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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long do you give somone, before you call it a day?

I've been flirting, chatting, light touches and a Costa (my personal fave thing we have done lol) with an ex-work colleague for 6 months now. He's going though a messy divorce so I've said I'll give him time.

He joined fab 3 months and we have chatted and flirted nothing heavy. He messaged today and (sorry to be rude but) my pussy did not get wet and my belly did not flip.

So....is it time to give up and just friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long do you give somone, before you call it a day?

I've been flirting, chatting, light touches and a Costa (my personal fave thing we have done lol) with an ex-work colleague for 6 months now. He's going though a messy divorce so I've said I'll give him time.

He joined fab 3 months and we have chatted and flirted nothing heavy. He messaged today and (sorry to be rude but) my pussy did not get wet and my belly did not flip.

So....is it time to give up and just friends"

It depends on what you want and he wants and what you are both able to do.

If it doesn't suit you at the moment, then put it on hold.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just wanna fuck him pure and simple. When we had Costa he kissed me goodbye and said I can't wait to fuck you, but that was about a month ago. I'm just not sure if I'm wasting my time on him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure he ain't gay most blokes would jump at a chance with you we're sure his loss love time to move on we thinks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh come on!!?

He's a bloke. Spell it out for him. You need to make the first move. We struggle reading between the lines.

I'm sure he won't say no if you blow him in the Costa car park.

Get those trousers off!! You go girl!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I just wanna fuck him pure and simple. When we had Costa he kissed me goodbye and said I can't wait to fuck you, but that was about a month ago. I'm just not sure if I'm wasting my time on him."

Why don't you ask him? If he reads the forum he's going to know anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wanna fuck him pure and simple. When we had Costa he kissed me goodbye and said I can't wait to fuck you, but that was about a month ago. I'm just not sure if I'm wasting my time on him."

Well, only you know what communication you have with him.

Personally, after a month I would have doubts but I am not in your position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long do you give somone, before you call it a day?

I've been flirting, chatting, light touches and a Costa (my personal fave thing we have done lol) with an ex-work colleague for 6 months now. He's going though a messy divorce so I've said I'll give him time.

He joined fab 3 months and we have chatted and flirted nothing heavy. He messaged today and (sorry to be rude but) my pussy did not get wet and my belly did not flip.

So....is it time to give up and just friends"

Men don't get hints.

Sounds like you are headed into Friendzoning.

Just tell him you want to fuck him.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Having a meet with a guy shouldn't be a priority in your life that you stop and wait for the time to be right for him.

It may or may not happen so carry on flirting and meeting with other guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long do you give somone, before you call it a day?

I've been flirting, chatting, light touches and a Costa (my personal fave thing we have done lol) with an ex-work colleague for 6 months now. He's going though a messy divorce so I've said I'll give him time.

He joined fab 3 months and we have chatted and flirted nothing heavy. He messaged today and (sorry to be rude but) my pussy did not get wet and my belly did not flip.

So....is it time to give up and just friends

Men don't get hints.

Sounds like you are headed into Friendzoning.

Just tell him you want to fuck him."

YES!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say he's probably got a better offer !

Us guy's are so fickle .

Move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice. I'm gonna give him till the 21 of September that will be 7 months to the date of when we started flirting/chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice. I'm gonna give him till the 21 of September that will be 7 months to the date of when we started flirting/chatting."

Your making yourself sound desperate.

Have some self respect and move on .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice. I'm gonna give him till the 21 of September that will be 7 months to the date of when we started flirting/chatting.

Your making yourself sound desperate.

Have some self respect and move on .

"

Oh that's not my intention at all, but thanks for the heads up. Opps....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you want a mate hes there - but nothing more if he doesnt give you those butterfly feelings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm starting to think, to much time has past to many non sexual chats have been had. Such a shame his cock is lovely looking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm starting to think, to much time has past to many non sexual chats have been had. Such a shame his cock is lovely looking lol"

Lots of nice cocks for u to enjoy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice. I'm gonna give him till the 21 of September that will be 7 months to the date of when we started flirting/chatting."
Having read your profile I would say this is more to do with a lack of confidence than anything.

I would say be clear about what you want and be prepared not to get the answer you are hoping for x

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"Having a meet with a guy shouldn't be a priority in your life that you stop and wait for the time to be right for him.

It may or may not happen so carry on flirting and meeting with other guys "

This. Don't shut the door on him completely - keep the option open if it ever arises - but don't hang around for him. Get out there and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice. I'm gonna give him till the 21 of September that will be 7 months to the date of when we started flirting/chatting.Having read your profile I would say this is more to do with a lack of confidence than anything.

I would say be clear about what you want and be prepared not to get the answer you are hoping for x"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long do you give somone, before you call it a day?

I've been flirting, chatting, light touches and a Costa (my personal fave thing we have done lol) with an ex-work colleague for 6 months now. He's going though a messy divorce so I've said I'll give him time.

He joined fab 3 months and we have chatted and flirted nothing heavy. He messaged today and (sorry to be rude but) my pussy did not get wet and my belly did not flip.

So....is it time to give up and just friends

Men don't get hints.

Sounds like you are headed into Friendzoning.

Just tell him you want to fuck him."

I have to agree with the first statement. There was a girl in school, she fancied me for two years and I've only found out when one of her friends said it out loud .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give up on people fairly quickly when it comes to sexual stuff. I always assume if they wanted it then it would have probably happened.

Even socially...I might try once or twice to meet socially but if it just goes no where then I will usually just chat to that person without any intention of ever meeting.

For you, OP, I suppose it depends on to much you want it...and if you aren't getting turned on by him anymore then how much do you really want it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm starting to think, to much time has past to many non sexual chats have been had. Such a shame his cock is lovely looking lol"

He's getting over a divorce, cut him some slack or just come right out with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long do you give somone, before you call it a day?

I've been flirting, chatting, light touches and a Costa (my personal fave thing we have done lol) with an ex-work colleague for 6 months now. He's going though a messy divorce so I've said I'll give him time.

He joined fab 3 months and we have chatted and flirted nothing heavy. He messaged today and (sorry to be rude but) my pussy did not get wet and my belly did not flip.

So....is it time to give up and just friends"
I'll never get involved with someone with that going on steer clear

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