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By *empnbunk OP   Couple
over a year ago

south coast

this has probably been done to death but what do people have against them .... personaly we dont mind them in fact can be flatterin to know someone likes your profile and or pics

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

winks dont annoy me, if i/we like the winker(not wanker lol) we will wink back

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By *empnbunk OP   Couple
over a year ago

south coast

have had winks and gave winks to people we're not likely to meet due to distance think its just a way to say we perved and liked what we saw but yet so many people have it on their profiles they dont want winks

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe


"this has probably been done to death but what do people have against them .... personaly we dont mind them in fact can be flatterin to know someone likes your profile and or pics"

Can see you have time on yer hands today mate lol

Dinnae mind a wee wink suppose it tests the water so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have nothing against them thanks to the bulk delete option

It's nice knowing that some people appreciate our effort on our profile but they won't be hearing from us.

....a wink from a friend gets a wink back... they've made an effort in the past

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"have had winks and gave winks to people we're not likely to meet due to distance think its just a way to say we perved and liked what we saw but yet so many people have it on their profiles they dont want winks"

we the same.. and made some good friend on here but due to distance unlikely we will get to meet. x

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By *empnbunk OP   Couple
over a year ago

south coast


"this has probably been done to death but what do people have against them .... personaly we dont mind them in fact can be flatterin to know someone likes your profile and or pics

Can see you have time on yer hands today mate lol

Dinnae mind a wee wink suppose it tests the water so to speak "

not headin out to work til temp gets in fae work at half 8 mate

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i dont mind winks but what i dont get is winks from people with no pics on their profile. how will i know if i want to wink them back if i cant see what they look like???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to give winks out so its a start to see if the lady likes me, unfortunetely many women say on there profile that a wink will be deleted straight away....nice

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

We love a wink! Giving and receiving. Winkers we like go in our " people to be contacted soon" pot and see if it leads anywhere.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"i like to give winks out so its a start to see if the lady likes me, unfortunetely many women say on there profile that a wink will be deleted straight away....nice "

wink me wink me!! i like winks!!!!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"i like to give winks out so its a start to see if the lady likes me, unfortunetely many women say on there profile that a wink will be deleted straight away....nice

wink me wink me!! i like winks!!!!"

you be careful all those winkers was going to say more but doesnt sound the same

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Dont see point in them.....why not just send mail?????

If a guy winked me in street I would ignore him, if he spoke to me...I would be polite and answer back....of course, that would depend on what he said!!!!! lol

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


"i like to give winks out so its a start to see if the lady likes me, unfortunetely many women say on there profile that a wink will be deleted straight away....nice

wink me wink me!! i like There you are, never say never, now what about mine?winks!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind getting them, though giving a wink out i can see as being more easily ignored than a message.

Normally just keep them for friends now.

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By *ee8to10TV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

Winks?! They should be banned for ambiguity! I hate them, they mean different things to different people, so I have no idea how to respond to them.

Am I supposed to wink back, does the sender expect me to reply with a message?

And if I don't, will they assume I don't like them or think they're not worth a reply?

And conversely, from my perspective, should I just think THEY are too lazy to send ME an actual message?

Grrrrrr!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'm a shameless winker. I sometimes send them a day or two before a message, sometimes I send them because I just like a profile.

I just sent a few based on this thread alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a wink is just like a smile if you are in a pub I see it as

they are very welcome but i wont return the favour if they aren't my type x

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

One of our best series of meets started with the other couple winking us. We don't mind them, they're inoffensive and easily ignored if you don't want to take things any further.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I've had meets that started as a wink as well.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I don't mind winks at all.

I'm certainly concerned about the mental stability of someone who could get annoyed by one lol.

Sometimes I actually communicate in winks, it's kind of a form of morse code.

-;-)--;-)---;-)-;-)---;-)-;-)--;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them. I was on another site that you could customise your account. As I didn't like winks anyone winking would be sent an automatic message along the lines, "although nice to receive winks, it wont be responded too, why not send a message instead if you're interested".

Nine times out of 10 they wouldn't follow it up - too flipping lazy in my opinion, but at least no time was wasted...on my part.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I don't mind winks at all.

I'm certainly concerned about the mental stability of someone who could get annoyed by one lol.

Sometimes I actually communicate in winks, it's kind of a form of morse code.

-;-)--;-)---;-)-;-)---;-)-;-)--;-)"

Now that is disgusting, and on a public forum too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are great, just a little wolf whistle to gauge interest

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Cos if they can't be bothered to send a message i can't be bothered to open my winks.

If ppl like my pics,fab,they don't need to tell me tho,if ppl want to meet then take the time to mail us.

i would disable winks if i could.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Winks are great, just a little wolf whistle to gauge interest "

Anyone who wolf whistled me would get a lecture on male entitement from a feminist perspective.

Another reason to dislike winks then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this has probably been done to death..."

Indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winks are great, just a little wolf whistle to gauge interest

Anyone who wolf whistled me would get a lecture on male entitement from a feminist perspective.

Another reason to dislike winks then."

whit woo (thats my best whistle in writing)

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By *arkandjaneCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster


"i like to give winks out so its a start to see if the lady likes me, unfortunetely many women say on there profile that a wink will be deleted straight away....nice "

some cpls have this on their profile too (whats wrong with a wink) if we see this we wouldnt wink or write to them,

its nice to see there are real people out there that like to start off slowly and discretely with a wink.

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