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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck.

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck. "

It quite often is!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck. "

Curse that scallywag!

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck. "

I've seen it happen vice versa - couples posing as a single male.

Then when you get chatting all of a sudden a wife pops up and it's would you like to both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck.

I've seen it happen vice versa - couples posing as a single male.

Then when you get chatting all of a sudden a wife pops up and it's would you like to both "

i knew they'd do this. was talking to someone last night and even said couples should pretend to be single men to get females to meet them.

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck.

I've seen it happen vice versa - couples posing as a single male.

Then when you get chatting all of a sudden a wife pops up and it's would you like to both

i knew they'd do this. was talking to someone last night and even said couples should pretend to be single men to get females to meet them. "

I block them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck.

I've seen it happen vice versa - couples posing as a single male.

Then when you get chatting all of a sudden a wife pops up and it's would you like to both

i knew they'd do this. was talking to someone last night and even said couples should pretend to be single men to get females to meet them.

I block them... "

at least now i know they do this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck. "

Yeah it's how I get all my meets, I mean our meets. Use pictures of the Mrs to get past their filters and then arrange all our meets when she's 'working abroad'.

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

I remember seeing a couple on here a while ago. The photos of the man were selfiess, the photos of the wife were blatantly taken from a porn mag ( on a couple of them you could even see some of the captions)

I've had it when I've spoken to a couple and arranged to meet then all of a sudden the wife has become ill but the male could still meet.

Also quite a few single females looking for a man. Then after a while of chatting all of a sudden she has a partner who wants to watch and join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck.

I've seen it happen vice versa - couples posing as a single male.

Then when you get chatting all of a sudden a wife pops up and it's would you like to both "

That is exactly the case on our profile, though I do say in the text that I don't meet without L...

Having a fake single male profile cuts back on the messages quite drastically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck. "
If we see this we automatically block, no questions asked...

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

It's a totally pointless and dishonest waste of time. Why bother with them?

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By *aralewisCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

We usually we find its single women

And more you talk they mention other half

ITs because single men struggle to get meets where as single women have no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We usually we find its single women

And more you talk they mention other half

ITs because single men struggle to get meets where as single women have no problem "

Yeah, single women who suddenly have a boyfriend, fb or husband.

We happily meet couples, but if this happens we block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the male half, I'm lucky to play as a couple, and on my own when I like. However I do have my own single profile and don't use our couples profile for that.

Though I have had couples invite me to join them when they know I'm on my own, mostly because they know I am reliable, chilled and fun, so it does mean some extra fun.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Sometimes the male or female half of a couple does meet alone, but most of the messages along the lines of "It's only me (male) today lol. Fancy some fun?" are from single guys chancing it.

As always, look for verifications. If a couple are genuinely flying solo, there will likely be verifications for them as a couple too.

My wife and I have "singles" accounts for this reason, we rarely entertain others as a couple and prefer to fly solo. But for others it is the reverse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the male or female half of a couple does meet alone, but most of the messages along the lines of "It's only me (male) today lol. Fancy some fun?" are from single guys chancing it.

As always, look for verifications. If a couple are genuinely flying solo, there will likely be verifications for them as a couple too.

My wife and I have "singles" accounts for this reason, we rarely entertain others as a couple and prefer to fly solo. But for others it is the reverse. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck.

I've seen it happen vice versa - couples posing as a single male.

Then when you get chatting all of a sudden a wife pops up and it's would you like to both "

This has happened to me. It's a little bit creepy. I was mortified at the time. Instant block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck.

I've seen it happen vice versa - couples posing as a single male.

Then when you get chatting all of a sudden a wife pops up and it's would you like to both

This has happened to me. It's a little bit creepy. I was mortified at the time. Instant block. "

Never heard of that happening, must be horrible

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

We're both active, she even has her own single's profile (whereas I do not). Yet I tend to be on more often than her with this profile.

That being said I don't go planning any meets without her complete agreement.

We did have a meet once where a couple were due to show up but only the single male did. He was duly turned away regardless of how far he had to travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both have our singles profiles, but also our couples one. I however am the person who runs the couples one, and make it very clear on the profile thats the case. Theres waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too many saddo men on here doing this behind their wives backs its unreal... C x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both have our singles profiles, but also our couples one. I however am the person who runs the couples one, and make it very clear on the profile thats the case. Theres waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too many saddo men on here doing this behind their wives backs its unreal... C x"

Quite a few women playing away as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both have our singles profiles, but also our couples one. I however am the person who runs the couples one, and make it very clear on the profile thats the case. Theres waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too many saddo men on here doing this behind their wives backs its unreal... C x

Quite a few women playing away as well "

Not saying you're wrong at all, but in my 3 years or so here, I've yet to see one that was an actual real cheater and not some other sad olt man with a fake profile. C x

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

we have had a few "oh the misses is out, i can come over now"

we do tend to have fun with these, ask for the other halfs mobile number to ring her and verify over the phone ect ect and then pull the "Hes not the messiah, hes a very naughty boy"

.....however it is mainly me (Dax) who works the profile. Boo does check and read messages, she is always kept in the loop on any conversations being had by me and always has final say on a meet.

Boo does have our "play phone" and she can talk to people on there away from the site

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I remember seeing a couple on here a while ago. The photos of the man were selfiess, the photos of the wife were blatantly taken from a porn mag ( on a couple of them you could even see some of the captions)

I've had it when I've spoken to a couple and arranged to meet then all of a sudden the wife has become ill but the male could still meet.

Also quite a few single females looking for a man. Then after a while of chatting all of a sudden she has a partner who wants to watch and join in"

We don't mind if they want to tag along to the social, only fair for the female protection I guess but when you say "So he'll not be part of it then?" and then it's "Well he'll watch & see what happens" err no I don't think he will actually..

S

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"I remember seeing a couple on here a while ago. The photos of the man were selfiess, the photos of the wife were blatantly taken from a porn mag ( on a couple of them you could even see some of the captions)

I've had it when I've spoken to a couple and arranged to meet then all of a sudden the wife has become ill but the male could still meet.

Also quite a few single females looking for a man. Then after a while of chatting all of a sudden she has a partner who wants to watch and join in

We don't mind if they want to tag along to the social, only fair for the female protection I guess but when you say "So he'll not be part of it then?" and then it's "Well he'll watch & see what happens" err no I don't think he will actually..

S"

My sentiments exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I get suspicious when the couples profile is constantly having status updates wanting people to meet the man only.

Saying that it does happen the other way around as well......

I do like bi mmf siturations, less keen on mm siturations, but they can be fun with an exceptional male. What I do have issues with is when I have to meet the male on my own to see if I'm "right" for the female.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck. "
this.is often the case but in some cases it's the other half that's left or the chancers go with your instincts i guess nice profile both have fun

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

My thoughts on this as lots try the couples profile angle and it's obviously the guy only.

From the Oxford English Dictionary:

Couple: Noun: "Two people who are married or otherwise closely associated romantically or sexually:"

NOT a sad twat going behind the wifes' back because he fancies a bit of girlie cock or has a profile on here that the poor bitch he's with doesn't even know about.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Plenty of people have filters because they don't want single guy contacts - which is fair enough that's their preference

A single guy messaging from a couples profile - whether the other party doesn't exist or does exist and she's genuinely out is just using a get around to message people they wouldn't normally be able to

Plenty of couples have single and couples profiles if they meet separately as well and that seems a far more genuine way of doing it

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston


"What does everyone else think when they see this on a profile? For us it makes us suspicious of the person, like it's a guy alone trying his luck. "
It seems totally incongruous, and quite the opposite of most other 'couples' profiles I've seen around here.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Plenty of people have filters because they don't want single guy contacts - which is fair enough that's their preference

A single guy messaging from a couples profile - whether the other party doesn't exist or does exist and she's genuinely out is just using a get around to message people they wouldn't normally be able to

Plenty of couples have single and couples profiles if they meet separately as well and that seems a far more genuine way of doing it "

We actually had a message past filters from a guy who said he was a CD as he wore his wife's knickers. Now forgive me for upsetting anyone but of I go out on my motorcycle in the winter sometimes I put tights on under the old bike gear for warmth, common knowledge to bikers it works, similarly if I get out of the bath & the only robe to hand is H's pink fluffy one with fairies on i'm wearing it, at least till i'm dry or had a cup of tea.

Doesn't make me a blooming xdresser & neither foes wearing lacy knickers under jeans, T-shirt or a suit..

S

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire


"Plenty of people have filters because they don't want single guy contacts - which is fair enough that's their preference

A single guy messaging from a couples profile - whether the other party doesn't exist or does exist and she's genuinely out is just using a get around to message people they wouldn't normally be able to

Plenty of couples have single and couples profiles if they meet separately as well and that seems a far more genuine way of doing it

We actually had a message past filters from a guy who said he was a CD as he wore his wife's knickers. Now forgive me for upsetting anyone but of I go out on my motorcycle in the winter sometimes I put tights on under the old bike gear for warmth, common knowledge to bikers it works, similarly if I get out of the bath & the only robe to hand is H's pink fluffy one with fairies on i'm wearing it, at least till i'm dry or had a cup of tea.

Doesn't make me a blooming xdresser & neither foes wearing lacy knickers under jeans, T-shirt or a suit..

S"

They are what we call hairy pantie wearers not crossdressers not trans there a breed on there own. There is a therory how they appear. They want to meet trans girls or crossdressers or women. But they have no luck so they try to become. So that hairy arsed abortion you see usually called Hornycockslut155312 is the result.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Plenty of people have filters because they don't want single guy contacts - which is fair enough that's their preference

A single guy messaging from a couples profile - whether the other party doesn't exist or does exist and she's genuinely out is just using a get around to message people they wouldn't normally be able to

Plenty of couples have single and couples profiles if they meet separately as well and that seems a far more genuine way of doing it

We actually had a message past filters from a guy who said he was a CD as he wore his wife's knickers. Now forgive me for upsetting anyone but of I go out on my motorcycle in the winter sometimes I put tights on under the old bike gear for warmth, common knowledge to bikers it works, similarly if I get out of the bath & the only robe to hand is H's pink fluffy one with fairies on i'm wearing it, at least till i'm dry or had a cup of tea.

Doesn't make me a blooming xdresser & neither foes wearing lacy knickers under jeans, T-shirt or a suit..

S

They are what we call hairy pantie wearers not crossdressers not trans there a breed on there own. There is a therory how they appear. They want to meet trans girls or crossdressers or women. But they have no luck so they try to become. So that hairy arsed abortion you see usually called Hornycockslut155312 is the result."

S

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By *otwife8690Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Plenty of people have filters because they don't want single guy contacts - which is fair enough that's their preference

A single guy messaging from a couples profile - whether the other party doesn't exist or does exist and she's genuinely out is just using a get around to message people they wouldn't normally be able to

Plenty of couples have single and couples profiles if they meet separately as well and that seems a far more genuine way of doing it "

Thats what we do but we recently had abuse from a male saying that we are fake and ruining the site for genuine users by having more than 1 profile.

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire


"Plenty of people have filters because they don't want single guy contacts - which is fair enough that's their preference

A single guy messaging from a couples profile - whether the other party doesn't exist or does exist and she's genuinely out is just using a get around to message people they wouldn't normally be able to

Plenty of couples have single and couples profiles if they meet separately as well and that seems a far more genuine way of doing it

Thats what we do but we recently had abuse from a male saying that we are fake and ruining the site for genuine users by having more than 1 profile. "

Ignore him prob just pissed as cant get a meet

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