FabSwingers.com forum: Friend invites

By *-and-K OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

How many of you get friend invites and no other contact at all?

Seems we get our fair share like this. But the worst of it is, if you send them a message they don't reply!

We wouldn't dream of sending an invite without an accompanying message. Even moreso we always follow up with messages in following days.

Thinking about it, ALL of our (couples) meets here in the last 4 years have been from us making the 1st move! Not one meeting has been from others contacting us.

All in all a bit one sided huh? Its hard going at times and no wonder Katee has been talking of kicking the whole shebang into touch.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We get them all the time even tho we have this on our profile.

PLEASE DON'T SEND FRIENDS INVITES AS WE DON'T ADD ANY ONE TO OUR FRIENDS LIST TILL WE HAVE MET FROM NOW ON.

We just delete them.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

i get them all the time dont we all be silly for me to turn them down as single guy its different from cpls but if they want to look at the goods thats ok with me if they stay as fiends you never no i could get a meet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh we get them a lot we have said we are going to block people for doing it as they obviously do not read the profile...

So far I have blocked about 30 peeps due to adding as a friend and to be honest I am enjoying blocking them!

If they either can't be arsed to read the profile or think they are something special that we will "drop any or all of our rules" for just them then they deserve to be blocked

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

We have just taken that message off our profile as its dont mate one bit of difference, they simply dont read it lol. Dont bother me so much, but every now and then drives me mad. Have to say most of our meets are now from our local swingers club hotel rather than Fab, as fab can be hard work lol.

Chin up as they say in the uk ., xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have just taken that message off our profile as its dont mate one bit of difference, they simply dont read it lol. Dont bother me so much, but every now and then drives me mad. Have to say most of our meets are now from our local swingers club hotel rather than Fab, as fab can be hard work lol.

Chin up as they say in the uk ., xxx"

I did it purely to see how many would chance their hand it shows how many pic collectors are out there - it is better that they are blocked some do email and send a friends request but for the most part it has stopped time-wasters/pic collectors emailing us with the usual crap they come out with to try to get a look at our pics - its all good here

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always ask if we can add them as friends first and any friends invites we recieve without a message or two first just get deleted.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking about it, ALL of our (couples) meets here in the last 4 years have been from us making the 1st move! Not one meeting has been from others contacting us. "

Nearly all of our meets have been initiated by us, well me actually, lol, but then again, I've never been afraid to ask if I want something

and I don't see anything wrong with that.

Occaisionally, and it's very occaisionally, we do get an approach from other couples. Some work out ok, some don't, but that's the name of the game

We're on a break at the moment, family stuff, but we'll be back, that's for sure

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our friends invites have come from fellow forumites. We've met a lot of them too.

We haven't had many unsolicited invites though, just a couple that I can recall.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

if we get a friends invite out of the blue from someone we have never chatted to i usually wait til they are offline then accept ...perv their private pics then delete lol of course the sexier pics stay on friends and get a nice wee msg returned..lol am i a bad man

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if we get a friends invite out of the blue from someone we have never chatted to i usually wait til they are offline then accept ...perv their private pics then delete lol of course the sexier pics stay on friends and get a nice wee msg returned..lol am i a bad man

This made me laugh

So crafty but, fair enough!

I am glad to see I am not the only one receiving random friend's requests though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread