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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it's a fantasy gone too far?

Can't say I understand the reasoning as why anyone would arrange to meet and not show.

Are you sure it's their house/hotel room they have given you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They say so with full details. Talk on phone even when your outside then say someone else has just turned up or some other rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a bird in Churchill's York...I went the wine bar opposite then booked in and had a amazing time.. think it depends on who ya fucking around with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah suppose so. We've had some amazing meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"

I seriously don't have an answer. Only they do. But it is so damn disrespectful. Totally messing somebody around is wrong.

I hope it's flowers and a big apology next time you meet or speak. Even if there is no hope of anything in the future, there needs to be a reason and an apology.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No apology no flowers so blocked em lol. Maybe fantasists !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive lost count on how many times ive had a not show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No apology no flowers so blocked em lol. Maybe fantasists !!!!!"

Maybe you're too scary

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

In all the years I have been here, only ever had 2 no shows. First one bottled it (apologised and I did eventually meet him), the other one crashed his car whilst texting me to say he was running late....

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

Reverse happened to me a few times. Travel all the way out, couple is not here. I send the messages which they read. And they don't reply. I want to report them on fab as no shows. They block me so I can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"

You are so sexy it's their loss, why wouldn't they want to fuck you your stunning

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

By the way op. I can't believe someone would turn you two down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No apology no flowers so blocked em lol. Maybe fantasists !!!!!"

Fantasists, sounds like somebody just missed out on a great time with you guys. The idiot.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Ive lost count on how many times ive had a not show. "

Errm this isn't the joke thread that's over that way a bit.

You were joking right?

S

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

OP it'll be the little cocks, probably sent you a pic of someone else's..

S

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche


"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"

I think they are intimidated.

To be fair, you are pretty stunning. You both are!

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

This is what happens when you go for hot looking guys with no substance or game !

People would be mad to not show up if they got a meet with this fantastic looking couple!

. . If it looks too good to be true. . Then it usually is.

Average guys always show up from my experience. Guys with 6 packs are flaky as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me a few times. I just laugh as its easy to get another hot meet and theyve missed out on probably the filthiest fuck theyll get.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

This old chestnut ..

if it's happening a lot to you it's your selection process that's failing you ..

In the five years I've been here I've only had a couple of cancellations we rearranged. Never had a no show.

Block report move on.

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By *ita7Man
over a year ago

Kettering

You have had no shows with a body like yours! Must just be walkers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive lost count on how many times ive had a not show. "

Yeah same here! Try to have a 'plan B' for when they let you down at the last minute or simply don't show - but not always possible! X

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"

I have never had that happen to me -but then am single guy - so am meeting couples who on the whole are not timewaster S

Can't imagine anything more irritating

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"This old chestnut ..

if it's happening a lot to you it's your selection process that's failing you ..

In the five years I've been here I've only had a couple of cancellations we rearranged. Never had a no show.

Block report move on. "

At last. .someone dabbling with honesty.

Peoples selection process stinks !

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"This old chestnut ..

if it's happening a lot to you it's your selection process that's failing you ..

In the five years I've been here I've only had a couple of cancellations we rearranged. Never had a no show.

Block report move on. "

stop talking sense and get with the white knighting!!!!

i've always said that if the common denominator in the cases is you.... then the problem is you!!!

if there is a problem... fix it!!! processes... change it!!!

whether that is questions asked... or answers given... or just generally slowing the whole lot down.... change it!!!

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"This old chestnut ..

if it's happening a lot to you it's your selection process that's failing you ..

In the five years I've been here I've only had a couple of cancellations we rearranged. Never had a no show.

Block report move on.

stop talking sense and get with the white knighting!!!!

i've always said that if the common denominator in the cases is you.... then the problem is you!!!

if there is a problem... fix it!!! processes... change it!!!

whether that is questions asked... or answers given... or just generally slowing the whole lot down.... change it!!!"

I would love to see a 'white Knight' award handed out.

Those guys will at least have something to work for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"

Think for some folks its just the thrill of the Chase! If did meet probably have a heart attack from excitement or wldnt know what to do lol anyway their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"

Demanding a cock shot whilst not sending a face pic in return is a bit pants. Sure you might have great bodies but if your faces aren't brill I'd be somewhat disappointed.

I've also had many single women/ couples let me down so it happens to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ooh maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Responding to guys with six packs being flaky that's not the ones We go for normal guys. Must say like a big cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not happening a lot but has happened. Think they're offering big cock but haven't got it and bottle it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"

If I had the chance to get my hands on your other half I certainly would miss the opportunity, she is one hell of a sexy woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!

If I had the chance to get my hands on your other half I certainly would miss the opportunity, she is one hell of a sexy woman "

Don't you mean wouldn't miss the opportunity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!

If I had the chance to get my hands on your other half I certainly would miss the opportunity, she is one hell of a sexy woman

Don't you mean wouldn't miss the opportunity? "

Yeah lol I wouldn't miss

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By *appychap20000Man
over a year ago

cannock

I was 500 yards away from meeting a couple and on the phone with the gentleman when he hung up and blocked me.

I would never make an excuse to cancel a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ops.....sorry sent this "private" instead of here ....apologies ........

join the club lol ......I had that several times over the years and its so frustrating after you exchange details, chat maybe and go that next step to meet then .....off they run scared........

Now that's all ok if when you turn up and spot the person your meeting in the distance and either they are "not" the person/look like the person you been chatting to, or worse you know them lol

I would guess this is more a man issue as a women or couple being let down, is rare

Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All I'm saying is if meet arranged then turn up or don't arrange the meet. Plenty more fish in the sea

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"All I'm saying is if meet arranged then turn up or don't arrange the meet. Plenty more fish in the sea "

God damnnnnnnnnnn

I need a drip tray for the drool your profile picture produces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP they sound like absolute mongrels if they had the chance to meet you guys and fluffed it

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

In 8 years I've never had a no show for a social or full on pull the blinds meet as a male looking for a fern .

but when I played with a slut sub organizing her fun we had lots of no shows from guys who were all mouth no action .

The moral is this women playing in the sex meets world on the whole have more balls when it comes to meets than your average guy who play in this sex meet world does .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP have you considered it might be your selection process? I've only ever had 1 no show in over 4 years - and that was recently from a regular meet who did give a pretty solid reason why he couldn't come. I can spot timewasters early on so they never get as far arranging anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could be. We've not been on here a year. Just so many people saying this. Don't get me wrong it's only happened 3 times. All our other meets are successful doing the exact same thing. Oh well

We move on very fast lol

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"What's wrong with men when you arrange meet on the phone then turn up to hotel or house (it's happened both situations) they hide!!!!! When you ring tell them your outside they make an excuse- why even answer phone. Embarrassing !!!!"

You're just picking the wrong guys.

How do I know this? Simples, your not picking me.

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By *immerframes R usCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

Definitely their loss, sorry just had to see for myself, a very sexy couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're arranging to meet the wrong ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think it's more they're fake or scared rather than its my fault. All the other meets turn up and all arranged in exact same way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a reserves list for the no shows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to meet a guy at a hotel and i was in the wrong one,i knocked the door and a voice said rather sternly ,who is that lol turns out there were two hotels with the same name and he was thirty miles away didnt explain himself very well and i didnt meet him either,probaly a wind up.as he knew i was in bristol

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Think it's more they're fake or scared rather than its my fault. All the other meets turn up and all arranged in exact same way

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Joking aside, I think you're probably right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The women always turn up they're a lot easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you message txt ring and talk on phone Skype and everything then can't be my fault that they don't turn up (hubby sorts it all) we arrived at one place and rang and the guy said someone else had turned up and they were shy so couldn't answer door. We'd spoken with him 20 mins before

So all the guys that say it must be us please put blame where it belongs-them

Anyway a happy fabbing guys we are off out

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Reverse happened to me a few times. Travel all the way out, couple is not here. I send the messages which they read. And they don't reply. I want to report them on fab as no shows. They block me so I can't"

You can still report blocked profiles, the button is there on the left of their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me fortunately but thoroughly understand the frustrations. Very sorry to hear

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Never had a no show but have had people cancel last min, kinda get a feel for it tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never happened to me fortunately but thoroughly understand the frustrations. Very sorry to hear"

Thanks. Ur lucky

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Think it's more they're fake or scared rather than its my fault. All the other meets turn up and all arranged in exact same way

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If your selection process is working continue to use it, on the few occasions it's failed as you've had no shows or wasted journeys... learn from them and refine your process your bs radar will get better at detecting the more it's used.. ..

Have fun.. it's why we're all here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single women do it too.... (real ones lol)...

One chance then bye bye no matter how hot you are....

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