/off this site for years. And the amount of swinging this site generates is not that great

What do you consider to be swinging? "

For me - it would be playing with a couple in a MFM scenario of playing with a. Hotwife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why label it at all? Its a life style choice to be on this and other sites of a similar nature.

Horses for course as in married or partnered seeking extra marital fun with consent partnered couples seeking consenting recreational sex singles who seek friendship and sex and those seeking lurrve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single person,I see no difference in me attending a club,talking to a man at the bar,then going off to a private room to have sex,than talking to someone on here,going for a drink and going to a hotel or his for sex. Going to a club doesn't make me a swinger,neither does having sex with married couples.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Depends who you are and how you use it.

Different people want different things and operate in very different ways.

If you can accept people using it differently for what they want it shouldn't bother you too much.

The diffuculty comes as the volume of people grows, all the different types of people need to be able to differentiate themselves. That might become more and more time consuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a site where one can find long term friends one has sex with,or one off sex with someone one fancies. If you want actual swinging I suggest you take a partner to a swingers club and socialise.

Agreed - I have been on/off this site for years. And the amount of swinging this site generates is not that great

What do you consider to be swinging?

For me - it would be playing with a couple in a MFM scenario of playing with a. Hotwife"

It's just sex though isn't it. It just happens to have more than two people involved.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"fuck knows any more...

the whole internet is a giant fuck site for sex pests. "

The whole internet seems to have gradually evolved into a mess of people who are generally unfeeling and disrespectful. And that very much includes sex pests, mostly men who seem to feel entitled to sex and to lash out when they don't get it.

Fab Swingers is supposed to be a swingers site, and that can encompass a lot of activities both sexual and social. People into swinging have various sexual and fetish interests in many cases and that's all well and good. Fab isn't really a sex site, but a lot of people (mostly men) joining in the last year or so seem to think of it as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really care what it is. I get what i want from it otherwise i wouldn't be here. Sex v swingers? Meh....it's just another label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 29/08/16 10:48:16]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A chat site with a fun forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a joke shop sometimes time wasters and pic hunters

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"It's a site where one can find long term friends one has sex with,or one off sex with someone one fancies. If you want actual swinging I suggest you take a partner to a swingers club and socialise.

Agreed - I have been on/off this site for years. And the amount of swinging this site generates is not that great

What do you consider to be swinging?

For me - it would be playing with a couple in a MFM scenario of playing with a. Hotwife

It's just sex though isn't it. It just happens to have more than two people involved. "

Agreed - it's just very hard to meet a couple on here as a single guy. On other sites, I have much more luck

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

For us it's a place we can find people to have fun with and socialise with them, to meet new friends, keep in touch with other friends and find out about club events. It works well for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me swinging sex can be 121 or anything beyond that

It's attitudes that upset me

Guys offering money

Women with a look bit don't touch ethic

Blocking for saying hi

Just complete lack of respect for fellow swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use it for swinging and hotwifing. Works very well for us.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

A place where like minded people can have rational chats about the pros and cons of various topics such as 'what won't anyone meet me and fuck me bareback, is it because I'm married and she doesn't know' without the sort of aggro you'd get elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's whatever you want it to be, you can interpret swinging how you want, frequent or occasional. Or a site for one offs, or to find FWB/fb .Just look for people meeting your ideal XXX

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"It's whatever you want it to be, you can interpret swinging how you want, frequent or occasional. Or a site for one offs, or to find FWB/fb .Just look for people meeting your ideal XXX"

Exactly. The definition of "swinging" has evolved down the years and doesn't seem to be set in stone. Different sources will still give different definitions but the general gist is that "swinging" in some way involves recreational sex with person/people outside of a committed relationship.

Some people enjoy a social side while others prefer to get down to business. What is not generally acceptable is disrespectful attitudes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's whatever you want it to be, you can interpret swinging how you want, frequent or occasional. Or a site for one offs, or to find FWB/fb .Just look for people meeting your ideal XXX

Exactly. The definition of "swinging" has evolved down the years and doesn't seem to be set in stone. Different sources will still give different definitions but the general gist is that "swinging" in some way involves recreational sex with person/people outside of a committed relationship.

Some people enjoy a social side while others prefer to get down to business. What is not generally acceptable is disrespectful attitudes."

Hi yes I agree,respect is very important x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I think if you just want sex, you can get that anywhere. I come here for more intense sexual experiences and to do things normally frowned upon after a regular first date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its where all the rejects flock to

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


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Hi yes I agree,respect is very important x"

Hi...I was in your part of the country yesterday...what a coincidence.

Whether someone is after a social time with sex, a regular "friend with benefits" or looking to fuck...respect is vital. All parties are hoping to satisfy some sort of desires/needs by being on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a bit of both probably....but the fun is finding out who is which!!!!!.....and one thing is certain.....there are always some genuine swingers at the swingers club m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its where all the rejects flock to "

That's the whole of the internet, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its where all the rejects flock to

That's the whole of the internet, isn't it?"

true that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's different things to different people. Just fond those looking for the same as you and leave the others to do their thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use it for many reasons. It's totally up to them how they choose to do so, so don't sweat it and do what I do ... keep your nose out of their buisness there's something for everyone regardless of what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's different things to different people. Just fond those looking for the same as you and leave the others to do their thing "

So...... Pointless having forums then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People use it for many reasons. It's totally up to them how they choose to do so, so don't sweat it and do what I do ... keep your nose out of their buisness there's something for everyone regardless of what you're looking for "

Who's swearing,?

It's a forum where talk shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's different things to different people. Just fond those looking for the same as you and leave the others to do their thing

So...... Pointless having forums then"

Sorry I don't follow?

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