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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

1, Treating others the way you want to be treated

2, Showing kindness and consideration

3, Likeing yourself engough to be yourself

4, Accepting others for who they are

just think few single guys should read this and cpls as well should you think we should have ten rules for swinging

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"1, Treating others the way you want to be treated

2, Showing kindness and consideration

3, Likeing yourself engough to be yourself

4, Accepting others for who they are

just think few single guys should read this and cpls as well should you think we should have ten rules for swinging "

respect shouldn't have to be pointed out....lol

after all isn't about respecting everyone for their own beliefs and not telling others what it should be?

10 rules? burning bush on high? have more than enough rules to deal with every day without even more! lol

appreciate what you're trying to do and respect to you!

every tin is irie..

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

If we're having 10 Can I propose:

5. Shag Invictus if your female.

Not a bad reminder for some I reckon (1 to 4 that is, not 5... then again)

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Respecting what people have said on their profiles and taking note of it!!!!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

This is a joke right?

I have been swinging long enough not to need a rule book written by others

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"This is a joke right?

I have been swinging long enough not to need a rule book written by others

"

The one and only rule jane.....

Ignore everyone and get on with it.....lol xx

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

if those things arent an automatic "given" ,then not people i would bother talking to or meeting anyway. if anyones messages and doesnt show plain common decency then theyve just saved me time bothering at all with them.quick delete and more time spend with people i will wanna get to know ..simples !!! lol

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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"This is a joke right?

I have been swinging long enough not to need a rule book written by others

"

i know that but theres single guys coming on here just not showing you girls respect same as if your bi or str8 just an idea

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"This is a joke right?

I have been swinging long enough not to need a rule book written by others

"

Amen to that sister......!!

sometimes i do wonder what the motive is at times people writing these.... as in "oooh I am a nice guy and look how nice I am!, oh did I mention I am a nice guy"...

I know... cynical old me.....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If we're having 10 Can I propose:

5. Shag Invictus if your female.

Not a bad reminder for some I reckon (1 to 4 that is, not 5... then again) "

See you soon!!

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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"This is a joke right?

I have been swinging long enough not to need a rule book written by others

Amen to that sister......!!

sometimes i do wonder what the motive is at times people writing these.... as in "oooh I am a nice guy and look how nice I am!, oh did I mention I am a nice guy"...

I know... cynical old me....."

you are and you should no better tut tut from you _abio telling guys to show respect brother your way way off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP is just trying to get known on the forums and not start

Do women like Anal threads...

Respect is lacking so badly by many on here... its the one thing that I think all should have.. but nope..

sadly not.

Katie, with her Masters consent.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy Groundhog Day Batman. How many more "Guides" or sets of rules can we need?

How many more times does this have to come up from self-styled super swingers?

Your first four should be automatic, although I'd question the "being yourself" bit because when people do that other folks come on and tell them where they are going wrong (probably like I'm doing now lol

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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"If we're having 10 Can I propose:

5. Shag Invictus if your female.

Not a bad reminder for some I reckon (1 to 4 that is, not 5... then again)

See you soon!! "

not long now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a joke right?

I have been swinging long enough not to need a rule book written by others

Amen to that sister......!!

sometimes i do wonder what the motive is at times people writing these.... as in "oooh I am a nice guy and look how nice I am!, oh did I mention I am a nice guy"...

I know... cynical old me....."

I must be cynical as I was thinking the same thing too: had me reaching for the bucket actually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we're having 10 Can I propose:

5. Shag Invictus if your female.

Not a bad reminder for some I reckon (1 to 4 that is, not 5... then again)

See you soon!!

not long now "

Ah I think I get it now. Is the OP going to a social very soon..... is the OP starting threads saying, ladies look at me, I'll respect you, only play with me, dont even bother with all those other sexy assed guys, come on, im the one

take you're own advice OP just be yourself, you do ok dont you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iconic.... where did you find that hammer? Y'know, the one that keeps knocking the nail perfectly on the head xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

swinging is not separate to life,it is just a part of life,therefore those rules that you use for other relationships will do fine.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Actually, although I am meeting big lad soon, my reply was to Invictus who posted a joky comment that #5 should be 'shag _nvictus if you're female'. My reply was to him to intimate I was on my way!

I think big lad is experienced at meets etc and doesn't really need more exposure (at least picwise!) so assuming that he is just doing this to get meets seems a bit weird. If I had posted the OP would the same have been said?

Why must everyone on here pick at everyone else? I don't expect slavish agreement with each other but sometimes some of you are just mean.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

A well meant post, so no knocking from me...and I still like no.5 best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A well meant post, so no knocking from me...and I still like no.5 best. "

No. 5 is the most sensible and obvious xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP is just trying to get known on the forums and not start

Do women like Anal threads...

Respect is lacking so badly by many on here... its the one thing that I think all should have.. but nope..

sadly not.

Katie, with her Masters consent.x"

i agree with this doesnt matter if we are looking for sex it doesnt hurt with some respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show a lot of respect to gain some respect , thats my approach.

It does serve me well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like manners doesnt cost anything to show them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show a lot of respect to gain some respect , thats my approach.

It does serve me well "
yes and i think your right xx

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

The old adage: Manners cost nothing but bring great rewards.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Actually, although I am meeting big lad soon, my reply was to Invictus who posted a joky comment that #5 should be 'shag _nvictus if you're female'. My reply was to him to intimate I was on my way!

I think big lad is experienced at meets etc and doesn't really need more exposure (at least picwise!) so assuming that he is just doing this to get meets seems a bit weird. If I had posted the OP would the same have been said?

Why must everyone on here pick at everyone else? I don't expect slavish agreement with each other but sometimes some of you are just mean. "

Nice post.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"This is a joke right?

I have been swinging long enough not to need a rule book written by others

i know that but theres single guys coming on here just not showing you girls respect same as if your bi or str8 just an idea "

The problem is, the men/women/couples who do have respect for others will feel patronised by your post, and the people who don't have any respect for anyone won't read your post anyway.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"1, Treating others the way you want to be treated

2, Showing kindness and consideration

3, Likeing yourself engough to be yourself

4, Accepting others for who they are

just think few single guys should read this and cpls as well should you think we should have ten rules for swinging "

Apologies if someone has already said this.... when I first read the 4 points above I thought they were going to be aimed at single women.... I was disappointed to find they were not.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

i know that but theres single guys coming on here just not showing you girls respect ..."

The day I need someone else to deal with the attitude of a few other people by setting a list of suggested rules is the day I give up.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Maybe I'm just getting old, but I can remember back to a time when swinging was care free and spontaneous....with a distinct lack of swinging experts and swinging guides.

I have recently taken to riding a bike in order to get fit.....although I am now feeling rather confident riding my new bike I don't feel the need to write a bike riders guide....nor to enter myself for the Tour De France

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I found this thread fairly interesting.

Not for the content of the OP but for the bare faced cheek of sanctimonious posters who preach one thing and do the exact thing they preach against in others.

My faith in the self righteous is restored on a daily basis.

BigLad...... how many times do we have to tell you to put the piggy on and leave the piggy on. Tut.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

The first rule of swinging club is....

There are no rules

I couldn't give a shite how other people play this game, it's the way that I personally play it that is important and the only thing that matters to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im happy with how i treat people and of people dont treat me the same in here or real life they wont get far

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"A well meant post, so no knocking from me...and I still like no.5 best. "

I assure you it is on MY list.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Actually, although I am meeting big lad soon, my reply was to Invictus who posted a joky comment that #5 should be 'shag _nvictus if you're female'. My reply was to him to intimate I was on my way!

I think big lad is experienced at meets etc and doesn't really need more exposure (at least picwise!) so assuming that he is just doing this to get meets seems a bit weird. If I had posted the OP would the same have been said?

Why must everyone on here pick at everyone else? I don't expect slavish agreement with each other but sometimes some of you are just mean.

Nice post."

Thanks.

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