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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are a different breed to the men out there in the outliers of Fab...

They can read

What say you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are a different breed to the men out there in the outliers of Fab...

They can read

What say you? "

I agree to disagree .

Some of the forum men can read, others just fab the pics in daily fab threads

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I disagree. Much like the rest of fab, some can read, some can write, some can misread and some just look at the pretty pictures. Actually, I reckon there's a lot of men that read the forums and never post. At least going by the attempts at private messaging me I get via forum threads from people who haven't posted in them.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be able to read and hold a conversation its the only way i can at least try and keep up with all these 6packs and monster cocks unfortunately i have neither but i can cook a cracking meal make a mean cuppa and offer a laugh or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know, I imagine you get a lot of lurkers around the forums who don't post anything

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

maybe the men on th site have sex and those on the forums talks about having sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are a different breed to the men out there in the outliers of Fab...

They can read

What say you? "

Sorry I don't understand the question

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Some can some can't.

Some lurk some post.

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Some of us do like to mix up forums and the rest of fab.

Makes a change from getting to the bottom of a profile and realising you don't stand a chance as you aren't X Y or Z lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have you know I read just fine thank you.

I can also use they, they're, their, were, we're, where in the correct context and ohh, ohhh guess what?

I pay attention to profile details too!

It's hard being this good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to be able to read and hold a conversation its the only way i can at least try and keep up with all these 6packs and monster cocks unfortunately i have neither but i can cook a cracking meal make a mean cuppa and offer a laugh or 2 "

Well said Sir.

My cap is doffed.

A resounding hussah for the quiet gentle men of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know. I don't really chat to guys from the forum. The ones i chat to that don't use the forum seem to be more than capable of reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are a different breed to the men out there in the outliers of Fab...

They can read

What say you? "

I'm a breed of man. I'm a social worm. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy to be alone, I don't crave to be with people, but i feel more comfortable talking to people on forums or face to than sending messages in a bottle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you can see above. I can read, I just can't build a paragraph very well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rather enjoy the forums... I only post if I have something to add to the conversation, not just comment unnecessarily. I have also made friends through the forums and sparked 'offline' conversations

Also where advice is wanted i.e. swinger club etiquette there's loads of good advice here... I do have a couple of stories to add to that section too...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I don't know, I imagine you get a lot of lurkers around the forums who don't post anything"

This.

For every borderline-autistic egomaniac who posts here I imagine there are another 20 people just watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know, I imagine you get a lot of lurkers around the forums who don't post anything

This.

For every borderline-autistic egomaniac who posts here I imagine there are another 20 people just watching

"

Vouyerism on a forum? Is this a kinky thing? Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to be able to read and hold a conversation its the only way i can at least try and keep up with all these 6packs and monster cocks unfortunately i have neither but i can cook a cracking meal make a mean cuppa and offer a laugh or 2 "

I'm. The same as you but I can and do put the bog seat down too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I have to say is, a *lot* of our forum guys are HOT!

That is all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had a peep in here, clicked a few profiles and fab'd a few pics.... just recently I've started to try and interact in here, still not really getting me anywhere tho, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I have to say is, a *lot* of our forum guys are HOT!

That is all... "

As are the girls.... you are the hottest on fab by far!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is reading? Is it some kind of sorcery?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm tending to spend more time in forums than chat nowadays, too many cliques in chat for me

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

"Readings like soooo last season"

I mean, who actually wants a msg or a reply actually based around their profile anyway. Come on..

Seriously though, Put the clicky button away, and practise the ABC's.. It doesn't just apply to men either.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I don't know, I imagine you get a lot of lurkers around the forums who don't post anything

This.

For every borderline-autistic egomaniac who posts here I imagine there are another 20 people just watching

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cunt ore wite. I kavemann. I guste vuk pusie. Sum peapul avh eevn tolde mee I cunt sppel! Burgers!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Are a different breed to the men out there in the outliers of Fab...

They can read

What say you? "

its a myth that all guys don't read profiles and we are so hard up for sex we will dance to any tune we are told to for a bunk up.

the forums have nothing to do with whether a guy can read or is capable of expressing himself I'm sure there's lots of guys who are capable of both who don't use the forums the problem is that there are far more disrespectful non reading fuckwits out their than guys who are respectful and can read just like their are plenty of guys out there who will dance to any tune for a bunk up.

because of the numbers game men who can read can articulate and don't dance to any tune but their own are in just a minority that's all.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"Are a different breed to the men out there in the outliers of Fab...

They can read

What say you?

its a myth that all guys don't read profiles and we are so hard up for sex we will dance to any tune we are told to for a bunk up.

the forums have nothing to do with whether a guy can read or is capable of expressing himself I'm sure there's lots of guys who are capable of both who don't use the forums the problem is that there are far more disrespectful non reading fuckwits out their than guys who are respectful and can read just like their are plenty of guys out there who will dance to any tune for a bunk up.

because of the numbers game men who can read can articulate and don't dance to any tune but their own are in just a minority that's all. "

Im sure a lot of guys dont post as they see the same 25 people talking amongst themselves all the time.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Are a different breed to the men out there in the outliers of Fab...

They can read

What say you?

its a myth that all guys don't read profiles and we are so hard up for sex we will dance to any tune we are told to for a bunk up.

the forums have nothing to do with whether a guy can read or is capable of expressing himself I'm sure there's lots of guys who are capable of both who don't use the forums the problem is that there are far more disrespectful non reading fuckwits out their than guys who are respectful and can read just like their are plenty of guys out there who will dance to any tune for a bunk up.

because of the numbers game men who can read can articulate and don't dance to any tune but their own are in just a minority that's all.

Im sure a lot of guys dont post as they see the same 25 people talking amongst themselves all the time.

"

maybe or it could be there just to busy copying and pasting to the next one hundred couples and single ferns on the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look at a few pics...read messages & usually delete them and take the piss in the forums.... standard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't read and I can't write but that don't really matter. I come from the West Country and I can drive a tractor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us just come on the forums to be devils advocate and wind people up .

And i rarely read replies .

And i never read ling lecturing profiles .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's any difference to be honest.

Only a small percentage use the forums anyway.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

And some don't post in threads for enthusiasts of any random subject, banging on why they don't like that certain subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about the ones who reply privately from the frum though? they bypass your profile altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wood luv 2 b abell too reed n rite...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this 'reading' that you speak of??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a cross breed.

Apparently I came from a man and a woman.

Perhaps that's why I read and post in the forums, write the odd story and read profiles...but only those that interest me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only come on the forums for a laugh and abit of banter really every few days or so when I get the chance. I only read and comment on threads that are of interest to me, and are funny........ I really cant be arsed even looking at most of the serious ones that are trying to educate us all, and dictate to other grown adults the error of there swinging ways etc etc. Unless of course the topic is something that I can post on just to pake the tiss abit, then I'm onit like a car bonnet ........ Oh and ones that I see that are all about political world issues etc etc I don't even look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just what they want you to think. Perverts, the lot of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read forums but only comment if I have something new to add. I find that after a while there are just converstions going on between certain people and lose interest for a bit.

Then when I come back the same questions are being asked or the appalling snog fuck thing.

Also very few people from the southwest so little in common with what seem to be much sexier northern folks.

And to finish what I usually write is so boring noone bothers to comment on it.

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands


"what about the ones who reply privately from the frum though? they bypass your profile altogether."

I'm sure you can't bypass the settings. Plenty of posts from people saying they cant't contact the poster because of their settings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what about the ones who reply privately from the frum though? they bypass your profile altogether.

I'm sure you can't bypass the settings. Plenty of posts from people saying they cant't contact the poster because of their settings. "

i mean if they post from the forum to your inbox via that 'reply privately' under the message, they won't see your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm tending to spend more time in forums than chat nowadays, too many cliques in chat for me"

There are just as many cliques in the forums to be fair...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guys we've met or are generally looking to meet don't use the forums. And there's a certain types of guys who use the forums who we simply wouldn't meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was making a positive assumption that guys in here read posts before responding. I just think it'd be nice if other fab men read profiles before approaching me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'll have you know I read just fine thank you.

I can also use they, they're, their, were, we're, where in the correct context and ohh, ohhh guess what?

I pay attention to profile details too!

It's hard being this good "

This is true

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've met some great men through messages, some from socials, some from chat and some from the forums.

I think good men can show up anywhere on Fab. But the forums are the best part for entertainment

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"All I have to say is, a *lot* of our forum guys are HOT!

That is all... "

Fuck yes they are!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I was making a positive assumption that guys in here read posts before responding. I just think it'd be nice if other fab men read profiles before approaching me "

Men who reply via forum posts are actually less likely to read your profile, as they can reply privately via the forums. They don't even have to ignore your profile before messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's just what they want you to think. Perverts, the lot of them."

So glad you and your comments are back!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Surely the white knight ratio is higher on the forum than in the rest of fab!

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Are a different breed to the men out there in the outliers of Fab...

They can read

What say you? "

Out and out liars!

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Are a different breed to the men out there in the outliers of Fab...

They can read

What say you? "

It takes allsorts for the world of Fab to keep turning..

Some are different, some are the same the forums just gives them another platform to a larger audience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the white knight ratio is higher on the forum than in the rest of fab!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree. Much like the rest of fab, some can read, some can write, some can misread and some just look at the pretty pictures. Actually, I reckon there's a lot of men that read the forums and never post. At least going by the attempts at private messaging me I get via forum threads from people who haven't posted in them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guys we've met or are generally looking to meet don't use the forums. And there's a certain types of guys who use the forums who we simply wouldn't meet. "

What types?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was making a positive assumption that guys in here read posts before responding. I just think it'd be nice if other fab men read profiles before approaching me "

Depends on the profile & the man involved.

I'd give up reading some women's profiles on here they can be waaayyyyy too long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to get out more.

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