FabSwingers.com forum: Reclaiming

By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

As single guy who plays with couples - noticed something called reclaiming - ie when a lovely lady plays with a guy not her hubby - hubby "reclaims" her sexually.

Have noticed similar with Hotwife I used to play with one on one (with hubby blessing). After playing with me (or when of her other lovers), hubby used to almost rip her clothes off the moment she got thru the door - she said it was the most intense sex they had - after she met one her lovers

Likewise, when I play with couples, notice more often than not - after I am spent, hubby will make sure his cock is the last one between his lovely wives legs - sort of marking his territory.

Wondered if this is my overactive imagination or something others can relate to

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Yes I can confirm this

But the massive excitement of the 'Reclaiming' when Wifey gets home usually means I don't last long the first time. But then she'll talk me through her meet and we go again and I do a much better job

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"Yes I can confirm this

But the massive excitement of the 'Reclaiming' when Wifey gets home usually means I don't last long the first time. But then she'll talk me through her meet and we go again and I do a much better job

Wow - glad you indulge in reclaiming. Guess it's sort of marking your territory and evolutionary. It's was very horny playing with knowing after she left me - hubby would be parting her legs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can confirm this is true and it has its reasons routed deep in evolutionary psychology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of the best parts of playing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love doing this when either or both of us have met others.

It's hhhot!

V x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd have to plant a little flag for them and then announce that that they have reclaimed this foofoo and then shake hands with all present.*

*This is the reason I seldom get invited back to places

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

I can confirm this is true and it has its reasons routed deep in evolutionary psychology "

Yes - makes a lot of sense - from evolutionary perspective - the lady has strayed and ths husband has to ensure his "sperm" "wins out"

Guess that what makes it so horny - that we can over-ride and enjoy that evolutionary urge

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over a year ago

I can confirm this is true and it has its reasons routed deep in evolutionary psychology

Yes - makes a lot of sense - from evolutionary perspective - the lady has strayed and ths husband has to ensure his "sperm" "wins out"

Guess that what makes it so horny - that we can over-ride and enjoy that evolutionary urge"

Yes that's it. Your dick is shaped like a plunger for a reason

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

I can confirm this is true and it has its reasons routed deep in evolutionary psychology

Yes - makes a lot of sense - from evolutionary perspective - the lady has strayed and ths husband has to ensure his "sperm" "wins out"

Guess that what makes it so horny - that we can over-ride and enjoy that evolutionary urge

Yes that's it. Your dick is shaped like a plunger for a reason

And now I know - it's to beat the other guys sperm!! Presumably you enjoy reclaiming each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can confirm this is true and it has its reasons routed deep in evolutionary psychology

Yes - makes a lot of sense - from evolutionary perspective - the lady has strayed and ths husband has to ensure his "sperm" "wins out"

Guess that what makes it so horny - that we can over-ride and enjoy that evolutionary urge

Yes that's it. Your dick is shaped like a plunger for a reason

And now I know - it's to beat the other guys sperm!! Presumably you enjoy reclaiming each other?"

Indeed.

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"We both love doing this when either or both of us have met others.

It's hhhot!

V x"

Glad to hear - sounds intense fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I can confirm this

But the massive excitement of the 'Reclaiming' when Wifey gets home usually means I don't last long the first time. But then she'll talk me through her meet and we go again and I do a much better job

Wow - glad you indulge in reclaiming. Guess it's sort of marking your territory and evolutionary. It's was very horny playing with knowing after she left me - hubby would be parting her legs..."

It's nice when a single guys understands this. Once he's cum and his dicks has gone limp then he needs to fuck off home because it's our time!

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"Yes I can confirm this

But the massive excitement of the 'Reclaiming' when Wifey gets home usually means I don't last long the first time. But then she'll talk me through her meet and we go again and I do a much better job

Wow - glad you indulge in reclaiming. Guess it's sort of marking your territory and evolutionary. It's was very horny playing with knowing after she left me - hubby would be parting her legs...

It's nice when a single guys understands this. Once he's cum and his dicks has gone limp then he needs to fuck off home because it's our time! "

Ha - strongly put. I used to think after I had played with the wife, the couple would want me to stick around. But I quickly realised - as you said - it's about hubby and Hotwife having some intense "reclaiming"sex for which they don't need me around. Now, I understand which I is why I do leave them to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me i want the guy to have to compete for me, like he knows if i find someone better than him i might leave him (even though it's only sex).

i'm not competitive myself, it's more about humiliating him into realising that i am looking for someone better so he's got to make some effort for me. i need someone to make a effort for me and not get blase about what we have together.

although mostly i do want him to feel comfortable in a relationship with me but never take me for granted. coz i am dead chill and calm so guys tend to get comfortable with me.

so there is some head games to what i want, to keep him on his toes.

it's also why i don't wanna share him coz i actually do not take people for granted and treasure them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for me i want the guy to have to compete for me, like he knows if i find someone better than him i might leave him (even though it's only sex).

although mostly i do want him to feel comfortable in a relationship with me but never take me for granted. coz i am dead chill and calm so guys tend to get comfortable with me.

so there is some head games to what i want, to keep him on his toes.

it's also why i don't wanna share him coz i actually do not take people for granted and treasure them."

Sounds a lot like evidence in support of the mate-switch hypothesis: www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/women-are-genetically-programmed-to-have-affairs-evolution-university-texas-scientists-suggest-a7203501.html%3famp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I can confirm this

But the massive excitement of the 'Reclaiming' when Wifey gets home usually means I don't last long the first time. But then she'll talk me through her meet and we go again and I do a much better job

Wow - glad you indulge in reclaiming. Guess it's sort of marking your territory and evolutionary. It's was very horny playing with knowing after she left me - hubby would be parting her legs...

It's nice when a single guys understands this. Once he's cum and his dicks has gone limp then he needs to fuck off home because it's our time!

We have a single guy who seems to implicitly understand this. We offer him a drink on the way in, but not on the way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I can confirm this

But the massive excitement of the 'Reclaiming' when Wifey gets home usually means I don't last long the first time. But then she'll talk me through her meet and we go again and I do a much better job

Wow - glad you indulge in reclaiming. Guess it's sort of marking your territory and evolutionary. It's was very horny playing with knowing after she left me - hubby would be parting her legs...

It's nice when a single guys understands this. Once he's cum and his dicks has gone limp then he needs to fuck off home because it's our time! "

That's a bit like treating them like a sex toy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I can confirm this

But the massive excitement of the 'Reclaiming' when Wifey gets home usually means I don't last long the first time. But then she'll talk me through her meet and we go again and I do a much better job

Wow - glad you indulge in reclaiming. Guess it's sort of marking your territory and evolutionary. It's was very horny playing with knowing after she left me - hubby would be parting her legs...

It's nice when a single guys understands this. Once he's cum and his dicks has gone limp then he needs to fuck off home because it's our time!

That's a bit like treating them like a sex toy x"

That's the irony of cuckolding - it's actually the single guy who is being used!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for me i want the guy to have to compete for me, like he knows if i find someone better than him i might leave him (even though it's only sex).

although mostly i do want him to feel comfortable in a relationship with me but never take me for granted. coz i am dead chill and calm so guys tend to get comfortable with me.

so there is some head games to what i want, to keep him on his toes.

it's also why i don't wanna share him coz i actually do not take people for granted and treasure them.

although i enjoyed that article i find it a bit presumptuous of a few things i'm not comfortable with.

that women are reliant on men, or always have been anyway. when you look at less modern cultures you can see they are structured around women supporting women. i honestly don't think there ever was a time when women were reliant on men until the modern, western world made it so using finances and stereotyping genders.

also the ages of death thing, most people (even cavemen) probably lived into their 70s, it's just that child mortality rates tend to bring averages down quite a lot.

but it's always good to think about whether monogamy is the right thing to do. humans are an adaptable species so i'd say nobody will even know. but it's always good to have back up plans.

i'd say i wasn't meaning what that article says also. like i'm not saying i would actually be going out looking for someone else, just that i would want someone to know they aren't my only option. this is based on past relationships and why i've always cheated on past lovers who have cheated on me but done it better than they did so they could see the reaity of what it's like for themselves (humiliation of them also) and that it is easier for a woman to cheat than a man (if she has that mindset and me being cheated on gives me that mindset) and he should know this and realise he is not disposable. in fact he probably has less value than me when it comes to relationships. this is probably a bit fucked up but that's what being cheated on and lied to does to me, it fucks me up.

if i got into a rlationship i would spend time creating something with them, but the first hint of apathy and i'm off out fucking someone else.

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"Yes I can confirm this

But the massive excitement of the 'Reclaiming' when Wifey gets home usually means I don't last long the first time. But then she'll talk me through her meet and we go again and I do a much better job

Wow - glad you indulge in reclaiming. Guess it's sort of marking your territory and evolutionary. It's was very horny playing with knowing after she left me - hubby would be parting her legs...

It's nice when a single guys understands this. Once he's cum and his dicks has gone limp then he needs to fuck off home because it's our time!

We have a single guy who seems to implicitly understand this. We offer him a drink on the way in, but not on the way out

That's really funny! It never made sense when I first started meeting couples but now I totally get - Hubby wants to get fucking his wife without distractions. Enuff said

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"Yes I can confirm this

But the massive excitement of the 'Reclaiming' when Wifey gets home usually means I don't last long the first time. But then she'll talk me through her meet and we go again and I do a much better job

Wow - glad you indulge in reclaiming. Guess it's sort of marking your territory and evolutionary. It's was very horny playing with knowing after she left me - hubby would be parting her legs...

It's nice when a single guys understands this. Once he's cum and his dicks has gone limp then he needs to fuck off home because it's our time!

That's a bit like treating them like a sex toy x"

Yes and no. Part of the pleasure of joining a couple is that single guy is an addition - but not the main day to day course - part of the taboo fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't have her running off with her lovers?? Reclaim and get her back in the kitchen I say!! Good work men!

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"Can't have her running off with her lovers?? Reclaim and get her back in the kitchen I say!! Good work men!

Am sure that is the evolutionary instinct in play!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a female's perspective i can say your partner reclaiming is soooooo amazing x

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"From a female's perspective i can say your partner reclaiming is soooooo amazing x "

I bet it is?!

That's have the fun of playing with married lady !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This works both ways for us. I reclaim him as soon as he gets home and vice versa. It's always the best sex

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"This works both ways for us. I reclaim him as soon as he gets home and vice versa. It's always the best sex

Of course, it works both ways - never thought of that - silly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This works both ways for us. I reclaim him as soon as he gets home and vice versa. It's always the best sex

Of course, it works both ways - never thought of that - silly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after going with a another guy or guys I cant wait for them to go because the sex I have with hubby after is mind blowing nothing beats it in fact nothing come anywhere near it ..call it it what you want but my hubby don't have to re-claim me lol I jumping all over him before a word gets said lol

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By *epaWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Such a powerful desire. Reclaim sex is awesome

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"Such a powerful desire. Reclaim sex is awesome

I know I am beginning to understand how horny it is - as the single guy - never really thought about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need reclaiming because I don't give anything of me during sex with strangers that would make my partner feel he or our relationship was diminished enough to need to do it in the very same way as I don't feel the need to reclaim him either. We're equals in this as much as in daily life. I'm not some kind of property that needs pissing against to mark as his...

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"I don't need reclaiming because I don't give anything of me during sex with strangers that would make my partner feel he or our relationship was diminished enough to need to do it in the very same way as I don't feel the need to reclaim him either. We're equals in this as much as in daily life. I'm not some kind of property that needs pissing against to mark as his..."

That totally makes sense as well

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Good observations on the 'reclaiming' op & nice different opinions on the subject too. Interesting thread

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By *ntandchantCouple
over a year ago

Spalding

For us the 'reclaiming' is the best part of the night. This happens after a night at a club or a private meet. We both need it and the intensity and passion is out of this world.

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

My husband re-claims but will some times leave it up to a week to do so as he likes the thought as we lay in bed that his was not the last cock in me

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"My husband re-claims but will some times leave it up to a week to do so as he likes the thought as we lay in bed that his was not the last cock in me "

Wow - that's interesting - never thought that hubby could leave it for a week before reclaiming - guess waiting prolongs the whole experience

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

its very rampant when he dose re-claim me after a week

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"its very rampant when he dose re-claim me after a week"

I can imagine -after a week of thinking what you have been upto, means he is ready-to explode

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

its safe to say be are both ready to explode

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"its safe to say be are both ready to explode"

Bloody hell - waiting a week to reclaim is real testament to will power

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"Good observations on the 'reclaiming' op & nice different opinions on the subject too. Interesting thread

Glad you think so - it's something I have noticed happening but was never sure - glad to have it confirmed!

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By *hocolateRod OP Man
over a year ago

London and over UK

"For us the 'reclaiming' is the best part of the night. This happens after a night at a club or a private meet. We both need it and the intensity and passion is out of this world."

That I would like to see!

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