FabSwingers.com forum: Bi-curious

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been gay most my life but been increasingly curious about women, and joined Fab to broaden my horizons.

However it surprises me that there doesn't seem to be that many people like me on here.

To the more experienced Fabbers, are there many bi-curious gay guys on the scene??

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

Somewhat paradoxical but interesting. There must be lots of gay guys who are curious.

Just go for it and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's the plan!

The way I think of it there seems to be plenty of straight guys who are bi-curious or Fab-straight, so why not gay guys?

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By *nowbodyyounoMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Sexuality is a spectrum apparently - so what you're feeling is far from unusual, I suspect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm beginning to feel that more as I get older... Definitely feeling more sexually fluid these days, less defined by a label

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

If you ever find yourself in London I will happily help you experiment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first the idea of people who defined themselves as homosexual then being curious seemed very odd to me.

But I now think it's very real - I've played with ladies who defined themselves as gay, but who do occasionally play with men.

OP, my advice is to go for it, you might actually find you like women as well as men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Ladygarden! ??

The plan is to find a woman or couple who I click with and go with the flow. I'd like to think it's more about the chemistry than the gender... but you never know until you try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks Ladygarden! ??

The plan is to find a woman or couple who I click with and go with the flow. I'd like to think it's more about the chemistry than the gender... but you never know until you try!"

Head on over to ireland, we'll "help" you

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"Thanks Ladygarden! ??

The plan is to find a woman or couple who I click with and go with the flow. I'd like to think it's more about the chemistry than the gender... but you never know until you try!"

Going with the flow is definitely the way to do it. One can not force these things

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

A gay friend recently told me he played with a woman and wanted more. Confessed to me as couldn't tell his gay pal for fear of humiliation

It's a shame that womens fluid sexuality is far more accepted than guys. Blokes are expected to pick a side and live their life accordingly and ridiculed if they stray to the dark side. Which sucks (no pun intended).

You crack on love. One day, nobody will give a flying frig who anyone shags but we're still a long way off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be what you are and say what you are !

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