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'Fully' Bi vs 'Orally' Bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally, I love the idea of being fucked in the arse by a nice cock, and would happily give anal to both male and female partners.

However, what I don't understand is this attitude of: 'if you do anal, you're 'fully' bi, but if you only enjoy sucking cock, you're 'orally' bi.'

Why is it that bi guys or gay guys who dislike the idea of anal sex are looked upon by some people as being 'not really bi' or 'not really gay'?

Just because a gay man or a bi man doesn't enjoy taking it up the arse, that doesn't mean that they should be made to feel guilty for saying so, or be treated as a 'fraud' for expressing their preferences.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm fully bisexual but not keen on being fucked or sucking dick.

Go figure

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have never, nor will ever get fucked.

I have fucked but not overly fussed for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only my perception and opinion but bi is bi. I am bi. Love it. Suck cock and fuck. So am I bi or fully bi? Go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fully bisexual but not keen on being fucked or sucking dick.

Go figure "

You man you want all the attention on your cock? Sounds like 90% of the guys I've met

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My point is that there shouldn't be categories like 'fully bi' or 'orally bi.'

The Kinsey Scale may have 'degrees of bisexuality,' but they're differentiated by the extent to which you're attracted to men and women, not the kind of sexual activities you enjoy with either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fully bisexual but not keen on being fucked or sucking dick.

Go figure

You man you want all the attention on your cock? Sounds like 90% of the guys I've met "

I was about to use the word 'selfish' but you put it some much more nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My point is that there shouldn't be categories like 'fully bi' or 'orally bi.'

The Kinsey Scale may have 'degrees of bisexuality,' but they're differentiated by the extent to which you're attracted to men and women, not the kind of sexual activities you enjoy with either..."

Labels. Pah. Who needs them?

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Here we fucking go again!

Does anything ever change because of these discussions? ?

Will be glad when school resumes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as bi. I love sucking cock. I mean love it! But I don't find men attractive. And don't want to try anal.

Does this mean I'm not bi? I don't know lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here we fucking go again!

Does anything ever change because of these discussions? ?

Will be glad when school resumes!"

You don't want to take part in the discussion?

Well, no-one's forcing you to.

You don't think that my point has value?

That's your affair.

However, unless you have anything to contribute to the thread, will you kindly get lost and leave the talking to the grown-ups?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we fucking go again!

Does anything ever change because of these discussions? ?

Will be glad when school resumes!"

Are you missing your teachers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't allow anyone to label me. I sometimes feel the urge to lick a pussy,I'm at the very low end of the bi sliding scale. People tell me I'm bi curious,some say I'm bi sexual because I've done it. Sometimes I put bi in my profiles,sometimes I don't. It's up to me what I call myself.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Here we fucking go again!

Does anything ever change because of these discussions? ?

Will be glad when school resumes!

You don't want to take part in the discussion?

Well, no-one's forcing you to.

You don't think that my point has value?

That's your affair.

However, unless you have anything to contribute to the thread, will you kindly get lost and leave the talking to the grown-ups?"

Sorry..I am just a grumpy old man who has listened to the whole 'bi' debate for 50 years and my point is that nothing seems to change..bi/ semi bi/ half bi /orally bi /anally bi/bi leaning homo/ bi leaning hetero/fully bi.bye.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I think if you enjoy doing anything sexual with someone of the same sex you are bi.

Where you fit on the bi scale is irrelevant.

But that's just my opinion

P.S. For the record I love bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like any tag really. I like to sucking a cock, the same as I love to lick pussy. I haven't had a cock inside my bum yet, but long to, whilst a pussy is riding my mouth. Well that's my fantasy out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I want to experience receiving anal from a guy does that make me gay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I want to experience receiving anal from a guy does that make me gay? "

If you're still attracted sexually to women I'd say it makes you bi, but personally I wouldn't give a shit about the technicalities, just rock out with your cock out and enjoy your life!.. safely

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

We specify we're interested in experienced, 'fully bi' guys - especially bi tops - because Zed likes to receive but we don't feel orally bi guys are any less bi. It's just that Zed likes the full Monty and also, some straight guys say they're bi and will 'allow' a guy to suck them - I suspect they're not bi at all but will close their eyes and permit is so they can get a crack at the female.

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By *ambscouple2015Couple
over a year ago

Not in Wisbech but near

I enjoy sucking the occasional cock (Mr CC) and have been called bi oral but I prefer to call myself funsexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is my definition of "Bi"

Bi is somebody who is attracted to both sexes and has sexual activity with both sexes.

It does NOT matter what activities they are. They are Bi.

Heterosexual people have stuff they do and stuff they don,t. We don't describe them as "orally heterosexual" ect ect.

Saying on a profile orally Bi, is just Someone explaining their boundaries and preferences, it's not a label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is my definition of "Bi"

Bi is somebody who is attracted to both sexes and has sexual activity with both sexes.

It does NOT matter what activities they are. They are Bi.

Heterosexual people have stuff they do and stuff they don,t. We don't describe them as "orally heterosexual" ect ect.

Saying on a profile orally Bi, is just Someone explaining their boundaries and preferences, it's not a label."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its a funny one i think people just use it as a term of how far they will go. As in im fully bi if i take it up the arse. Its definitely not correct. Id say your more fully bi if you kiss rather than get fucked.

Its probably something crossing the barriers of sexual contact and sexual relationships. For the use of this site id say im fully bi as i will play with a guy in all of the ways ha. However i would never have a relationship with a guy, its just not for me im all for the women. Im happy with just shagging guys and dating women.

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

I'm bi and love cock and pussy equally, I prefer to be bottom rather than top with guys but I'm in no way sub.... God knows where I'd be on the scale lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I state orally bi so that other guys know what I like/give....if they want 'full' up bum sex then that's not on offer. It's just away of saving everyone's time.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I'm fully bisexual but not keen on being fucked or sucking dick.

Go figure

You man you want all the attention on your cock? Sounds like 90% of the guys I've met

I was about to use the word 'selfish' but you put it some much more nicely "

Calumny!

I'm all heart, such a giver

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By *airydust400Woman
over a year ago

St austell

I prefer the term greedy!! Sexually as long as u do what feels right anything goes, personally I couldn't have a relationship with a woman, but doesn't mean I don't admire and enjoy everything about the female form!

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"I'm fully bisexual but not keen on being fucked or sucking dick.

Go figure

You man you want all the attention on your cock? Sounds like 90% of the guys I've met

I was about to use the word 'selfish' but you put it some much more nicely

Calumny!

I'm all heart, such a giver "

They dont call _iamondjoe the studmuffincowboy cos he wears a hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi and that's it. I'm open to everything. Everyone has points so they should be respected. I love to suck and fuck. Being fucked though umm nice long thin cock up my ass is best

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm fully bisexual but not keen on being fucked or sucking dick.

Go figure "

Sounds fraudulent

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I'm fully bisexual but not keen on being fucked or sucking dick.

Go figure

You man you want all the attention on your cock? Sounds like 90% of the guys I've met

I was about to use the word 'selfish' but you put it some much more nicely

Calumny!

I'm all heart, such a giver

They dont call _iamondjoe the studmuffincowboy cos he wears a hat.

"

Why am I still being discussed?

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

no complication here ....... I love being fucked and sucking cock

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