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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales

As per title really & yes we know it will be different for everyone but we also know there are quite a few on here with regular fwb's etc.

So every week?, few weeks?, once a month? all of them

If we were your only meet (not down to us) & said we could meet once a month, is that enough?

Just wondering as someone (from elsewhere) said every few days!

Cheers all

x

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you have said once a week Every couple of weeks, Once a month, I suppose it all depends on how much you both want to meet work/social life etc

Every few days is regular but the excitement/thrill might wear off after a few weeks of meeting like that,

12 times a year is regular to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every week would be regular to me, or more times than that.

most men would rather look for more women to fuck then have regular meets i feel.

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"As per title really & yes we know it will be different for everyone but we also know there are quite a few on here with regular fwb's etc.

So every week?, few weeks?, once a month? all of them

If we were your only meet (not down to us) & said we could meet once a month, is that enough?

Just wondering as someone (from elsewhere) said every few days!

Cheers all

x

S"

Once a month would be regular enough for me and what I'm seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is just a label. using the dictionary definition regular could just mean at a predictable interval, like people have their birthdays regularly - that is something that reoccurs at uniform intervals

What you're on about is frequency. Like most labels regular means so many different things to so many people. Best to just ask how many times a year someone goes somewhere.

When I'm in clubs I sometimes use the cheesy chat up line of "do you come here often?" that can make or break or conversation.

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


"As per title really & yes we know it will be different for everyone but we also know there are quite a few on here with regular fwb's etc.

So every week?, few weeks?, once a month? all of them

If we were your only meet (not down to us) & said we could meet once a month, is that enough?

Just wondering as someone (from elsewhere) said every few days!

Cheers all

x

S

Once a month would be regular enough for me and what I'm seeking "

Thats what we are looking for too, That's why we don't mind so much doing a bit of travelling tbh..Pretty sure we have realised what we want is not available from most on here but we'll persevere for a while longer and live in hope & may just hang around for the forum after we find it or just shrugg our shoulders

x

S

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It's a mathematical conundrum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As often as both of you can commit too

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Regular fb, not playing with anyone else I'd say once a week but once or twice a month would suit me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We consider every couple of months regular. But happy with more frequent if life allows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every Tuesday and Thursday at 2 and 6, and don't be late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's anything from 2-3 times a month to 4-5 times a year. I have long term friends I only see once or twice a year.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Meeting cpls/fem friends weekly, fortnightly, monthly on their free for fun days/nights I consider regular.

Anything beyond a month that's out've the blue/last min I consider occasional.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

It is usually every two or three weeks depending on situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a week would keep me ticking over, but with past FWB's we managed twice a month and that was fine.

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Every Tuesday and Thursday at 2 and 6, and don't be late "

Done

S&H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me & my old fb when I was single met like every day nearly or a few times a wk. think he must have just been lucky lol

Lou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice a month seems about right. Especially if you are mingling elsewhere in clubs etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on what life is throwing about - can be twice a week - can be once a month -

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales

Thanks everyone, we think one person once every 3or4 weeks would be fine for us.

Obviously although we would probably be exclusive to them we would obviously not expect the same from them that would be stupid..

Oh well, we'll just keep looking I suppose but I seriously was saddened at the number of lovely ladies on here not getting any attention but if you don't fit you don't fit I guess..

S

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

I've got 2 Regular FBs ( Not from Fabs)

One of them I see 3 times a week, the other I see 2 times a month.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"every week would be regular to me, or more times than that.

most men would rather look for more women to fuck then have regular meets i feel."

I agree

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

I have a couple i see most weeks or often twice a week. And a lady i see every few weeks when i were both free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"every week would be regular to me, or more times than that.

most men would rather look for more women to fuck then have regular meets i feel.

I agree "

I dunno,most men I've met from here I saw more than once or they wanted to see me again. I was seeing one man for a couple of years on and off.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I saw a guy for 18 months and thought I'd found a FWB easily.

Not found the same since

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've got friends I see every few months but it's the weekly-ish thing I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw a guy for 18 months and thought I'd found a FWB easily.

Not found the same since "

Mine was for 8 months. Can't seem to find a similar thing again. i didn't meet him on fab though so maybe I am looking in the wrong place lol

I personally think twice a month is enough to be classed as 'regular'

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I saw a guy for 18 months and thought I'd found a FWB easily.

Not found the same since

Mine was for 8 months. Can't seem to find a similar thing again. i didn't meet him on fab though so maybe I am looking in the wrong place lol

I personally think twice a month is enough to be classed as 'regular' "

I met mine on Fab. I need a crew of them so there's at least one a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw a guy for 18 months and thought I'd found a FWB easily.

Not found the same since

Mine was for 8 months. Can't seem to find a similar thing again. i didn't meet him on fab though so maybe I am looking in the wrong place lol

I personally think twice a month is enough to be classed as 'regular'

I met mine on Fab. I need a crew of them so there's at least one a week "

I can't keep track :/ best to stick to one for me ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"every week would be regular to me, or more times than that.

most men would rather look for more women to fuck then have regular meets i feel.

I agree

I dunno,most men I've met from here I saw more than once or they wanted to see me again. I was seeing one man for a couple of years on and off. "

same here but i do feel that most men are not here to look for something regular, they wanna fuck the whole site and when that doesn't happen they settle for regualr meets.

i mean some genuinely will want soeone regular, and even those settling will enjoy regular, but i honestly fell most guys wanna feel like a 'stud' with a harem of women they keep adding to.

it's why the phrase 'quality not quantity' came about... to make them look not sad or anything when they never became the studs they wanted to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As per title really & yes we know it will be different for everyone but we also know there are quite a few on here with regular fwb's etc.

So every week?, few weeks?, once a month? all of them

If we were your only meet (not down to us) & said we could meet once a month, is that enough?

Just wondering as someone (from elsewhere) said every few days!

Cheers all

x

S"

We go from not seeing eachother for a couple of weeks to 3 times in a week

It's all about working it around real life xx

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