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Gf wont let me touch her ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In the last few weeks my gf won't let me perform any kind of oral sex with her ....no touching nipples just a straight fuck ..she says she doesn't need ....but I do ...help ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it you want random strangers on the net to say? Only person who knows why is her. Ask her.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

You can't force someone to like what you do

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You need to talk to her and find out why. Is she a similar age to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the last few weeks my gf won't let me perform any kind of oral sex with her ....no touching nipples just a straight fuck ..she says she doesn't need ....but I do ...help ? "

Er you are on here as a single guy and you want us to tell you how to get your gf to comply with your sexual demands??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn't force her !!!!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You need to take to her. Maybe she found out your on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maibe she is on fab too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the last few weeks my gf won't let me perform any kind of oral sex with her ....no touching nipples just a straight fuck ..she says she doesn't need ....but I do ...help ?

Er you are on here as a single guy and you want us to tell you how to get your gf to comply with your sexual demands??"

He's still allowed to ask a question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She is

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I wouldn't force her !!!!"

Yeah thats not quite what I said. I said, you can't force someone to like what you like. She either doesn't like you playing with her nipples and oral sex or, you don't do it how she likes.

The only one who can answer you is her though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the last few weeks my gf won't let me perform any kind of oral sex with her ....no touching nipples just a straight fuck ..she says she doesn't need ....but I do ...help ? "

Ask her why

Did she let you before

Does she still let you fuck her

Does she no you are on here?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you need to talk to her & ask why, could be numerous scenarios.

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By *lubitMan
over a year ago

Telford

Or possibly she gets a thrill out of telling you what you can and can't do to her.

There's only one way to get answers.

Waterboarding...no sorry. Talk to her directly about it while not in bed...that's it right? Waterboarding is bad...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think that will be the last time I will ask for advise on here ...thx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

OK lets not turn this into a something else, he asked a help question, thats all

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"OK lets not turn this into a something else, he asked a help question, thats all"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe ask her why first, before coming onto fab. Could be a whole number of reasons, or something as simple as she doesn't like you doing that to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the last few weeks my gf won't let me perform any kind of oral sex with her ....no touching nipples just a straight fuck ..she says she doesn't need ....but I do ...help ? "

Ask her if it's ok if she watches you wank that's reasonable enough

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Think that will be the last time I will ask for advise on here ...thx "

Some of us tried to advise, concentrate on those posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think that will be the last time I will ask for advise on here ...thx "

You've been given advice, really good advice, and pretty much the only advice that can be offered. Talk to your gf. None of us are going to know why she's limiting what you can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think that will be the last time I will ask for advise on here ...thx "

I've tried to help but it's hard when no one but your GF knows why she doesn't want foreplay.

Does she enjoy the sex that you have, does she give you oral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think that will be the last time I will ask for advise on here ...thx "

You have been given good advise - talk to your girlfriend. Nobody else knows the answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Ok thx"

Somemone asked a good question, has she ever liked oral?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

-m

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP no matter whether it is a long term relationship, FWB or just a meet communication is key.

We really can't offer any advice on this. Only your GF knows the reasons why and you need to talk. Just trying to persuade her will probably make things worse.

Good luck, i hope you can straighten things out.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

It's cool mate, you're on fab now so you can fuck other peoples wives hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thx for the positive replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you think she's enjoying what she's doing now, or is putting up with what little she is giving to you?

you don't need to answer this coz you do need to talk to her like what has already been said, but do just think about the above. she might not even want sex but is letting you get it over and done with coz she is tired or something. that's better than most other options if she still wants some intimacy and not too much to worry about intially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old is she? Could it be hormonal, such as the menopause? Some women enjoy things a bit differently at different times of their monthly cycle so maybe that has some relevance, if she usually enjoys it.

It could be that she's never really enjoyed it and has just tolerated it to please you but is now brave enough to ask you to stop. But as others say, only she can really tell you why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine just doesn't let me touch her......anywhere, for the last 8 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Explain your needs, try to come to a compromise..if that fails then consider leaving her. You shouldn't have to live an unsatisfied sexual life.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"You can't force someone to like what you do"

Worse women often say they don't like something when secretly they do. From my experience any way and I'm not cage rattling.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Something to ponder too, you say she is on here, Is that because SHE wants to be or because you do?

If you met on here she wouldn't be the first or last to hope to have found something more, if she thinks you are it she'll now wonder why you need to still be on Fab?

You need to ask her..

S

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