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By *ed wine OP   Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Ladies and couples, how do you balance your overwhelmed mail box and being considerate with senders? I guess sometimes it's difficult not to be rude.

Maybe your answers could offer a relief to hundreds of poor mortal men trying to get a positive answer ( unless one's genetically paired with Brad Pitt. ..)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have one. Smart girls never have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm not considerate of senders at all. sorry but they're mainly only after a fuck so i really don't care.

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

Some days we get 50+ messages so we just have to delete all "Hi hun" and text-speak messages.

We try hard to reply to all guys who send a message that shows they've actually read our profile.

Janet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our inbox has 3 messages at the moment....holy fuck, how will I cope??

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We get very few messages so pretty easily. I reply to all mail if I know we've had some. Dick reads them and forgets to say we've had any.

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

We only get a few at most so not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete any that are plain rude. "Nice cunt" , "I want to spunk up a stranger" are just a couple of recent ones. Any that just say the generic "hi" or "wanna meet" and text speak get deleted immediately. We normally have a quick flick through the senders profile if they are the complete opposite of what we are looking for they go too.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Our inbox has 3 messages at the moment....holy fuck, how will I cope??

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Delete one without reading, delete one after reading, reply one with a "no thanks"; problem solved

[ you're welcome ]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't get very many messages, however we have single guys blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm after a female I get very few messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until very recently I was being far too many to deal with politely, even with pretty tight filters. I used to delete and block everything without a pic, txtspk, and anything crass.

Now I can be a little better and I always reply word to the effect thanks, but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't get any messages, so no problem for us.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our inbox has 3 messages at the moment....holy fuck, how will I cope??

Delete one without reading, delete one after reading, reply one with a "no thanks"; problem solved

[ you're welcome ]"

Thanks! Crisis averted. I added a "fuck off" to the "no thanks" just to add some personality to the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sellers market. Supply and demand

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Our inbox has 3 messages at the moment....holy fuck, how will I cope??

Delete one without reading, delete one after reading, reply one with a "no thanks"; problem solved

[ you're welcome ]

Thanks! Crisis averted. I added a "fuck off" to the "no thanks" just to add some personality to the message "

Yep, I add that touch of class too when I am in a really good mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even reply to guys I'm not interested in

Mainly because they are not what I have stated I'm looking for

Most of my mail is from young guys, my profile clearly states I'm after guys over 30 and I really can't be arsed sending out 50 "sorry your to young for me" messages a day, only to get 40 back telling me how they love older woman and how age is just a number

Save everybodies time and don't mail me in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We delete any that are plain rude. "Nice cunt" , "I want to spunk up a stranger" are just a couple of recent ones. Any that just say the generic "hi" or "wanna meet" and text speak get deleted immediately. We normally have a quick flick through the senders profile if they are the complete opposite of what we are looking for they go too."
Got the giggles bad reading this!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Ladies and couples, how do you balance your overwhelmed mail box and being considerate with senders? I guess sometimes it's difficult not to be rude.

Maybe your answers could offer a relief to hundreds of poor mortal men trying to get a positive answer ( unless one's genetically paired with Brad Pitt. ..)"
all filters on..sorted..

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I reply to all of mine but I have couples & females blocked so it's just single guys.

I have filters on them too.

They get a reply but it's not always nice and interesting shall we say

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I don't even reply to guys I'm not interested in

Mainly because they are not what I have stated I'm looking for

Most of my mail is from young guys, my profile clearly states I'm after guys over 30 and I really can't be arsed sending out 50 "sorry your to young for me" messages a day, only to get 40 back telling me how they love older woman and how age is just a number

Save everybodies time and don't mail me in the first place "

Filter them out

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By *ed wine OP   Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Thank you ladies for your comments. I actually sympathize with some of them and understand your position.

So gents, you must find the impossible balance between your sexual impulse and self-esteem preservation. I'm still trying to find that balance...

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