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By *teve80321 OP   Man
over a year ago

newport

Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Loads just not at the same times as you!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?"

Girls? Ladies maybe

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By *teve80321 OP   Man
over a year ago

newport


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?

Girls? Ladies maybe "
ok any ladies ever free!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had so many messages from guys saying the females are all cock teases and they just go on the forums and post pictures....don't know how true it is tho x

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Plenty

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Funny, they never come my way.....!!!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Me ...now

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

My now ended...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had so many messages from guys saying the females are all cock teases and they just go on the forums and post pictures....don't know how true it is tho x"

They'd never admit to it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately for men , the majority of single women are looking for more than just a nsa sex session . So when they are free , they want to hook up with people they've chatted with or with previous meets .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often free however if you don't plan you can bet there's no one available when you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately for men , the majority of single women are looking for more than just a nsa sex session . So when they are free , they want to hook up with people they've chatted with or with previous meets . "

Totally true. Although I'm part of a couple, it probably counts for the same. We have our stable of regular guys and we go to parties. From time to time we might need to replenish the stable, but not very often. All play activities are in the diary a good three weeks in advance. So no we don't really have any cause for random men reaching out looking to meet. But nobody can say we don't play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm free quite a bit. I'm not after NSA sex any more, it does nothing for me now and i'd rather go without sex than just fuck some random guy because i'm horny. I've got some good sex toys that will do me better anyway.

None of my regular meets, or one offs who message again, appeal to me and haven't done for a while. There's not really anyone new who messages that's gains my interest either.

I'm off to a social tonight to just to meet real people with no expectation or pressure to have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had so many messages from guys saying the females are all cock teases and they just go on the forums and post pictures....don't know how true it is tho x"

I'm a cock tease. Oh wait! I'm not that into cock and I'm not meeting. Wtf does that make me?! Well I'll ask the people I will meet at the next 3 club events I'm going to in the next 2 weeks. And they wonder why women don't stay

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

As my profile states I'm free to meet when I haves meet advertised so many do get disappointed when they message meet now and I'm not free because they've failed to understand the written word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often find men want to meet now but when it comes down to the logistics of meeting, they haven't thought that through.

Usually both of us can't accommodate, so where the hell do they expect to "meet now"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Of corse women have free time, I always pre plan meets and speak to the person/s before I do

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By *teve80321 OP   Man
over a year ago

newport


"Sometimes "
hey you free today!!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes hey you free today!!?? "

You live in Newport . You want a woman for straight one on one sex . Just go into friars walk and start taking to women !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhhh no lol. Although as someone else pointed out, the logistics of both being free at the same time and having somewhere to meet is a nightmare. By the way im free saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say it happens that frequently that I find a lady on here that's free the same time as me. It has been known to occure though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men rarely think these things through. In fact I am typing ine handed because the other is on my erect penis. We can't be trusted with logistics in this state!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?"

No I'm Engaged now. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men rarely think these things through. In fact I am typing ine handed because the other is on my erect penis. We can't be trusted with logistics in this state! "

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Unfortunately for men , the majority of single women are looking for more than just a nsa sex session . So when they are free , they want to hook up with people they've chatted with or with previous meets . "

I agree with this. If I am horny it is easier to message someone I have met before than to have to go through the whole having to meet a new person, wondering if I will be safe or if they are a nutter etc. Just lazy I guess

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?"

What do you think this is; a Swingers site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had so many messages from guys saying the females are all cock teases and they just go on the forums and post pictures....don't know how true it is tho x"
I believe this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?"

Yes.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I would love to meet more than I currently do, unfortunately I find most men's profiles are shite, their pictures are crap or of just their cock, do they really think that is all we need to see and think, god I so want to meet the owner of that cock?

I need mental stimulation as well as attractiveness, unfortunately most men in my area just don't get it, so I end up months without sex.

So who really are the real timewasters? The females or the men who can't be arsed to make an effort but expect instant gratification?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've had so many messages from guys saying the females are all cock teases and they just go on the forums and post pictures....don't know how true it is tho x"

Crap that's me...ah well

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?

Yes. "

No

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?"

Yes but they having free lunch, dinner, holiday, implants, car, accomodation. You get the drift...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?

Yes but they having free lunch, dinner, holiday, implants, car, accomodation. You get the drift..."

Oh you mean footballers wives! Lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet a select few, not loads of random blokes. XXX

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?

Yes but they having free lunch, dinner, holiday, implants, car, accomodation. You get the drift..."

Some men just come across bitter with answers like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had so many messages from guys saying the females are all cock teases and they just go on the forums and post pictures....don't know how true it is tho x"

lt can be quite true. l had a couple view my page up to half a dozen times a day, fab my pics and such but when l messaged them they didn't reply. We had some nice conversations on the forum too. Weird.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?"

Yes.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Free? I'm always free too meet the very moment someone sends a 'wanna fuck now?' message. Forget the kids, the hubby, the job etc, I'm just going to drop everything just for the sender.

Or and I love this one 'I don't accom, I won't go to clubs, I won't pay for a hotel but why won't you meet me?'.

Tbh, I've no idea why ladies are never free to meet, maybe something more clever has the answer

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?

Yes but they having free lunch, dinner, holiday, implants, car, accomodation. You get the drift...

Some men just come across bitter with answers like this ......

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... So who really are the real timewasters? The females or the men who can't be arsed to make an effort but expect instant gratification? "

So can some women with retorts like this.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?

Yes but they having free lunch, dinner, holiday, implants, car, accomodation. You get the drift...

Some men just come across bitter with answers like this ......

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... So who really are the real timewasters? The females or the men who can't be arsed to make an effort but expect instant gratification?

So can some women with retorts like this. "

I think both of my responses are quite apt to this thread!

Feel free to pick one at a time rather than try and join them up and try a make a point

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"

Feel free to pick one at a time rather than try and join them up and try a make a point "

Thanks for the permission.

None needed however: it's an open forum.

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Moving on...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


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Feel free to pick one at a time rather than try and join them up and try a make a point

Thanks for the permission.

None needed however: it's an open forum.

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Moving on..."

It is an open forum, but don't try and twist things, just quote as things are said, rather than try and twist them to what you want or perceive them to say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Free? I'm always free too meet the very moment someone sends a 'wanna fuck now?' message. Forget the kids, the hubby, the job etc, I'm just going to drop everything just for the sender.

Or and I love this one 'I don't accom, I won't go to clubs, I won't pay for a hotel but why won't you meet me?'.

Tbh, I've no idea why ladies are never free to meet, maybe something more clever has the answer "

Certain men are just looking for free prostitutes. They are very easy to spot and avoid. They aren't clever enough to realise when they are advertising their true colours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately for men , the majority of single women are looking for more than just a nsa sex session . So when they are free , they want to hook up with people they've chatted with or with previous meets . "

Exactly this

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"Unfortunately for men , the majority of single women are looking for more than just a nsa sex session . So when they are free , they want to hook up with people they've chatted with or with previous meets .

Exactly this "

I agree as it's nice to have some stability.

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"Free? I'm always free too meet the very moment someone sends a 'wanna fuck now?' message. Forget the kids, the hubby, the job etc, I'm just going to drop everything just for the sender.

Or and I love this one 'I don't accom, I won't go to clubs, I won't pay for a hotel but why won't you meet me?'.

Tbh, I've no idea why ladies are never free to meet, maybe something more clever has the answer

Certain men are just looking for free prostitutes. They are very easy to spot and avoid. They aren't clever enough to realise when they are advertising their true colours. "

Very true... I can spot these guys out by a mile from profiles and verifications. Then you steer clear of them.

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"Is there ever any girls on here that are free to meet?

Yes but they having free lunch, dinner, holiday, implants, car, accomodation. You get the drift...

Some men just come across bitter with answers like this "

Agree. Plus speaking for myself, I pay my own way in life and can walk away with my head up high!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To everyone asking the question "are any girls free to meet?"

The answer is simple... Yes there are loads of girls meeting right now theyre just meeting someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was trying to work out the probability of a guy getting a meet. For starters men outnumber women and couples. I'm not sure by how much. Then there are the couples who don't meet single men making the ratios larger. However on the plus side, single women and hotwives like myself probably meet a few men. So, let's say the ratios of single men (who are real and willing to go through with a meet) to single women/hotwives are about 4:1, then theoretically all the genuine men should get a meet, because women probably like to play with a number of men. For example I usually have about 3 men on the go, and in addition to my regulars there will probably be one or two meets over the course of a year that don't become regulars for whatever reason. And that's not including one-offs from parties. What I'm trying to say is, if women have more one partner, which I think most do in this lifestyle, then there should be the right amount of men to go round. So here's the fly in the ointment. I worked out that most of the men that we have met, all have a number of couples and FBs themselves. And down in the South East i see the same names cropping up on everybody's verification list. There are 2 guys that we've played with locally. Their verification lists are practically identical. So I wondered if there is a situation where a few men are getting all the fun, leaving no women or couples left for the other guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was trying to work out the probability of a guy getting a meet. For starters men outnumber women and couples. I'm not sure by how much. Then there are the couples who don't meet single men making the ratios larger. However on the plus side, single women and hotwives like myself probably meet a few men. So, let's say the ratios of single men (who are real and willing to go through with a meet) to single women/hotwives are about 4:1, then theoretically all the genuine men should get a meet, because women probably like to play with a number of men. For example I usually have about 3 men on the go, and in addition to my regulars there will probably be one or two meets over the course of a year that don't become regulars for whatever reason. And that's not including one-offs from parties. What I'm trying to say is, if women have more one partner, which I think most do in this lifestyle, then there should be the right amount of men to go round. So here's the fly in the ointment. I worked out that most of the men that we have met, all have a number of couples and FBs themselves. And down in the South East i see the same names cropping up on everybody's verification list. There are 2 guys that we've played with locally. Their verification lists are practically identical. So I wondered if there is a situation where a few men are getting all the fun, leaving no women or couples left for the other guys."

I think you're right.

However I think you're missing mentioning the point that there's a reason some men don't get meets. And that reason is no-one else's fault but their own. x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"My now ended...lol"

That made me laugh

"Baldrick! Take a short holiday"

Thank you, m'lord

Did you enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was trying to work out the probability of a guy getting a meet. For starters men outnumber women and couples. I'm not sure by how much. Then there are the couples who don't meet single men making the ratios larger. However on the plus side, single women and hotwives like myself probably meet a few men. So, let's say the ratios of single men (who are real and willing to go through with a meet) to single women/hotwives are about 4:1, then theoretically all the genuine men should get a meet, because women probably like to play with a number of men. For example I usually have about 3 men on the go, and in addition to my regulars there will probably be one or two meets over the course of a year that don't become regulars for whatever reason. And that's not including one-offs from parties. What I'm trying to say is, if women have more one partner, which I think most do in this lifestyle, then there should be the right amount of men to go round. So here's the fly in the ointment. I worked out that most of the men that we have met, all have a number of couples and FBs themselves. And down in the South East i see the same names cropping up on everybody's verification list. There are 2 guys that we've played with locally. Their verification lists are practically identical. So I wondered if there is a situation where a few men are getting all the fun, leaving no women or couples left for the other guys.

I think you're right.

However I think you're missing mentioning the point that there's a reason some men don't get meets. And that reason is no-one else's fault but their own. x "

Yes it probably does boil down to the fact that there are only small percentage on Fab of men who are worth meeting, and it's those men we all have to share. It is harder for the new guys who have to build that reputation. And it's also harder for the guys who don't naturally have the personality, looks or body that women are automatically drawn to.

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