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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hardly get any replies to messages because women get hounded by guys everyday!

When I do speak to someone it's hard to progress because I haven't got any verifications!

Any help or tips will go a long way ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep trying matey

Don't act pushy or desperate and talk about anything but sex or meets . Work round to that in time .

Never lower your standards just to get veris either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh now you've been on over a year without any it maybe worth deleting your profile and starting a new one Xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You're telling us that the reason YOU are not getting replies to YOUR messages is because of other men?

How does that work then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year without a meet !!!

Wow thats gotta be a record

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"You're telling us that the reason YOU are not getting replies to YOUR messages is because of other men?

How does that work then? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all! The reason why is because women have over 500 messages a day! Mine is 1 out of 500 and the chances of a reply is pretty slim most times ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's something in your replies they don't like. Try Cam fun and see if you can get verified that way. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A year without a meet !!!

Wow thats gotta be a record"

Haha! I never use my profile! When I feel like having a stab in here again I give up after a few days ??

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I hardly get any replies to messages because women get hounded by guys everyday!

When I do speak to someone it's hard to progress because I haven't got any verifications!

Any help or tips will go a long way ????"

My tip is to stop deleting all those messages that don't contain your magic word as the subject.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Consider going to a social. Look in meet requests and parties forum and also in the club events forum for club socials.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe it's something in your replies they don't like. Try Cam fun and see if you can get verified that way. X"

Thanks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Thanks all! The reason why is because women have over 500 messages a day! Mine is 1 out of 500 and the chances of a reply is pretty slim most times ????"

They reply to mine. tell them to make the code word a phrase. Mine is "Steve, fancy a shag?" So when they message they have to say it and so I say 'yeah' and boom! Knee deep in clunge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tbh now you've been on over a year without any it maybe worth deleting your profile and starting a new one Xx "

Thanks, that's probably what I will do! I think going to social events will help aswell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hardly get any replies to messages because women get hounded by guys everyday!

When I do speak to someone it's hard to progress because I haven't got any verifications!

Any help or tips will go a long way ????"

It is nothing to do with you having no verifications.

It may be your approach. It might well be your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Consider going to a social. Look in meet requests and parties forum and also in the club events forum for club socials."

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never reply to anyone outside of my age filters because i know guys outside of them get a warning saying i'm not interested and i don't meet or chat to anyone who doesn't respect my wishes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks all! The reason why is because women have over 500 messages a day! Mine is 1 out of 500 and the chances of a reply is pretty slim most times ????

They reply to mine. tell them to make the code word a phrase. Mine is "Steve, fancy a shag?" So when they message they have to say it and so I say 'yeah' and boom! Knee deep in clunge. "

Simmer down Steve lad! You've not really helped and I'm sure that happens ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all! The reason why is because women have over 500 messages a day! Mine is 1 out of 500 and the chances of a reply is pretty slim most times ????"

Thats bullshit and folk law mate !

When a newbie woman joins she gets unindated . But the messages slow down .

And I usually get replies .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Thanks all! The reason why is because women have over 500 messages a day! Mine is 1 out of 500 and the chances of a reply is pretty slim most times ????

They reply to mine. tell them to make the code word a phrase. Mine is "Steve, fancy a shag?" So when they message they have to say it and so I say 'yeah' and boom! Knee deep in clunge.

Simmer down Steve lad! You've not really helped and I'm sure that happens ??"

Sorry start again and use fab almost daily and go to social and clubs and chat room and looks in meets section and join in on the forums and have a good profile and pics and make sure you send good messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all! I'll tweak my profile a bit so I sound less cocksure. I have had many replies but as you can imagine if you was talking to someone to arrange a meet they want to think your real which is my problem. The Question is asked everytime.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks all! The reason why is because women have over 500 messages a day! Mine is 1 out of 500 and the chances of a reply is pretty slim most times ????

They reply to mine. tell them to make the code word a phrase. Mine is "Steve, fancy a shag?" So when they message they have to say it and so I say 'yeah' and boom! Knee deep in clunge.

Simmer down Steve lad! You've not really helped and I'm sure that happens ??

Sorry start again and use fab almost daily and go to social and clubs and chat room and looks in meets section and join in on the forums and have a good profile and pics and make sure you send good messages "

Thanks Steve! That was a lot more helpful! I will do those things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks all! The reason why is because women have over 500 messages a day! Mine is 1 out of 500 and the chances of a reply is pretty slim most times ????

Thats bullshit and folk law mate !

When a newbie woman joins she gets unindated . But the messages slow down .

And I usually get replies .

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How would you know that Danny? Have you got a women's profile set up at all?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As well*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all! The reason why is because women have over 500 messages a day! Mine is 1 out of 500 and the chances of a reply is pretty slim most times ????

Thats bullshit and folk law mate !

When a newbie woman joins she gets unindated . But the messages slow down .

And I usually get replies .

How would you know that Danny? Have you got a women's profile set up at all? "

Many female friends on here and also a cpls profile with my beautiful fb .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all! The reason why is because women have over 500 messages a day! Mine is 1 out of 500 and the chances of a reply is pretty slim most times ????"

You are also looking for couples though. Us as a couple get 1 or 2 messages per day from new single men, and sometimes we get none. Admitted we don't have time meet someone new very often. But our messages are sufficiently few that what we do get will always be read, and usually replied to. So these high stats aren't necessarily that dooming.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I hardly get any replies to messages because women get hounded by guys everyday!

When I do speak to someone it's hard to progress because I haven't got any verifications!

Any help or tips will go a long way ????"
What markets you on fab is the content of your profile. Verifications are probably irrelevant .

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