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Rant....(need to clear my head)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bizarre rant for this time of night but I need to get out of my mind.

I have as of tonight been traded in for a younger model!

No job, no car, sofa surfing and not really interested in social activities or public appearances.

However, at 10 years younger and 10lbs lighter it appears in am now no longer the ideal choice.

Sorry for ruining everyones weekend but I had to get it off my mind. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this mr or Mrs posting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry are you saying youre no longer a couple?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mr.

Unusual I know

It's usually the Mrs that ends up on a trade in but not in this instance.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

That sucks! Sorry to hear it whichever of you is posting

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By *teve80321Man
over a year ago

newport


"Bizarre rant for this time of night but I need to get out of my mind.

I have as of tonight been traded in for a younger model!

No job, no car, sofa surfing and not really interested in social activities or public appearances.

However, at 10 years younger and 10lbs lighter it appears in am now no longer the ideal choice.

Sorry for ruining everyones weekend but I had to get it off my mind. x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it."

Me either but that's nothing new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bizarre rant for this time of night but I need to get out of my mind.

I have as of tonight been traded in for a younger model!

No job, no car, sofa surfing and not really interested in social activities or public appearances.

However, at 10 years younger and 10lbs lighter it appears in am now no longer the ideal choice.

Sorry for ruining everyones weekend but I had to get it off my mind. x"

er..u are a couple...what was the meet for??/

I've rarely had that happen in the past...if someone says shit like "we'll get back to you at the end of the week", I;ll take the better offer

itsa cock or a hole..

thats all it really is...despite how its dressed up(personality,goals,creationism...blah fucking blah)

If I will meet..its done its dusted and the meet goes ahead.simple.

IF i lose out on a hot fannyy...I dont give a fuckj..theres another one..

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By *teve80321Man
over a year ago

newport


"Bizarre rant for this time of night but I need to get out of my mind.

I have as of tonight been traded in for a younger model!

No job, no car, sofa surfing and not really interested in social activities or public appearances.

However, at 10 years younger and 10lbs lighter it appears in am now no longer the ideal choice.

Sorry for ruining everyones weekend but I had to get it off my mind. x"
no need to sofa surf if your in wales.x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Bizarre rant for this time of night but I need to get out of my mind.

I have as of tonight been traded in for a younger model!

No job, no car, sofa surfing and not really interested in social activities or public appearances.

However, at 10 years younger and 10lbs lighter it appears in am now no longer the ideal choice.

Sorry for ruining everyones weekend but I had to get it off my mind. x

er..u are a couple...what was the meet for??/

I've rarely had that happen in the past...if someone says shit like "we'll get back to you at the end of the week", I;ll take the better offer

itsa cock or a hole..

thats all it really is...despite how its dressed up(personality,goals,creationism...blah fucking blah)

If I will meet..its done its dusted and the meet goes ahead.simple.

IF i lose out on a hot fannyy...I dont give a fuckj..theres another one..

"

That's made it clear as mud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That sucks! Sorry to hear it whichever of you is posting "

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By *aulusMan
over a year ago

Chester


"Bizarre rant for this time of night but I need to get out of my mind.

I have as of tonight been traded in for a younger model!

No job, no car, sofa surfing and not really interested in social activities or public appearances.

However, at 10 years younger and 10lbs lighter it appears in am now no longer the ideal choice.

Sorry for ruining everyones weekend but I had to get it off my mind. x

er..u are a couple...what was the meet for??/

I've rarely had that happen in the past...if someone says shit like "we'll get back to you at the end of the week", I;ll take the better offer

itsa cock or a hole..

thats all it really is...despite how its dressed up(personality,goals,creationism...blah fucking blah)

If I will meet..its done its dusted and the meet goes ahead.simple.

IF i lose out on a hot fannyy...I dont give a fuckj..theres another one..

That's made it clear as mud "

Then I said you get a banana and I'll tie the trousers to the fence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am sorry to hear if this a relationship break up...you have a great list of verifies..but this isnt really the placce to start nameshame etc...

you have expressed why/how..can only say am sorry, but have to move on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trouble is Mrs is sexy as fuck and can probably choose any cock she wants! And sadly for you she knows it! Bad luck mate but there are other very sexy fish in the ocean! Good luck! Enjoy the hunt for the perfect fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trouble is Mrs is sexy as fuck and can probably choose any cock she wants! And sadly for you she knows it! Bad luck mate but there are other very sexy fish in the ocean! Good luck! Enjoy the hunt for the perfect fuck! "

Have you met the OP's Mrs on here then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr.

Unusual I know

It's usually the Mrs that ends up on a trade in but not in this instance."

Er sorry I don't get it. Your profile says you are a Bi Female couple. So you can't be Mr.....

Sorry you have been traded in though, my FWB wants to get a 24 year old gf! Lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is very confusing, first says you are female couple, then mentions male???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trouble is Mrs is sexy as fuck and can probably choose any cock she wants! And sadly for you she knows it! Bad luck mate but there are other very sexy fish in the ocean! Good luck! Enjoy the hunt for the perfect fuck!

Have you met the OP's Mrs on here then? "

No, but judging by the pics...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Trouble is Mrs is sexy as fuck and can probably choose any cock she wants! And sadly for you she knows it! Bad luck mate but there are other very sexy fish in the ocean! Good luck! Enjoy the hunt for the perfect fuck!

Have you met the OP's Mrs on here then?

No, but judging by the pics..."

So only at least her body is sexy as fuck then hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is very confusing, first says you are female couple, then mentions male??? "

Kat is a 6ft 2 man,from what I can see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

together couple or fuck buddy couple ? -

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Your profile is very confusing, first says you are female couple, then mentions male??? "

Not just me then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't really matter who is who or what sex. If someone has been dumped and traded in for another lover ..... it hurts.

Love and hugs for whoever needs it. Take some time to get your head and heart together and spend time with good people xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Your profile is very confusing, first says you are female couple, then mentions male???

Kat is a 6ft 2 man,from what I can see. "

First off however it states they're a bi female couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is very confusing, first says you are female couple, then mentions male???

Not just me then. "

i think profile is ok - says they are a bi fem couple - then in the bumf says about a cock -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr.

Unusual I know

It's usually the Mrs that ends up on a trade in but not in this instance.

Er sorry I don't get it. Your profile says you are a Bi Female couple. So you can't be Mr.....

Sorry you have been traded in though, my FWB wants to get a 24 year old gf! Lol xxx"

I assume bi-female couple. Easier to understand when stating: Couple with a bi-female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am sorry to hear if this a relationship break up...you have a great list of verifies..but this isnt really the placce to start nameshame etc...

you have expressed why/how..can only say am sorry, but have to move on?"

I think that has happened inadvertently.

Sorry to hear about your news OP. Take time out for you if that's appropriate for you. If you want to stay here then a rethink is needed over your profile.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So......in addition to thoughts on the above "trade in" situation.

Advice and honesty are pretty much what I hope to achieve here now.

Do I tinker and adjust the profile accordingly, keep the verification list up, alter some pics and see what comes of it?

Or do I realise that single men are on a loss instantly regardless of how they got on as a couple and cut losses and call it a day?

Any advice would be of use.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"So......in addition to thoughts on the above "trade in" situation.

Advice and honesty are pretty much what I hope to achieve here now.

Do I tinker and adjust the profile accordingly, keep the verification list up, alter some pics and see what comes of it?

Or do I realise that single men are on a loss instantly regardless of how they got on as a couple and cut losses and call it a day?

Any advice would be of use. "

So are you not a couple and just a single guy then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not good, that is what the swinging scene can do to a marriage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So......in addition to thoughts on the above "trade in" situation.

Advice and honesty are pretty much what I hope to achieve here now.

Do I tinker and adjust the profile accordingly, keep the verification list up, alter some pics and see what comes of it?

Or do I realise that single men are on a loss instantly regardless of how they got on as a couple and cut losses and call it a day?

Any advice would be of use.

So are you not a couple and just a single guy then? "

?? Erm...Yeah we are a single guy with 85 veris as a couple??

Methinks people are getting the wrong idea on this thread??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not good, that is what the swinging scene can do to a marriage."

It's not bad enough that he is younger and quite frankly in better shape but he isn't even in the know on the swinging scene.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"So......in addition to thoughts on the above "trade in" situation.

Advice and honesty are pretty much what I hope to achieve here now.

Do I tinker and adjust the profile accordingly, keep the verification list up, alter some pics and see what comes of it?

Or do I realise that single men are on a loss instantly regardless of how they got on as a couple and cut losses and call it a day?

Any advice would be of use.

So are you not a couple and just a single guy then?

?? Erm...Yeah we are a single guy with 85 veris as a couple??

Methinks people are getting the wrong idea on this thread?? "

That's how I read the last part about cutting the losses it didn't read right to me and couples sometimes split up there have been posts where guys/ladies are asking how they change the profile to a single one because they've separated and when admin changes it the verifications all stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So......in addition to thoughts on the above "trade in" situation.

Advice and honesty are pretty much what I hope to achieve here now.

Do I tinker and adjust the profile accordingly, keep the verification list up, alter some pics and see what comes of it?

Or do I realise that single men are on a loss instantly regardless of how they got on as a couple and cut losses and call it a day?

Any advice would be of use.

So are you not a couple and just a single guy then?

?? Erm...Yeah we are a single guy with 85 veris as a couple??

Methinks people are getting the wrong idea on this thread?? "

It sounds like this is a very recent thing?

I think you should adjust the profile so it shows you as a single man. For lots of reasons.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I think first hide the profile.

Take some time out to get used to the situation. Clearly any breakup will need your attention in the real world.

Once you have adjusted and given yourself time to decide the path you want to take in the real world then consider if you wish to continue in a swingers environment as well.

If so.. speak to adminew about adjusting the profile (as I did)

Good luck with what ever happens

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