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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete....don't like that shit x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it interferes with my interaction with them. I don't want other people's fuss and drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it depends on the individual, I wouldn't automatically delete. I have been with married men. I turned down a guy once because of the way he talked about his wife... He was clearly absolutely besotted with her, it felt weird, I couldn't understand why he wanted to cheat on her when he was crazy in love with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never meet a married man.

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By *landSueCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

Why not invite wife to the fun? Otherwise bad karma.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Instant dele........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete....don't like that shit x"

Agreed. I don't need the hysterical wife turning up on my doorstep.

And I don't want to be part of someone's heartbreak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Instant dele........"

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Delete block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't judge and don't meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All fair messages folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete block "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't put us off as it depends on the person and their circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the man, if he's not a hottie he gets deleted regardless of marital status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't put us off as it depends on the person and their circumstances. "

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I am sorry but come on be real here most men on are either in relationships or married. It's highly likely the can not accommodate is due to that. Just saying before you all jump down my throat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A persons marital status is their business, not mine

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By *nceinawhileCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

It Kinda puts you off married/involved people that swing alone when you get contacted by their wife/girlfriend this happened to us once we had only chatted with the guy but felt really uneasy about it when she contacted us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am sorry but come on be real here most men on are either in relationships or married. It's highly likely the can not accommodate is due to that. Just saying before you all jump down my throat "

See now I would think that is a fair comment, which is why I declare my hand on my profile- at least try to be honest from the start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx "

Laying your scent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sorry but come on be real here most men on are either in relationships or married. It's highly likely the can not accommodate is due to that. Just saying before you all jump down my throat

See now I would think that is a fair comment, which is why I declare my hand on my profile- at least try to be honest from the start "

Uh oh, you've muttered the H word....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's each to their own, and everyone's choices should be respected.

Openness should at least be given some credit whatever your views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politely told we won't meet cheating married guys at all

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I am sorry but come on be real here most men on are either in relationships or married. It's highly likely the can not accommodate is due to that. Just saying before you all jump down my throat

See now I would think that is a fair comment, which is why I declare my hand on my profile- at least try to be honest from the start "

And honestly I have and would if I liked the person. It's their life, way I see it to be honest Swinging is a way to escape the real world, fun and excitement to the extreme if we soo wish too. So we are all adults we all can make our own minds up for ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent "

I find it a big turn on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx "
you are my pin up fabstar of the day X

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Politely told we won't meet cheating married guys at all "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x "

Im sure someone's face would be well scented, particularly if they were a beardy like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile."

I know exactly what you mean

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile.

I know exactly what you mean "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can barely get a meet being single, never mind being a cheating married man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?"

I sometimes ask if he loves my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x "

Knowingly do this because it turns you on to know his wife Is oblivious? You get off on that?

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

As an openly married guy, i thought I'd just mention that the tone of this thread kinda implys that the single profile married guys are cheating. Sadly I'm sure some are but we aren't all like that. Me wife and I are very close, loving and affectionate yet happily play with others on our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would be interested if he turned the wife on.

problem is that they can not accommodate

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"As an openly married guy, i thought I'd just mention that the tone of this thread kinda implys that the single profile married guys are cheating. Sadly I'm sure some are but we aren't all like that. Me wife and I are very close, loving and affectionate yet happily play with others on our own "

And that is fine and all else being equal, I would want proof that she knew before I did anything with him

But the vast majority of married men here are not like you. And I will not be a party to her heartache, ever. I don't care what the 'circumstances' are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i can barely get a meet being single, never mind being a cheating married man"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why pick on the married man there are pleanty of cheating wife's on here as well ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x "

How would you feel if you and your husband/partner weren't into the lifestyle and you found out hed cheated on you and the lady in question (just like you) knew about you and infact it was a huge turn on and she got off on the fact her scent was on his cock she enjoyed that and was kind of laughing ?? Funny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal choice is no as not looking a have a secret tryst....when I want to play I want that option...and not looking to hurt anyone or complicate things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife) "

Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game ,

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why pick on the married man there are pleanty of cheating wife's on here as well ,"

The OP is a married man who asked. No difference if the wife is cheating instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?

I sometimes ask if he loves my profile."

And block, usually after he's read the first line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx you are my pin up fabstar of the day X "

Thank u love ur pics xxxx

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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago

halifax

No issues with it, it pretty much guarantees discretion .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x "

I find you a big turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife)

Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game , "

Guess everyone has there kinks , I have men and couple messaging and saying same sort of things to me about sending me home after and they just get deleted

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I prefer married guys We know where we stand with each other from the word go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consider, on the same basis as I consider other messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife)

Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game ,

Guess everyone has there kinks , I have men and couple messaging and saying same sort of things to me about sending me home after and they just get deleted "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i say this so often - you probably wouldnt know if wed or not -we played at clubs and didnt even get the name until after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?"

A polite no, then delete and block from us. Not even for the fact that we don't want or need the drama. We just don't think it's fair on the persons other half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?"

unlike you not every man on here is as honest regarding their marital status, so its not always instantly possible to make such a decision

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x "

Naughty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x"

Yep they are safer!

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile."

The same goes for married women and we won't meet either sex cheating on their partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x

Yep they are safer! "

I would imagine fewer unwanted text messages etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes much less

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for all the comments folks, gives me a bit of hope that some of you sexy couples or ladies will ( in principle) entertain the likes of me. Onwards and upwards xx

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Am I the only person who likes married men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid like the plague.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Nope from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to make no difference to the fact I still can't get further than a few messages.

No one wishes to meet me at the monent regardless of my marital status, cheating or not.

C'est la vie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i say this so often - you probably wouldnt know if wed or not -we played at clubs and didnt even get the name until after "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some married men have reasons which I have sympathy with. We have got involved with married men. I find them nicer, more reliable and better communicators. However on the flip side I find them hard to pin down as they don't usually play as weekends. I also don't like the 'clock watching' from married men. So by and large I tend to feel there's not much point if they are restricted to a certain window of opportunity and for this reason I would probably say no.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx "

oooooh your naughty minx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer not to meet married men playing without partners knowledge, too complicated and some risk of Sti since neither of them are likely to be having regular sexual health check ups.

Obviously we don't always know marital status and sexualhealth because people can be dishonest but we base our decisions on the I do we have. M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If his wife knows its all cool if she doesnt we want no part of the lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet in clubs now so no chance of it coming to our door anymore

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife)

Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game , "

each to their own if its not your things then pass on by because lets be honest here your on a swinging site and most vanilla people will be appalled by that fact and question you about your personal sexuality and try to pass judgement on you based on your answers.

would you like that some how I don't think so. so why are you doing that in this forum post.

my advice to anyone is this if you have a axe to grind don't read a forum post that may made you feel the need to grind it as your causing drama for no reason apart from your own self interests .

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Personally I'd delete because I state in my profile that I'm not interested so they shouldn't have messaged me in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x "

I've found the same too actually, it's only ever been single men who have tried to go bareback or anything like that. The married guys have been much more careful of their sexual health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife)

Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game ,

each to their own if its not your things then pass on by because lets be honest here your on a swinging site and most vanilla people will be appalled by that fact and question you about your personal sexuality and try to pass judgement on you based on your answers.

would you like that some how I don't think so. so why are you doing that in this forum post.

my advice to anyone is this if you have a axe to grind don't read a forum post that may made you feel the need to grind it as your causing drama for no reason apart from your own self interests . "

She's hinted at her opinion, not been judge, jury and executioner, chill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definetley meet them. The naughtier the scenario the hornier the sex. You only live once and as long as there is 100% discretion and no one gets hurt, then there's no issue.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife)

Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game ,

each to their own if its not your things then pass on by because lets be honest here your on a swinging site and most vanilla people will be appalled by that fact and question you about your personal sexuality and try to pass judgement on you based on your answers.

would you like that some how I don't think so. so why are you doing that in this forum post.

my advice to anyone is this if you have a axe to grind don't read a forum post that may made you feel the need to grind it as your causing drama for no reason apart from your own self interests . "

The OP asked a question directed at women and couples. She gave her opinion. Axe to grind??? Take a chill-pill, man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A persons marital status is their business, not mine. (I'm a cheating wife)

Yes I agree. But to actively go out and say it's a huge turn on to have sex with married men and leave your scent on them is in my eyes a different ball game ,

each to their own if its not your things then pass on by because lets be honest here your on a swinging site and most vanilla people will be appalled by that fact and question you about your personal sexuality and try to pass judgement on you based on your answers.

would you like that some how I don't think so. so why are you doing that in this forum post.

my advice to anyone is this if you have a axe to grind don't read a forum post that may made you feel the need to grind it as your causing drama for no reason apart from your own self interests . "

1. I'm not vanilla and yes it's my opinion thankyou very much there is a difference in swinging with consent and cheating and a lady/man actively going out cheating or sleeping with married men women because they love leaving their scent.

Mmmm nice cup of tea me thinks. Anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't suit what I'm looking for so I delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x "

See now that's just shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x

See now that's just shit. "

That was what I was trying to say,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all. "

queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1

and their it goes filling up by the minute

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?"

Delete instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all.

queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1

and their it goes filling up by the minute "

Why would you say that ?

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By *iscomanMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Totally true

There are lots of married women on here

Who do it

Some even won't meet married men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree loads of married woman been in contact I don't always just delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to but I'm not stupid enough to think I never do... x

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?"

You should delete them. More chances for the single guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x

See now that's just shit.

That was what I was trying to say, "

If someone cheated on me the worst part would be feeling foolish, knowing that other people knew and were laughing behind my back. Oh and if I found a boyfriend after 7 years of being single and then he went and shagged some bird that knew about me and got off on that fact, the guys dick would be off and I'd be tracking that bitch with a pack of bloodhounds and once found I'd challenge her to a dual with her signing a clause that agreed to no police involvement afterwards, there that's what I'd do!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all.

queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1

and their it goes filling up by the minute

Why would you say that ? "

because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few .

I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner .

there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care .

you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all.

queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1

and their it goes filling up by the minute

Why would you say that ?

because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few .

I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner .

there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care .

you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around . "

Your point being?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x

See now that's just shit.

That was what I was trying to say,

If someone cheated on me the worst part would be feeling foolish, knowing that other people knew and were laughing behind my back. Oh and if I found a boyfriend after 7 years of being single and then he went and shagged some bird that knew about me and got off on that fact, the guys dick would be off and I'd be tracking that bitch with a pack of bloodhounds and once found I'd challenge her to a dual with her signing a clause that agreed to no police involvement afterwards, there that's what I'd do!"

You do have a way with words but yes I'd find it insulting and hurtful you just don't do that shit to other woman ,, and I'm NOT talking about people attached who cheat that's none of my business my only tries was the post where the lady says she loves laying her scent it turns her on , almost taking the piss out of the persons gf or wife

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x

See now that's just shit.

That was what I was trying to say,

If someone cheated on me the worst part would be feeling foolish, knowing that other people knew and were laughing behind my back. Oh and if I found a boyfriend after 7 years of being single and then he went and shagged some bird that knew about me and got off on that fact, the guys dick would be off and I'd be tracking that bitch with a pack of bloodhounds and once found I'd challenge her to a dual with her signing a clause that agreed to no police involvement afterwards, there that's what I'd do!"

The bloodhounds can use her scent from his c*ck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x

See now that's just shit.

That was what I was trying to say,

If someone cheated on me the worst part would be feeling foolish, knowing that other people knew and were laughing behind my back. Oh and if I found a boyfriend after 7 years of being single and then he went and shagged some bird that knew about me and got off on that fact, the guys dick would be off and I'd be tracking that bitch with a pack of bloodhounds and once found I'd challenge her to a dual with her signing a clause that agreed to no police involvement afterwards, there that's what I'd do!

The bloodhounds can use her scent from his c*ck "

However people get their rocks off, there is only one person to blame when someone commits adultery - the cheater.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all.

queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1

and their it goes filling up by the minute

Why would you say that ?

because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few .

I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner .

there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care .

you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around .

Your point being? "

By the very fact she is not going to judge such guys means there are going to be attracted to her .

I personally have been called many names in my time on these types of site by those with a axe to grind over what's stated in my profile it is what it is I'm a big boy I can handle that but to think its only woman who suffer abuse is a bit short sighted .

So a couple or a single fern who doesn't judge those playing away from home as a no no is going to be more popular with married guys those who admit it and those who don't this fact means they will get more attention than those who are not interested .

That's the point of the tongue in cheek post .

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Marital status doesn't matter one bit to me. Most married men cheat. A lot of married women cheat also. That's the new reality and I don't judge. That's their business. I can't understand the holier-than-thou attitude some people have. But like everything else, everyone has a right to have their own preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we wouldn't knowingly meet a man, or woman, who is swinging without their partners knowledge.

Delete and block

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile."

Can you teach me how to work it out please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all.

queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1

and their it goes filling up by the minute

Why would you say that ?

because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few .

I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner .

there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care .

you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around .

Your point being?

By the very fact she is not going to judge such guys means there are going to be attracted to her .

I personally have been called many names in my time on these types of site by those with a axe to grind over what's stated in my profile it is what it is I'm a big boy I can handle that but to think its only woman who suffer abuse is a bit short sighted .

So a couple or a single fern who doesn't judge those playing away from home as a no no is going to be more popular with married guys those who admit it and those who don't this fact means they will get more attention than those who are not interested .

That's the point of the tongue in cheek post ."

I think your missing my point. I'm not judging anyone as I've said each to their own. My only 'axe to grind ' (as you put it) was the comment about sending a man home with her juices all over his cock and it turns her on sounded to me a little like she actively looks for men with partners as she gets off on humiliating his unaware partner. Bit cruel in my eyes

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x

See now that's just shit.

That was what I was trying to say,

If someone cheated on me the worst part would be feeling foolish, knowing that other people knew and were laughing behind my back. Oh and if I found a boyfriend after 7 years of being single and then he went and shagged some bird that knew about me and got off on that fact, the guys dick would be off and I'd be tracking that bitch with a pack of bloodhounds and once found I'd challenge her to a dual with her signing a clause that agreed to no police involvement afterwards, there that's what I'd do!

The bloodhounds can use her scent from his c*ck

However people get their rocks off, there is only one person to blame when someone commits adultery - the cheater."

I completely agree

I just don't want to be the woman he does his cheating with. I wouldn't want to be cheated on and although would not blame the other woman, will wonder what kind of a woman she is

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Delete.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile.

Can you teach me how to work it out please?"

You want to meet men but want to avoid married men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet married guys.We don't judge at all.Everyone has reasons I guess.But personally for me I can't. Xxmiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"We don't meet married guys.We don't judge at all.Everyone has reasons I guess.But personally for me I can't. Xxmiss "

This for us aswell.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as there's no drama, no lies (to me) and he can fuck me senseless then it's all good

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By *ittle Girl LostWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I don't play with non single men, I don't judge, it's their choice and I don't know what is truthfully going on in their relationship behind closed doors, but there are enough single men in the world that I don't need to play with someone else's? I've had several angry women message me on kik as they think I've been near their husband/boyfriend and it bothers me greatly- don't go off at me - I'm single lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet married men. And there are ways of working out if they are, even if they lie on their profile.

Can you teach me how to work it out please?

You want to meet men but want to avoid married men?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon the replies would of been different, if it was a woman lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete - not interested at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, why is there so many replies to the married guys thread than the married ladies thread, folk don't mind ladies playing away but object to gents doing the same? Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon the replies would of been different, if it was a woman lol."

Too darn right!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon the replies would of been different, if it was a woman lol.

Too darn right!!!! "
Yes, that is right

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all.

queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1

and their it goes filling up by the minute

Why would you say that ?

because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few .

I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner .

there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care .

you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around .

Your point being?

By the very fact she is not going to judge such guys means there are going to be attracted to her .

I personally have been called many names in my time on these types of site by those with a axe to grind over what's stated in my profile it is what it is I'm a big boy I can handle that but to think its only woman who suffer abuse is a bit short sighted .

So a couple or a single fern who doesn't judge those playing away from home as a no no is going to be more popular with married guys those who admit it and those who don't this fact means they will get more attention than those who are not interested .

That's the point of the tongue in cheek post .

I think your missing my point. I'm not judging anyone as I've said each to their own. My only 'axe to grind ' (as you put it) was the comment about sending a man home with her juices all over his cock and it turns her on sounded to me a little like she actively looks for men with partners as she gets off on humiliating his unaware partner. Bit cruel in my eyes "

Yes in your eyes you don't have to voice that though all you have to do is move on that way you cause no drama or discomfort to her over her kink.

If your appalled by that you will be very appalled by this I once had regular fun with a submissive fern who loved me to call her degrading names link to the fact I was married she even loved it when I made sure she could see my wedding ring while I was saying certain thing to her and while I was going certain things to her .

It was her kink it turned her on who was I to judge her or pass a opinion on it it was just fantasy a turn her kink not a true reflection of her as a human being .

Just like that woman's kink is nothing more than that something that turns her on so to you its sick or very off putting toilet play has the same effect on me but I'd never dream of expressing that to those who enjoy that form of play I'd just walk on by and only offer positive advice on how to go about finding that sort of fun in a forum post about that subject .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being totally honest I wouldn't meet a married man regularly - I've no wish to get hurt and I've certainly no wish to be involved in the break-up of a relationship - even if it's a bad one!

However, I've seen people in a relationship once or twice - my view is that I'm my own moral guardian- not theirs! If I was in a supposedly monogamous relationship I wouldn't be on here or any other dating/sex site - but many are. They're the ones who have to battle with their conscience (or not - as the case may be!) and I don't personally think it's my place to take the moral high ground!

X

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all.

queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1

and their it goes filling up by the minute

Why would you say that ?

because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few .

I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner .

there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care .

you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around .

Your point being?

By the very fact she is not going to judge such guys means there are going to be attracted to her .

I personally have been called many names in my time on these types of site by those with a axe to grind over what's stated in my profile it is what it is I'm a big boy I can handle that but to think its only woman who suffer abuse is a bit short sighted .

So a couple or a single fern who doesn't judge those playing away from home as a no no is going to be more popular with married guys those who admit it and those who don't this fact means they will get more attention than those who are not interested .

That's the point of the tongue in cheek post .

I think your missing my point. I'm not judging anyone as I've said each to their own. My only 'axe to grind ' (as you put it) was the comment about sending a man home with her juices all over his cock and it turns her on sounded to me a little like she actively looks for men with partners as she gets off on humiliating his unaware partner. Bit cruel in my eyes

Yes in your eyes you don't have to voice that though all you have to do is move on that way you cause no drama or discomfort to her over her kink.

If your appalled by that you will be very appalled by this I once had regular fun with a submissive fern who loved me to call her degrading names link to the fact I was married she even loved it when I made sure she could see my wedding ring while I was saying certain thing to her and while I was going certain things to her .

It was her kink it turned her on who was I to judge her or pass a opinion on it it was just fantasy a turn her kink not a true reflection of her as a human being .

Just like that woman's kink is nothing more than that something that turns her on so to you its sick or very off putting toilet play has the same effect on me but I'd never dream of expressing that to those who enjoy that form of play I'd just walk on by and only offer positive advice on how to go about finding that sort of fun in a forum post about that subject ."

I wonder what your wife's 'kink' will be when she finds out

Chop it orf, deep fry and feed it to the dog?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guys marital status doesn't bother me at all.

queue your mail box exploding 5 4 3 2 1

and their it goes filling up by the minute

Why would you say that ?

because despite popular believe its a well known fact that a high number of so called single guys who use these are far from single not all I might add but a fair few .

I personally no 5 guys who regularly use this site for some extra fun as well as a very very popular local club who are married with children and knowingly omit that fact from their profiles and from any play partner .

there attitude rightly or wrongly being this my own circumstances are my own business I'm not looking for anything more that some sexual fun so why is that of any importance to those I play with after all I don't ask any one I'm interested in having sex with about their home circumstances as I don't care .

you'd be surprised by the conversations us guys have and share with our friends over a beer down the local when no woman are around .

Your point being?

By the very fact she is not going to judge such guys means there are going to be attracted to her .

I personally have been called many names in my time on these types of site by those with a axe to grind over what's stated in my profile it is what it is I'm a big boy I can handle that but to think its only woman who suffer abuse is a bit short sighted .

So a couple or a single fern who doesn't judge those playing away from home as a no no is going to be more popular with married guys those who admit it and those who don't this fact means they will get more attention than those who are not interested .

That's the point of the tongue in cheek post .

I think your missing my point. I'm not judging anyone as I've said each to their own. My only 'axe to grind ' (as you put it) was the comment about sending a man home with her juices all over his cock and it turns her on sounded to me a little like she actively looks for men with partners as she gets off on humiliating his unaware partner. Bit cruel in my eyes

Yes in your eyes you don't have to voice that though all you have to do is move on that way you cause no drama or discomfort to her over her kink.

If your appalled by that you will be very appalled by this I once had regular fun with a submissive fern who loved me to call her degrading names link to the fact I was married she even loved it when I made sure she could see my wedding ring while I was saying certain thing to her and while I was going certain things to her .

It was her kink it turned her on who was I to judge her or pass a opinion on it it was just fantasy a turn her kink not a true reflection of her as a human being .

Just like that woman's kink is nothing more than that something that turns her on so to you its sick or very off putting toilet play has the same effect on me but I'd never dream of expressing that to those who enjoy that form of play I'd just walk on by and only offer positive advice on how to go about finding that sort of fun in a forum post about that subject ."

Being fetish or into bdsm etc is not a comparison , I'm actively involved in bdsm and have many fetishes. Just my opinion on something in my eyes is ethically wrong to actively go with married men as you enjoy humiliating their partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, why is there so many replies to the married guys thread than the married ladies thread, folk don't mind ladies playing away but object to gents doing the same? Jim "

Maybe because one has been running since yesterday and the other was posted half an hour ago?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, why is there so many replies to the married guys thread than the married ladies thread, folk don't mind ladies playing away but object to gents doing the same? Jim

Maybe because one has been running since yesterday and the other was posted half an hour ago? "

Stop bringing logic to the table. This is the forum. You can't have forgotten that??

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Hi, why is there so many replies to the married guys thread than the married ladies thread, folk don't mind ladies playing away but object to gents doing the same? Jim

Maybe because one has been running since yesterday and the other was posted half an hour ago?

Stop bringing logic to the table. This is the forum. You can't have forgotten that?? "

Yeah, I too thought that it was a 'silly' explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both Married Men and Married Women are on here looking for NSA Fun so stop being negative towards Married Men

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

World of difference between married men and married women and those who are cheating on their partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon the replies would of been different, if it was a woman lol."

Not at all i dont care how sexy she is if a womans cheating we want no part of it i understand that people will say "your swingers shagging other people get of your high horse" but what we do is with 100% knowledge and backing of each other we both want more and sex is sex what matters in love is respect, trust and honesty and we wont knowingly be part of that kind of deception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like these threads...makes my block list much much longer and saves a lot of time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question to ladies and couples- do you consider or delete instantly if a message comes from a married man?"

I treat it as I would any other message since I'm not a hypocrite - my response depends on the content and profile

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I delete. K (female)

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I get sob stories all the time from married men. Frankly it bores me, I'm not entertaining a married guy when there are so many lovely single ones usually in better shape and fun.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Hi, why is there so many replies to the married guys thread than the married ladies thread, folk don't mind ladies playing away but object to gents doing the same? Jim "

I didn't see the 'married women' thread but our post earlier in this thread says we won't meet either sex if they're cheating on a partner and it's not hard to work out which singles aren't really single...We're not stupid and the signs are always there.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I get sob stories all the time from married men. Frankly it bores me, I'm not entertaining a married guy when there are so many lovely single ones usually in better shape and fun."

Some lie so much that they finally look like complete idiots

Met one in a club; second time, asked him to invite me over; can't do that as he is in a sexless marriage; 'the' wife went orf sex some 20 years ago; he has a 10 year old daughter! Long pregancy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it as no married people should be on this site without their partners. So if I meet a guy that's says he's single and has a single profile, sorry but that's not me cheating..that's all on him! People can't have ago and beat the other woman, because in most cases the other woman doesn't know "her date / her man" is actually married.

I wish everyone one this site was honest, but they're not! It's not logical to treat all fab single guys as cheats. So where do I go from there? How am I meant to know that fab guy I click with really is single? So far I've been avoiding all guys who house share. That's for privacy mainly but what happens if he genuinely is single and I've knocked back a really nice guy that I could of gone to a hotel with (for that privacy)?

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston


"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x "

Especially if the wife knows where he's going

Some men / ladies also play with permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads on this subject always amuse me. Its the married men going behind their wives backs that always get berated. Never the other way round. Married women always slip under the radar, never get berated.

Laughable.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

A polite no thanks.... if he was meeting without the wife's knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x

Especially if the wife knows where he's going

Some men / ladies also play with permission. "

I dont seem to have a problem however my oh gets the not meeting you you are married responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see it as no married people should be on this site without their partners. So if I meet a guy that's says he's single and has a single profile, sorry but that's not me cheating..that's all on him! People can't have ago and beat the other woman, because in most cases the other woman doesn't know "her date / her man" is actually married.

I wish everyone one this site was honest, but they're not! It's not logical to treat all fab single guys as cheats. So where do I go from there? How am I meant to know that fab guy I click with really is single? So far I've been avoiding all guys who house share. That's for privacy mainly but what happens if he genuinely is single and I've knocked back a really nice guy that I could of gone to a hotel with (for that privacy)?"

I wish people were honest about their age, height & with their photos but that's not always the case.

It's the chance you take when meeting off internet sites, you'll never be 100% sure that others are telling the truth. Only you can decide if it's worth the hassle to be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see it as no married people should be on this site without their partners. So if I meet a guy that's says he's single and has a single profile, sorry but that's not me cheating..that's all on him! People can't have ago and beat the other woman, because in most cases the other woman doesn't know "her date / her man" is actually married.

I wish everyone one this site was honest, but they're not! It's not logical to treat all fab single guys as cheats. So where do I go from there? How am I meant to know that fab guy I click with really is single? So far I've been avoiding all guys who house share. That's for privacy mainly but what happens if he genuinely is single and I've knocked back a really nice guy that I could of gone to a hotel with (for that privacy)?

I wish people were honest about their age, height & with their photos but that's not always the case.

It's the chance you take when meeting off internet sites, you'll never be 100% sure that others are telling the truth. Only you can decide if it's worth the hassle to be on here.

"

It is. Which is why I always do socials only. A quick drink in public even for an hour wouldn't hurt anyone. Yet can provide a person with a lot of info. First example whether I feel comfortable around them, attraction, see if they're married and see first hand without pressure whether they look like their pics etc. Been on a lot of socials where the guy looks little like his "recent pics". I just finish my drink and politely leave. Only wasted an hour of my time and the price of one drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see it as no married people should be on this site without their partners. So if I meet a guy that's says he's single and has a single profile, sorry but that's not me cheating..that's all on him! People can't have ago and beat the other woman, because in most cases the other woman doesn't know "her date / her man" is actually married.

I wish everyone one this site was honest, but they're not! It's not logical to treat all fab single guys as cheats. So where do I go from there? How am I meant to know that fab guy I click with really is single? So far I've been avoiding all guys who house share. That's for privacy mainly but what happens if he genuinely is single and I've knocked back a really nice guy that I could of gone to a hotel with (for that privacy)?

I wish people were honest about their age, height & with their photos but that's not always the case.

It's the chance you take when meeting off internet sites, you'll never be 100% sure that others are telling the truth. Only you can decide if it's worth the hassle to be on here.

It is. Which is why I always do socials only. A quick drink in public even for an hour wouldn't hurt anyone. Yet can provide a person with a lot of info. First example whether I feel comfortable around them, attraction, see if they're married and see first hand without pressure whether they look like their pics etc. Been on a lot of socials where the guy looks little like his "recent pics". I just finish my drink and politely leave. Only wasted an hour of my time and the price of one drink. "

Socials only first! Lol sorry.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Depends on the situation. I like the idea of sending him home covered with my juices xxxx

Laying your scent

I find it a big turn on x

See now that's just shit.

That was what I was trying to say,

If someone cheated on me the worst part would be feeling foolish, knowing that other people knew and were laughing behind my back. Oh and if I found a boyfriend after 7 years of being single and then he went and shagged some bird that knew about me and got off on that fact, the guys dick would be off and I'd be tracking that bitch with a pack of bloodhounds and once found I'd challenge her to a dual with her signing a clause that agreed to no police involvement afterwards, there that's what I'd do!"

I like you

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston


"it tends to make them more discreet and play safe without thinking about it x

Especially if the wife knows where he's going

Some men / ladies also play with permission.

I dont seem to have a problem however my oh gets the not meeting you you are married responses. "

I totally get that, I've had it previously, been told I'm lying that I have permission.

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I see it as no married people should be on this site without their partners. So if I meet a guy that's says he's single and has a single profile, sorry but that's not me cheating..that's all on him! People can't have ago and beat the other woman, because in most cases the other woman doesn't know "her date / her man" is actually married.

I wish everyone one this site was honest, but they're not! It's not logical to treat all fab single guys as cheats. So where do I go from there? How am I meant to know that fab guy I click with really is single? So far I've been avoiding all guys who house share. That's for privacy mainly but what happens if he genuinely is single and I've knocked back a really nice guy that I could of gone to a hotel with (for that privacy)?

I wish people were honest about their age, height & with their photos but that's not always the case.

It's the chance you take when meeting off internet sites, you'll never be 100% sure that others are telling the truth. Only you can decide if it's worth the hassle to be on here.

"

I'm getting the impression from this thread that lots of Single Guy profiles 'stretch' the truth.

I must be massively naive. Mine is completely honest. It HAS to be. As my wife and I enjoy the benefits of an open marriage, I absolutely can't afford to mislead anyone as any meets I have are completely free to contact Wifey. She also has total access to my logon when ever she wants. When I was on a previous site, she always looked at the profile and messages of any Ladies I was to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

"

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available "

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home..."

Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends

I did...then had the unsuspecting wife on my phone asking why my number was on her husbands phone

So didn't...

Then..I started again a day as long as I don't get involved with domestics...I'm cool with it

Not my worry

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

"

As well as not instead of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home...

Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then "

Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

As well as not instead of"

Well of course. But at that moment its me theyre lusting after.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home...

Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then

Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk. "

That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home...

Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then

Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk.

That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more "

I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home...

Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then

Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk.

That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more

I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would... "

WTF!! Seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

"

Maybe it's because you have no morals ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home...

Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then

Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk.

That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more

I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would...

WTF!! Seriously "

Yes. Its of no concern to others what i get off on tbf.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home...

Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then

Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk.

That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more

I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would... "

If she's putting out that is, there's plenty of reasons why she may not be at that moment in time, and if she's not your just someone to fill the time between sessions with her. It's that old saying if they aren't getting it at home their getting it elsewhere, you're just elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

Maybe it's because you have no morals ?"

I do have morals. Just not the same as other people.

I like what i like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home...

Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then

Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk.

That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more

I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would...

If she's putting out that is, there's plenty of reasons why she may not be at that moment in time, and if she's not your just someone to fill the time between sessions with her. It's that old saying if they aren't getting it at home their getting it elsewhere, you're just elsewhere "

Either way i still get a kick so it doesnt really matter to me what the wifey is or isnt doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh it's not the single fem that's doing the cheacting here

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home...

Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then

Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk.

That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more

I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would... "

To a guy like that, the bit on the side is marginally better than two 'Value' steaks from Tesco. He will never go on vacation or invite her around at a party he throws or anything which lets his dirty little secret out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete....don't like that shit x"

And this

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Instant delete for me.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home...

Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then

Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk.

That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more

I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would...

To a guy like that, the bit on the side is marginally better than two 'Value' steaks from Tesco. He will never go on vacation or invite her around at a party he throws or anything which lets his dirty little secret out"

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I just ignore the message. We would never knowingly play with cheaters, wether they be men or women. Cheaters just annoy me on this site. We are here for fun with other couples wether they be married, partners or fwb xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find dishonesty, weakness and greed very unattractive. So no, married men playing without their partners permission are a huge turn off for me. He could be the best looking guy in the world, but he'll still be disgusting to me.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home...

Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then

Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk.

That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more

I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would...

To a guy like that, the bit on the side is marginally better than two 'Value' steaks from Tesco. He will never go on vacation or invite her around at a party he throws or anything which lets his dirty little secret out"

True even to the ones playing with the wife's permission you're still the value steaks in comparison, the wife/family will always come first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men turn me on.

I get off on the fact theyre choosing to fuck me rather than their wife.

For most given the choice theyd choose their wife, it's generally why they don't leave them you're just a convience until the wife's available

If theyve gone out of their way to sneak around then i would exactly say its convenient. Especially when their wife is at home...

Generally why most wait til she's working not much invonvienent sneaking required then

Most. Not all. I prefer the ones willing to take a little more risk.

That's your kink, that's fine, but sheer fact is you're no better than the wife you just believe otherwise as it suits your sentiments more

I disagree. If they wanted to just stay at home and fuck the wife they would...

To a guy like that, the bit on the side is marginally better than two 'Value' steaks from Tesco. He will never go on vacation or invite her around at a party he throws or anything which lets his dirty little secret out"

Good. Id rather not go to parties or on holiday. Im here for the fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh it's not the single fem that's doing the cheacting here "

put the responsibility in the right place, with the attached person not the single person.

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