Why do Men change after agreeing a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am i the only one who is exstreamlly put off by possessive storking men? A few times now, iv got talking to a guys. They seem lovely and kinky, just how i like it. We then agree a meet and start talking though kik... and then all of a sudden they become obsessive and watching your every move!

Girls do you have any advice of better vetting men before agreeing a meet? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy do this before and I asked him why. His explanation was that we'd been chatting for a bit, getting horny, turning each other on over messaging etc and he didnt want me to meet another guy before him, and for that guy to get all the benefit of his efforts. So he would see what I'd been up too etc.

I guess I could see what he meant, not that anything gives anyone the right to stalk another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem is that single guys find it hard to get people talking to them, so as soon as anyone does reply, their minds switch so that they can't think of anything but getting a meet up, so become obsessed with you? We've blocked a few due to this. I realise thats a sweeping generalisation as not all men are like that, but the block button has came in handy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make it a rule to wait for a reply before I send another message. You know, like waiting for their response if you were talking face to face. It makes sense.

This is where a 'bulk delete' is not my best friend

Some people may feel the hunter thing going on. I've found the prey, and they are mine. Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never knew we did... I have never.

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