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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big burley security man on the door needed to bust up said psycho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol safety is very important when meeting randoms. I always get nervous when going to a house or hotel I ll wait by the door try listen then knock and walk in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your safety your rules .

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone. "

Agreed - even as single guy - I have to be wary of meeting randoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I'm going to the bomb shelter to hide oops

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone. "

Toilet blocked? I'm hoping you've not had any previous bad experiences with guys with intractable constipation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone. "

Stick to male halves of verified swinging couples...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone.

Stick to male halves of verified swinging couples..."

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too "

He could be a little man meeting a tall woman who would pin him down and rape him, repeatedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone.

"

If I show you my sanity certificate, fancy a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too

He could be a little man meeting a tall woman who would pin him down and rape him, repeatedly "

He could be meeting another,much larger man!!! jeez you guys are so damn vanilla!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too "
are you for real

If a guy goes to a womans house for the first time he has no idea whats going to be on the otherside of the door

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone.

Toilet blocked? I'm hoping you've not had any previous bad experiences with guys with intractable constipation "

I'm joking... But you know what I mean

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too

He could be a little man meeting a tall woman who would pin him down and rape him, repeatedly

He could be meeting another,much larger man!!! jeez you guys are so damn vanilla! "

Well, in that case he should meet a smaller man; problem solved; next question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too are you for real

If a guy goes to a womans house for the first time he has no idea whats going to be on the otherside of the green door"

Shakin' Stevens?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone. "

sadly one can never forget about reality of this world we live in if your a single fern to do so would be total madness .

may i suggest a session with roger rabbit next time you feel this way i heard he's very good for this kind of stress and also very safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too

He could be a little man meeting a tall woman who would pin him down and rape him, repeatedly

He could be meeting another,much larger man!!! jeez you guys are so damn vanilla!

Well, in that case he should meet a smaller man; problem solved; next question "

Where's the fun in that? !

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too are you for real

If a guy goes to a womans house for the first time he has no idea whats going to be on the otherside of the green door

Shakin' Stevens? "

Mine has a hallway on one side of the door and a driveway on the other. What do other people have?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone.

If I show you my sanity certificate, fancy a shag "
you have such massive hands, how could I resist? ??

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too

He could be a little man meeting a tall woman who would pin him down and rape him, repeatedly

He could be meeting another,much larger man!!! jeez you guys are so damn vanilla!

Well, in that case he should meet a smaller man; problem solved; next question

Where's the fun in that? ! "

I can now see where you are coming from

That is not what 'clashing of the swords' means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too are you for real

If a guy goes to a womans house for the first time he has no idea whats going to be on the otherside of the green door

Shakin' Stevens?

Mine has a hallway on one side of the door and a driveway on the other. What do other people have? "

I also have a hallway on one side but no driveway plus i also have a peep hole in my door sooooo i wonder what that could be used for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only date cops. Then if they do rob you, make them arrest themselves before they leave. X

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too are you for real

If a guy goes to a womans house for the first time he has no idea whats going to be on the otherside of the green door

Shakin' Stevens?

Mine has a hallway on one side of the door and a driveway on the other. What do other people have?

I also have a hallway on one side but no driveway plus i also have a peep hole in my door sooooo i wonder what that could be used for "

I bet you use it to find out who is on the other side before opening the door; I use it for that purpose too

But I bet that peeping Toms use it as a training tool before graduating into the big wide world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone. "

Isn't this where verifications and getting a feel for people's personalities on the forums help?

But yeah, looking at local updates I'd be fucking terrified of meeting some people on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few men come to my house,I'd never felt uneasy about it. Not even when my now regular partner walked in and towered over me at 6ft 8,maybe more,with muscles. No one knew he was coming;I'd only been chatting to him for an hour and a half previous. Since then I've had a couple of others visit me,all on the first time of meeting,except one of them. I stopped inviting men over after someone knocked on my door uninvited and tried to come in. If my son had been in the poor man would have gotten a shock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too are you for real

If a guy goes to a womans house for the first time he has no idea whats going to be on the otherside of the green door

Shakin' Stevens?

Mine has a hallway on one side of the door and a driveway on the other. What do other people have?

I also have a hallway on one side but no driveway plus i also have a peep hole in my door sooooo i wonder what that could be used for

I bet you use it to find out who is on the other side before opening the door; I use it for that purpose too

But I bet that peeping Toms use it as a training tool before graduating into the big wide world "

i do use it for that reason and to see if i fancy the guy on other side of door if i dont then im screwed

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

Both sides have to be completely satisfied with safety arrangements for a successful meet.

As a biggish bloke, I've walked away from a couple of situations where I wasn't comfortable, so I do understand how vulnerable a lady may feel, and I will comply with whatever safety conditions they impose.

Can I come round

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too "

Unfortunately yes you do still need to be cautious. I am not aware of any specific cases where straight men have been lured into being murdered on this sort of site in the UK, however, there have definitely been at least one case in the gay community fairly recently.

If someone wanted to set up a fake profile and catfish you into a meet, if they plan it carefully you could be toast however burley and trained you are.

Everyone needs to consider the risks, albeit small for most, and act with some level of sensible caution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too

He could be a little man meeting a tall woman who would pin him down and rape him, repeatedly "
mmmm why didn't I think of that one

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too are you for real

If a guy goes to a womans house for the first time he has no idea whats going to be on the otherside of the green door

Shakin' Stevens?

Mine has a hallway on one side of the door and a driveway on the other. What do other people have?

I also have a hallway on one side but no driveway plus i also have a peep hole in my door sooooo i wonder what that could be used for

I bet you use it to find out who is on the other side before opening the door; I use it for that purpose too

But I bet that peeping Toms use it as a training tool before graduating into the big wide world

i do use it for that reason and to see if i fancy the guy on other side of door if i dont then im screwed "

I'd put on a deep voice and tell him to wait a minute while I get the rack and cuffs ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too

He could be a little man meeting a tall woman who would pin him down and rape him, repeatedly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too "

I have actually not met on the day of a meet after the details kept on being changed. Something was suspicious about the whole thing in the end I texted and say I was not going to make it.

Just because you arrange to meet a 'single female' how do you know it's not several guys looking to jump you?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

There used to be a woman around the scene about 10 years ago in the birmingham area and she would do things like throw kettles of boiling water on guys, it had been going on along while because the guys had been to embarressed to report her and someone did report her and it all came out she had done it to loads of guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone.

Isn't this where verifications and getting a feel for people's personalities on the forums help?

But yeah, looking at local updates I'd be fucking terrified of meeting some people on here! "

Yes but only a minority use the forums, and it's easy enough to pretend to be something you aren't. With verifications, we've met people who were the complete opposite to what their verifications suggested.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Why would a single guy have to think about the safety side apart from the normal ones sti condoms ect if your body confident to meet strangers for sex surely you are able to look after yourself physically too are you for real

If a guy goes to a womans house for the first time he has no idea whats going to be on the otherside of the door"

Exactly!! You are basically stepping into strangers house - anything could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't this where verifications and getting a feel for people's personalities on the forums help? "

That's no good, everyone on the forums is completely bonkers!

well except me of course

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By *un_seeker3000Man
over a year ago

wimborne

Well you can to a certain degree. You should get a general feeling from someone's profile, if they have a good number of verifications, etc.

I always do a little research (fab wise) before arranging a meet so I'm fairly confident I'm not walking into a 'situation'.

Although in the back of my mind I do wonder if I'll end up in a bath tub of ice with organs missing - all part of the excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worry. Never know if it's a man pretending to be female or part of a couple

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

And that is why, 'ladies' and gentlemen and attached people of opposite or same sex, I never meet anyone in their home and would not even dream of telling anyone where I live. Until I get a frontal lobotomy, I will only ever meet in clubs; not even in a hotel rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone. "

The only thing I'll be murdering is your pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone.

The only thing I'll be murdering is your pussy "

Oi... be kind to that pussy... there is a queue you know

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Forgot to add:

The only time I will give my address out to some stranger on the internet and invite him over is if he sends me a message promising that:

He is 110% genuine

He is a nice guy

He is not an axe-murderer

And that the only thing he will be murdering is my pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forgot to add:

The only time I will give my address out to some stranger on the internet and invite him over is if he sends me a message promising that:

He is 110% genuine

He is a nice guy

He is not an axe-murderer

And that the only thing he will be murdering is my pussy

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Forgot to add:

The only time I will give my address out to some stranger on the internet and invite him over is if he sends me a message promising that:

He is 110% genuine

He is a nice guy

He is not an axe-murderer

And that the only thing he will be murdering is my pussy

"

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

A friend of ours has a hidden button by her bed, that rings a bell in the neighbours apartment. But she has never had to use it.

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By *un_seeker3000Man
over a year ago

wimborne

Seriously how many axe murderers can there be on fab. 1 maybe 2???

There are much easier weapons to use. Like a good old kitchen knife.

Now who would like me to pop on over since I'm not an axe murderer?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Seriously how many axe murderers can there be on fab. 1 maybe 2???

There are much easier weapons to use. Like a good old kitchen knife.

Now who would like me to pop on over since I'm not an axe murderer?

"

Fair point. Who would carry an axe to someone's door. Just use the victim's own knives on her and to show one is a really nice guy, place them neatly in the dishwasher and switch it on after the job is done

My address is:

Wembley

near the stadium looking East

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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire


"

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone. "

We're not psychos!

Our court appointed doctor confirmed that just before his unfortunate accident....

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone.

We're not psychos!

Our court appointed doctor confirmed that just before his unfortunate accident.... "

Where have you been Mr & Mrs West? Had plenty of time to kill?

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"Lol safety is very important when meeting randoms. I always get nervous when going to a house or hotel I ll wait by the door try listen then knock and walk in "

That's why I always carry a bag with a taser, claw hammer, duck tape and rope...

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Lol safety is very important when meeting randoms. I always get nervous when going to a house or hotel I ll wait by the door try listen then knock and walk in

That's why I always carry a bag with a taser, claw hammer, duck tape and rope... "

Damn; I am missing the taser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*makes notes on you all*

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"Lol safety is very important when meeting randoms. I always get nervous when going to a house or hotel I ll wait by the door try listen then knock and walk in

That's why I always carry a bag with a taser, claw hammer, duck tape and rope...

Damn; I am missing the taser "

We met in a park after dark, romance was in the air. There was an instant spark and she fell into my arms... I love my taser...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol safety is very important when meeting randoms. I always get nervous when going to a house or hotel I ll wait by the door try listen then knock and walk in

That's why I always carry a bag with a taser, claw hammer, duck tape and rope...

Damn; I am missing the taser

We met in a park after dark, romance was in the air. There was an instant spark and she fell into my arms... I love my taser... "
love it love it love it

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Lol safety is very important when meeting randoms. I always get nervous when going to a house or hotel I ll wait by the door try listen then knock and walk in

That's why I always carry a bag with a taser, claw hammer, duck tape and rope...

Damn; I am missing the taser

We met in a park after dark, romance was in the air. There was an instant spark and she fell into my arms... I love my taser... "

That came straight from the heart; you romantic so-and-so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone.

Isn't this where verifications and getting a feel for people's personalities on the forums help?

But yeah, looking at local updates I'd be fucking terrified of meeting some people on here! "

Helps you know who to avoid too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone. "

I can write a risk assessment you can e mail to perspective victims er I mean play mates to assess their trustworthiness, sanity or if they are fit for purpose. Cannot be too careful these days?

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Id love to be able to cut the preamble and get straight to the point and arrange for a random guy to come over and shag me without having to worry about being safe/robbed/toilet blocked.

Goddamn psychos spoiling it for everyone. "

Its a lovely evening. Come and have a drink on my patio, while the paving slabs are still level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite 6 guys round instead of just one. More chance of one of them not being a psycho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There used to be a woman around the scene about 10 years ago in the birmingham area and she would do things like throw kettles of boiling water on guys, it had been going on along while because the guys had been to embarressed to report her and someone did report her and it all came out she had done it to loads of guys"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There used to be a woman around the scene about 10 years ago in the birmingham area and she would do things like throw kettles of boiling water on guys, it had been going on along while because the guys had been to embarressed to report her and someone did report her and it all came out she had done it to loads of guys

"

Sounds like a kettle boiler to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There used to be a woman around the scene about 10 years ago in the birmingham area and she would do things like throw kettles of boiling water on guys, it had been going on along while because the guys had been to embarressed to report her and someone did report her and it all came out she had done it to loads of guys

Sounds like a kettle boiler to me!"

?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There used to be a woman around the scene about 10 years ago in the birmingham area and she would do things like throw kettles of boiling water on guys, it had been going on along while because the guys had been to embarressed to report her and someone did report her and it all came out she had done it to loads of guys

Sounds like a kettle boiler to me!

?"

As opposed to a bunny boiler. .

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

You could let someone who knows you on here when you are going to have a meet, then let them know when you are finished at the meet. If they are a good friend they won't care about the details, just who you are meeting and where you are meeting them. It isn't the best idea but better than nothing.

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