FabSwingers.com forum: Ample, Curvy, BBW?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

(Him here) Without starting a row, because I know how forum posts end up. Just intrigued as to what dress sizes they would all be? I am also aware that people come in different sizes, some top heavy, others bottom etc. I find people's perception of these terms intriguing. Now play nicely and no bloody arguing. There is no right or wrong here and no going off and looking at profiles to judge either. You are ALL equal

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

I have curvy on mine, well because i have the curves althouh imo anybody can have curves despite their size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress size is not ideal. Someone who is 5ft and a size 18 will be a completely different physique to someone of the same size who is say 5ft 10. I'm a size 18 and I know I'm not slim, I'm not what I'd consider a BBW as some have suggested a size 18 and above is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have curvy on mine, well because i have the curves althouh imo anybody can have curves despite their size. "

Exactly, completely agree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dress size is not ideal. Someone who is 5ft and a size 18 will be a completely different physique to someone of the same size who is say 5ft 10. I'm a size 18 and I know I'm not slim, I'm not what I'd consider a BBW as some have suggested a size 18 and above is."

I totally understand, it's difficult to label. Just don't get why we need such labels?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've selected ample on our profile , I'm a size 18. It's subjective really. Plus there are lots of body shapes within clothes sizes, so you can't say all size 18 plus are ample as they won't be. I thought BBW started at 18/20.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm obese. I'd say I am obese. Size 22 24 height 5 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've selected ample on our profile , I'm a size 18. It's subjective really. Plus there are lots of body shapes within clothes sizes, so you can't say all size 18 plus are ample as they won't be. I thought BBW started at 18/20.

Sarah "

I'm a BBW then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sarah "

I just wished there were no boxes for us to choose for ourselves. Seems odd. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess 12,14,16. Obviously height dependent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put fabulous. ..because I am.....but also put in text I'm a size 16/18 with a belly and boobs so there's no mistaking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm obese. I'd say I am obese. Size 22 24 height 5 4"

I wouldn't say so. Not looking to impress or 'pull' you in any way but again, define obese? Just wished there were no words to already pre empt our judgement of other people.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Hmm

I'm 16 top, 14 bottom , 5'9" tall with long skinny legs..... I'm thinking 'Cornetto' shaped

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I'm very obese at a size 20/22 and only 5' 1". I am what I am though and don't dress my body type up to be anything other than it is on our profile - and that's 'large'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sarah

I'm a BBW then

See, I don't see size, as in categorising people. Just body shapes and attitudes. Jeez, I think I'm getting old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive put large and bbw as 5ft 7ins and a size 22 so that's large extra large

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I guess 12,14,16. Obviously height dependent. "

Love it, a brave man steps in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've put fabulous. ..because I am.....but also put in text I'm a size 16/18 with a belly and boobs so there's no mistaking."

Everybody is fabulous to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine field. I like curvier, larger women, but some people hate the bbw label.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hmm

I'm 16 top, 14 bottom , 5'9" tall with long skinny legs..... I'm thinking 'Cornetto' shaped

Am I the only one here singing 'Just One Cornetto....'? Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife keeps talking about slimming down. ... and as long as it's only talk. .....I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine field. I like curvier, larger women, but some people hate the bbw label. "

Maybe because not all curvier larger ladies are BBW's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW here size 18....and state large on my profile!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Sarah "

I thought bbw was size 20+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Him here) Without starting a row, because I know how forum posts end up. Just intrigued as to what dress sizes they would all be? I am also aware that people come in different sizes, some top heavy, others bottom etc. I find people's perception of these terms intriguing. Now play nicely and no bloody arguing. There is no right or wrong here and no going off and looking at profiles to judge either. You are ALL equal

Its not possible to answer this it's like asking what Blue smells like!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm very obese at a size 20/22 and only 5' 1". I am what I am though and don't dress my body type up to be anything other than it is on our profile - and that's 'large'. "

Very obese? I have definitely seen people that could eat you for breakfast. What do we call those guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very obese at a size 20/22 and only 5' 1". I am what I am though and don't dress my body type up to be anything other than it is on our profile - and that's 'large'.

Very obese? I have definitely seen people that could eat you for breakfast. What do we call those guys?"

Cannibals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm morbidly obese. Size 26, 6ft 2

I put fabulous as they didn't have a "fat as fuck option".

I'm an apple shape, and carry most of my weight on my belly, hips and arse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive put large and bbw as 5ft 7ins and a size 22 so that's large extra large

You've invented a whole new category there, 'Large Extra Large' is being noted right now. *reaches for pen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not possible to answer this it's like asking what Blue smells like!

Raspberry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine field. I like curvier, larger women, but some people hate the bbw label. "

Wise words, a very diplomatic approach, love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I so want to comment on here !

But id better not ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I so want to comment on here !

But id better not .."

You just did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I state large on my profile because thats what i am

i do have curves to though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your responses so far, you beautiful people. I am genuinely fascinated by it all. Keep posting away but please play nicely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I so want to comment on here !

But id better not ..

You just did

Damn

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your responses so far, you beautiful people. I am genuinely fascinated by it all. Keep posting away but please play nicely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stuck to fabulous on mine at a size 20/22 ish

Some days I feel it, some days I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine field. I like curvier, larger women, but some people hate the bbw label.

Maybe because not all curvier larger ladies are BBW's?"

Exactly. Where is the cut off. There is no cut off. When do you become a bbw? When do you become a ssbbw? Some people are a big beautiful woman but don't like the term.

Mine field.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with this totally. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the term fabulous slightly sarcastic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess 12,14,16. Obviously height dependent.

Love it, a brave man steps in."

So you were looking to stir up trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm classed as obese, BBW etc but have been told I'm more curvy!

I'm 5'9" & a size 20.

My curvy bits just aren't where they should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does nobody ask what sizes slim, average and athletic are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bbw..... size 18+

Curvy....... 12-18

Slim......... 12

Athletic.... Jess Ennis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess 12,14,16. Obviously height dependent. "

Haha

Thats classed as anorexic on here ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bbw..... size 18+

Curvy....... 12-18

Slim......... 12

Athletic.... Jess Ennis.

Supposed to be a wee arrow indicating 12 or less, it didn't work

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

"I guess 12,14,16. Obviously height dependent. "

In that case im ample curvy and bbw....now what do i put

Clothes sizes can also vary in different brands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have large on my profile because I'm just plain and simple fat

I am a size 18 waist but got large thighs and belly so have to wear a size 20

Top half I vary 18/20

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Why does nobody ask what sizes slim, average and athletic are?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not possible to answer this it's like asking what Blue smells like!

Raspberry. "

No blueberry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not possible to answer this it's like asking what Blue smells like!

Raspberry.

No blueberry?

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess 12,14,16. Obviously height dependent.

In that case im ample curvy and bbw....now what do i put

Clothes sizes can also vary in different brands"

"Fabulous"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refer to myself as bbw, I'm 6'1 and about a size 22/24. To be more honest, I'm obese and have more wobbly bits than a jelly!

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I chose fabulous. Not because I think I am but because I want to be.

For reference I'm a size 18 I dislke the term BBW but to some that's what they see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I refer to myself as bbw, I'm 6'1 and about a size 22/24. To be more honest, I'm obese and have more wobbly bits than a jelly!"

It's nice to see ladies large and happy with themselves. Instead of always moaning about loosing weight but doing nothing about it

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I'm fabulous on my profile, and I state my size (22) so men reading my profile have a rough idea what they're getting! I've got tight corners rather than curves

Sometimes I feel sexy other times I wish I was slim x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ample on my profile, I like the term Rubinesque

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a size 10 and class myself as curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if you go on my bmi I am overweight!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a size 10 and class myself as curvy"

Size 10

Now thats my kind of lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But if you go on my bmi I am overweight!!

And I'm obese, get in!!

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

Totally, I'm 5"10 and a 16 so I'd be a completely different shape to a 5' size 16.......I don't consider myself a BBW, I'd say curvy because I'm in proportion.

I hate it when people say they won't meet over a certain dress size, how would they know when u message them!!! I could lie, would they demand proof when I turn up for a meet?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Im a fat bastard as my son would say, 5ft 9 and size 24.

Someone i used to see kindly said i didnt look that big and the first thing he noticed was how tall i was. i also have big bones because even when i was 9 stone i was a size 14. My sister is size 14 and looks skinny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a fat bastard as my son would say, 5ft 9 and size 24.

Your son needs a clip round the ear !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea

I got fed up of worrying what people perceived me as a long time ago

Just open your eyes and look at me, you either like me or you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a fat bastard as my son would say, 5ft 9 and size 24.

Your son needs a clip round the ear !

"
honesty is the best policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I refer to myself as bbw, I'm 6'1 and about a size 22/24. To be more honest, I'm obese and have more wobbly bits than a jelly!

It's nice to see ladies large and happy with themselves. Instead of always moaning about loosing weight but doing nothing about it"

I'm not particularly happy about it but I'm the only person who can make the changes. No one wants to hear me moan! Well not that sort of moaning anyway

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Im a fat bastard as my son would say, 5ft 9 and size 24.

Your son needs a clip round the ear !

No he makes me laugh when he says it because he says it about himself as well, like when we have been out to dinner and had a big meal he says fat bastards it just makes me laugh my head off because of the way he says it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idea

I got fed up of worrying what people perceived me as a long time ago

Just open your eyes and look at me, you either like me or you don't

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I have no idea.

I describe myself as curvy and I'm a size 14/16 and only 5ft2. Some will agree with me and some won't. *Shrugs*

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Every one will have their own ideas OP.

None of them equate to clothing sizes thouogh, especially as they vary so much. I'm normally a 14 but have clothes as small as 8/10 and up to XL... All that fit properly.

To me curvy is a shape not a size, and so is athletic; you can be slim and athletic or chunky and still athletic.

I think I'm curvy but I'm sure others will disagree.

As long as you have pictures showing what you really look like, I don't think it matters.

Nita

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

It's all interpretation;

I have seen ladies who call themselves " athletic " who are certainly " curvy" if not bbw .

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

"I have no idea

I got fed up of worrying what people perceived me as a long time ago

Just open your eyes and look at me, you either like me or you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm obese. I'd say I am obese. Size 22 24 height 5 4

I wouldn't say so. Not looking to impress or 'pull' you in any way but again, define obese? Just wished there were no words to already pre empt our judgement of other people. "

I am grossly overweight. 8 9 stone over. How can I be anything other than obese.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5"3, 10 and half stone, size 10 and my bmi indicates I'm overweight!! However I am into weightlifting!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bbw..... size 18+

Curvy....... 12-18

Slim......... 12

Athletic.... Jess Ennis.

I'm an 18 and I'm not curvy. Everything is starting to go South for winter. When I was a size 12 I was curvy,cos I had big tits and bum but no stomach.

There should be a stomach type indicator on here.

Flat as a pancake.

A slight pouch.

Paunchy.

Bloated.

Jelly belly.

Wok belly.

Beer gut.

And not forgetting 6 pack/ripped.

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

I have large on my profile I'm a size 24 and I'm 6ft tall in my bare feet

People come in all shapes and sizes and are all beautiful in there own right

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm average height and a size 14 with definite podgy areas. I'm ample in terms of flab distribution but curvy in terms of shape. I get messages from guys who see my pics and say they're messaging because they love BBW's. I get messages from people saying they love my figure. I get messages from people saying I'm fat. The choice of descriptive terms on here is limited and relies on individual perceptions; which may or may not differ from the perception others have. Since you can't narrow search parameters by body size/shape, height etc. I sometimes wonder what the point is of having such categories on here anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm average height and a size 14 with definite podgy areas. I'm ample in terms of flab distribution but curvy in terms of shape. I get messages from guys who see my pics and say they're messaging because they love BBW's. I get messages from people saying they love my figure. I get messages from people saying I'm fat. The choice of descriptive terms on here is limited and relies on individual perceptions; which may or may not differ from the perception others have. Since you can't narrow search parameters by body size/shape, height etc. I sometimes wonder what the point is of having such categories on here anyway."

Well I would be in the love your figure camp. It's epic my dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have large on my profile because there isn't anywhere I can put big fat pear!

. That's in that I'm pear shape with a large tummy, massive bum but not as big on top. However I have full length pics on profile and size etc because a label doesn't tell the other person anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am flabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have large on my profile because there isn't anywhere I can put big fat pear!

. That's in that I'm pear shape with a large tummy, massive bum but not as big on top. However I have full length pics on profile and size etc because a label doesn't tell the other person anything "

Indeed. We believe in our pics speaking for themselves. Also why we don't use filters,or angles that hide everything. Everything is there to see for people to make an informed decision to save drama later on.

To answer the op question

Size 16 on top,

16/18 on bottom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a size 14, I'm all tits n arse.

I've stated I'm average on here as that is what my dress size is, I believe.

I am curvy but I think on the t'internet it's a word that is banded about & is open to major interpretation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 18 up top, 20 on the bottom (darn those luscious hips!) and pretty much 6ft tall. I put ample because I have a belly. If I didn't have the belly I'd probably go with curvy - ample's like the inbetween bit. I'm not large anymore, in my eyes.

That said, I'm not fussed about it - I'd just rather potential meets were pleasantly surprised rather than overpromised from the start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 18 up top, 20 on the bottom (darn those luscious hips!) and pretty much 6ft tall. I put ample because I have a belly. If I didn't have the belly I'd probably go with curvy - ample's like the inbetween bit. I'm not large anymore, in my eyes.

That said, I'm not fussed about it - I'd just rather potential meets were pleasantly surprised rather than overpromised from the start!"

6' and Big hips, the ultimate combo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That said, I'm not fussed about it - I'd just rather potential meets were pleasantly surprised rather than overpromised from the start!"

Oh my.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I put ample because "fat" isn't an option to pick on my profile.

I'm morbidly obese, I don't agree with the BBW label, being fat doesn't make me beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put ample because "fat" isn't an option to pick on my profile.

I'm morbidly obese, I don't agree with the BBW label, being fat doesn't make me beautiful

Don't be ridiculous - you have a rack to die for and that bum in those panties? Begging to be bitten!

I notice that the erect cocks in each hand on one of your pics don't seem to be having trouble being attracted to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife is perfect to me. She was perfect to me when she was a size 22 amd also at a size 8. She's 6ft so looks different to lots of shorter women as weight and dress size are different for people's proportions. I think that for me it's all about the connection between you both. But that's just me

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"I put ample because "fat" isn't an option to pick on my profile.

I'm morbidly obese, I don't agree with the BBW label, being fat doesn't make me beautiful

Don't be ridiculous - you have a rack to die for and that bum in those panties? Begging to be bitten!

I notice that the erect cocks in each hand on one of your pics don't seem to be having trouble being attracted to you!"

aww thanks!

It's just fact though, I know I'm fat, I know I would look much better if I lost a few stone. I've just been too lazy

I don't call myself fat to put myself down, just being truthful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bbw..... size 18+

Curvy....... 12-18

Slim......... 12

Athletic.... Jess Ennis.

Agree

Instead of putting fabulous and large etc, it should be dress size that you select instead. Us men understand better then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bbw..... size 18+

Curvy....... 12-18

Slim......... 12

Athletic.... Jess Ennis.

Agree

Instead of putting fabulous and large etc, it should be dress size that you select instead. Us men understand better then

Yes but dress sizes are bollocks. A 6 foot slim woman can be a 16. And a short plump woman can be a 12.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up trying to decide which category I fit into :0(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've given up trying to decide which category I fit into :0( "

I'd say you look sexy in your pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter if you put CURVY, LARGE, BBW, FABULOUS everyone has a different interpretation, easiest thing just a decent full length picture, end of discussion, no need to worry about which description to put on your profile then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does nobody ask what sizes slim, average and athletic are?"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put ample as I feel I have ample boobage and a round soft tummy for cumming, sleeping on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've given up trying to decide which category I fit into :0(

I'd say you look sexy in your pictures

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've given up trying to decide which category I fit into :0(

I'd say you look sexy in your pictures

Thank you "

Your more than welcome

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By *lack_boneMan
over a year ago

wandsworth

Sad that ppl have to be labeled.

All I see in this thread is a selection of extremely sexy women that any red blooded male would love to explore

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

My profile has my height and weight which equals to borderline lard arse

I don't know where all that fat comes from; I eat celery sticks (followed by Big Macs) and excercise regularly (lifting Big Macs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've given up trying to decide which category I fit into :0(

I'd say you look sexy in your pictures

Thank you "

Gorgeous sexy, I'd say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tick the fabulous box ....

In my profile

I write size 22 straight up in first paragraph

I write I have a generous tummy thighs and tush and that it jiggles

I ensure a full body shot

In friends pics I have more revealing arty body shots

I am who I am and I say it as it is .... Fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put large. I'm a 16 bottom 18 top at 5'7". I'm apple shaped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone's attractive to me, they're attractive to me, size, hair length, skin colour, hairy or not.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I go with curvy because I feel it's suits me I really don't give a flying fuck if anyone disagrees as it's how I define myself that's important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bbw..... size 18+

Curvy....... 12-18

Slim......... 12

Athletic.... Jess Ennis.

Agree

Instead of putting fabulous and large etc, it should be dress size that you select instead. Us men understand better then

A 5ft10 size 16 would be a very different look to a 5ft2 size 16 woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't matter if you put CURVY, LARGE, BBW, FABULOUS everyone has a different interpretation, easiest thing just a decent full length picture, end of discussion, no need to worry about which description to put on your profile then

I agree with this

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

I have to say I love ladies of all sizes each have their pluses for me ied sayy alittle chubby for myself bit of a gut and dubble chin going on

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Bbw..... size 18+

Curvy....... 12-18

Slim......... 12

Athletic.... Jess Ennis.

Agree

Instead of putting fabulous and large etc, it should be dress size that you select instead. Us men understand better then

This thread clearly shown men don't understand dress sizes, they see a certain dress size an assume it means they look a certain way, but as many have said 5ft2 size 16 will look chubbier than a 5ft9 size 16.

For example me and my vanilla friends regularly ask people to guess our weights. I'm a size 18 but very tall when I ask people they always assume I'm about 2 stone lighter than I actually am, whereas my friend who is an 18 and 5ft 1 gets her weight estimated at about 3st heavier than she is, we actually weight only a few pounds different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I list myself as BBW although I hate the term. Big doesn't necessarily mean beautiful and really the whole thing of size is subjective.

Quite simply I am obese. SSBBW. Although again what a silly term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine field. I like curvier, larger women, but some people hate the bbw label. "

if someone calls me a bbw or has bbw lover etc on thier profile it's a no go for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 12-14 and I've put curvy. When I was a bit slimmer I was probably average but I'd never describe myself as average because it sounds boring

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

What is wrong with:

Underweight

Normal

Overweight

Obese

Morbidly Obese

What is all this 'Big Beautitul Woman' or 'fabulous' nonsense when what it means is obese or morbidly obese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine field. I like curvier, larger women, but some people hate the bbw label.

if someone calls me a bbw or has bbw lover etc on thier profile it's a no go for me"

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"What is wrong with:

Underweight

Normal

Overweight

Obese

Morbidly Obese

What is all this 'Big Beautitul Woman' or 'fabulous' nonsense when what it means is obese or morbidly obese"

If there was an option for obese I'd be happy to use it unfortunately there isn't

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"What is wrong with:

Underweight

Normal

Overweight

Obese

Morbidly Obese

What is all this 'Big Beautitul Woman' or 'fabulous' nonsense when what it means is obese or morbidly obese

If there was an option for obese I'd be happy to use it unfortunately there isn't "

If there was an option for overweight I'd use that. I am overweight and I ain't gonna drop 5 kg between now and next Saturday, so what is the point trying to fool someone

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I have pictures that paint a thousand words. Labels are therefore redundant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does nobody ask what sizes slim, average and athletic are?"

It has been don't in the past

I'm sure if your interested enough you'll find it on a search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a 12-14 and I've put curvy. When I was a bit slimmer I was probably average but I'd never describe myself as average because it sounds boring

I swap between curvy & average.

I find curvy attracts the messages that challenge my choice, another word for fat etc ~ where as average never does!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I'm a 12-14 and I've put curvy. When I was a bit slimmer I was probably average but I'd never describe myself as average because it sounds boring

I swap between curvy & average.

I find curvy attracts the messages that challenge my choice, another word for fat etc ~ where as average never does!"

Good strategy

I have just changed my size to 'large'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have pictures that paint a thousand words. Labels are therefore redundant.

Best message on thread

Why the need for labels

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

(Him again) Morning gang, nice to see so many responses and that the general consensus is that labels are nonsense and we all know what we like by viewing photos of eachother. It's actually refreshing to read a thread where everybody respects all views too and no bitter arguing. I love you guys and all of your photos. Have a 'fabulous' Sunday, much love x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm size 12. To some that qualifies me as slim. Some would say average, and others would call me curvy!

Essentially it's just a guide to help people decide whether they'd like to meet someone or not - particularly when people don't have clear, recent, full length body pictures. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gym or a good healthy sex life usually burns the pounds off

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I have put curvy at 5'2 and size 14/16 it fits my shape big boobs belly and bum. I know I am overweight but I'm working on it. From behind I have and hourglass figure it's side of that's the problem but as long as my Boobs ate bigger than my belly I can live with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have put curvy at 5'2 and size 14/16 it fits my shape big boobs belly and bum. I know I am overweight but I'm working on it. From behind I have and hourglass figure it's side of that's the problem but as long as my Boobs ate bigger than my belly I can live with it.

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correct I think if your belly is bigger than your boobs it's time for a change! But everyone's different and it's what makes you happy that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gym or a good healthy sex life usually burns the pounds off

Your advice is noted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm chose ample and also put my size in my profile so people know I'm not just boobs but a bit of a belly too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

correct I think if your belly is bigger than your boobs it's time for a change! But everyone's different and it's what makes you happy that counts

My boobs are bigger than my belly button I'm still 7 stone overweight so I think that theory of 'correctness' is a bit flawed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a 12-14 and I've put curvy. When I was a bit slimmer I was probably average but I'd never describe myself as average because it sounds boring

I hadn't realised there were definitions of size behind the terms... Totally agree with your rationale on naming, as I'm certainly anything but average!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sarah "
I thought bbw was a 16 up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am described as curvy. I'm 5 4 and size 14 top and 12 bottom .

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

I like and love all of the above

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

I struggle with dresses as I'm a 16/18 at the top and a 12/14 at the bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have curvy on mine, well because i have the curves althouh imo anybody can have curves despite their size. "
curvy is right for you...perfection too...stunning...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm obese. I'd say I am obese. Size 22 24 height 5 4"

You'r not obese you are gorgeous

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