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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get that people have their own rules but theres so many people that have no kissing as a rule.

I mean fuck, kissing is like the sexiest thing you could do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless they're a crap kisser.

But yeah, I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell that to your mum next Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't have a meet where the other person doesn't kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everybody is after sexy though, some just want down to business sex

Personally I ador kissing, its my biggest turn on, I just couldn't imagine how I'd get the ball rolling if we didn't start by a kiss, just undoing a guys belt and getting straight to the blow job feels a little clinical to me

But we are all looking for different and there is somebody for everybody on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree. If you're going to be mashing genitals then mashing lips should be part of it too. It's not an erogenous zone for nothing!

Damn I wanna snog now!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We couldnt meet anyone who didnt kiss ,its all part of the build up .I wouldnt be able to get turned on.miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unless its mmf and shes had the other guys cock in her mouth for the past 5 mins, then no,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't have a meet where the other person doesn't kiss "

You know I totally believe you there!!

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

A sensual kiss is mmmmmmm ... the kiss usually gives you a good idea of things to come! I doubt I'd be too pleased if someone went straight for gold with a kiss first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind kneeling on a piss covered public toilet floor, sucking some old gents stinky cock,but I'm not going to kiss him! I'm not a gay! Jeeeez !

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"A sensual kiss is mmmmmmm ... the kiss usually gives you a good idea of things to come! I doubt I'd be too pleased if someone went straight for gold with a kiss first! "

without*

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Nope need kissing to get me in the mood, preferably the kind where they entwine your hair in they hand, pull your head back and kiss you hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unless its mmf and shes had the other guys cock in her mouth for the past 5 mins, then no,

"

Oh wow. That's rubbish. I need to make sure the guys are ok about that when I do my mfm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unless its mmf and shes had the other guys cock in her mouth for the past 5 mins, then no,

"

straight guys.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unless its mmf and shes had the other guys cock in her mouth for the past 5 mins, then no,

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Would you put your cock in though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unless its mmf and shes had the other guys cock in her mouth for the past 5 mins, then no,

straight guys....."

Who'd have 'em

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good to see im not the only one, leaves me with faith in the swinging world. Intimacy is a sexy thing. Business sex, i never thought about that. I suppose there is a lot of down to business sex and i get that but its so clinical.

I guess everyone is here for their own reasons and im never one to say that you should be doing this and you should be doing that. It would be a shit place if everyone was the same.


"unless its mmf and shes had the other guys cock in her mouth for the past 5 mins, then no,

"

Whats wrong with that?

oh yeah you might catch the gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing?! What is this, Pretty Woman?! How can you build tension, hunger, intimacy without kissing?

No kissy? No sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is one of my favourite things .

Without being sensual your just performing an act .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends entirely on the situation and who it is...sometimes it's the kind of intimate play we like to have...at clubs or parties though if I'm in the zone, I'm not going to insist on kissing someone before I suck his cock or lick her...personally most times I can take it or leave it. I love kissing women but not that bothered about men...one to one it would be entirely different...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unless its mmf and shes had the other guys cock in her mouth for the past 5 mins, then no,

"

Are you for real??? Each to their own and all that but that level of squeamishness isn't for us - kills the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unless its mmf and shes had the other guys cock in her mouth for the past 5 mins, then no,

Are you for real??? Each to their own and all that but that level of squeamishness isn't for us - kills the fun "

When he's going down on a woman is he just thinking "she's a virgin, she's a virgin, she's a virgin!...she's never had a creampie!!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"unless its mmf and shes had the other guys cock in her mouth for the past 5 mins, then no,

Are you for real??? Each to their own and all that but that level of squeamishness isn't for us - kills the fun

When he's going down on a woman is he just thinking "she's a virgin, she's a virgin, she's a virgin!...she's never had a creampie!!!!!" "

Hahaha

love it

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I can understand why a couple who does not want the wife to kiss as it may be personal to them but a single female that does not would be off putting for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand why a couple who does not want the wife to kiss as it may be personal to them but a single female that does not would be off putting for me."

Just fuck her throat and do her doggy style.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I can understand why a couple who does not want the wife to kiss as it may be personal to them but a single female that does not would be off putting for me.

Just fuck her throat and do her doggy style. "

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By *SandJ both BiCouple
over a year ago

Brandon

Meet a nice couple at small party last year and we all decided to head back to ours to get know each other better.

The lady said straight away she never kissed the people they play with even the ladies.

It was a bit of a disappointment but we could work around it but that wasn't the end of the NO's.

She only sucked her man's cock, only licked the other woman's breasts but would not give oral to the lady but was happy to receive it.

So basically she laid on the bed while the 3 of us pleasured her

Soon got bored with that but the guy was in CS's words "a great fuck"

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind kneeling on a piss covered public toilet floor, sucking some old gents stinky cock,but I'm not going to kiss him! I'm not a gay! Jeeeez ! "
pmsl

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Nope need kissing to get me in the mood, preferably the kind where they entwine your hair in they hand, pull your head back and kiss you hard"

That'll do the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope need kissing to get me in the mood, preferably the kind where they entwine your hair in they hand, pull your head back and kiss you hard"

Hello

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By *ottscpl2014Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/derby

We don't kiss on meets and never have done. Never had a problem and no ones every refused a meet because of it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I get that people have their own rules but theres so many people that have no kissing as a rule.

I mean fuck, kissing is like the sexiest thing you could do."

For you that is most certainly true, it doesn't mean to say it's true for everyone

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We don't kiss on meets and never have done. Never had a problem and no ones every refused a meet because of it.

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Same here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The no kissing limit seems to be the most difficult for people to accept...why is that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The no kissing limit seems to be the most difficult for people to accept...why is that?"

I accept its your thing and have no problem with that. I think i just don't understand why?

Intercourse is as close as you can get with someone, so not kissing, does it not make it awkward and maybe somewhat flatten the atmosphere.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The no kissing limit seems to be the most difficult for people to accept...why is that?

I accept its your thing and have no problem with that. I think i just don't understand why?

Intercourse is as close as you can get with someone, so not kissing, does it not make it awkward and maybe somewhat flatten the atmosphere.

"

Not in our experience, no. There are infinite ways in which to experience sensuality and eroticism and I can't agree that penetration is a close as you can get. There are levels of closeness that can be experienced that are way beyond the simple act of a penis entering a vagina.

It's good that we're all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, it's a very important part of sex to me XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope need kissing to get me in the mood, preferably the kind where they entwine your hair in they hand, pull your head back and kiss you hard"

Hell yes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they had a no kissing rule, I would lick their ears out instead, I like doing that (as long as they are not full of wax of course) XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't have a meet where the other person doesn't kiss "

Seconded!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope need kissing to get me in the mood, preferably the kind where they entwine your hair in they hand, pull your head back and kiss you hard"

Mmmmmmm is there any other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the start , the Middle & the end for me ...leave me Breathless

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We kiss on meets, especially girl/girl kissing can be very sensual. Also we have met couples who don't kiss and that's fine. Everybody has there own personal boundaries for reasons of their own.

It seems a bit harsh judging people for playing in the way they have chosen and feel comfortable with. Sometimes kissing threads put non-kissers a step below barebackers lol

Keep it fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo agree with this like you will let me fuck your Mrs but won't let me kiss her I love a good snog just as much as a blow job sometimes it can be even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never meet people nowadays who don't kiss, one, it doesn't do it for us

Two, there are normally issues with the no kissers, jealousy etc

AVOID AVOID AVOID

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I get that people have their own rules but theres so many people that have no kissing as a rule.

I mean fuck, kissing is like the sexiest thing you could do."

I play with a couple - and the wife has made it implicitly clear that she doesn want kissing. I would really like to kiss her - but that is her choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The no kissing limit seems to be the most difficult for people to accept...why is that?

I accept its your thing and have no problem with that. I think i just don't understand why?

Intercourse is as close as you can get with someone, so not kissing, does it not make it awkward and maybe somewhat flatten the atmosphere.

Not in our experience, no. There are infinite ways in which to experience sensuality and eroticism and I can't agree that penetration is a close as you can get. There are levels of closeness that can be experienced that are way beyond the simple act of a penis entering a vagina.

It's good that we're all different."

I suppose yeah if you can find another way of reaching that intimacy then thats cool. Maybe ruling one thing out gives space for your imagination to find another way of reaching that level of pleasure to replace it.

Nice one, just to be clear im not judging people for not kissing on meets im just trying to find out what their reasons are behind it. I find it interesting. As you say it is good that we are all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand why a couple who does not want the wife to kiss as it may be personal to them but a single female that does not would be off putting for me."

Just out of interest why?

All because you are single I don't see why you can't have something you want to keep personal for special people and not random meets

Don't get me wrong i wouldnt meet anybody that wouldn't kiss be them single or couple but I just find it odd your find to meet a couple that does not kiss but a single lady not kissing is off putting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard about this rule, but never come across it in practice. That being said, I've noticed there tends to be less kissing in clubs/parties, and I am no exception. I will spend more time kissing someone if I really really like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt meet

a guy who didnt kiss

how cold for me kissing is the best part of foreplay

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Defo agree with this like you will let me fuck your Mrs but won't let me kiss her I love a good snog just as much as a blow job sometimes it can be even better "

We have an equal say in what happens and it me the Mrs who chooses not to kiss

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

This happens. It's too gay to kiss but you don't mind me fucking your arse.

*shrugs*

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The no kissing limit seems to be the most difficult for people to accept...why is that?

I accept its your thing and have no problem with that. I think i just don't understand why?

Intercourse is as close as you can get with someone, so not kissing, does it not make it awkward and maybe somewhat flatten the atmosphere.

Not in our experience, no. There are infinite ways in which to experience sensuality and eroticism and I can't agree that penetration is a close as you can get. There are levels of closeness that can be experienced that are way beyond the simple act of a penis entering a vagina.

It's good that we're all different.

I suppose yeah if you can find another way of reaching that intimacy then thats cool. Maybe ruling one thing out gives space for your imagination to find another way of reaching that level of pleasure to replace it.

Nice one, just to be clear im not judging people for not kissing on meets im just trying to find out what their reasons are behind it. I find it interesting. As you say it is good that we are all different."

I can see that (unlike some) you aren't judging. You seem to be coming at this from the point of view that if kissing is out you need to search for alternatives, I would say that you shouldn't limit yourself as many seem to, to only one way of finding intimacy and neither should you assume that we are all seeking intimacy.

You say you're open minded and in accepting other people's preference for not kissing you seem to demonstrate that

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By *ucky78Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

I have to kiss and then my hands start to wander

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Never meet people nowadays who don't kiss, one, it doesn't do it for us

Two, there are normally issues with the no kissers, jealousy etc

AVOID AVOID AVOID "

As a non-kisser I say you're wrong in that assumption but by all means feel free to AVOID AVOID AVOID me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah kissing is brilliant as long as no facial hair for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always thought we'd do the 'no kissing rule' but that soon went out of the window and we find it so much better.

I love it when a man pulls my mouth from his cock to kiss me on the mouth

Ginger

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Braw lol, another few to the not meet list, so basically if your potential meet doesn't do all as you are into then there is no meet, no anal, won't meet, no blow job, no meet, no swallowing , no meet , no kissing , no meet , no spit roasting, no meet, fecking he'll grow up, respect folks boundaries, and there is no way any guys on here aren't going to meet if there's no kissing,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never meet people nowadays who don't kiss, one, it doesn't do it for us

Two, there are normally issues with the no kissers, jealousy etc

AVOID AVOID AVOID

As a non-kisser I say you're wrong in that assumption but by all means feel free to AVOID AVOID AVOID me "

Not an assumption but an observation from our experience, the non kissers we've met haven't done it for us and find it pretty pathetic I can suck a cock but not kiss lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't have a meet where the other person doesn't kiss

You know I totally believe you there!!"

She knows

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Never meet people nowadays who don't kiss, one, it doesn't do it for us

Two, there are normally issues with the no kissers, jealousy etc

AVOID AVOID AVOID

As a non-kisser I say you're wrong in that assumption but by all means feel free to AVOID AVOID AVOID me

Not an assumption but an observation from our experience, the non kissers we've met haven't done it for us and find it pretty pathetic I can suck a cock but not kiss lol

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hmm, interesting that you find other peoples preferences pathetic. Still as I said we're all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird "

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird "

ok,,but explain why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its ok to have sex but no kissing,,hmmm sounds cold to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never can happen without kissing for me... Such a huge part of getting down and dirty with someone.. And the better the kisser the quicker i wanna get naked lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

ok,,but explain why not"

I don't enjoy kissing anybody but my partner, it really is that simple.

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird "

Makes 2 o us

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I get that people have their own rules but theres so many people that have no kissing as a rule.

I mean fuck, kissing is like the sexiest thing you could do."

Why is no kissing the preference that people always seem to question or be shocked by the most?

Both of us have no issue kissing others but it's not essential on a meet for us. We've had some great meets with non-kissers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The no kissing limit seems to be the most difficult for people to accept...why is that?

I accept its your thing and have no problem with that. I think i just don't understand why?

Intercourse is as close as you can get with someone, so not kissing, does it not make it awkward and maybe somewhat flatten the atmosphere.

Not in our experience, no. There are infinite ways in which to experience sensuality and eroticism and I can't agree that penetration is a close as you can get. There are levels of closeness that can be experienced that are way beyond the simple act of a penis entering a vagina.

It's good that we're all different.

I suppose yeah if you can find another way of reaching that intimacy then thats cool. Maybe ruling one thing out gives space for your imagination to find another way of reaching that level of pleasure to replace it.

Nice one, just to be clear im not judging people for not kissing on meets im just trying to find out what their reasons are behind it. I find it interesting. As you say it is good that we are all different."

No one is entitled to know other people's reasons for not kissing, but in our experience asking never gets a straight and honest answer anyway, so not worth asking unless the non kissers want to enlighten us on this thread

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Lol just putting it out there, but mrs gets off big style sucking cock , all wet n juicy, as said each to their own . Guess no one wants a blow job now

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

Makes 2 o us"

we weird, cold and jealous...be afraid be very afraid

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The no kissing limit seems to be the most difficult for people to accept...why is that?

I accept its your thing and have no problem with that. I think i just don't understand why?

Intercourse is as close as you can get with someone, so not kissing, does it not make it awkward and maybe somewhat flatten the atmosphere.

Not in our experience, no. There are infinite ways in which to experience sensuality and eroticism and I can't agree that penetration is a close as you can get. There are levels of closeness that can be experienced that are way beyond the simple act of a penis entering a vagina.

It's good that we're all different.

I suppose yeah if you can find another way of reaching that intimacy then thats cool. Maybe ruling one thing out gives space for your imagination to find another way of reaching that level of pleasure to replace it.

Nice one, just to be clear im not judging people for not kissing on meets im just trying to find out what their reasons are behind it. I find it interesting. As you say it is good that we are all different.

No one is entitled to know other people's reasons for not kissing, but in our experience asking never gets a straight and honest answer anyway, so not worth asking unless the non kissers want to enlighten us on this thread "

Please see my response to Mikki above although why on earth any of us should have to justify or explain our preferences I have no idea.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Lol just putting it out there, but mrs gets off big style sucking cock , all wet n juicy, as said each to their own . Guess no one wants a blow job now "

Good lord no! Nobody will want a blow job if they can't kiss you first...the very idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The no kissing limit seems to be the most difficult for people to accept...why is that?

I accept its your thing and have no problem with that. I think i just don't understand why?

Intercourse is as close as you can get with someone, so not kissing, does it not make it awkward and maybe somewhat flatten the atmosphere.

Not in our experience, no. There are infinite ways in which to experience sensuality and eroticism and I can't agree that penetration is a close as you can get. There are levels of closeness that can be experienced that are way beyond the simple act of a penis entering a vagina.

It's good that we're all different.

I suppose yeah if you can find another way of reaching that intimacy then thats cool. Maybe ruling one thing out gives space for your imagination to find another way of reaching that level of pleasure to replace it.

Nice one, just to be clear im not judging people for not kissing on meets im just trying to find out what their reasons are behind it. I find it interesting. As you say it is good that we are all different.

No one is entitled to know other people's reasons for not kissing, but in our experience asking never gets a straight and honest answer anyway, so not worth asking unless the non kissers want to enlighten us on this thread

Please see my response to Mikki above although why on earth any of us should have to justify or explain our preferences I have no idea. "

You don't have to explain, it's just debate and interesting to read, like I said our opinion is based on our experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is someone taking the kiss here?

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

And non of those single guys will want to aid in a 3some , shit were leaving, pointless being here.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I love kissing, long hot can't get enough hands in the hair kisses...

Yes Thankyou

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is someone taking the kiss here?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the most hilarious comment I have read for a long time! What do you think would happen? Is the woman then impure for you only because she sucked the other guy first? My oh my....I hope you mention this to every couple you meet BEFORE you meet, otherwise I'm sure there will be a very uncomfortable pause in the middle of all the play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The no kissing limit seems to be the most difficult for people to accept...why is that?

I accept its your thing and have no problem with that. I think i just don't understand why?

Intercourse is as close as you can get with someone, so not kissing, does it not make it awkward and maybe somewhat flatten the atmosphere.

Not in our experience, no. There are infinite ways in which to experience sensuality and eroticism and I can't agree that penetration is a close as you can get. There are levels of closeness that can be experienced that are way beyond the simple act of a penis entering a vagina.

It's good that we're all different.

I suppose yeah if you can find another way of reaching that intimacy then thats cool. Maybe ruling one thing out gives space for your imagination to find another way of reaching that level of pleasure to replace it.

Nice one, just to be clear im not judging people for not kissing on meets im just trying to find out what their reasons are behind it. I find it interesting. As you say it is good that we are all different.

No one is entitled to know other people's reasons for not kissing, but in our experience asking never gets a straight and honest answer anyway, so not worth asking unless the non kissers want to enlighten us on this thread

Please see my response to Mikki above although why on earth any of us should have to justify or explain our preferences I have no idea. "

eh,,, I never asked you to justify anything,,i only asked why.

simple really,no need for you to be so defensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will kiss on meets but for me (the female) it's not something that's important.

I love kissing my partner, it's a huge turn on and I could snog him forever lol, but I just don't find it's that great kissing someone I don't have feelings for. I only kiss if the person i'm with initiates it, but i'd rather he was paying attention to my other lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

Makes 2 o us

we weird, cold and jealous...be afraid be very afraid "

jealous!,,interesting choice of words

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The no kissing limit seems to be the most difficult for people to accept...why is that?

I accept its your thing and have no problem with that. I think i just don't understand why?

Intercourse is as close as you can get with someone, so not kissing, does it not make it awkward and maybe somewhat flatten the atmosphere.

Not in our experience, no. There are infinite ways in which to experience sensuality and eroticism and I can't agree that penetration is a close as you can get. There are levels of closeness that can be experienced that are way beyond the simple act of a penis entering a vagina.

It's good that we're all different.

I suppose yeah if you can find another way of reaching that intimacy then thats cool. Maybe ruling one thing out gives space for your imagination to find another way of reaching that level of pleasure to replace it.

Nice one, just to be clear im not judging people for not kissing on meets im just trying to find out what their reasons are behind it. I find it interesting. As you say it is good that we are all different.

No one is entitled to know other people's reasons for not kissing, but in our experience asking never gets a straight and honest answer anyway, so not worth asking unless the non kissers want to enlighten us on this thread

Please see my response to Mikki above although why on earth any of us should have to justify or explain our preferences I have no idea.

eh,,, I never asked you to justify anything,,i only asked why.

simple really,no need for you to be so defensive.

"

I wasn't being defensive towards you...in fact I wasn't being defensive at all. I answered you plainly and simply, you quoted my response to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unless its mmf and shes had the other guys cock in her mouth for the past 5 mins, then no,

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That is ridiculously silly!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

Makes 2 o us

we weird, cold and jealous...be afraid be very afraid

jealous!,,interesting choice of words"

Those are words other people have used on this thread to describe people who don't kiss.

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

Makes 2 o us

we weird, cold and jealous...be afraid be very afraid

jealous!,,interesting choice of words"

No the jealous word was used earlier, lol as in profiles please read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

ok,,but explain why not"

The silence is deafening......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The no kissing limit seems to be the most difficult for people to accept...why is that?

I accept its your thing and have no problem with that. I think i just don't understand why?

Intercourse is as close as you can get with someone, so not kissing, does it not make it awkward and maybe somewhat flatten the atmosphere.

Not in our experience, no. There are infinite ways in which to experience sensuality and eroticism and I can't agree that penetration is a close as you can get. There are levels of closeness that can be experienced that are way beyond the simple act of a penis entering a vagina.

It's good that we're all different.

I suppose yeah if you can find another way of reaching that intimacy then thats cool. Maybe ruling one thing out gives space for your imagination to find another way of reaching that level of pleasure to replace it.

Nice one, just to be clear im not judging people for not kissing on meets im just trying to find out what their reasons are behind it. I find it interesting. As you say it is good that we are all different.

No one is entitled to know other people's reasons for not kissing, but in our experience asking never gets a straight and honest answer anyway, so not worth asking unless the non kissers want to enlighten us on this thread

Please see my response to Mikki above although why on earth any of us should have to justify or explain our preferences I have no idea.

eh,,, I never asked you to justify anything,,i only asked why.

simple really,no need for you to be so defensive.

I wasn't being defensive towards you...in fact I wasn't being defensive at all. I answered you plainly and simply, you quoted my response to someone else. "

well you've said what you think,,thats cool,,and I'm entitled to my opinion,,but at no point did I ask you or anyone to "justify" themselves

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

ok,,but explain why not

The silence is deafening...... "

As I said earlier read my response to this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

ok,,but explain why not

The silence is deafening...... "

It doesn't matter why not, it's peoples preference and they shouldn't have to explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing that makes us laugh is none swingers kiss all the time in a pub soon as you put sex in the mix mmm it's an issue lot's of problems we thinks. Kisses is the last problems when being entered xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

Makes 2 o us

we weird, cold and jealous...be afraid be very afraid

jealous!,,interesting choice of words

No the jealous word was used earlier, lol as in profiles please read "

oh ok,,but its funny its mentioned none the less innit

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The no kissing limit seems to be the most difficult for people to accept...why is that?

I accept its your thing and have no problem with that. I think i just don't understand why?

Intercourse is as close as you can get with someone, so not kissing, does it not make it awkward and maybe somewhat flatten the atmosphere.

Not in our experience, no. There are infinite ways in which to experience sensuality and eroticism and I can't agree that penetration is a close as you can get. There are levels of closeness that can be experienced that are way beyond the simple act of a penis entering a vagina.

It's good that we're all different.

I suppose yeah if you can find another way of reaching that intimacy then thats cool. Maybe ruling one thing out gives space for your imagination to find another way of reaching that level of pleasure to replace it.

Nice one, just to be clear im not judging people for not kissing on meets im just trying to find out what their reasons are behind it. I find it interesting. As you say it is good that we are all different.

No one is entitled to know other people's reasons for not kissing, but in our experience asking never gets a straight and honest answer anyway, so not worth asking unless the non kissers want to enlighten us on this thread

Please see my response to Mikki above although why on earth any of us should have to justify or explain our preferences I have no idea.

eh,,, I never asked you to justify anything,,i only asked why.

simple really,no need for you to be so defensive.

I wasn't being defensive towards you...in fact I wasn't being defensive at all. I answered you plainly and simply, you quoted my response to someone else.

well you've said what you think,,thats cool,,and I'm entitled to my opinion,,but at no point did I ask you or anyone to "justify" themselves"

I know. I was responding to the bit in the post I quoted that says "unless the non kissers want to enlighten us"

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

ok,,but explain why not

The silence is deafening...... "

Why do people say no anal, no blow job, no bi guys no single men , O yeah, there preference, no explanation req

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

ok,,but explain why not

The silence is deafening......

It doesn't matter why not, it's peoples preference and they shouldn't have to explain "

I agree its up to them to answer or not.

but hey its a public forum so you cant blame anyone for asking why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is the start , the Middle & the end for me ...leave me Breathless "

xx

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

Makes 2 o us

we weird, cold and jealous...be afraid be very afraid

jealous!,,interesting choice of words

No the jealous word was used earlier, lol as in profiles please read

oh ok,,but its funny its mentioned none the less innit"

Yes, the person reckoned that because anyone doesn't kiss then they must be jealous, don't get it either but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

Makes 2 o us

we weird, cold and jealous...be afraid be very afraid

jealous!,,interesting choice of words

No the jealous word was used earlier, lol as in profiles please read

oh ok,,but its funny its mentioned none the less innit

Yes, the person reckoned that because anyone doesn't kiss then they must be jealous, don't get it either but hey ho"

well I suppose it the 1st thing that enters ones head,as kissing is normally very much part of sex for most people.

personally I find it a bit odd there's no kissing,but hey ho

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

Makes 2 o us

we weird, cold and jealous...be afraid be very afraid

jealous!,,interesting choice of words

No the jealous word was used earlier, lol as in profiles please read

oh ok,,but its funny its mentioned none the less innit

Yes, the person reckoned that because anyone doesn't kiss then they must be jealous, don't get it either but hey ho

well I suppose it the 1st thing that enters ones head,as kissing is normally very much part of sex for most people.

personally I find it a bit odd there's no kissing,but hey ho"

I find giving a blow job and not swallowing odd. But it happens, hey ho de ho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

Makes 2 o us

we weird, cold and jealous...be afraid be very afraid

jealous!,,interesting choice of words

No the jealous word was used earlier, lol as in profiles please read

oh ok,,but its funny its mentioned none the less innit

Yes, the person reckoned that because anyone doesn't kiss then they must be jealous, don't get it either but hey ho

well I suppose it the 1st thing that enters ones head,as kissing is normally very much part of sex for most people.

personally I find it a bit odd there's no kissing,but hey ho

I find giving a blow job and not swallowing odd. But it happens, hey ho de ho. "

lol,,so you,ll swallow cum yet not kiss,,ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own but personally a good slow passionatte snog that builds up to the point where you have to start ripping each others clothes off is by far the best feeling on the planet

No kiss no meet for me id rather lose the penetration than the kissing

Mr x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm all we did was furnish people with our experiences of meeting non kissers, to put a little bit of perspective on it, we both love kissing, we understand that some people don't want to kiss others, if in a couple one of them doesn't want to, then fair enough maybe kissing is too intimate for that person, if it's both in a couple that don't kiss, we find that weird and in OUR experience the play is not as fun for us, having been on the scene as club hosts for newbie nights we've seen many couples start swinging and discussed issues, worries etc and doubts and with more of the non kissing couples than the kissing couples there have been jealousy issues, sorry but that is OUR experience.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met one couple, not naming who, both looked sexy as hell but kissed like a wet fish. We walked away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met one couple, not naming who, both looked sexy as hell but kissed like a wet fish. We walked away."

Shame our paths haven't crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Defo agree with this like you will let me fuck your Mrs but won't let me kiss her I love a good snog just as much as a blow job sometimes it can be even better

We have an equal say in what happens and it me the Mrs who chooses not to kiss "

I can understand that , sorry I didn't mean it like its only men who had the choice , same reason I chose not to go for couples that have this rule

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hmmm all we did was furnish people with our experiences of meeting non kissers, to put a little bit of perspective on it, we both love kissing, we understand that some people don't want to kiss others, if in a couple one of them doesn't want to, then fair enough maybe kissing is too intimate for that person, if it's both in a couple that don't kiss, we find that weird and in OUR experience the play is not as fun for us, having been on the scene as club hosts for newbie nights we've seen many couples start swinging and discussed issues, worries etc and doubts and with more of the non kissing couples than the kissing couples there have been jealousy issues, sorry but that is OUR experience....."

To be fair your initial post on the subject was slightly less reasoned using capital letters to say avoid. Having read this post I can understand why you feel the way you do but my experience is different.

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By *eryCuriousCouple2012Couple
over a year ago

Funville

Ours is a no kissing rule. That's something we reserve for ourselves purely because it is so intimate and sensual. Clearly everyone saying it's so important to kiss is kinda missing the point of why couples reserve it for themselves; that is the reason. If single then yes of course kissing is important, if in a couple then yes kissing is important but for us it's just for us

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By *anzellMan
over a year ago

Essex

I dont do cold and clinical sex....just hot and horny passionate sex that involes plenty of kissing!

I love it when men from couples say you can spunk in her mouth or fuck her in the ass but you cant kiss her as its too personal...!!!

How much more personal can cumming in someones mouth or fucking them up the arse???

The mind boggles...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everybody is after sexy though, some just want down to business sex

Personally I ador kissing, its my biggest turn on, I just couldn't imagine how I'd get the ball rolling if we didn't start by a kiss, just undoing a guys belt and getting straight to the blow job feels a little clinical to me

But we are all looking for different and there is somebody for everybody on here "

That's so true it's all about the build up and the turn on

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"lol,,yea why do people say no kissing,,lol weird

If its weird then I'm happy t be weird

Makes 2 o us

we weird, cold and jealous...be afraid be very afraid

jealous!,,interesting choice of words

No the jealous word was used earlier, lol as in profiles please read

oh ok,,but its funny its mentioned none the less innit

Yes, the person reckoned that because anyone doesn't kiss then they must be jealous, don't get it either but hey ho

well I suppose it the 1st thing that enters ones head,as kissing is normally very much part of sex for most people.

personally I find it a bit odd there's no kissing,but hey ho

I find giving a blow job and not swallowing odd. But it happens, hey ho de ho.

lol,,so you,ll swallow cum yet not kiss,,ok"

Lol yes, well done sir

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"I dont do cold and clinical sex....just hot and horny passionate sex that involes plenty of kissing!

I love it when men from couples say you can spunk in her mouth or fuck her in the ass but you cant kiss her as its too personal...!!!

How much more personal can cumming in someones mouth or fucking them up the arse???

The mind boggles...lol"

It does and it's all about choices and preferences

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Seems quite a few are trying to win an argument. This is about peoples personal preference. Why argue at them that they are 'wrong' ?

People play how they choose, that's the one immovable rule for everyone.

Lots of people have very subtle nuances about what they do and don't like. We are all individuals.

Live and let live xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems quite a few are trying to win an argument. This is about peoples personal preference. Why argue at them that they are 'wrong' ?

People play how they choose, that's the one immovable rule for everyone.

Lots of people have very subtle nuances about what they do and don't like. We are all individuals.

Live and let live xx"

We are all different be a very boring site if we had the same tastes!! Plus wouldn't discover new and interesting things

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Can I just ask, those who say no kissing, is this just snogging type of kissing or any at all? For example would you still kiss neck, inner thighs etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just ask, those who say no kissing, is this just snogging type of kissing or any at all? For example would you still kiss neck, inner thighs etc?"

Well I'm one for kissing anywhere

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"Can I just ask, those who say no kissing, is this just snogging type of kissing or any at all? For example would you still kiss neck, inner thighs etc?"

Yip from us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me kissing is a must, it is where i feel if we have a spark to set fire too. no zing in the kiss no further action taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always thought we'd do the 'no kissing rule' but that soon went out of the window and we find it so much better.

I love it when a man pulls my mouth from his cock to kiss me on the mouth

Ginger"

Oh yes me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me kissing is a must, it is where i feel if we have a spark to set fire too. no zing in the kiss no further action taken. "

With you there!! The kiss is all about lighting that spark knowing the moment your tongues flick you want that feeling all over you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont do cold and clinical sex....just hot and horny passionate sex that involes plenty of kissing!

I love it when men from couples say you can spunk in her mouth or fuck her in the ass but you cant kiss her as its too personal...!!!

How much more personal can cumming in someones mouth or fucking them up the arse???

The mind boggles...lol"

yeap very very strange,,but hey ho de hey ho as they say,,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no kissing during sex,,fuck me sounds soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo cold sooooooooooooooo clinical,,so dull,soooooooooo void of feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely each to their own on here,

I love kissing and wouldn't go without. And you certainly wouldnt get a thing from me if you didn't kiss me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not gonna kiss... you ain't getting this...(*)(*)

\?/

( X )

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not gonna kiss... you ain't getting this...(*)(*)

\?/

( X )

Simples."

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Kissing is essential for me, men who kiss well are yummmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id feel used if someone said no kissing,,infact id tell em to fuck off,the idea revolts me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is essential for me, men who kiss well are yummmm "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is essential for me, men who kiss well are yummmm "

Kissing is an art form, it's all about being firm but not hard, the little flicks of the tongue and also sometimes just holding back a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't have sex without kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is essential for me, men who kiss well are yummmm

Kissing is an art form, it's all about being firm but not hard, the little flicks of the tongue and also sometimes just holding back a little "

wish my dog knew that,,eeeeooooow,just been snogged by a border collie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't have sex without kissing. "

yea,,to me sex without kissing is called wanking,,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is essential for me, men who kiss well are yummmm

Kissing is an art form, it's all about being firm but not hard, the little flicks of the tongue and also sometimes just holding back a little

wish my dog knew that,,eeeeooooow,just been snogged by a border collie

Ha ha dogs getting more action than I am

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing oh yessss x

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

We haven't discussed it as we haven't had the opportunity to meet anyone yet

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We haven't discussed it as we haven't had the opportunity to meet anyone yet "

when you do I hope you all enjoy according to each others preferences . There isn't a right or wrong way

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

How can anyone not want to kiss? Especially someone as hot as Lady Tissington. Damn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that people have their own rules but theres so many people that have no kissing as a rule.

I mean fuck, kissing is like the sexiest thing you could do."

Got to kiss!

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"We haven't discussed it as we haven't had the opportunity to meet anyone yet

when you do I hope you all enjoy according to each others preferences . There isn't a right or wrong way"

I've been thinking about it but not sure if I could or if I'd want to see Grey kissing another woman. Other things too bother me. We are mainly looking to socialise first though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that people have their own rules but theres so many people that have no kissing as a rule.

I mean fuck, kissing is like the sexiest thing you could do.

Got to kiss! "

With you kissing is a must

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We haven't discussed it as we haven't had the opportunity to meet anyone yet

when you do I hope you all enjoy according to each others preferences . There isn't a right or wrong way

I've been thinking about it but not sure if I could or if I'd want to see Grey kissing another woman. Other things too bother me. We are mainly looking to socialise first though "

Best to take it slow and don't be influenced by what other people say you must do. If you feel you don't want to kiss then don't, you might change your mind down the line or you might not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is where it's at! I couldn't imagine not kissing although some people murder the sensuality of it by trying to chew your lips off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is where it's at! I couldn't imagine not kissing although some people murder the sensuality of it by trying to chew your lips off! "

The only thing worse than a none kisser is somebody who can't kiss but insist on keep trying and chasing your lips round the pillow because you've told them how much you like kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find kissing is such a turn on.....but i have had a meet where the guy kissed me like a chicken pecking grain!! It was the biggest turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find kissing is such a turn on.....but i have had a meet where the guy kissed me like a chicken pecking grain!! It was the biggest turn off! "

Bad kissing is the worse just destroys everything!! It's just clicks with the lips the rest will follow x

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By *omeojulietCouple
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

Kissing is definitely a must for us. The only rules we've got are no pain, no watersports and no anal. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is definitely a must for us. The only rules we've got are no pain, no watersports and no anal. Xxx"

Good rules to stand by x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no kissing,dont touch my nipples,try not to smile,,dont tell me yer surname,lol,,fuck it all sounds mental to me

some folk should just by a rubber doll if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no kissing,dont touch my nipples,try not to smile,,dont tell me yer surname,lol,,fuck it all sounds mental to me

some folk should just by a rubber doll if you ask me "

Stay in have a wank save the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no kissing,dont touch my nipples,try not to smile,,dont tell me yer surname,lol,,fuck it all sounds mental to me

some folk should just by a rubber doll if you ask me

Stay in have a wank save the effort "

nah,,i,ll snog n shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no kissing,dont touch my nipples,try not to smile,,dont tell me yer surname,lol,,fuck it all sounds mental to me

some folk should just by a rubber doll if you ask me

Stay in have a wank save the effort

nah,,i,ll snog n shag "

Like your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Braw lol, another few to the not meet list, so basically if your potential meet doesn't do all as you are into then there is no meet, no anal, won't meet, no blow job, no meet, no swallowing , no meet , no kissing , no meet , no spit roasting, no meet, fecking he'll grow up, respect folks boundaries, and there is no way any guys on here aren't going to meet if there's no kissing, "

How is not limiting your own preferences not respecting others boundaries?

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By *ilverriverMan
over a year ago

tullamore

If you both happy with no kissing so be it ... If you both like kissing ... Enjoy it .. It's sexual and is surpose to be

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"We haven't discussed it as we haven't had the opportunity to meet anyone yet

when you do I hope you all enjoy according to each others preferences . There isn't a right or wrong way

I've been thinking about it but not sure if I could or if I'd want to see Grey kissing another woman. Other things too bother me. We are mainly looking to socialise first though

Best to take it slow and don't be influenced by what other people say you must do. If you feel you don't want to kiss then don't, you might change your mind down the line or you might not. "

I will do, thank you

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"Braw lol, another few to the not meet list, so basically if your potential meet doesn't do all as you are into then there is no meet, no anal, won't meet, no blow job, no meet, no swallowing , no meet , no kissing , no meet , no spit roasting, no meet, fecking he'll grow up, respect folks boundaries, and there is no way any guys on here aren't going to meet if there's no kissing,

How is not limiting your own preferences not respecting others boundaries? "

If you read the postings it is critical of non kissers, merely pointing out that there's always something someone won't do,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each person on here has decided what they want and what their boundaries are. Each and overy one of us has to respect those choices. They are their preferences and who are we to judge or disrespect their wishes?

I wouldn't meet without kissing - but I won't do anal. Do you want to give me a gazillion reasons why I should change my mind? Be my guest to try. We'll be here a long time... as NO means NO, as easy as that.

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"no kissing,dont touch my nipples,try not to smile,,dont tell me yer surname,lol,,fuck it all sounds mental to me

some folk should just by a rubber doll if you ask me "

Erse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no kissing,dont touch my nipples,try not to smile,,dont tell me yer surname,lol,,fuck it all sounds mental to me

some folk should just by a rubber doll if you ask me

Erse"

PMSL hahaha@ya

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"Kissing is definitely a must for us. The only rules we've got are no pain, no watersports and no anal. Xxx"

No anal, O no couldn't meet yous lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing! Its what kIcks starts the juicing prosses. Iv been in a non kissing marraige for.10yer. Which is prob with im now swing lol xxq

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing! Its what kIcks starts the juicing prosses. Iv been in a non kissing marraige for.10yer. Which is prob with im now swing lol xxq"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love kissing, had a meet at a club where there was no kissing it felt odd so we always state kissing is a must ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We haven't discussed it as we haven't had the opportunity to meet anyone yet

when you do I hope you all enjoy according to each others preferences . There isn't a right or wrong way

I've been thinking about it but not sure if I could or if I'd want to see Grey kissing another woman. Other things too bother me. We are mainly looking to socialise first though "

Sorry but this kind of response is exactly what we are talking about, there is plainly an issue in this relationship, poster, you need to seriously sit down and talk about how you feel about this to each other, if things bother you, then take a step back and try to resolve your issues before involving other people in play situations, it's not fair on you or the people you are playing with xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really kiss other men..it doesn't do it for me..in fact it can and has turned me off or put me off.. so although I will as part of a 4sum it's a very brief thing and couple of seconds and then move so they can kiss my neck...

It just makes me feel uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really kiss other men..it doesn't do it for me..in fact it can and has turned me off or put me off.. so although I will as part of a 4sum it's a very brief thing and couple of seconds and then move so they can kiss my neck...

It just makes me feel uncomfortable "

Now that's a shame your look very kissable

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"We haven't discussed it as we haven't had the opportunity to meet anyone yet

when you do I hope you all enjoy according to each others preferences . There isn't a right or wrong way

I've been thinking about it but not sure if I could or if I'd want to see Grey kissing another woman. Other things too bother me. We are mainly looking to socialise first though

Sorry but this kind of response is exactly what we are talking about, there is plainly an issue in this relationship, poster, you need to seriously sit down and talk about how you feel about this to each other, if things bother you, then take a step back and try to resolve your issues before involving other people in play situations, it's not fair on you or the people you are playing with xx"

Ouch but thank you for the response, its appreciated.

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By *omeojulietCouple
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth


"Kissing is definitely a must for us. The only rules we've got are no pain, no watersports and no anal. Xxx

No anal, O no couldn't meet yous lol. "

Juliet loves anal but it's the only thing that we keep only between ourselves. Xx

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"Kissing is definitely a must for us. The only rules we've got are no pain, no watersports and no anal. Xxx

No anal, O no couldn't meet yous lol.

Juliet loves anal but it's the only thing that we keep only between ourselves. Xx"

That's my dear is the whole point.

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"We haven't discussed it as we haven't had the opportunity to meet anyone yet

when you do I hope you all enjoy according to each others preferences . There isn't a right or wrong way

I've been thinking about it but not sure if I could or if I'd want to see Grey kissing another woman. Other things too bother me. We are mainly looking to socialise first though

Sorry but this kind of response is exactly what we are talking about, there is plainly an issue in this relationship, poster, you need to seriously sit down and talk about how you feel about this to each other, if things bother you, then take a step back and try to resolve your issues before involving other people in play situations, it's not fair on you or the people you are playing with xx

Ouch but thank you for the response, its appreciated. "

Decide yourselves which boundaries the 2 of you adhere to , then filter out until you find people suitable to your interests,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is definitely a must for us. The only rules we've got are no pain, no watersports and no anal. Xxx

No anal, O no couldn't meet yous lol.

Juliet loves anal but it's the only thing that we keep only between ourselves. Xx"

Yup were the same we dont do pee,poo or pain anyway other than that we keep anal for us mainly because of the prior preporation involved and the limitations on what you can do after other than that anything goes we think too many rules dampens the experience that being said i respect everyones right to choose and would never ever try and push anything on anyone if i thought for a second soneone was unhappy or comfortable id stop immediatly and call it a day either everyone is 110% happy or it doesnt happen no hard feelings

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"We haven't discussed it as we haven't had the opportunity to meet anyone yet

when you do I hope you all enjoy according to each others preferences . There isn't a right or wrong way

I've been thinking about it but not sure if I could or if I'd want to see Grey kissing another woman. Other things too bother me. We are mainly looking to socialise first though

Sorry but this kind of response is exactly what we are talking about, there is plainly an issue in this relationship, poster, you need to seriously sit down and talk about how you feel about this to each other, if things bother you, then take a step back and try to resolve your issues before involving other people in play situations, it's not fair on you or the people you are playing with xx

Ouch but thank you for the response, its appreciated.

Decide yourselves which boundaries the 2 of you adhere to , then filter out until you find people suitable to your interests, "

When he's back from his holiday, we will be having lots of catching up and probably will be changing our profile too, which I think will guarantee no meets at all, social or otherwise. Thank you for the advice

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I get that people have their own rules but theres so many people that have no kissing as a rule.

I mean fuck, kissing is like the sexiest thing you could do."

I have my meet criteria, others have theirs. If they're not compatible with mine I don't question, just move on.

That said I do struggle to understand couples that will fuck strangers whilst the female is on her period, engage in bare back anal with creampie cleanup, shag all comers whilst seven months pregnant having no kissing rules, but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont do cold and clinical sex....just hot and horny passionate sex that involes plenty of kissing!

I love it when men from couples say you can spunk in her mouth or fuck her in the ass but you cant kiss her as its too personal...!!!

How much more personal can cumming in someones mouth or fucking them up the arse???

The mind boggles...lol"

I hate it when the men from couples tell us what we can and cannot do with their female partner like she doesn't have a voice of her own...but then that's a whole other thread...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We haven't discussed it as we haven't had the opportunity to meet anyone yet

when you do I hope you all enjoy according to each others preferences . There isn't a right or wrong way

I've been thinking about it but not sure if I could or if I'd want to see Grey kissing another woman. Other things too bother me. We are mainly looking to socialise first though

Sorry but this kind of response is exactly what we are talking about, there is plainly an issue in this relationship, poster, you need to seriously sit down and talk about how you feel about this to each other, if things bother you, then take a step back and try to resolve your issues before involving other people in play situations, it's not fair on you or the people you are playing with xx

Ouch but thank you for the response, its appreciated.

Decide yourselves which boundaries the 2 of you adhere to , then filter out until you find people suitable to your interests,

When he's back from his holiday, we will be having lots of catching up and probably will be changing our profile too, which I think will guarantee no meets at all, social or otherwise. Thank you for the advice "

You'd be surprised. According to forum opinion we should be unmeetable but guess what, people want to meet us. As long as you stick to what you want and anyone you meet understands that there isn't an problem.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I get that people have their own rules but theres so many people that have no kissing as a rule.

I mean fuck, kissing is like the sexiest thing you could do."

personal choice they have stated theirs if its not to your taste move on .

yes a agree sex with out kissing is like tea with out the tea its no longer tea the same with sex its not longer sex with out kissing in my opinion its just two animals rutting like cows in a field .

but at least they are honest about what they want so out of respect id just pass them by not giving it a second thought as I did so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never meet people nowadays who don't kiss, one, it doesn't do it for us

Two, there are normally issues with the no kissers, jealousy etc

AVOID AVOID AVOID "

see, we avoid people who have absolute must do items on their list...whatever happened to enjoying things as they unfold in a relaxed manner? so much more fun, in our experience...

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