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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

We all have age ranges. Most of us start at 18 and ending on our preferences. But would anyone here really meet an 18year old?

I'm 50:50 on the matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't as I have kids older than that .I prefer men my age or older

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No"

Nope but I'd meet someone who is 48

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't as I have kids older than that .I prefer men my age or older "

I hear this a lot and I'm genuinely interested why it's bothers you regarding their age relative to your children?

Honestly, when we think of older couples we don't ever compare their age to our parents... just interested?

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

not likely ..could you imagine they'd spend most of the meet on facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't as I have kids older than that .I prefer men my age or older

I hear this a lot and I'm genuinely interested why it's bothers you regarding their age relative to your children?

Honestly, when we think of older couples we don't ever compare their age to our parents... just interested? "

Some of us do. I wouldn't meet anyone I could have given birth to or who could be my parent.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would, the youngest I met was 19

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"No

Nope but I'd meet someone who is 48 "

If you mean me you better make it quick I have 5 hours left!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Nope but I'd meet someone who is 48

If you mean me you better make it quick I have 5 hours left! "

Quick is never usually a problem

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a 19 year old... and I'd do it again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not prepared to play with teenagers. They haven't got the skill or experience I want in a play mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't as I have kids older than that .I prefer men my age or older

I hear this a lot and I'm genuinely interested why it's bothers you regarding their age relative to your children?

Honestly, when we think of older couples we don't ever compare their age to our parents... just interested?

Some of us do. I wouldn't meet anyone I could have given birth to or who could be my parent. "

What is it that puts you off about that though?

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

My filters are set at 21-39, I think even 21 is a little too young for me based on the guys of that age who contact me. No way would I meet an 18 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. But then I'd not touch a guy in his 20s either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. But then I'd not touch a guy in his 20s either. "

What is it about them you don't like?

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By *isterXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep , we have .

More than a few times and as long as it's just play its all good . Not so good to chat too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I would. And have.

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By *isterXMan
over a year ago

Bristol


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Honestly, when we think of older couples we don't ever compare their age to our parents... just interested?

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Epic !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. But then I'd not touch a guy in his 20s either.

What is it about them you don't like? "

I don't know, I've just never fancied guys my own age/younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't as I have kids older than that .I prefer men my age or older

I hear this a lot and I'm genuinely interested why it's bothers you regarding their age relative to your children?

Honestly, when we think of older couples we don't ever compare their age to our parents... just interested?

Some of us do. I wouldn't meet anyone I could have given birth to or who could be my parent.

What is it that puts you off about that though? "

I am not remotely attracted to younger or older people. I prefer people who I can converse with and who 'get me'. Younger people see me as some sort of older woman fetish and that annoys the hell out of me. Older people - it depends how well we get on and I am more flexible about meeting them. Just my prefrences. I'm here for my fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 yrs ago yes but now 25 to 50 is more my range but never say never as you may one day bump into someone who is that age who blows your mind but safe to say 35 to 50 my usual tastes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. But then I'd not touch a guy in his 20s either.

What is it about them you don't like?

I don't know, I've just never fancied guys my own age/younger. "

Emotionally, physically or both? As a society, the traits that are generally consider conventially attractive are those that suggest youth. That's why I find it a little puzzling. I also notice a huge difference between the answers from men and women to this question. I've never ever heard a man say "she's younger than my daughter, that's terrible" - quite the opposite in fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No 30 lowest I'd go but each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't as I have kids older than that .I prefer men my age or older

I hear this a lot and I'm genuinely interested why it's bothers you regarding their age relative to your children?

Honestly, when we think of older couples we don't ever compare their age to our parents... just interested?

Some of us do. I wouldn't meet anyone I could have given birth to or who could be my parent.

What is it that puts you off about that though?

I am not remotely attracted to younger or older people. I prefer people who I can converse with and who 'get me'. Younger people see me as some sort of older woman fetish and that annoys the hell out of me. Older people - it depends how well we get on and I am more flexible about meeting them. Just my prefrences. I'm here for my fun."

Thank you, that makes a lot of sense. I've seen two logical reasons on this thread why a woman might not prefer a younger guy - I'm learning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most important thing for us is that we can have a laugh and good conversation beforehand so if there was good conversation through chat etc then yes we'd meet 18yr olds but the chances of us meeting 18yrs that we can have good conversation with given that were a married couple with 3 young kids are slim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't no

Nothing to do with the age of my kids, 18 is just too young for me, I would have nothing in common at all with an 18 year old and I like my mind stimulated as well as my body and I've yet to engage in conversation with any 18 year old and have a mature conversation, plus, and I'm being honest I doubt an 18 year old would be experienced enough to stimulate my body either

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

My motto is no younger than my youngest sis who is 20 and no older than my mum. But I do have the guilty pleasure of saying I do exchange pics with girls that are 18-19.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. But then I'd not touch a guy in his 20s either.

What is it about them you don't like?

I don't know, I've just never fancied guys my own age/younger.

Emotionally, physically or both? As a society, the traits that are generally consider conventially attractive are those that suggest youth. That's why I find it a little puzzling. I also notice a huge difference between the answers from men and women to this question. I've never ever heard a man say "she's younger than my daughter, that's terrible" - quite the opposite in fact "

Physically it's rare but yeah some guys around my age I could play with, but emotionally no, nothe happenew yet.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met somebody who was 21 :D xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maturity of mind is the guideline.

I was contacted by an 18 yr old (when I was 38) and spent three years chatting, getting to know each other. We met when he was 21, was a total delight and still the best meet to date.

Would I do it again with someone new? No thanks.

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I met somebody who was 21 :D xx"

Lucky son of a gun. If I was him I'd be smiling for ear to ear if had a meet with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. But then I'd not touch a guy in his 20s either.

What is it about them you don't like?

I don't know, I've just never fancied guys my own age/younger.

Emotionally, physically or both? As a society, the traits that are generally consider conventially attractive are those that suggest youth. That's why I find it a little puzzling. I also notice a huge difference between the answers from men and women to this question. I've never ever heard a man say "she's younger than my daughter, that's terrible" - quite the opposite in fact

Physically it's rare but yeah some guys around my age I could play with, but emotionally no, nothe happenew yet."

For quite a while we've been looking for a couple to play with that are 30+ years older than us. Everytime we've been close to finding a compatible one, it's always been the older female who got cold feet. Not withstanding the possibility that I (husband) could be fuck ugly, I was always curious why there was such a difference in attitude from the men and women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say body confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I would no. My age range starts from my age and goes up to 9 years higher..not that it's set in stone. I think if you feel comfortable and so is the other person , it's consensual and your sensible then I say go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say body confidence. "

I think that has a lot to do with it with a lot of women

I know I've look at some younger guys who have mailed me, and I get bloody hundreds of messages from guys mid 20s and younger, that have been fit good looking guys and thought he's got to be kidding surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say body confidence.

I think that has a lot to do with it with a lot of women

I know I've look at some younger guys who have mailed me, and I get bloody hundreds of messages from guys mid 20s and younger, that have been fit good looking guys and thought he's got to be kidding surely "

Would it be a problem for you if it was the age gap that turned them on? As in they don't really give a shit about the body...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ... and my age preferences have never started at 18 either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say body confidence.

I think that has a lot to do with it with a lot of women

I know I've look at some younger guys who have mailed me, and I get bloody hundreds of messages from guys mid 20s and younger, that have been fit good looking guys and thought he's got to be kidding surely

Would it be a problem for you if it was the age gap that turned them on? As in they don't really give a shit about the body... "

Yes because I'd still look at them and think he's got to be kidding surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say body confidence.

I think that has a lot to do with it with a lot of women

I know I've look at some younger guys who have mailed me, and I get bloody hundreds of messages from guys mid 20s and younger, that have been fit good looking guys and thought he's got to be kidding surely "
but I am firm believer that if u do connect to a person then age shouldnt be a factor enjoy the moment while it lasts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have age ranges. Most of us start at 18 and ending on our preferences. But would anyone here really meet an 18year old?

I'm 50:50 on the matter"
Hell no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say body confidence.

I think that has a lot to do with it with a lot of women

I know I've look at some younger guys who have mailed me, and I get bloody hundreds of messages from guys mid 20s and younger, that have been fit good looking guys and thought he's got to be kidding surely

but I am firm believer that if u do connect to a person then age shouldnt be a factor enjoy the moment while it lasts"

I think it would be very hard for me as a 41 year old woman to find any connection with a 18 year old

I've got kids ages 23, 22 and 15 who all have mates who have come to my house, I've engaged at lot in conversation with teenagers in my time and to be quite frank what they talk about makes me wish they would hurry up and go out

I just have nothing in common at all with kids that age and I suppose that's part of the problem I see 18 year olds as kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say body confidence.

I think that has a lot to do with it with a lot of women

I know I've look at some younger guys who have mailed me, and I get bloody hundreds of messages from guys mid 20s and younger, that have been fit good looking guys and thought he's got to be kidding surely

but I am firm believer that if u do connect to a person then age shouldnt be a factor enjoy the moment while it lasts

I think it would be very hard for me as a 41 year old woman to find any connection with a 18 year old

I've got kids ages 23, 22 and 15 who all have mates who have come to my house, I've engaged at lot in conversation with teenagers in my time and to be quite frank what they talk about makes me wish they would hurry up and go out

I just have nothing in common at all with kids that age and I suppose that's part of the problem I see 18 year olds as kids "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our age range is not set in stone, but 18? We don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the popularity of teen porn and the average age of a porn star, then there are really only two possibilities:

a. A lot of guys on this thread are bullshitting in order to present a view more favourable to women

b. The men of Fab are not representative of the population as a whole

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

The lowest age on my filter is 30 because in my opinion under that age .I believe someone may lack the stability and emotional maturity needed to play in the dynamic I enjoy

My filters are about stopping those I believe to be to young for my dynamic from contacting me and there fore saving me from having to explain to them why I believe them to be to young to play with me .

Conceited you may think but I have been approached by as young as 18 in the past .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's legal and consensual, I don't see an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in a site capacity, but I used to have a younger admirer when I used to DJ a club in my area. 18 year old Goth girl that used to get no end of attention. One night - it happened.

For me, it felt so wrong the day after. I went against my preferences and it truly did feel completely wrong. The experience (even though we were d*unk) was purely dull and lifeless. This was a girl not even old enough to remember Rainbow (of the kids show variety).

Never again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I couldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Very unlikely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging by the popularity of teen porn and the average age of a porn star, then there are really only two possibilities:

a. A lot of guys on this thread are bullshitting in order to present a view more favourable to women

b. The men of Fab are not representative of the population as a whole "

Now

If we are talking porn I love twink porn

But I wouldn't fuck a guy that age just because I like to see him gang banged by a load of men on a porn film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging by the popularity of teen porn and the average age of a porn star, then there are really only two possibilities:

a. A lot of guys on this thread are bullshitting in order to present a view more favourable to women

b. The men of Fab are not representative of the population as a whole"

This.

Sometimes I think you'd need a Bulldozer powered by it's own nuclear reactor to get through the sheer amount of bullshit on this forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's legal and consensual, I don't see an issue."

I couldn't see myself chatting a 18 year old up or flirting with one but if she came on to me I probably would, I wouldn't see it as a age thing just mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging by the popularity of teen porn and the average age of a porn star, then there are really only two possibilities:

a. A lot of guys on this thread are bullshitting in order to present a view more favourable to women

b. The men of Fab are not representative of the population as a whole

Now

If we are talking porn I love twink porn

But I wouldn't fuck a guy that age just because I like to see him gang banged by a load of men on a porn film "

The problem with twink porn (for me) is that if prefer guys that look straight. Not the kind of gays you could spot in a random crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because I like to have a connection with a guy & I can't see that being a possibility when they're a teenager.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging by the popularity of teen porn and the average age of a porn star, then there are really only two possibilities:

a. A lot of guys on this thread are bullshitting in order to present a view more favourable to women

b. The men of Fab are not representative of the population as a whole

Now

If we are talking porn I love twink porn

But I wouldn't fuck a guy that age just because I like to see him gang banged by a load of men on a porn film

The problem with twink porn (for me) is that if prefer guys that look straight. Not the kind of gays you could spot in a random crowd. "

Ahhhh, the classic "Next Door/First timers" that is all too apparent. Straight, but camper than Christmas...

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

I'd like a 36 year old. Would two 18 year olds be the same thing??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met somebody who was 21 :D xx

Lucky son of a gun. If I was him I'd be smiling for ear to ear if had a meet with you"
I agree that it depends on the individual. I met him when he was 21 (my second ever fab meet) hes 23 now and we still meet up every so often x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have age ranges. Most of us start at 18 and ending on our preferences. But would anyone here really meet an 18year old?

I'm 50:50 on the matter"
no and I wouldn't meet anyone of 99 either lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would and have

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Youngest ive met on here was 22. I would probably meet an 18 year old though if I was attracted to them

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No because it would be extremely unlikely that we'd have much in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because it would be extremely unlikely that we'd have much in common."

I get the having something in common thing and personality, But if you were playing in a club and one approached you, No chatting just sex ?

oh and anyone else who has said something similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met 18 year olds many times but then again I was 20 at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah why not. When I split from my ex wife a few years a go I was 32 and the first person I had relations with was just 18.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I wouldn't as I have kids older than that .I prefer men my age or older

I hear this a lot and I'm genuinely interested why it's bothers you regarding their age relative to your children?

Honestly, when we think of older couples we don't ever compare their age to our parents... just interested?

Some of us do. I wouldn't meet anyone I could have given birth to or who could be my parent. "

I'm married to someone I could be the parent of, The only time it seems odd was when I think i'd been at work for two Years when H was born. The unavailable bi-fem mentioned on our profile was nineteen, however she has been in a stable M/F relationship for six years & has had several F/F relationships..so somewhat older in outlook & thought than her years would say.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because it would be extremely unlikely that we'd have much in common.

I get the having something in common thing and personality, But if you were playing in a club and one approached you, No chatting just sex ?

oh and anyone else who has said something similar "

No because I'm just not attracted to young baby faced guys

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"No because it would be extremely unlikely that we'd have much in common.

I get the having something in common thing and personality, But if you were playing in a club and one approached you, No chatting just sex ?

oh and anyone else who has said something similar "

Possibly.

I've played with those at parties before that I would have said no to if they had approached us on here. Purely down to age.

It would also depend on if they looked really young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because it would be extremely unlikely that we'd have much in common.

I get the having something in common thing and personality, But if you were playing in a club and one approached you, No chatting just sex ?

oh and anyone else who has said something similar "

Well OK, in a swinging sense or above answer stands. But if it was me, Mr, out clubbing or something, and I got chatting to an 18 year old? Yes I probably would, but you may as well ask me what I would do if aliens landed in my backyard. It's so unlikely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man.. This thread is depressing for someone near 18 years of age.

I can understand for people that have kids and wouldn't feel comfortable with someone so young. But, I do find it disappointing that some of you just assume outright that a younger person will have no emotional maturity or even be able to keep up a conversation. Missed opportunities in my opinion but each to their own I guess.

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over a year ago

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World


"I wouldn't as I have kids older than that .I prefer men my age or older

I hear this a lot and I'm genuinely interested why it's bothers you regarding their age relative to your children?

Honestly, when we think of older couples we don't ever compare their age to our parents... just interested? "

In my case because I wouldn't want someone my age getting their paws on my 18 yr old kid.

So to answer the OP, no I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Man.. This thread is depressing for someone near 18 years of age.

I can understand for people that have kids and wouldn't feel comfortable with someone so young. But, I do find it disappointing that some of you just assume outright that a younger person will have no emotional maturity or even be able to keep up a conversation. Missed opportunities in my opinion but each to their own I guess. "

I don't think somebody your age wouldn't be able to keep up a conversation I just think somebody your age would have no interest at all in my topics of conversation and visa versa

Also maturity is subjection, one person's idea of nature may not be another persons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Man.. This thread is depressing for someone near 18 years of age.

I can understand for people that have kids and wouldn't feel comfortable with someone so young. But, I do find it disappointing that some of you just assume outright that a younger person will have no emotional maturity or even be able to keep up a conversation. Missed opportunities in my opinion but each to their own I guess.

I don't think somebody your age wouldn't be able to keep up a conversation I just think somebody your age would have no interest at all I'm my topics of conversation and visa versa

Also maturity is subjection, one person's idea of nature may not be another persons"

I'll bet he doesn't even know what farm-to-table means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because it would be extremely unlikely that we'd have much in common.

I get the having something in common thing and personality, But if you were playing in a club and one approached you, No chatting just sex ?

oh and anyone else who has said something similar "

Approached in a club by someone of a similar age to my son would not do it for me at all.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sure. I'm at uni so surrounded by them - new freshmen arrival in September

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We have our age range set fairly accurately, but we are open to flexibility on that if we all click.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way would we meet a 18 year old. We have our age range set

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"No because it would be extremely unlikely that we'd have much in common.

I get the having something in common thing and personality, But if you were playing in a club and one approached you, No chatting just sex ?

oh and anyone else who has said something similar

No because I'm just not attracted to young baby faced guys"
hey I'm 28 in 6weeks. But have a baby face so despite my age you would still say no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my filters are 38-53

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because it would be extremely unlikely that we'd have much in common.

I get the having something in common thing and personality, But if you were playing in a club and one approached you, No chatting just sex ?

oh and anyone else who has said something similar

No because I'm just not attracted to young baby faced guys

hey I'm 28 in 6weeks. But have a baby face so despite my age you would still say no?"

Yes because I think 28 is to young for me never mind 18

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"She's old enough to be your granddaughter! "

"Yeah, but she's not."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fresh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would, without a doubt.

They are adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""She's old enough to be your granddaughter! "

"Yeah, but she's not.""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny you say that, I work in a restaurant, we're trained to know where all the meat comes from along with some of the other products. :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also maturity is subjection, one person's idea of nature may not be another persons"

You're right about that. My point was how are you going to know if I or any other young guy has interest in topics you like if you don't consider them or allow them to talk to you?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Fresh."

..out of school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Also maturity is subjection, one person's idea of nature may not be another persons"

You're right about that. My point was how are you going to know if I or any other young guy has interest in topics you like if you don't consider them or allow them to talk to you? "

Seriously

May as well cut the crap

If I met a 18 year old guy or somebody around that age I'd feel like a pervy, dirty old woman

Not a feeling I'd find attractive

So though there are other factors to why I wouldn't meet them if I'm honest that's the main one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny you say that, I work in a restaurant, we're trained to know where all the meat comes from along with some of the other products. :P"

That was actually a joke from South Park that was intended to work in your favour...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It would depend on the type of person they were. I would meet a nice and polite one for a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Also maturity is subjection, one person's idea of nature may not be another persons"

You're right about that. My point was how are you going to know if I or any other young guy has interest in topics you like if you don't consider them or allow them to talk to you?

Seriously

May as well cut the crap

If I met a 18 year old guy or somebody around that age I'd feel like a pervy, dirty old woman

Not a feeling I'd find attractive

So though there are other factors to why I wouldn't meet them if I'm honest that's the main one "

I think men find it easier to embrace being dirty old pervs

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By *oung_KMan
over a year ago

.

Wondering if this has anything to do with my post from earlier

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..


"We all have age ranges. Most of us start at 18 and ending on our preferences. But would anyone here really meet an 18year old?

I'm 50:50 on the matter"

No!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"No because it would be extremely unlikely that we'd have much in common.

I get the having something in common thing and personality, But if you were playing in a club and one approached you, No chatting just sex ?

oh and anyone else who has said something similar

No because I'm just not attracted to young baby faced guys"

That's the same for me,I can find them good looking in a cute kinda way,but I don't get the I want to sit across your lap feeling from them.

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By *isterXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

It doesn't matter anyway if you're 18 or 27 , you get the same rejection like you're too young and know nothing, well after my owm experiences you are WRONG ! in 18 or 27 years old other people may be "lived" more than you and it doesn't aply just to my own personality you can find some others,even if it's hard to believe... i wouldn't say that everything you see is all right you just have to make the right choices, swinging in my opinion has no age right ? Cuz' you'll have to experiment new things everytime you get meets..i really think that's the spirit , we all live and learn lots but still dye dumb enough...

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall

until recently i would have said no but there was a guy who was insistent and he came to mine. no chasing on my part and he made all the running with the messaging.

turned out to be a really mature guy with some stamina LOL i'd probably not do the same with a woman of the same age though

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Fresh.

..out of school "

Legal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son is 18 and been on here a year and meets young ladies near to his own age. just young people having abit of fun. Personally, i'd not meet anyone under 25.

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By *isterXMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"until recently i would have said no but there was a guy who was insistent and he came to mine. no chasing on my part and he made all the running with the messaging.

turned out to be a really mature guy with some stamina LOL i'd probably not do the same with a woman of the same age though "

1 up for my man right here , that's what i'm saying, it doesn't matter , at first people tend to think like that !

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"We all have age ranges. Most of us start at 18 and ending on our preferences. But would anyone here really meet an 18year old?

I'm 50:50 on the matter"

Personally not for me as for same reasons of having a son aged 26.

However, this post did make me chuckle as I've got a friend on this site and she met a 18 yr old guy for sex (she was 51 at the time). She said the only thing that put off the meet was he couldn't drive and was dropped off/picked up by his parents. pmsl

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate

God I get embarrassed when someone in there elder 20s message us, I think god you could be my brother

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"God I get embarrassed when someone in there elder 20s message us, I think god you could be my brother "

Bet that would shock the hell out of you if your brother did msg you!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Nope just nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not at all that's why we have ages set for a reason lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a 19 year old... and I'd do it again x"

Can't fault you - we're all here for our own pleasure - why should you not go for what you want X

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

No. The rule for men is half your age + 7. That should be the lowest you go.

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"No. The rule for men is half your age + 7. That should be the lowest you go."

What's the rule for women

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By *ave1977Man
over a year ago

Mid Cheshire

I would YES

It's those who say they are looking for people up to the age of 99 that scares me...

99 really ??

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By *ave1977Man
over a year ago

Mid Cheshire


"No. The rule for men is half your age + 7. That should be the lowest you go."

What if you're a man aged 20 ?????

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away


"No. The rule for men is half your age + 7. That should be the lowest you go.

What's the rule for women "

*shrugs shoulder* You should be telling me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would YES

It's those who say they are looking for people up to the age of 99 that scares me...

99 really ??"

If she brings lube

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I would YES

It's those who say they are looking for people up to the age of 99 that scares me...

99 really ??

If she brings lube "

And defibrillator.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have age ranges. Most of us start at 18 and ending on our preferences. But would anyone here really meet an 18year old?

I'm 50:50 on the matter"

I met a 19 year old. He was so mature for his age. Had plenty of muture conversations with him unlike some older guys I've spoken with. He was actually better in bed then a 40 year old I met. Go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

My son is 30 so that won't ever happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would YES

It's those who say they are looking for people up to the age of 99 that scares me...

99 really ??

If she brings lube

And defibrillator.

"

And an iron.

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"I would YES

It's those who say they are looking for people up to the age of 99 that scares me...

99 really ??"

It's because they say we are living longer

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

He'd need to be very mature for his age and not look too baby faced for me to consider meeting him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt it!

But then I change my mind often about what and who I like!

At the moment I'm into men with deep voices

A young man in Marks and Spencers earlier had the sexiest voice I've heard in ages!

I need him!

Am I bothered if he's only 18? ...

Not really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. The rule for men is half your age + 7. That should be the lowest you go."

Rule according to who exactly? Cosmopolitan?

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By *mben8Man
over a year ago

West Sussex

Yeah and some more.!

Had a crush on a bird my age when i was 18 and to this day wished i had so no probs.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

For a social maybe

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By *oung_KMan
over a year ago

.


"Yeah and some more.!

Had a crush on a bird my age when i was 18 and to this day wished i had so no probs."

Got to admit that some of the women that think I'm too young are hot as f...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh good god, no.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Since my only living parent is 74 I'm unlikely to find anyone that age attractive.

Oldest I meet is 59 and youngest 35.

Reasons- better conversation, more skilled, they listen, they don't usually still live with their parents or in a bed sit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a 19 year old.....but I would draw the line at 18....that's way too young lol!

In actuality, for me it's about the person. I see age as just a number.

How many of us have passed the big 40 but inside we still see ourselves as much younger in our outlook and behaviour?

I've met very immature 30+ even 40+. Friday night...a very mature 25 yr old and will be seeing her again on Sunday as we really seemed to click.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This possibly makes me a hypocrite but I would not feel comfortable playing with someone under 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 23 and a lot of people think I'm too young for them on here but others don't mind

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

I won't touch anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parent. Though I'm not attracted to older men anyway. No way would I consider for a second meeting an 18 year old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have age ranges. Most of us start at 18 and ending on our preferences. But would anyone here really meet an 18year old?

I'm 50:50 on the matter

I met a 19 year old. He was so mature for his age. Had plenty of muture conversations with him unlike some older guys I've spoken with. He was actually better in bed then a 40 year old I met. Go figure "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably would if they looked and acted mature, hubby wouldnt but then he's got nearly 10 years on me and in 10 years time I might think that's too big an age gap too.

As we play as a couple we've made our age ranges mid way between our personal preferences.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met an 18 yr old bi guy, and had a rather fabulous mmf with him.

Would we do it again? Yes we would

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Probably not. But if I did I would ID them first. Was chatting to a supposed 18 year old once. Was confused why he got excited about GCSE results day.... Just because they are on a site like this doesn't mean they are the age they say they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not. But if I did I would ID them first. Was chatting to a supposed 18 year old once. Was confused why he got excited about GCSE results day.... Just because they are on a site like this doesn't mean they are the age they say they are"

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Probably not. But if I did I would ID them first. Was chatting to a supposed 18 year old once. Was confused why he got excited about GCSE results day.... Just because they are on a site like this doesn't mean they are the age they say they are

"

I know! But then it is the same in nightclubs these days too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If Id yes when I am older no not a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh definitely I can't see why it wouldn't be some thing to b proud of

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Most" of us?

Really?

Are you sure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some would some wouldn't...personally we wouldn't

Harry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a 19 year old.....but I would draw the line at 18....that's way too young lol!

In actuality, for me it's about the person. I see age as just a number.

How many of us have passed the big 40 but inside we still see ourselves as much younger in our outlook and behaviour?

I've met very immature 30+ even 40+. Friday night...a very mature 25 yr old and will be seeing her again on Sunday as we really seemed to click."

i have to admit i don't really feel my age, i dont feel any different inside to when i was in my 20s but the thing is i'm not and to be hanging out with people much younger than myself because i feel more their age than that of a middle aged woman, which at the end of the day is what i am, screams mid life crisis

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"i have to admit i don't really feel my age, i dont feel any different inside to when i was in my 20s but the thing is i'm not and to be hanging out with people much younger than myself because i feel more their age than that of a middle aged woman, which at the end of the day is what i am, screams mid life crisis "

I don't really feel different to when I was much younger.

Then I spend time with/in the vicinity of 18-20something year olds and realise the gulf between most of them and me is vast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would any of you meet a 23yr old lol

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We wouldn't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined the site when I was 19 and I was always told I acted beyond my years. I think it just depends on the individual and on whether they can hold a conversation and be great fun in bed. I also think generally there is a big difference between an 18 year old girl and an 18 year old boy.

With that all said i'm 21 and I don't meet guys who are under 24

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Also maturity is subjection, one person's idea of nature may not be another persons"

You're right about that. My point was how are you going to know if I or any other young guy has interest in topics you like if you don't consider them or allow them to talk to you?

Seriously

May as well cut the crap

If I met a 18 year old guy or somebody around that age I'd feel like a pervy, dirty old woman

Not a feeling I'd find attractive

So though there are other factors to why I wouldn't meet them if I'm honest that's the main one "

Thinking about it, I would do too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah I would meet an 18 yr old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it even makes me feel uncomfortable when 18 and 19 year olds fab our pictures...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many would meet us though I would imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sure why not,look how energetic and fun they'd be. and if it's done right they'll just come back for more lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U would all meet 21 year olds mind u I no haha kidding!

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By *ust banterMan
over a year ago

bradford

I get overlooked for my age a few times and I'm 24!!

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

No way!

Our rule is that the minimum age of someone we will play with is half our age +7.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't as I have kids older than that .I prefer men my age or older

I hear this a lot and I'm genuinely interested why it's bothers you regarding their age relative to your children?

Honestly, when we think of older couples we don't ever compare their age to our parents... just interested?

Some of us do. I wouldn't meet anyone I could have given birth to or who could be my parent. "

Totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Man.. This thread is depressing for someone near 18 years of age.

I can understand for people that have kids and wouldn't feel comfortable with someone so young. But, I do find it disappointing that some of you just assume outright that a younger person will have no emotional maturity or even be able to keep up a conversation. Missed opportunities in my opinion but each to their own I guess. "

We have enough opportunities to not see the ones we've chosen not to take as missed. I suppose that comes from the maturity that experience has given us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a short-term 'relationship' with a 19yr old student when I was working in her area and I was in my 40's.

We shared similar tastes in music and art, enjoyed good food and wine and she loved the NSA sex (as did I!)

Fair to say we bonded very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as the 'younger woman'wants me fantasy goes, 18 sounds too immature. I couldn't.

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Im 26 and youngest i met was 21 he was inexperienced enough so no wouldnt meet an 18 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sure why not,look how energetic and fun they'd be. and if it's done right they'll just come back for more lol "
Well said lmao

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

In my life I have met young people with far more maturity than many people my age and older! I prefer to keep an open mind so yes I would play with an 18 year old providing she was mature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes..no problem

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We all have age ranges. Most of us start at 18 and ending on our preferences. But would anyone here really meet an 18year old?

I'm 50:50 on the matter"

You're 27 so hardly a giant leap! My dad was 14 years older than my mum and my husband nine years older than me when we met: I was 18!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I wouldn't as I have kids older than that .I prefer men my age or older

I hear this a lot and I'm genuinely interested why it's bothers you regarding their age relative to your children?

Honestly, when we think of older couples we don't ever compare their age to our parents... just interested? "

Actually I do, in the sense of people I don't think I'd be sexually compatible with or have anything in common. Hence I don't meet men young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad.

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate


"God I get embarrassed when someone in there elder 20s message us, I think god you could be my brother

Bet that would shock the hell out of you if your brother did msg you! "
id slap him round the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the person really?

Don't think we would,but if we met socially and they had the maturity and attitude to deal with it then maybe.

Let's face it how many people have met other's in their 20s, 30S,40S who were still very immature and emotionally unstable?

But I do think 18 is too young for us, in that would they fully understand that we are letting them enter our private life and being discreet and respectful?

Not sure tbh.

An 18year old lad would probably use it as bragging rights with mate's

And a female may become obsessed.

We have a 19year old and she moves from one obsession to another.

Most of her mate's the same.

But you can not judge everyone the same.

But think it's a no from us.

It would just not feel right.

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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago

Stokeish...

I started swinging at 18 and had my first threesome, started going to chams at 19- I don't remember ever getting turned down due to my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started swinging at 18 and had my first threesome, started going to chams at 19- I don't remember ever getting turned down due to my age "

I would imagine it's easier for a woman at 18 than a guy.

Let's face it it's the same for women at all age groups.

Even a woman in her 60S is far more likely to get a shag than a guy of same age.

How did you cope emotionally at that 18?

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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago

Stokeish...


"I started swinging at 18 and had my first threesome, started going to chams at 19- I don't remember ever getting turned down due to my age

I would imagine it's easier for a woman at 18 than a guy.

Let's face it it's the same for women at all age groups.

Even a woman in her 60S is far more likely to get a shag than a guy of same age.

How did you cope emotionally at that 18?"

With what? I found it refreshing and liberating to have found a way to explore my sexuality and try new things. I'd ended up cheating on my boyfriend at 18 by finding guys online and having a threesome, I then found a way to explore without hurting anyone. I have no regrets about any of it, even the things I wouldn't repeat, as it means that in my 30's I'm open minded to a range of possibilities when it comes to relationships etc.

I recently blogged about my very first experiences, DM me if you want the link X

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Yes please lovely soft skin,not raced or rallied.

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By *oung_KMan
over a year ago

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Judging by this I have no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can relate to someone, rather than merely objectify them, then there is no reason why it shouldn't happen. All kinds of lovely surprises can result, and should be celebrated.

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