FabSwingers.com forum: Beginner bondage

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My wife and I are just venturing the world of bondage and toys. We have never really used toys because we always preferred just to fuck.

We had an idea recently to try something different so we got on love honey and purchased her some sexy bondage clothes some restraints and mild bondage toys and just for fun a nice small glass but plug.

To us we like the idea of her giving herself to me and I can use oils and toys to get her senses tingling. We want her to be helpless and completely at my mercy but neither of us want any pain as this is a turn off.

If anyone has any advise for a couple of newbies or want to chat about this subject we would love to hear from you all

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Checkout Fetish Events in your area and advice on how to do these things safely. There is a whole world of things to explore

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Our only advice would be to talk about it, always ensure that any ties are easy to remove, make sure she can tell you when she's had enough and just enjoy it

The biggest piece of advice I personally would give you is don't let anybody tell you that you're doing it wrong or should do things differently, if it feels good, it's not harmful and you both enjoy that's all that counts.

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

Remember the safety aspect and if you are using ropes or scarves for bondage always have scissors at hand for quick release. Read, research and do what feels right for you. And most of all, have fun.

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By *aster C the kinksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington

Slut was a Newby when we first started. There is a lot to tell. Much more than I could put on here. I agree with most of the posts so far. Safety is NOT. No exceptions.

Decide on a safe word. Slut uses red. If thats used STOP imediatly and release all ties. I use cuffs as they generally don't leave marks and are quick release. Always tie knots so with a pull on the rope they can be released.

If you wanna know more get in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our only advice would be to talk about it, always ensure that any ties are easy to remove, make sure she can tell you when she's had enough and just enjoy it

I'd say take it slow and have fun. You don't need a safe word for what you're doing.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

U have to use a safe word to stop n just enjoy urself taking it nice n slowely trying new n different scenarios .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the search function

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key is communication. You both love one another and know one another, literally inside and out. Time to share eachother's fantasies and act some out. Talk, don't be embarrassed, go slow. Share the power, explore whether you are dominant or submissive or both? Use blindfolds, restraints and dirty talk as your teasing weapons of choice. Set the scene with mood lighting and music. Introduce toys maybe. Most of all, have fun but keep talking. I find dirty talking within role play to be sooooo hot

But, this is only my opinion (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of videos on you tube for rope bondage worth a look. In one the model has some big faded bruises on her arse too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have got some nice mild restraints and I have ordered a nice red bed set so my sexy wife will be in her new black bondage outfit and we have some black leather toys and I think some very sexy photos will be taken to start with. then we can see what we both like and more importantly what makes her happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Checkout Fetish Events in your area and advice on how to do these things safely. There is a whole world of things to explore

Beat me to it

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"Checkout Fetish Events in your area and advice on how to do these things safely. There is a whole world of things to explore

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google peer rope workshop or similar for good places to learn safe ways to tie and enjoy yourself

oh and have fun its what its all about enjoying yourself

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Take things steady and discuss what worked best etc. I suggest you have a safe word. It's good practise because if she suddenly doesn't like a sensation , you know when she says your chosen word to stop immediately.

But enjoy yourselves and have lots of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take things steady and discuss what worked best etc. I suggest you have a safe word. It's good practise because if she suddenly doesn't like a sensation , you know when she says your chosen word to stop immediately.

But enjoy yourselves and have lots of fun. "

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Read Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns.

Best lifestyle BDSM book I've found.

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Join the site ( life of fet )

Loads of discussions and ideas and you will get details of local munches

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Enjoy

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