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why is it couples want me more then my hubby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi why is it couples and tvs always want me and not my hubby cant see how its fair he may have a avarage size penis at 5 and half inch 6inch fully hard is that why they dont really want know him he know how please women have done it many of times but always seem the case they want me not him xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because this is a sex site and women are hard to come by. Your experience as a couple is shared by many. It is one of the few things that really makes me dislike this scene as a couple so much sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea we both know u got be thick skinned on this site lol yea women are hard to come by on here im only mainly after females as like watching hubby with them and i like exsplore more my bi

Side but have chose to meet couples and have had fun with ones we have met x

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

It's a couples thing. We get the same. But it's a shame people don't just say "you're not for us as a couple" rather than pinpointing an individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about I'll meet you both then the boys go for a beer whilst you get a few hours to yourself?

That should even things up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a couples thing. We get the same. But it's a shame people don't just say "you're not for us as a couple" rather than pinpointing an individual.

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we simply say - not for us but have had people say one of us is hot and the other not - (both of us) - but we arent bothered as plenty like the both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is very female centric, most men want women most women want women and most couples want women, it is the way of the swing you just have to say no thanks and move on

I never realised how hard it would be to get straight full swap,

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I think you will also find a little of it is due to hubby being bi, there is another thread somewhere where someone said they get a lot of rejections from couples where the guy is straight, as if they are frightened they might catch the bi-ness or something..

We've never had the "want her not u" but then we aren't after couples anyway despite having some as friends on here..

Your predicament could also be si gle guys posing as a couple to get chat, pics whatever so tread carefully..

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why would i need few hrs for my self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not alone in this phenomena so I really wouldn't stress over it. The right couple will come along eventually.

I've lost count of the amount of couples turning us down once we've made it clear that we must all want to take part fully, and that I'll not just sit there and watch like some live porno. I laugh it off, take no offence, and move on.

The only thing I'd suggest is get a thick skin, and outline in your profile that you come as a couple so expect to play as one as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would never meet a couple privately. What are the chances that there is going to be a 4-way attraction? Somebody always has to take a hit for the team, and that's what we consider unfair. We go to parties, meet our swinging friends there, get to know other people, but when when we play we'll choose our own partners. I play more than my husband because I can choose to play with young single fitter men, and it's easier for women. But luckily my husband enjoys watching. About every 3 plays I have, he will play with someone his chooses and that's enough for him. He's very good looking for his age and is well endowed, so that helps as an older man on the scene. He doesn't expect play to be fair, because the swing scene isn't fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll get it all the time so just delete and block . It's not just couples . We've lost count of the number of times straight single men have asked if the two girls that make up part of our 3 way relationship can meet them alone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is very female centric, most men want women most women want women and most couples want women, it is the way of the swing you just have to say no thanks and move on

I never realised how hard it would be to get straight full swap, "

This is really true.

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Unfourtunatley a lot of couples only play with couples because they can't find a single female to play with so decide to play with couples almost as a compromise because they can't find a single girl to play with

Our pref is couples as we prefer the dynamics of a 4 which can be hard to get right for everyone playing ... And we prefer single women to find us

We find that fab isn't really for meets anyway it's more for reconnecting with people you have already met easier to find play meets at a club

For us swinging is about enhancing what we already have we go to clubs get horny for each other and of play happens its happens if not we fuck each other's brains out , don't worry about it too much if someone doesn't want to play with you as a couple just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block and move on it sounds bad but see it as a supermarket of people, find the ones that tick both of your boxes and you can have a laugh with and then meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would never meet a couple privately. What are the chances that there is going to be a 4-way attraction? Somebody always has to take a hit for the team, and that's what we consider unfair. We go to parties, meet our swinging friends there, get to know other people, but when when we play we'll choose our own partners. I play more than my husband because I can choose to play with young single fitter men, and it's easier for women. But luckily my husband enjoys watching. About every 3 plays I have, he will play with someone his chooses and that's enough for him. He's very good looking for his age and is well endowed, so that helps as an older man on the scene. He doesn't expect play to be fair, because the swing scene isn't fair."

The 4 way attraction is the difficult but indeed.

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