FabSwingers.com forum: How Did You Get Into Swinging & Was It A Joint Decision ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello.

We kind of stumbled into swinging by accident !

Mrs had quite a quiet sex life during her previous marriage, & I'd been celibate for five years (honestly) after suffering a massive breakdown.

The Mrs reawakened my sex drive (thank you) & I found myself trawling the internet for images to wank over (we were living 30 miles apart at the time) .

During conversation I let it slip that I'd had sex with another male years ago & enjoyed it, although I prefer the ladies much more. She let me sweat on that one for about a month before declaring that she likes males/females 50/50 !

I stumbled upon Fab by chance , & we looked at pics & read profiles together, discussing what we do & don't like. It was a beautiful journey of discovery & honesty for both of us.

We've still got romance & a twinkle in the eye for each other, but it's ok with me to open her pussy lips & guide a cock into her & enjoy watching her enjoying herself. It goes both ways, anything & everything is possible.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, I met a guy in real life, who had been doing this for years. Little did I realise that far from being the prince charming he said he was, he was a violent abuser, a liar and a cheat. He left me with an injunction for him not to come near me for life and £60k poorer, plus all the times I had bailed him and his no-hope family out. But we live and learn! The only good thing was he got me into this and I love it! I don't think I could be with someone now who wanted monogamy and vanilla sex, so I will go to my grave a swinglette