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"Mmf last night. A friend of mine, returning a favour brought a lovely 25 yr old round to mine for a few hour of no holds barred fun....all good! However; 17 weeks pregnant....I loved it. Would you? Is it ok?" I think people should be able to do what they want with their own bodies. If she was happy with it, and you were happy with it, then go for it My two rules for sexual conduct are 1) Is it consensual? 2) Is it legal? If it passes both of those, then go for it. | |||
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"Mmf last night. A friend of mine, returning a favour brought a lovely 25 yr old round to mine for a few hour of no holds barred fun....all good! However; 17 weeks pregnant....I loved it. Would you? Is it ok? I think people should be able to do what they want with their own bodies. If she was happy with it, and you were happy with it, then go for it My two rules for sexual conduct are 1) Is it consensual? 2) Is it legal? If it passes both of those, then go for it. " I don't disagree with your conclusion, but do dispute your logic. You don't seem to factor in risk or moral hazard. | |||
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"I'd question the mentality young lady who has mmf's during pregnancy just as I'd question yours. An expectant mother that engages in high risk sex during pregnancy isn't just risking her own health but that of her unborn baby" What makes it high risk? | |||
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"Sex with multiple partners you don't know their sexual health history during pregnancy is pretty risky in my opinion. Condoms are never 100% there's always a risk that they are still passing infections and viruses. If all three consenting adults want to play gangbang then fine but a mother must also safeguard the health of her unborn baby and this young lady clearly did not " I wouldn't go as far as "high risk" though. The probability that one of the guys has an STI and that it gets through a condom is not what we would generally call high risk. Personally we'd stick to regular partners where we did know the sexual history though. | |||
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"Personally I wouldn't op! Condom's split and come off inside - relatively regularly in my experience hence I get checked out regularly! An std could easily kill an unborn baby! A friend of mine had very mild food poisoning before giving birth, the baby died at 6 days old! Doesn't take much to kill an unborn/newborn baby!! " Although to be fair, presumably the OP should know if he has an STI to spread in the first place? | |||
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"Personally I wouldn't op! Condom's split and come off inside - relatively regularly in my experience hence I get checked out regularly! An std could easily kill an unborn baby! A friend of mine had very mild food poisoning before giving birth, the baby died at 6 days old! Doesn't take much to kill an unborn/newborn baby!! Although to be fair, presumably the OP should know if he has an STI to spread in the first place? " Not everyone does straight away? And his friend may not know either! Just playing devils advocate. I like the op! He's a sound guy! Cx | |||
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"Personally I wouldn't op! Condom's split and come off inside - relatively regularly in my experience hence I get checked out regularly! An std could easily kill an unborn baby! A friend of mine had very mild food poisoning before giving birth, the baby died at 6 days old! Doesn't take much to kill an unborn/newborn baby!! Although to be fair, presumably the OP should know if he has an STI to spread in the first place? Not everyone does straight away? And his friend may not know either! Just playing devils advocate. I like the op! He's a sound guy! Cx" So was I I took the question to mean "is it (morally) ok for the OP" to engage his cock with the aforementioned fanny. OP should know the probability he has an STD and the probability the condom wouldn't stop it. Multiply those figures together and then set your benchmark for moral behaviour! If it's less than 2% then I'd say he's on relatively safe ground. | |||
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"I don't get how women want to have sex with a stranger when she's pregnant and likewise how men want to have sex with a random pregnant woman with a baby in her belly. " I could answer one of those... | |||
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"Personally I wouldn't op! Condom's split and come off inside - relatively regularly in my experience hence I get checked out regularly! An std could easily kill an unborn baby! A friend of mine had very mild food poisoning before giving birth, the baby died at 6 days old! Doesn't take much to kill an unborn/newborn baby!! Although to be fair, presumably the OP should know if he has an STI to spread in the first place? Not everyone does straight away? And his friend may not know either! Just playing devils advocate. I like the op! He's a sound guy! Cx" Yes a few STIs don't present symptoms until you've had them for 3 months and you're still contagious during that time. Genital warts is a good example of that and it's one that a condom can't protect you from. A pregnant lady is more suspect able to it due to her weakened immune system and can't receive treatment for it until at least 6 weeks after the birth. In natural labour in could be transferred to the baby during the labouring process and the newborn then can't be treated until it's 12 weeks old. You also always then carry that strain of the HPV virus and if you come into sexual contact with another unknown carrier it can flare up again This also isn't a dig at the OP if all parties were in agreement that's their choice to make (though it's not one is make personally) I was merely providing a little education | |||
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"I don't get how women want to have sex with a stranger when she's pregnant and likewise how men want to have sex with a random pregnant woman with a baby in her belly. " Same. | |||
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