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"Your update announcement could be seen as letting people know you're not meeting. Maybe state that you are having a baby, but that you still want to meet. Congratulations by the way ! " Fair point. Have made this more prominent! And thank you. Very excited | |||
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"Congratulations on your happy news Thanks hun xxx" Must admit that playing with a pregnant woman is a particular fantasy of mine | |||
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"Congratulations. I think pregnant women look incredible, so very sexy and alluring. Although most pregnant ladies I've ever met feel the exact opposite. " | |||
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"Congratulations. I think pregnant women look incredible, so very sexy and alluring. Although most pregnant ladies I've ever met feel the exact opposite. " +1 | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. " That's my thoughts as well. Oh and just noticed I spelt another word wrong in my rant, incest* it's the phone not me! | |||
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"Never understood the whole pregnancy fetish thing, or why a woman who already has a partner, still want to have sex with loads of people. This subsect and anything to do with insist are the ones that I get all up on my soap box. I'm sorry I just think you should look after your body and your unborn child. It only it's only another 5 months left ffs. " Why are you on a swinging site if you don't get why someone in a relationship would have sex with others? | |||
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"Never understood the whole pregnancy fetish thing, or why a woman who already has a partner, still want to have sex with loads of people. This subsect and anything to do with insist are the ones that I get all up on my soap box. I'm sorry I just think you should look after your body and your unborn child. It only it's only another 5 months left ffs. Why are you on a swinging site if you don't get why someone in a relationship would have sex with others? " When fucking pregnant duh!! Thread is about being pregnant. | |||
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"Jaysus you never specified. Touchy much? " Yeah I am, does look a bit confusing I suppose, I apologise. | |||
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"Jaysus you never specified. Touchy much? Yeah I am, does look a bit confusing I suppose, I apologise. " No worries | |||
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"Never understood the whole pregnancy fetish thing, or why a woman who already has a partner, still want to have sex with loads of people. This subsect and anything to do with insist are the ones that I get all up on my soap box. I'm sorry I just think you should look after your body and your unborn child. It only it's only another 5 months left ffs. Why are you on a swinging site if you don't get why someone in a relationship would have sex with others? When fucking pregnant duh!! Thread is about being pregnant. " doesnt really make much difference... the fact is your making judgements... its perfectly safe to have sex while pregnant.. | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. " According to the NHS "it's perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy. Your partners can't penetrate beyond your vagina, and the baby cannot tell what's going on." Have you actually got any evidence there's "risk"? | |||
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"Never understood the whole pregnancy fetish thing, or why a woman who already has a partner, still want to have sex with loads of people. This subsect and anything to do with insist are the ones that I get all up on my soap box. I'm sorry I just think you should look after your body and your unborn child. It only it's only another 5 months left ffs. Why are you on a swinging site if you don't get why someone in a relationship would have sex with others? When fucking pregnant duh!! Thread is about being pregnant. doesnt really make much difference... the fact is your making judgements... its perfectly safe to have sex while pregnant.. " Sex while pregnant may be safe. But the risk of sti's is far greater the more you have contact with. Even protected. Same risks as usual. Except some sti's can cause birth defects and worse. | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. According to the NHS "it's perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy. Your partners can't penetrate beyond your vagina, and the baby cannot tell what's going on." Have you actually got any evidence there's "risk"? " I wasn't saying that Sex itself is a risk to the baby. That is for most women safe. But condoms only limit the risk of sti transfer. Not prevent it. Some stis cause birth defects and worse. To me that is not worth the risk. Maybe it is to others. | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. According to the NHS "it's perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy. Your partners can't penetrate beyond your vagina, and the baby cannot tell what's going on." Have you actually got any evidence there's "risk"? I wasn't saying that Sex itself is a risk to the baby. That is for most women safe. But condoms only limit the risk of sti transfer. Not prevent it. Some stis cause birth defects and worse. To me that is not worth the risk. Maybe it is to others. " There's never really a good time to get an STI though. People should be getting tested and vetting partners whether they are pregnant or not! | |||
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"Never understood the whole pregnancy fetish thing, or why a woman who already has a partner, still want to have sex with loads of people. This subsect and anything to do with insist are the ones that I get all up on my soap box. I'm sorry I just think you should look after your body and your unborn child. It only it's only another 5 months left ffs. Why are you on a swinging site if you don't get why someone in a relationship would have sex with others? When fucking pregnant duh!! Thread is about being pregnant. doesnt really make much difference... the fact is your making judgements... its perfectly safe to have sex while pregnant.. Sex while pregnant may be safe. But the risk of sti's is far greater the more you have contact with. Even protected. Same risks as usual. Except some sti's can cause birth defects and worse." This The concern isn't about sex during pregnancy....it's about risk of contracting STIs through multiple partners. Fair enough to take that risk as an adult....not acceptable, in my view, to expose the unborn child. | |||
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"Never understood the whole pregnancy fetish thing, or why a woman who already has a partner, still want to have sex with loads of people. This subsect and anything to do with insist are the ones that I get all up on my soap box. I'm sorry I just think you should look after your body and your unborn child. It only it's only another 5 months left ffs. Why are you on a swinging site if you don't get why someone in a relationship would have sex with others? When fucking pregnant duh!! Thread is about being pregnant. doesnt really make much difference... the fact is your making judgements... its perfectly safe to have sex while pregnant.. Sex while pregnant may be safe. But the risk of sti's is far greater the more you have contact with. Even protected. Same risks as usual. Except some sti's can cause birth defects and worse. This The concern isn't about sex during pregnancy....it's about risk of contracting STIs through multiple partners. Fair enough to take that risk as an adult....not acceptable, in my view, to expose the unborn child. " If you're playing with people you know and trust then the probability of hurting the child is probably less than the risks from eating a McDonald's | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. According to the NHS "it's perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy. Your partners can't penetrate beyond your vagina, and the baby cannot tell what's going on." Have you actually got any evidence there's "risk"? I wasn't saying that Sex itself is a risk to the baby. That is for most women safe. But condoms only limit the risk of sti transfer. Not prevent it. Some stis cause birth defects and worse. To me that is not worth the risk. Maybe it is to others. There's never really a good time to get an STI though. People should be getting tested and vetting partners whether they are pregnant or not! " No there is never a good time and people should get tested. But not all do. And I'm pretty sure getting 1 while pregnant most would consider worse than when not. Most stis have no lasting effects on an adult once treated. They can hAve la sting effects on an unborn baby. | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. According to the NHS "it's perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy. Your partners can't penetrate beyond your vagina, and the baby cannot tell what's going on." Have you actually got any evidence there's "risk"? I wasn't saying that Sex itself is a risk to the baby. That is for most women safe. But condoms only limit the risk of sti transfer. Not prevent it. Some stis cause birth defects and worse. To me that is not worth the risk. Maybe it is to others. There's never really a good time to get an STI though. People should be getting tested and vetting partners whether they are pregnant or not! No there is never a good time and people should get tested. But not all do. And I'm pretty sure getting 1 while pregnant most would consider worse than when not. Most stis have no lasting effects on an adult once treated. They can hAve la sting effects on an unborn baby. " According to the NHS, 20.2% of mothers in the North East smoke whilst pregnant. It's 13.4% nationwide so I bet there are some people who condemned swinging whilst pregnant but still smoked! (Not implying you did personally) | |||
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"Pregnant women & swinging...just No No no no No no No Just no Wrong " Judging other people's choices on matters of risk measured with decimal places.... no, just no, wrong | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. According to the NHS "it's perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy. Your partners can't penetrate beyond your vagina, and the baby cannot tell what's going on." Have you actually got any evidence there's "risk"? I wasn't saying that Sex itself is a risk to the baby. That is for most women safe. But condoms only limit the risk of sti transfer. Not prevent it. Some stis cause birth defects and worse. To me that is not worth the risk. Maybe it is to others. There's never really a good time to get an STI though. People should be getting tested and vetting partners whether they are pregnant or not! No there is never a good time and people should get tested. But not all do. And I'm pretty sure getting 1 while pregnant most would consider worse than when not. Most stis have no lasting effects on an adult once treated. They can hAve la sting effects on an unborn baby. According to the NHS, 20.2% of mothers in the North East smoke whilst pregnant. It's 13.4% nationwide so I bet there are some people who condemned swinging whilst pregnant but still smoked! (Not implying you did personally) " No I didn't, I quit. Smoking restricts the blood flow and introduces chemicals to the baby, increasing risk of premature birth and low birth weights, as well as a cranky baby because of nicotine withdrawal. Some stis can cause physical and developmental defects. I'm not denying the smoking statistic, but I'm not sure how 1 group of parents putting their babies at risk is any justification for a different risk. | |||
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"Some very judgemental people on this post. If its not you who is pregnant and you have no intentions of meeting the person who is then what business is it of yours to say its wrong? Her body, her baby and her choice!" Does the baby have a choice? | |||
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"Never understood the whole pregnancy fetish thing, or why a woman who already has a partner, still want to have sex with loads of people. This subsect and anything to do with insist are the ones that I get all up on my soap box. I'm sorry I just think you should look after your body and your unborn child. It only it's only another 5 months left ffs. Why are you on a swinging site if you don't get why someone in a relationship would have sex with others? When fucking pregnant duh!! Thread is about being pregnant. doesnt really make much difference... the fact is your making judgements... its perfectly safe to have sex while pregnant.. Sex while pregnant may be safe. But the risk of sti's is far greater the more you have contact with. Even protected. Same risks as usual. Except some sti's can cause birth defects and worse. This The concern isn't about sex during pregnancy....it's about risk of contracting STIs through multiple partners. Fair enough to take that risk as an adult....not acceptable, in my view, to expose the unborn child. If you're playing with people you know and trust then the probability of hurting the child is probably less than the risks from eating a McDonald's " I just want to point out before I put this have no issues at all with pregnant women swinging, its their choice and nothing to do with me However Even people you trust can have sti's You can have a sti and not even know yourself I don't think playing with people you trust makes any type of sex pregnant or not less of a risk | |||
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"I've been with a couple early this year and the wife was 7 months pregnant. Apart from hubby I was the only other man she was having sex with. Had lots of fun with her, and she gave birth to healthy baby 2 months later. Had No Issues with that scenario; just fun all the way... " That's great, but if the person they were seeing had an sti the end could have been very different. Which is why for me, that situation wouldnt happen. | |||
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"Some very judgemental people on this post. If its not you who is pregnant and you have no intentions of meeting the person who is then what business is it of yours to say its wrong? Her body, her baby and her choice!" It's a public forum, I'm having a polite discussion with others who can make their point calmly without insult. | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. According to the NHS "it's perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy. Your partners can't penetrate beyond your vagina, and the baby cannot tell what's going on." Have you actually got any evidence there's "risk"? I wasn't saying that Sex itself is a risk to the baby. That is for most women safe. But condoms only limit the risk of sti transfer. Not prevent it. Some stis cause birth defects and worse. To me that is not worth the risk. Maybe it is to others. There's never really a good time to get an STI though. People should be getting tested and vetting partners whether they are pregnant or not! No there is never a good time and people should get tested. But not all do. And I'm pretty sure getting 1 while pregnant most would consider worse than when not. Most stis have no lasting effects on an adult once treated. They can hAve la sting effects on an unborn baby. According to the NHS, 20.2% of mothers in the North East smoke whilst pregnant. It's 13.4% nationwide so I bet there are some people who condemned swinging whilst pregnant but still smoked! (Not implying you did personally) No I didn't, I quit. Smoking restricts the blood flow and introduces chemicals to the baby, increasing risk of premature birth and low birth weights, as well as a cranky baby because of nicotine withdrawal. Some stis can cause physical and developmental defects. I'm not denying the smoking statistic, but I'm not sure how 1 group of parents putting their babies at risk is any justification for a different risk." Because there is risk everywhere and most people being judgemental here don't care to measure it. Most of them probably took far greater risks with their diet, driving habits and perhaps smoking, but they still feel justified in condemning others here. | |||
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"Some very judgemental people on this post. If its not you who is pregnant and you have no intentions of meeting the person who is then what business is it of yours to say its wrong? Her body, her baby and her choice! Does the baby have a choice?" Lol, if the mother said she wanted an abortion then the vast majority of the forum would support her, whilst demonising anyone who spoke out against it. So when it comes to abortion, it's a woman's choice. When it comes to taking a miniscule calculate risk then suddenly it's not!!! | |||
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"Never understood the whole pregnancy fetish thing, or why a woman who already has a partner, still want to have sex with loads of people. This subsect and anything to do with insist are the ones that I get all up on my soap box. I'm sorry I just think you should look after your body and your unborn child. It only it's only another 5 months left ffs. Why are you on a swinging site if you don't get why someone in a relationship would have sex with others? When fucking pregnant duh!! Thread is about being pregnant. doesnt really make much difference... the fact is your making judgements... its perfectly safe to have sex while pregnant.. Sex while pregnant may be safe. But the risk of sti's is far greater the more you have contact with. Even protected. Same risks as usual. Except some sti's can cause birth defects and worse. This The concern isn't about sex during pregnancy....it's about risk of contracting STIs through multiple partners. Fair enough to take that risk as an adult....not acceptable, in my view, to expose the unborn child. If you're playing with people you know and trust then the probability of hurting the child is probably less than the risks from eating a McDonald's I just want to point out before I put this have no issues at all with pregnant women swinging, its their choice and nothing to do with me However Even people you trust can have sti's You can have a sti and not even know yourself I don't think playing with people you trust makes any type of sex pregnant or not less of a risk " Personally I can't have an STI and not know because I get off my ass and go to the clinic every 3 months. The people we trust do the same. So yes they are lower risk than those who don't get tested. | |||
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"Some very judgemental people on this post. If its not you who is pregnant and you have no intentions of meeting the person who is then what business is it of yours to say its wrong? Her body, her baby and her choice! Does the baby have a choice? Lol, if the mother said she wanted an abortion then the vast majority of the forum would support her, whilst demonising anyone who spoke out against it. So when it comes to abortion, it's a woman's choice. When it comes to taking a miniscule calculate risk then suddenly it's not!!! " I was just thinking the same. She is still a woman with her own mind, not just a vessel. I'm not against it, it's up to her whoever she chooses to do whatever with. If she does fair play to her. I just know when I was pregnant I was an emotional, hormonal wreck and wouldn't be able for meaningless sex lol. | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. According to the NHS "it's perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy. Your partners can't penetrate beyond your vagina, and the baby cannot tell what's going on." Have you actually got any evidence there's "risk"? I wasn't saying that Sex itself is a risk to the baby. That is for most women safe. But condoms only limit the risk of sti transfer. Not prevent it. Some stis cause birth defects and worse. To me that is not worth the risk. Maybe it is to others. There's never really a good time to get an STI though. People should be getting tested and vetting partners whether they are pregnant or not! No there is never a good time and people should get tested. But not all do. And I'm pretty sure getting 1 while pregnant most would consider worse than when not. Most stis have no lasting effects on an adult once treated. They can hAve la sting effects on an unborn baby. According to the NHS, 20.2% of mothers in the North East smoke whilst pregnant. It's 13.4% nationwide so I bet there are some people who condemned swinging whilst pregnant but still smoked! (Not implying you did personally) No I didn't, I quit. Smoking restricts the blood flow and introduces chemicals to the baby, increasing risk of premature birth and low birth weights, as well as a cranky baby because of nicotine withdrawal. Some stis can cause physical and developmental defects. I'm not denying the smoking statistic, but I'm not sure how 1 group of parents putting their babies at risk is any justification for a different risk. Because there is risk everywhere and most people being judgemental here don't care to measure it. Most of them probably took far greater risks with their diet, driving habits and perhaps smoking, but they still feel justified in condemning others here. " Personally no, I was far healthier and cautious with all my choices through pregnancy, I'd not try to speak for others, all I'm trying to say, is the risk of causing physical or mental defects to a developing child through having sex with multiple partners, is not a risk I would be comfortable taking, no matter how small, it's an easily avoided risk. Maybe 7 pregnancys and 1 surviving child has made me sound a little prudish, but I'd not wish another parent to go through the pain. (Just to be clear mine were not STI, smoking, diet or driving related-just shit happens) | |||
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" Personally I can't have an STI and not know because I get off my ass and go to the clinic every 3 months. The people we trust do the same. So yes they are lower risk than those who don't get tested. " I never suggested people didn't get tested but you can pick things up between tests, if you get tested every 12 weeks catch something 4 weeks later that 8 weeks your walking round unawear of the fact you have something You know it happens Not all sti's show symptoms so not all sti's would give to reason to get tested sooner People do catch sti's between testing if it wasn't possible we wouldn't bother getting tested | |||
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"Sorry, can't believe someone would want to put a poor innocent baby a risk just for sex! I agree with the ladies on here that you are putting the baby at risk to STIs (even if you use protection) and you don't know these men your entertaining. Not sure how social services would view your choice of lifestyle when it comes to child protection! Please rethink your actions. " social services wont bat an eyelid... what a stupid comment | |||
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"I've been with a couple early this year and the wife was 7 months pregnant. Apart from hubby I was the only other man she was having sex with. Had lots of fun with her, and she gave birth to healthy baby 2 months later. Had No Issues with that scenario; just fun all the way... That's great, but if the person they were seeing had an sti the end could have been very different. Which is why for me, that situation wouldnt happen." True, if the person had a STI the end could be different - I get your point. Just that in my own scenario with this pregnant lady, I was the only guy she was having sex with, and I had recent test results to prove I was STI Free, hence there were no issues. | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. According to the NHS "it's perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy. Your partners can't penetrate beyond your vagina, and the baby cannot tell what's going on." Have you actually got any evidence there's "risk"? I wasn't saying that Sex itself is a risk to the baby. That is for most women safe. But condoms only limit the risk of sti transfer. Not prevent it. Some stis cause birth defects and worse. To me that is not worth the risk. Maybe it is to others. There's never really a good time to get an STI though. People should be getting tested and vetting partners whether they are pregnant or not! No there is never a good time and people should get tested. But not all do. And I'm pretty sure getting 1 while pregnant most would consider worse than when not. Most stis have no lasting effects on an adult once treated. They can hAve la sting effects on an unborn baby. According to the NHS, 20.2% of mothers in the North East smoke whilst pregnant. It's 13.4% nationwide so I bet there are some people who condemned swinging whilst pregnant but still smoked! (Not implying you did personally) No I didn't, I quit. Smoking restricts the blood flow and introduces chemicals to the baby, increasing risk of premature birth and low birth weights, as well as a cranky baby because of nicotine withdrawal. Some stis can cause physical and developmental defects. I'm not denying the smoking statistic, but I'm not sure how 1 group of parents putting their babies at risk is any justification for a different risk. Because there is risk everywhere and most people being judgemental here don't care to measure it. Most of them probably took far greater risks with their diet, driving habits and perhaps smoking, but they still feel justified in condemning others here. Personally no, I was far healthier and cautious with all my choices through pregnancy, I'd not try to speak for others, all I'm trying to say, is the risk of causing physical or mental defects to a developing child through having sex with multiple partners, is not a risk I would be comfortable taking, no matter how small, it's an easily avoided risk. Maybe 7 pregnancys and 1 surviving child has made me sound a little prudish, but I'd not wish another parent to go through the pain. (Just to be clear mine were not STI, smoking, diet or driving related-just shit happens)" I have absolutely no problem with your choices, you aren't the one coming on here with sweeping judgemental statements. Behind a lot of these comments is a unhealthy, misogynistic idea that sex is a luxury rather than a healthy part of a relationship and an idea that women need to divorce themselves from pleasure for 18 years while they raise a child. | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. According to the NHS "it's perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy. Your partners can't penetrate beyond your vagina, and the baby cannot tell what's going on." Have you actually got any evidence there's "risk"? I wasn't saying that Sex itself is a risk to the baby. That is for most women safe. But condoms only limit the risk of sti transfer. Not prevent it. Some stis cause birth defects and worse. To me that is not worth the risk. Maybe it is to others. There's never really a good time to get an STI though. People should be getting tested and vetting partners whether they are pregnant or not! No there is never a good time and people should get tested. But not all do. And I'm pretty sure getting 1 while pregnant most would consider worse than when not. Most stis have no lasting effects on an adult once treated. They can hAve la sting effects on an unborn baby. According to the NHS, 20.2% of mothers in the North East smoke whilst pregnant. It's 13.4% nationwide so I bet there are some people who condemned swinging whilst pregnant but still smoked! (Not implying you did personally) No I didn't, I quit. Smoking restricts the blood flow and introduces chemicals to the baby, increasing risk of premature birth and low birth weights, as well as a cranky baby because of nicotine withdrawal. Some stis can cause physical and developmental defects. I'm not denying the smoking statistic, but I'm not sure how 1 group of parents putting their babies at risk is any justification for a different risk. Because there is risk everywhere and most people being judgemental here don't care to measure it. Most of them probably took far greater risks with their diet, driving habits and perhaps smoking, but they still feel justified in condemning others here. Personally no, I was far healthier and cautious with all my choices through pregnancy, I'd not try to speak for others, all I'm trying to say, is the risk of causing physical or mental defects to a developing child through having sex with multiple partners, is not a risk I would be comfortable taking, no matter how small, it's an easily avoided risk. Maybe 7 pregnancys and 1 surviving child has made me sound a little prudish, but I'd not wish another parent to go through the pain. (Just to be clear mine were not STI, smoking, diet or driving related-just shit happens)" I'm sorry that happened to you. Everyone experences pregnancy differently though and some women do experience a height in libido. | |||
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"Sorry, can't believe someone would want to put a poor innocent baby a risk just for sex! I agree with the ladies on here that you are putting the baby at risk to STIs (even if you use protection) and you don't know these men your entertaining. Not sure how social services would view your choice of lifestyle when it comes to child protection! Please rethink your actions. " In my own scenario, this pregnant lady was not entertaining "other men"- only me. I get tested regularly and my results were negative. Furthermore I wasn't having sex with anyone else but her; so there was no risk of me picking up something from someone else and passing it on. | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. According to the NHS "it's perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy. Your partners can't penetrate beyond your vagina, and the baby cannot tell what's going on." Have you actually got any evidence there's "risk"? I wasn't saying that Sex itself is a risk to the baby. That is for most women safe. But condoms only limit the risk of sti transfer. Not prevent it. Some stis cause birth defects and worse. To me that is not worth the risk. Maybe it is to others. There's never really a good time to get an STI though. People should be getting tested and vetting partners whether they are pregnant or not! No there is never a good time and people should get tested. But not all do. And I'm pretty sure getting 1 while pregnant most would consider worse than when not. Most stis have no lasting effects on an adult once treated. They can hAve la sting effects on an unborn baby. According to the NHS, 20.2% of mothers in the North East smoke whilst pregnant. It's 13.4% nationwide so I bet there are some people who condemned swinging whilst pregnant but still smoked! (Not implying you did personally) No I didn't, I quit. Smoking restricts the blood flow and introduces chemicals to the baby, increasing risk of premature birth and low birth weights, as well as a cranky baby because of nicotine withdrawal. Some stis can cause physical and developmental defects. I'm not denying the smoking statistic, but I'm not sure how 1 group of parents putting their babies at risk is any justification for a different risk. Because there is risk everywhere and most people being judgemental here don't care to measure it. Most of them probably took far greater risks with their diet, driving habits and perhaps smoking, but they still feel justified in condemning others here. Personally no, I was far healthier and cautious with all my choices through pregnancy, I'd not try to speak for others, all I'm trying to say, is the risk of causing physical or mental defects to a developing child through having sex with multiple partners, is not a risk I would be comfortable taking, no matter how small, it's an easily avoided risk. Maybe 7 pregnancys and 1 surviving child has made me sound a little prudish, but I'd not wish another parent to go through the pain. (Just to be clear mine were not STI, smoking, diet or driving related-just shit happens) I have absolutely no problem with your choices, you aren't the one coming on here with sweeping judgemental statements. Behind a lot of these comments is a unhealthy, misogynistic idea that sex is a luxury rather than a healthy part of a relationship and an idea that women need to divorce themselves from pleasure for 18 years while they raise a child. " No 1s said it's not a healthy part of a relationship, or that abstaining for 18 yr's is needed, just that abstaining from sex outside of the relationship for the duration of the pregnancy is safer for the baby. | |||
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"Do couples here meet pregnant women? We're expecting (17 weeks gone) and found that we get a lot of views but hardly any messages anymore. Not quite like it was before we announced our brilliant news. Just wondering if others have experiences or thoughts to share on this? " A couple I had regular fun with still met me while pregnant but she made a choice to just have soft play. I was cool with that (and would have been cool with any choice she made) and we had some lovely sensual fun tight up until her 8th month. I loved how she looked and she liked being admired. | |||
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"The amazing is that there is this assumption that this female wants to have sex with other men lol We've never had a full swap meet and certainly aren't going to start now. What a very sad state where judgmental views override common sense in any case. Thanks for comments of support. Much appreciated xxx " Full swap or soft. There are risks. Only you guys as a couple can decide if you consider the risk low enough to chance, enjoy your pregnancy. Good luck. | |||
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"The amazing is that there is this assumption that this female wants to have sex with other men lol We've never had a full swap meet and certainly aren't going to start now. What a very sad state where judgmental views override common sense in any case. Thanks for comments of support. Much appreciated xxx Full swap or soft. There are risks. Only you guys as a couple can decide if you consider the risk low enough to chance, enjoy your pregnancy. Good luck." You are too kind after your judgmental rants earlier in the thread. | |||
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"The amazing is that there is this assumption that this female wants to have sex with other men lol We've never had a full swap meet and certainly aren't going to start now. What a very sad state where judgmental views override common sense in any case. Thanks for comments of support. Much appreciated xxx Full swap or soft. There are risks. Only you guys as a couple can decide if you consider the risk low enough to chance, enjoy your pregnancy. Good luck. You are too kind after your judgmental rants earlier in the thread." I'd read again. At no point was I ranting. I had a discussion on a public forum with a couple who could hold a calm conversation. Did you not consider that some folk might have a different view to yourselves? At no point have I said it's got anything to do witheverything what anyone else chosen to do. I discussed a topic that was posted and shared my point of view. | |||
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"First time writing on one of these. Im due to have my baby next week. Most the people commenting on here have said that the partner should be enough during the pregnancy. What if you don't have a partner?? I didn't find out I was pregnant till 4 months and have no contact with the father since then as I wouldn't have a abortion for him. "I felt 19 weeks was too far" Pregnant women may feel uncomfortable about there body's changing others may feel incredible horny all the time. I chose not to meet as I have had a painful pregnancy but I've gone through two wands lol I've had friends in the vanilla world that have had there boyfriends/husbands cheat on them during there pregnancy with and without protection. Basically you can never be 100% safe unless you put the closed sign up for 9 months. Personally I think it's up to the woman if she wants to play and is protected what's the harm? Think it's sad that people are so judgmental, you can have your say but no need to be nasty about it. I put some pics up of my body changing as I liked showing off my round belly, most have been complimentary but have had some tell me how disgusting I look. Sex = pregnancy what on earth is disgusting about a woman's pregnant body. I think for any couples or single ladies that want to play while pregnant it's your choice just be safe. Hell yeah. My x was pregnant with twins and we still had great sex till the morning they were born.x Puma xx " | |||
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"The amazing is that there is this assumption that this female wants to have sex with other men lol We've never had a full swap meet and certainly aren't going to start now. What a very sad state where judgmental views override common sense in any case. Thanks for comments of support. Much appreciated xxx " Congratulations and best wishes | |||
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"So many things are a serious health risk to baby. It's beyond me how anyone can feel it's a worth while risk for a fuck. " Agree...my body was mine only when I was carrying my kids! | |||
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"Do couples here meet pregnant women? We're expecting (17 weeks gone) and found that we get a lot of views but hardly any messages anymore. Not quite like it was before we announced our brilliant news. Just wondering if others have experiences or thoughts to share on this? " Congratulations..if you're ever down south and pregnant please holla...love pregnant women | |||
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"ET, the cervix is closed until birth. What do you think is going to get in? It is not your hymen that seals over when you get pregnant hence mother nature makes that area still accessible. Her partner could get an sti from someone else and still give it to her. " erm? the mothers blood passes through the placenta to the baby. plenty of STIs will kill or damage a featus. | |||
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"I know a girl who's pregnant and she doesn't mind guys cumming inside her but only if she knows they are clean " | |||
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"Never understood the whole pregnancy fetish thing, or why a woman who already has a partner, still want to have sex with loads of people. This subsect and anything to do with insist are the ones that I get all up on my soap box. I'm sorry I just think you should look after your body and your unborn child. It only it's only another 5 months left ffs. Why are you on a swinging site if you don't get why someone in a relationship would have sex with others? " They are not looks lie they throw thier toys and ran away. | |||
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"In fact this is the fourth time this topic keep coming up.I won't change my position or stance.if any woman can't abstained from sex with strangers during her pregnancy, SHE NOT FIT TO BE A MOTHERHOOD. Due consideration for the unborn baby is paramount she need to check her sexual libido.this may sound crass to some people.I don't care. Have fun with your hubby not total strangers" Wow. What a judgemental dickhead... Oh - And a clueless one too ! LOL Flames | |||
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"ET, the cervix is closed until birth. What do you think is going to get in? It is not your hymen that seals over when you get pregnant hence mother nature makes that area still accessible. Her partner could get an sti from someone else and still give it to her. " genital herpes causes blindness and other even more serious issues as the baby is exposed as it passes along the birth canal...and condoms don't protect you from it...just a little food for thought... | |||
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"Do couples here meet pregnant women? We're expecting (17 weeks gone) and found that we get a lot of views but hardly any messages anymore. Not quite like it was before we announced our brilliant news. Just wondering if others have experiences or thoughts to share on this? " Explain!! | |||
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"ET, the cervix is closed until birth. What do you think is going to get in? It is not your hymen that seals over when you get pregnant hence mother nature makes that area still accessible. Her partner could get an sti from someone else and still give it to her. genital herpes causes blindness and other even more serious issues as the baby is exposed as it passes along the birth canal...and condoms don't protect you from it...just a little food for thought..." How many cases in the UK.32000 | |||
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" How many cases in the UK.32000" Cases of what? | |||
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"In fact SHE NOT FIT TO BE A MOTHERHOOD" Does not quite consitute a sentence in English sadly... Look, if you dont think pregnant women should have sex, make sure you dont have sex if you get pregnant... Now if you happen to be a man, your opinion is just that and you can drop the caps. Why would you shout (caps lock equates to shouting) at a woman what you think is the correct sexual etiquette for her? | |||
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"Do couples here meet pregnant women? We're expecting (17 weeks gone) and found that we get a lot of views but hardly any messages anymore. Not quite like it was before we announced our brilliant news. Just wondering if others have experiences or thoughts to share on this? " Congratulations. And yes I love pregnant women. | |||
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