FabSwingers.com forum: Men pretending to be women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had this loads on here!!! Or you skype and they say oh she is at work can you send pics... Or something to that affect

I've had a no show today after chat to g on kik for a few days! I know it's part of the scene but it's still annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They prefer "TV".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's so annoying

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By *isalovezTV/TS
over a year ago

Paris

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By *unlovinguy_68Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Had one my very self today pretending it was the wife of the couple

You can spot them a mile off with their wording.

Goes all quiet when you tell them to call you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know I should have learnt by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is that sites like this are going to promote childish behaviour from people who don't get any action being themselves, so they pretend to be someone else. Any attention is good attention right?

Just look for the red flags and use a bit of common sense (if it's too good to be true generally it is!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You do look hot

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By *akeyousmile30Man
over a year ago

greenwich

I totally agree, seems to be a lot of it!!

However you have to remember that there are some strange things that turn people on.

A while back I chatted with a "female" who sent lots of pictures of a well known porn actress and said it was her!!

Entertaining for a while. NOT

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Thing is that sites like this are going to promote childish behaviour from people who don't get any action being themselves, so they pretend to be someone else. Any attention is good attention right?

Just look for the red flags and use a bit of common sense (if it's too good to be true generally it is!)

This is exactly what's going on the funny thing is I've never come across this phenomena myself but then again I am very picky about who I message which may explain why.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe I should be too, I think you have been lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Him here) We basically steal the same idea as the fabswinger's veri photo. If you suspect someone to be fake, think of a word and ask the person to take a selfie showing the word on the paper they are holding up. If genuine, they will probably understand and co-operate, as it's reassuring for BOTH parties that neither of you are axe wielding maniacs. If no response in a short period of time, start blocking. Works for us anyhow.

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By *ithardscotMan
over a year ago

Kelty

I see regular status updates along the lines of "gf at work, who wants a bj".....

Gf always seems to be at work.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Men pretending to be women or couples and couples pretending to be women are a constant pain on this site

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I feel your pain x

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"Men pretending to be women or couples and couples pretending to be women are a constant pain on this site"

Life is pain...saw that tattood on some fellas arm today, i thought "mmm thats poignant" and then carried on catching pokemon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report the profile to Admin, Block them from contacting you again and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of them are just after wank fodder. Xxx

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

MEn pretending to be women. It's all the rage

For some pissing people about is more appealing than real deal fun. If its not single males pretending its husbands with their unknowing wife's bedroom pics or ex's with the profile of the cpl they no longer are. What a sad f''king existence never mind the issues they must be carrying to lead them to be that way.

All you can do is sniff them out, give them rope to hang themselves with. After all fakers etc can never clear the same hurdles a cpl/fem/guy thats seriously free to meet, looking to meet can

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Another good one is when they say their cam is broken...ha ha.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

At the same time, as an actual woman, I really resent the men who are pushy enough to insist I am a man unless I "prove" I am not.

No, I don't feel the need to call or go on cam just to prove I'm a woman.

Even if I didn't have verifications, I have been told frequently enough by non paranoid men that I don't chat like a man (I don't request pics or allow sex talk...it's just not me).

Want to believe I'm really a man? Go for it. But I can tell you quite a few would be shocked to hear that I am.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I actually find most of the pretend women's attempts to draw me into conversation quite funny. I've even been known to play along with it and eventually ask them if they are aware their pictures are all over the internet. Sometimes they even block me.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Strange ^^^^ a female that's landed in a 'Men pretending to be women' thread to explain that she really is a female

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Strange ^^^^ a female that's landed in a 'Men pretending to be women' thread to explain that she really is a female

Well, when you're a bi female on here you get a lot of men pretending to be women and/or couples attempting contact. Sorry, I wasn't aware that this was a gender specific comment thread.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"Strange ^^^^ a female that's landed in a 'Men pretending to be women' thread to explain that she really is a female

I KNOW. Just goes to show that sometimes you JUST MIGHT BE WRONG.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

"Strange ^^^^ a female that's landed in a 'Men pretending to be women' thread to explain that she really is a female

Well, when you're a bi female on here you get a lot of men pretending to be women and/or couples attempting contact. Sorry, I wasn't aware that this was a gender specific comment thread."

You've assumed it was at you there. When I started typing that you were not on the thread

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

"Strange ^^^^ a female that's landed in a 'Men pretending to be women' thread to explain that she really is a female

I KNOW. Just goes to show that sometimes you JUST MIGHT BE WRONG."

Dont worry. It just made me grin

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

To be quite honest, I get rather tired of being accused of being a man though. I don't ask to meet, I don't like sex chat, I don't have pics up because I don't like being judged, for good or bad, on how I look.

Why am I here? because I DID meet (have met Mr Wonderful now though) ...but it takes time and energy.

The number of men who accuse me of being a man actually rather flatters me...they are interested enough to care. LOL.

So, anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice all

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