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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

at what age did you relaise you were a swinger? and wanted to have more than one sexual partner?

just curious as i'm 23 now and the tought of just sleeping with the same person for the rest of my life seems very dull and boring

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I began at 38.

I could have happily started around 16!!

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

we both started at mr 22 mrs 20 and love it ! we have been together 9 and half years now !

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"we both started at mr 22 mrs 20 and love it ! we have been together 9 and half years now ! "

That's really cool, glad you still enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 50 before I even thought about swinging.

We have friends who have played for ages and we just thought they were adventurous, lol.

Couldn't have done it in my younger days. If another bloke even looked at my wife, I used to want to punch his lights out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was 50 hadnt though about it before then

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

it was both late 30s for us and we have been married for 25 years this year ...didnt no much about swinging when in my twenties

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I started after splitting with my wife.

It seemed a great way to still have a sex life without getting too complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Couldn't have done it in my younger days. If another bloke even looked at my wife, I used to want to punch his lights out. "

so what brought about such a change in your jealousy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Couldn't have done it in my younger days. If another bloke even looked at my wife, I used to want to punch his lights out.

so what brought about such a change in your jealousy?"

Suppose I have mellowed a bit, lol, but even now I can't watch my wife kiss another bloke. I can watch her fucking and sucking, but being a watcher was never any interest to me anyway. It's no surprise then, that we prefer seperate room fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know what you mean about mellowing with age

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

not sure that I would even class myself as a swinger, but the multiple sex objects, erm bedmates and non-committal fun, would go back to my teens.

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we started over 2 1/2yrs ago but if wud have know about it wud have started at 16 aswel lol

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

i think ive always known deep down i was a swinger....we came out the swinging closet about 6 or 7 yrs ago...

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Started with my EX about 6yrs ago....My idea...

I put it down to getting a computer LOL

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Wouldnt have done it when I was younger...

My kids all grown up now but no way I would have done it when they young x

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Hmmm I was never a one-man-woman, but started in earnest with Hubby when just married - in 1979 (!)

We had a break while having 3 kids but started again when they were old enough to go to grandparents. We have tried most situations, scenarios and activities, and have now found out what works for us.

We have never looked back, and are still - at an advanced age - enjoying the excitement of the whole thing.

Jane x x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

18,i met kev and he wanted an open relationship...he was away for the weekend so i got off with someone

We had a long talk after that!i'm just not monogomous ,but he knows that of the ppl i meet/love/play with/he is my soul mate,and that is unique.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

First ventured about 3 years ago when I decided I needed more in my life. Not looked back, made mistakes, learned lessons, moved on.

Don't think I would have been so relaxed with it when I was younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started over two and half years ago age 46. I had always had a high sex drive and was adventurous. So devised a mental sex wish list. Wanted either to either die young content at achieving everything or be the only old person in the old peoples home with a smile on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried it at age 22 but was in the wrong relationship and didn't have the best sex life, it stopped before it got going. That relationship ended.

Met Clare about 6 years later and started talking about our fantasys. We spoke about it and decided that our relationship is strong enough and our sex life is amazing already and went ahead with swinging and here we are.

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