FabSwingers.com forum: Your opinion (bad friend)

By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

So on different occasions I've been told I'm a bad friend I'm uncool. Because I do not let my friends (former friends) use my flat for there fuck pad. I've fallen out with or of guys my age who either still live at home with parents or at their girlfriends house. Today would have made it the fourth friend I've fallen out with because I won't let him use my flat for fuckpad. What's your opinion on this and dudes how do you feel about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick better friends

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

If they are going to fall out with you over something like that, they don't sound like great friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even call them friends. It's your home... they should have more respect x

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

You are an adult right?

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Make sure they replace the beer

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think they might be bad friends for expecting this from you

Stick to your guns.

Miss

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By *ustMe06Woman
over a year ago

...the naughty spot.

Tell them to grow up and get a place of their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick better friends"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck them! It's your place not thiers. They sound like bellends!

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I wouldn't even call them friends. It's your home... they should have more respect x"

Exactly how I feel. If they want to fuck girls. I said there's a good travelogue 5mintue Walk from my flat. Done it once and didn't like. I've fallen out quite a lot and to me it's not right seeing if other men follow suit. To me a home is your place and be respected not just a fuck bad

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Tell them to grow up and get a place of their own. "

Funniest thing this guy just got married 3 weeks ago and lives with his wife and they have a kid on the way. Like it's none of my business what you do but don't involve me in your mess. If you wanna play away from your wife. Go hotel or something don't involve me

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would let a friend use it once

Then they can fuck off

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Ask to use their place and see if they like it... you got your reasons to say no... and so will they..

Btw I wouldnt really call them friends

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

They are not real friends if they only want you for your living space.

It's not respectful to you or your flat.

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Agreeing with the poor friend behaviour.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Bit cheeky if you ask me, they are bad friends for asking then getting moody because you say no

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

They are fake friends!..any decent friend would understand that you do not want this and respect it!..

Do not feel pushed into doing something you don't want to do for the sake of another!

Real friends don't act in such a immature way.

Bambi x

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By *it black guyMan
over a year ago

london

Tell them to go to a hotel for the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) You're 27, what kind of fucking losers are these people that are living at home with parents?

2) You're on a swinging site. If they want to fuck someone at you're house then they should be willing to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them they can use your place if you can join them for an mfm

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Tell them they can use your place if you can join them for an mfm

What gets my goat. One time I actually did ask and they came with the world of excuses LOL said no girl ever wants to do that blah blah. But When I entertain and girl is up for it. I do ask em do they wanna join. They're keen on idea but always seem to flop. Do you guys think there is were I went wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are the bad uncool friends not you. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're shitty friends, OP.

Get some new ones!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's your place and your rules. If they can't respect that, who needs them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake friends - a true friend respects your space

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"They're shitty friends, OP.

Get some new ones!

Why I'm here bold. Seriously have a different mind set to them. I still have my inner child but think I just think a little different from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,how ridiculous,,tell em to fuck off

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Guys your opinions have made a real difference today. Almost made me feel a selfish guy who only looks out for number one. But because my mum is an interior designer she's always taught me about how the home is one, comfort space etc. Reason why I say no to any randoms coming to my house plus I have pictures of my godchildren and nieces and nephews all over my living room. Don't want a complete stranger eyeing them up

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