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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having read some of the various thread's i see that there is a mixed opinion regarding cock/vagina pic's as either a main pic or even a public pic at all,

Each to there own and everyone is entitled to there own preference's etc,

I'm still fairly new on here so,

I guess the green flag mean's the profile holder is real and the person in there pic's etc and that the green tick is what other's have to say about them ?

With that there is various profiles with flags but no tick's and some with tick's but no flag's,

I'm wondering if any women with green flag's would at all be interested in me sending them a pic of my cock along with a face pic rather me have it as a main pic or even on my public pics at all ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd rather it was in public pics myself, then i can look at it when i feel like it and not have it sent to me in a first message.

everyone will be different though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes i thought that everyone may be different in there opinion's.

I thought maybe this way for myself would maybe be best.

No problem though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The green flag means photo verified. They sent a pic of themselves with their profile name on to Admin.

The green tick means another site member verified them via meeting in person or by seeing them on cam.

Neither of these 100% proves the person in the profile is what they claim to be. Female profiles could still be a man.

Not entirely sure what this has got to do with you sending cock pics to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run your profile in the way that you feel comfortable.

Your profile represents you so how it looks helps others find the type of person they're interested in.

If we all followed a set of rules and guidelines then we'd never be able to find the type of person and personality we were looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most would prefer not to have the cock pic at all. Always send a face pic of you are looking to get a conversation going with the intention of a meet in mind, although this will never guarantee a message back not a face pic in return.

Welcome to fab and good luck

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

A lot of women dislike being sent cock pics or seeing one as an avatar because it feels like it's being shoved in their face. Also your avatar is the first thing she sees and if it's of a cock she may feel that either that's all you have to offer or that it's all that you think with.

Most women on here aren't shy and if they want to see it in a message they will Probably ask.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh that is a tad confusing as i thought that the verified photo had to ahve a certain thing wrote on that is unique to that profile and the person in control of it ?

How on earth is that able to be fixed and faked ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Run your profile in the way that you feel comfortable.

Your profile represents you so how it looks helps others find the type of person they're interested in.

If we all followed a set of rules and guidelines then we'd never be able to find the type of person and personality we were looking for. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh that is a tad confusing as i thought that the verified photo had to ahve a certain thing wrote on that is unique to that profile and the person in control of it ?

How on earth is that able to be fixed and faked ?"

Photo editing software.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahh that is a tad confusing as i thought that the verified photo had to ahve a certain thing wrote on that is unique to that profile and the person in control of it ?

How on earth is that able to be fixed and faked ?

Photo editing software. "

Surely editing software cannot be that good ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot bare the way a man assumes that I need to see a cock pic to help me decide if I'm interested. They don't know, yet they just assume. Why??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll come back when I've had more coffee as not a word of the OP made sense.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll come back when I've had more coffee as not a word of the OP made sense....."

Already half way down my second cup

i can only say i am ever so sorry for confusing you and hope that you dont take any offence by my confusing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll come back when I've had more coffee as not a word of the OP made sense.....

Already half way down my second cup

i can only say i am ever so sorry for confusing you and hope that you dont take any offence by my confusing you "

It takes a hell of a lot to offend me....my old brain matter takes a while to get going these days....i need to give the hamsters a kick up the backside

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I cannot bare the way a man assumes that I need to see a cock pic to help me decide if I'm interested. They don't know, yet they just assume. Why?? "

I guess there will be some that do assume you would like to see there cock and others that assume that you might and those that assume you dont and also those that wouldnt want to also

i gather this site is full of mixed opinions and preferences regarding either scenario, it is a huge learning curve for me also and im also as baffled as you any advice you can offer would be greatly appreciated to help me on my way to success

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll come back when I've had more coffee as not a word of the OP made sense.....

Already half way down my second cup

i can only say i am ever so sorry for confusing you and hope that you dont take any offence by my confusing you

It takes a hell of a lot to offend me....my old brain matter takes a while to get going these days....i need to give the hamsters a kick up the backside "

Surely violence is not the answer when you could maybe just offer the hamsters coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot bare the way a man assumes that I need to see a cock pic to help me decide if I'm interested. They don't know, yet they just assume. Why?? "

If we gets cock pic sent without asking then it usually means delete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot bare the way a man assumes that I need to see a cock pic to help me decide if I'm interested. They don't know, yet they just assume. Why??

I guess there will be some that do assume you would like to see there cock and others that assume that you might and those that assume you dont and also those that wouldnt want to also

i gather this site is full of mixed opinions and preferences regarding either scenario, it is a huge learning curve for me also and im also as baffled as you any advice you can offer would be greatly appreciated to help me on my way to success "

You have to decide what you're looking for and then behave appropriately.

How you behave, is entirely up to you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I cannot bare the way a man assumes that I need to see a cock pic to help me decide if I'm interested. They don't know, yet they just assume. Why??

I guess there will be some that do assume you would like to see there cock and others that assume that you might and those that assume you dont and also those that wouldnt want to also

i gather this site is full of mixed opinions and preferences regarding either scenario, it is a huge learning curve for me also and im also as baffled as you any advice you can offer would be greatly appreciated to help me on my way to success

You have to decide what you're looking for and then behave appropriately.

How you behave, is entirely up to you! "

I have no intentions of sending any pics of any nature other than a face pic that has not been requested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab isn't that much different from any other social interaction. There's usually an increase of interaction over a period of time. You don't go to a dinner party with your cock hanging out, why would you here?

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"You don't go to a dinner party with your cock hanging out, why would you here? "

So one could offer to stir the drinks??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot bare the way a man assumes that I need to see a cock pic to help me decide if I'm interested. They don't know, yet they just assume. Why??

I guess there will be some that do assume you would like to see there cock and others that assume that you might and those that assume you dont and also those that wouldnt want to also

i gather this site is full of mixed opinions and preferences regarding either scenario, it is a huge learning curve for me also and im also as baffled as you any advice you can offer would be greatly appreciated to help me on my way to success "

Well those that assume all women require a cock pic attached to first message are seriously misguided.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I cannot bare the way a man assumes that I need to see a cock pic to help me decide if I'm interested. They don't know, yet they just assume. Why??

I guess there will be some that do assume you would like to see there cock and others that assume that you might and those that assume you dont and also those that wouldnt want to also

i gather this site is full of mixed opinions and preferences regarding either scenario, it is a huge learning curve for me also and im also as baffled as you any advice you can offer would be greatly appreciated to help me on my way to success

Well those that assume all women require a cock pic attached to first message are seriously misguided. "

Im sure those reading that do assume are greatful for your advice to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love looking at a womans naked body as im sure all staright blokes do ?

when i do look at a womans body i scan her like an mri machine every inch of her body and imagine what she may feel like around my cock, i would have maybe thought some women do the same whilst looking at a cock/body pic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh that is a tad confusing as i thought that the verified photo had to ahve a certain thing wrote on that is unique to that profile and the person in control of it ?

How on earth is that able to be fixed and faked ?

Photo editing software.

Surely editing software cannot be that good ?"

OP have you not seen forrest gump? if that can be done with moving pictures imagine what can be achieved 2 decades later with a still pic.

Even meet verifications could be faked by the determined. Unfortunately the bridge between a virtual world and the real one is a strange pathway.

However, back to your what pics to send, read the profile for clues, but it's safe to assume that on initial contact, most would assume a male to possess a cock, and many women are more interested in the driver of said appendage, and only wish to see it after initial contact has been established.

But it is your profile, do as you wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think fab isn't that much different from any other social interaction. There's usually an increase of interaction over a period of time. You don't go to a dinner party with your cock hanging out, why would you here? "

Ha ha well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think fab isn't that much different from any other social interaction. There's usually an increase of interaction over a period of time. You don't go to a dinner party with your cock hanging out, why would you here? "

Depends on the dinner party...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think fab isn't that much different from any other social interaction. There's usually an increase of interaction over a period of time. You don't go to a dinner party with your cock hanging out, why would you here?

Ha ha well said! "

I think fab is very different to other social interaction . It's a swinging site where there are still plenty of people who meet up and have NSA sexual hook ups . So bearing that in mind , a cock pic is a relevant part of the compatibility factor for some .

And since we would have absolutely no intention of arranging a dinner party through fab , having my cock hanging out when I arrive is very unlikely .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm thinking about penis enlargement as I'm not to sure about wether or not I'm entirely satisfied with its size, I was also maybe hoping for a bit of mixed opinions, but seeing as no one really seems interested in cock I guess I'm stuck in a bit of a rut so to speak

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley


"I love looking at a womans naked body as im sure all staright blokes do ?

when i do look at a womans body i scan her like an mri machine every inch of her body and imagine what she may feel like around my cock, i would have maybe thought some women do the same whilst looking at a cock/body pic ?"

Men are more visual creatures than women as a rule. I think most women (not all obviously) are not aroused by cock pics.

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I love looking at a womans naked body as im sure all staright blokes do ?

when i do look at a womans body i scan her like an mri machine every inch of her body and imagine what she may feel like around my cock, i would have maybe thought some women do the same whilst looking at a cock/body pic ?

Men are more visual creatures than women as a rule. I think most women (not all obviously) are not aroused by cock pics. "

So if men are visual does that make women more mental. I wouldn't argue that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love looking at a womans naked body as im sure all staright blokes do ?

when i do look at a womans body i scan her like an mri machine every inch of her body and imagine what she may feel like around my cock, i would have maybe thought some women do the same whilst looking at a cock/body pic ?

Men are more visual creatures than women as a rule. I think most women (not all obviously) are not aroused by cock pics.

So if men are visual does that make women more mental. I wouldn't argue that! "

I think women do respond more to mental stimulation, whereas men are happy with an image to get them aroused. However, women are visual, but in a different way. I think women are more artistic and more holistic when it comes to pictures. A disembodied picture of a penis is neither, and that's probably why so many women find those images distasteful. But men seem to like a picture to be close up and obvious, leaving nothing to the imagination. I came to that conclusion the other day when my close-up boob picture achieved considerably more Fabs that the more artistic full body pics showing the same pair of boobs. Men I guess like to see the sexual body part. Women like to see the person. I don't think women would object so much to cock pics if they were presented as part of the man in an attractive manner. Fundamentally I do believe women have a more holistic approach to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love looking at a womans naked body as im sure all staright blokes do ?

when i do look at a womans body i scan her like an mri machine every inch of her body and imagine what she may feel like around my cock, i would have maybe thought some women do the same whilst looking at a cock/body pic ?

Men are more visual creatures than women as a rule. I think most women (not all obviously) are not aroused by cock pics.

So if men are visual does that make women more mental. I wouldn't argue that!

I think women do respond more to mental stimulation, whereas men are happy with an image to get them aroused. However, women are visual, but in a different way. I think women are more artistic and more holistic when it comes to pictures. A disembodied picture of a penis is neither, and that's probably why so many women find those images distasteful. But men seem to like a picture to be close up and obvious, leaving nothing to the imagination. I came to that conclusion the other day when my close-up boob picture achieved considerably more Fabs that the more artistic full body pics showing the same pair of boobs. Men I guess like to see the sexual body part. Women like to see the person. I don't think women would object so much to cock pics if they were presented as part of the man in an attractive manner. Fundamentally I do believe women have a more holistic approach to sex."

Yes a cock attached to a body is usually preferable, rather than just an in your face cock!!

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