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Guys pretending to be women or couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone explain to me why they do this?

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

To get attention. Simple.

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By *amAndJessCouple
over a year ago

ryton

Attention yeah...we've had a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are sad and pathetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you arrange a meet , turn up and they can give your cock a nice nosh

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

So they can arrange a meet as a couple but then the male keeps making silly excuses when female femle want to talk.. "She is busy... shy...gone to work" etc then hoping he can pull out a meet and at last minute say wife cancelled and was ill.. some people will try all tricks to get their end away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They are so easy to spot. Straight for the sex talk.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

To get to couples that have single males blocked, they can then if good at it get friended to look at friend only pics, or go to kik whatever to share pics bids that they say are them..

Now we are more attune to them & are veried fewer try it, but when we first came on i'd say 30% that contacted were fakes..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you arrange a meet , turn up and they can give your cock a nice nosh "

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"They are so easy to spot. Straight for the sex talk. "

And unsolicited friend requests.

I've said Fab should shut down for new member between 11pm & 7am on Fri/Sat as most appear then as all the pissheads stroll in..

S

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

Have on my profile if cpls or females are wanting to arrange a meet we will need to speak on cam or phone at earliest oppotunity so i can be sure its a fem or cpl im actually talking to

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By *aneman10Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

i don't no why people pretend to be what there now ' i'm a single man and i'd say lots of single men give the rest of us a bad name as there so pushy ' nothing gets me like people turning up and there nothing like there picture or profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So they can arrange a meet as a couple but then the male keeps making silly excuses when female femle want to talk.. "She is busy... shy...gone to work" etc then hoping he can pull out a meet and at last minute say wife cancelled and was ill.. some people will try all tricks to get their end away"

We've actually encountered this b4. So sad

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"So they can arrange a meet as a couple but then the male keeps making silly excuses when female femle want to talk.. "She is busy... shy...gone to work" etc then hoping he can pull out a meet and at last minute say wife cancelled and was ill.. some people will try all tricks to get their end away

We've actually encountered this b4. So sad "

I did too when I was on here as a couple. Allowed it to happen just once.. then it was an instant block of we heard the same lame excuses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone explain to me why they do this?"

No, no i can't explain as we are a couple.

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

OMG how great are your pics...and yes they are just keyboard warriors arnt they

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This was a guy pretending to be a couple. Did he think I was going to turn up and immediately change my sexuality

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

I once went on a different site as a man once. I wanted to see what a single man's experience was.

And before the comments start here, I in no way led anyone on, flirted, or asked for anything from anyone. I was simply friendly.

Strange thing happened. For all the complaints I had heard there, as a woman, about how hard it was as a single man, I had several pms from women within a short time (hours) and an invitation for drinks as well.

As per the original question here, other than for curiosity, no idea why anyone would do it. You can't exactly meet people, so where's the fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you arrange a meet , turn up and they can give your cock a nice nosh

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I just spat my coffee out reading this XXX

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Fallen for this afew times now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasising, pic collecting, attention seeking, trolling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is where I'm very lucky!

NO ONE pretends to be a single man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just guys, some single women pretend to be FF couples for some utterly bizarre reason.

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By *rs.sexy.mr.randyCouple
over a year ago

essex


"So they can arrange a meet as a couple but then the male keeps making silly excuses when female femle want to talk.. "She is busy... shy...gone to work" etc then hoping he can pull out a meet and at last minute say wife cancelled and was ill.. some people will try all tricks to get their end away

We've actually encountered this b4. So sad "
we have had the same on holiday in Cyprus single women on profile couple of photos texting for about one hour than ask for our number so she can call and speak to the wife when phone rang I answered it the voice was low but new it was a man.

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By *rs.sexy.mr.randyCouple
over a year ago

essex

[Removed by poster at 28/08/16 21:05:12]

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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago

halifax

Not read all the thread so sorry if we're repeating anything...

Our policy now is if a woman or couple have been members for more than a couple of weeks and haven't been at least photo verified then it's just a sad guy pretending. Sounds harsh but works for us.

Why can't fab insist on photo verication after initial few days etc? Simples.

We know there are some cunning bastards out there who could probably fake photo verify as woman and couples but would probably do away with 95% of the ass-hats.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Can anyone explain to me why they do this?"

They play the maybe game.

What they do is pretend to be a couple. Then if they get a meet with a couple on the day of the meet they wil claim the wife is ill and hope the couple will meet him alone.

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By *mben8Man
over a year ago

West Sussex

Only been here short while and tbh pretty easy to spot when i get a message.

I just play along and wind them up.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Because some are very easily fooled.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"This is where I'm very lucky!

NO ONE pretends to be a single man!! "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just guys, some single women pretend to be FF couples for some utterly bizarre reason. "

Not come across this one

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By *aughty cpl for funCouple
over a year ago

chester

It's just the norm for this site.easy to spot though. Had 4 today. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once went on a different site as a man once. I wanted to see what a single man's experience was.

And before the comments start here, I in no way led anyone on, flirted, or asked for anything from anyone. I was simply friendly.

Strange thing happened. For all the complaints I had heard there, as a woman, about how hard it was as a single man, I had several pms from women within a short time (hours) and an invitation for drinks as well.

As per the original question here, other than for curiosity, no idea why anyone would do it. You can't exactly meet people, so where's the fun?"

Which model's pics were you using and which site?

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Losers with nothing better to do really...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"It's not just guys, some single women pretend to be FF couples for some utterly bizarre reason.

Not come across this one "

I've got a FF profile with a friend but we never message anyone who hasn't messaged us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is where I'm very lucky!

NO ONE pretends to be a single man!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone explain to me why they do this?"

Because they don't get anywhere with their profile as a single guy and think pretending to be a couple or single gem will get the attention they require. It has become easy spotting fake profiles as we have experienced so many of them over the years.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

For some wank fodder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So they can arrange a meet as a couple but then the male keeps making silly excuses when female femle want to talk.. "She is busy... shy...gone to work" etc then hoping he can pull out a meet and at last minute say wife cancelled and was ill.. some people will try all tricks to get their end away

We've actually encountered this b4. So sad we have had the same on holiday in Cyprus single women on profile couple of photos texting for about one hour than ask for our number so she can call and speak to the wife when phone rang I answered it the voice was low but new it was a man."

We actually had this one too. Both in the first week on fab. Thankfully things have improved since that. Now it's just block and delete.

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