FabSwingers.com forum: personality or looks

By *r Lover 1987 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester m22

I'm more off for personality but there's got to be an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter, it is nsa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both play their part for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't go for just one of the other. If you were just for looks you should just get hookers instead. Also anyone who says attraction is all about personality is a liar. It's like going shopping, the bright packaging and the groovy tag line get you to buy but the contents will get you coming back for more.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Personality all the way for me. It defines looks, in my opinion (someone I might initially not find all that attractive gets better looking the more I find he's a great guy--and vice versa).

Even when I was more interested in meets that were a bit more random. Um--dull personality, no way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't matter, it is nsa

Oh god it does matter. A bit of both for me. The looks gets the meet and the personality brings the fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

looks, it doesn't matter how nice a person is if I don't find them attractive I'm not having sex with them.

Its a different matter socially of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality all the way for me. It defines looks, in my opinion (someone I might initially not find all that attractive gets better looking the more I find he's a great guy--and vice versa).

Even when I was more interested in meets that were a bit more random. Um--dull personality, no way.

Absolutely this ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality all the way for me. It defines looks, in my opinion (someone I might initially not find all that attractive gets better looking the more I find he's a great guy--and vice versa).

Even when I was more interested in meets that were a bit more random. Um--dull personality, no way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't matter, it is nsa

Oh god it does matter. A bit of both for me. The looks gets the meet and the personality brings the fun "

This! This! This!

You can be gorgeous, but if you have the personality of a broken clothes peg? Er, no thanks!

I've gone for plain Janes who dazzled me with their personality which made them stunning by time I finished talking to them

Make me laugh and I'm yours

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By *r Lover 1987 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester m22

I would rather have a laugh with someone than have a model on my arm who can't put 2 words together

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I would rather have a laugh with someone than have a model on my arm who can't put 2 words together "

is it the case then that you can't have looks and personality? All models are unintelligent and less attractive people are full of personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality all the way for me. It defines looks, in my opinion (someone I might initially not find all that attractive gets better looking the more I find he's a great guy--and vice versa).

Even when I was more interested in meets that were a bit more random. Um--dull personality, no way.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm gonna go for looks because I'm shallow

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By *r Lover 1987 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester m22

"I would rather have a laugh with someone than have a model on my arm who can't put 2 words together

is it the case then that you can't have looks and personality? All models are unintelligent and less attractive people are full of personality?"
not saying there not just saying I would go for personality than a perfect 10 out of 10 woman

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"I'm more off for personality but there's got to be an attraction "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I would rather have a laugh with someone than have a model on my arm who can't put 2 words together

is it the case then that you can't have looks and personality? All models are unintelligent and less attractive people are full of personality? not saying there not just saying I would go for personality than a perfect 10 out of 10 woman "

I understand but the good looking ones should be given a chance too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always about looks and personal hygiene and how someone looks after themselves.

Personality??

Its not a dating site ffs

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By *r Lover 1987 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester m22

"I would rather have a laugh with someone than have a model on my arm who can't put 2 words together

I understand but the good looking ones should be given a chance too

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off course they do everyone has a chance with me coz we are all perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more off for personality but there's got to be an attraction "

There is always an intrinsic problem with "either/or" questions.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Always about looks and personal hygiene and how someone looks after themselves.

Personality??

Its not a dating site ffs"

I agree with this to an extent because if personality s so important to everyone what on earth are all the posts telling women they look fantastic all about

? And where are the posts praising them for their generosity, kindness to animals and efforts towards world peace?

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Looks instantly grab my attention but if there's no personality my attention soon disappears

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By *r Lover 1987 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester m22

"Looks instantly grab my attention but if there's no personality my attention soon disappears "

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Both. What can I say - I aim high.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"I'm gonna go for looks because I'm shallow

My friend. As deep as Formica

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Personality all the way for me. It defines looks, in my opinion (someone I might initially not find all that attractive gets better looking the more I find he's a great guy--and vice versa).

Even when I was more interested in meets that were a bit more random. Um--dull personality, no way.

I agree with this especially if your looking for a regular arrangement and not a quick how's your father never going to see you again tumble .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look at a person's left elbow and make my decision based on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always about looks and personal hygiene and how someone looks after themselves.

Personality??

Its not a dating site ffs

I agree with this to an extent because if personality s so important to everyone what on earth are all the posts telling women they look fantastic all about

? And where are the posts praising them for their generosity, kindness to animals and efforts towards world peace?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had to choose between a man with personality and a man with looks, I'd choose the one with the big cock...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I just look at a person's left elbow and make my decision based on that.

I think that's the most reliable method it's why I always keep my left elbow covered.

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By *ndyuk7Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

people always go for looks not what a person feels inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has to be a mix of both for me

no matter how nice a person is if there's not physical attraction i woudlnt play, same as i wouldnt play with a good looking person with a bad personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people always go for looks not what a person feels inside "

speaking for everybody there are you?

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By *ndyuk7Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

me what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just look at a person's left elbow and make my decision based on that.

I think that's the most reliable method it's why I always keep my left elbow covered.

People always figure out how to mess up a good method

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me which obviously makes it a lot harder. But it there's no chemistry I'd rather have a wank which is what I frequently do instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, but front gold teeth help as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Combination but Ive met guys who visually didnt really do much for me.. until we got chatting and they rocked my world with personality...

On the other hand ive met guys who looked so damned hot but were absolute arseholes.

Im no looker.. but Im told I make up the deficit in character.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

No good having the looks of there is no connection, there fore personality wins every time.

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Personality wins the day

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Always about looks and personal hygiene and how someone looks after themselves.

Personality??

Its not a dating site ffs"

It may be nsa and not a dating site however because I am looking for more than a "fuck and go " need to have a connection - a mix of looks/personality /common interests.

I like a man I can spend time with and who can talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely a personality girl - I need banter and intelligent conversation. If they're easy on the eye it's a bonus...but it's always going to be about how they make me feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg I'm sooo shallow.. But it's looks all the way 4 me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, no compromise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't matter, it is nsa

NSA means 'no strings attached'. That means there is no commitment to play again, no commitment to frequency of play, no involvement in personal life, and no restriction of other partners. NSA does does mean that you fuck someone ones not attracted to. If anything, because it is just sex, then sexual attraction is more important than ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks first, but if the personality doesn't match its a non runner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. I can quite easily be laughed into bed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need both for me to want to go to bed with someone, and we will gauge both factors before we agree to meet someone. That's because when we meet, we meet to play, so have to have both factors in place.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I'm gonna go for looks because I'm shallow

My friend. As deep as Formica

You can wallow in my deepest thoughts without getting your ankles wet

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By *iggiandyMan
over a year ago

York

Personality every time. But as I look like Shrek I would say that!!

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality could be a celebrity if personality is bad I don't want to no personally lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely a personality girl - I need banter and intelligent conversation. If they're easy on the eye it's a bonus...but it's always going to be about how they make me feel."

That's me out then I have less intelligence then a carrot of -2.

But in all seriousness I am not intelligent but can make people laugh at first meet which is good I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that when it comes to swinging people will go by looks

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

I'd say personality but of course you cant see the personality from across the room

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Looks initially attract me but if you don't hold my attention after that then it wont go any further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BOTH !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it this way....i don't fantasize about guys that are great to chat to over a cuppa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put it this way....i don't fantasize about guys that are great to chat to over a cuppa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks will grab my attention; personality will keep it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would rather have a laugh with someone than have a model on my arm who can't put 2 words together "

At last' someone that doesn't seek Barbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it's casual or serious.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Both!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Personality but there has to be an attraction

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

i dont think i have ever met a man who had such a nice personality that i wasnt bothered what he looked like. so it would be looks first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A combination of the two x

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