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By *ddiea OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton

Just need to vent about this! Why do some peoples profiles have to be so demanding!!

Completely unnecessary with all the, 'No this' and 'No that'

Jeez just delete messages already so much easier than writing a four page essay on what you dont want then small section of what you do! Far to negative

I for one wont be reading your demands cause thats not fun and thats what im looking for!

So to all the people who are bored with LONG BORING DEMANDING PROFILES dont message them! Boycott them! Lol make a stand hehe!

DEAR FABSWINGERS - THERE ARE FILTERS FOR MOST EVERYTHING BUT NOT FOR LONG PROFILES OVER 2 PARAGRAPHS HOW ABOUT THAT???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just need to vent about this! Why do some peoples profiles have to be so demanding!!

Completely unnecessary with all the, 'No this' and 'No that'

Jeez just delete messages already so much easier than writing a four page essay on what you dont want then small section of what you do! Far to negative

I for one wont be reading your demands cause thats not fun and thats what im looking for!

So to all the people who are bored with LONG BORING DEMANDING PROFILES dont message them! Boycott them! Lol make a stand hehe!

DEAR FABSWINGERS - THERE ARE FILTERS FOR MOST EVERYTHING BUT NOT FOR LONG PROFILES OVER 2 PARAGRAPHS HOW ABOUT THAT???"

If you're choosing not to read or message them, I'm just wondering what actual difference it makes to you what or how much they put on there? surely it's their profile, their business and ultimately their loss if it puts people off?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just need to vent about this! Why do some peoples profiles have to be so demanding!!

Completely unnecessary with all the, 'No this' and 'No that'

Jeez just delete messages already so much easier than writing a four page essay on what you dont want then small section of what you do! Far to negative

I for one wont be reading your demands cause thats not fun and thats what im looking for!

So to all the people who are bored with LONG BORING DEMANDING PROFILES dont message them! Boycott them! Lol make a stand hehe!

DEAR FABSWINGERS - THERE ARE FILTERS FOR MOST EVERYTHING BUT NOT FOR LONG PROFILES OVER 2 PARAGRAPHS HOW ABOUT THAT???"

Lol I like how you complain about demanding profiles while making demands of your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point in reading ours then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't read them normally if they are too long. It's their profile though, so up to them how they manage them. Your profile OP isn't particularly appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit like reading a profile that whinges about others demanding profiles, total turn off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just need to vent about this! Why do some peoples profiles have to be so demanding!!

Completely unnecessary with all the, 'No this' and 'No that'

Jeez just delete messages already so much easier than writing a four page essay on what you dont want then small section of what you do! Far to negative

I for one wont be reading your demands cause thats not fun and thats what im looking for!

So to all the people who are bored with LONG BORING DEMANDING PROFILES dont message them! Boycott them! Lol make a stand hehe!

DEAR FABSWINGERS - THERE ARE FILTERS FOR MOST EVERYTHING BUT NOT FOR LONG PROFILES OVER 2 PARAGRAPHS HOW ABOUT THAT???"

Vent away.

We feel just the same about short unrevealing profiles, so understand your reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then they wonder why they find it hard to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a boring and demanding post. Yawn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just need to vent about this! Why do some peoples profiles have to be so demanding!!

Completely unnecessary with all the, 'No this' and 'No that'

Jeez just delete messages already so much easier than writing a four page essay on what you dont want then small section of what you do! Far to negative

I for one wont be reading your demands cause thats not fun and thats what im looking for!

So to all the people who are bored with LONG BORING DEMANDING PROFILES dont message them! Boycott them! Lol make a stand hehe!

DEAR FABSWINGERS - THERE ARE FILTERS FOR MOST EVERYTHING BUT NOT FOR LONG PROFILES OVER 2 PARAGRAPHS HOW ABOUT THAT???"

Pot, kettle perchance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I happen to like long profiles... I'm a reader.

For the love of god, get rid of the damn disclaimers though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, who gives a flying fuck about other people's profiles? (how do you give a flying fuck anyway, sounds a bit dangerous?!) If they don't interest you then move on to a profile that does. Moaning about it really isn't a good look, negativity is very off putting.

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Oh dear, we have more than two paragraphs on our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear, we have more than two paragraphs on our profile "

Two whole paragraphs!! If peoples writing skills are indicative of their reading ability you should probably go 'UNLOS' immediately!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Blimey, who gives a flying fuck about other people's profiles? (how do you give a flying fuck anyway, sounds a bit dangerous?!) If they don't interest you then move on to a profile that does. Moaning about it really isn't a good look, negativity is very off putting. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I would have read your post but it was more than 2 paragraphs.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Ours is huuuuge, however the abridged version is right at the top in bold so if you choose not to read it that's hardly our fault.

I'd rather people didn't have to waste their time and ours by messages starting "So what you after" and the like..

I would hope we are in their somewhere and peeps are 100% certain they know what we are looking for.

We still get couples contacting us for couple play & when our kik was up single guys too. So really very few read them do who gives a shit how long it is?

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear, we have more than two paragraphs on our profile

Two whole paragraphs!! If peoples writing skills are indicative of their reading ability you should probably go 'UNLOS' immediately! "

OMG' I have more than 3 paragraphs will I be banned?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of it as a really useful filter; if you see a profile that makes you cringe, yawn, vomit or vent then you know you probably don't want to message or meet the author. Much like selecting a new book; you either find the cover and blurb interesting enough to read a little further and maybe even purchase it or you don't. Schimplez.

I don't rant my way around Waterstones (other high street book vendors are available) hurrumphing that there are tonnes of books which look boring, unappealing or downright crap; I buy one that I think I might like and put the shitty ones to one side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With status and pretty negative profile it would be a delete and block from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think of it as a really useful filter; if you see a profile that makes you cringe, yawn, vomit or vent then you know you probably don't want to message or meet the author. Much like selecting a new book; you either find the cover and blurb interesting enough to read a little further and maybe even purchase it or you don't. Schimplez.

I don't rant my way around Waterstones (other high street book vendors are available) hurrumphing that there are tonnes of books which look boring, unappealing or downright crap; I buy one that I think I might like and put the shitty ones to one side. "

I agree with your point but not sure about the analogy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can tell the amount of shit messages a person gets by how demanding their profile is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one word IRRELEVANT

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Just need to vent about this! Why do some peoples profiles have to be so demanding!!

Completely unnecessary with all the, 'No this' and 'No that'

Jeez just delete messages already so much easier than writing a four page essay on what you dont want then small section of what you do! Far to negative

I for one wont be reading your demands cause thats not fun and thats what im looking for!

So to all the people who are bored with LONG BORING DEMANDING PROFILES dont message them! Boycott them! Lol make a stand hehe!

DEAR FABSWINGERS - THERE ARE FILTERS FOR MOST EVERYTHING BUT NOT FOR LONG PROFILES OVER 2 PARAGRAPHS HOW ABOUT THAT???"
I much prefer long demsnding profiles .

It avoids wasting everyones time . All you have to do is read a profile and sèe if you fulfill the selection criteria .

A lengthy profile will also inject some peronality . We all know that it is a sex site , so in many ways the non sexual side of a profile is much more important .

I assume that those with short profiles or no demands are fake ..

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Think of it as a really useful filter; if you see a profile that makes you cringe, yawn, vomit or vent then you know you probably don't want to message or meet the author. Much like selecting a new book; you either find the cover and blurb interesting enough to read a little further and maybe even purchase it or you don't. Schimplez.

I don't rant my way around Waterstones (other high street book vendors are available) hurrumphing that there are tonnes of books which look boring, unappealing or downright crap; I buy one that I think I might like and put the shitty ones to one side. "
An excellent analogy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry your message was too long not reading it!!!!

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

If people actually read profiles that would be a start. I think it's only fair to say what your preferences are but try not to be condescending.

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By *ddiea OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton

Glad i evoked such emotion from people!

I wasn't looking for anyones approval incase you were wondering everyone above lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile is long but not particularly demanding, we forgive those that ask a question which would have been answered in the profile as it is so long, thought about cutting it down, but it is what it is.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you can tell the amount of shit messages a person gets by how demanding their profile is."

We've always tried not to react by changing our profile due to crap messages, seems to come across as bitter when we see a profile where that has clearly happened x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people actually read profiles that would be a start. I think it's only fair to say what your preferences are but try not to be condescending. "

I agree. most of the profiles the OP is referring to are generally born of frustration where time after time, the wrong people are messaging because they don't read the profile. It then develops into a list of "demands" because of this frustration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just need to vent about this! Why do some peoples profiles have to be so demanding!!

Completely unnecessary with all the, 'No this' and 'No that'

Jeez just delete messages already so much easier than writing a four page essay on what you dont want then small section of what you do! Far to negative

I for one wont be reading your demands cause thats not fun and thats what im looking for!

So to all the people who are bored with LONG BORING DEMANDING PROFILES dont message them! Boycott them! Lol make a stand hehe!

DEAR FABSWINGERS - THERE ARE FILTERS FOR MOST EVERYTHING BUT NOT FOR LONG PROFILES OVER 2 PARAGRAPHS HOW ABOUT THAT???

Lol I like how you complain about demanding profiles while making demands of your own "

And writing a post over 2 paragraphs long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry your message was too long not reading it!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make your own filter OP by ignoring those who have ranty / demanding / long profiles. It's quite easy to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol mines long but says what I want and I don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I happen to like long profiles... I'm a reader.

For the love of god, get rid of the damn disclaimers though! "

And a long writer, very funny too, I definitely laughed and related to most!

Shame it was more than 2 paragraphs though

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By *i4 funMan
over a year ago

st asaph

Well said

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

Quite simple really,it saves people contacting me to meet who I'm not interested in meeting, saves me from constantly replying with sorry you're too short,too young old/ not into ky kinks/married etc. Unfortunately many find reading a paragraph difficult and take offense when I Sa no thanks. Then ask why and take more offence when I say why.

Why are you bothered though? Just pass them by,like I do for profiles with nothing on them.


"Just need to vent about this! Why do some peoples profiles have to be so demanding!!

Completely unnecessary with all the, 'No this' and 'No that'

Jeez just delete messages already so much easier than writing a four page essay on what you dont want then small section of what you do! Far to negative

I for one wont be reading your demands cause thats not fun and thats what im looking for!

So to all the people who are bored with LONG BORING DEMANDING PROFILES dont message them! Boycott them! Lol make a stand hehe!

DEAR FABSWINGERS - THERE ARE FILTERS FOR MOST EVERYTHING BUT NOT FOR LONG PROFILES OVER 2 PARAGRAPHS HOW ABOUT THAT???"

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

Exactly! X ??
"If people actually read profiles that would be a start. I think it's only fair to say what your preferences are but try not to be condescending.

I agree. most of the profiles the OP is referring to are generally born of frustration where time after time, the wrong people are messaging because they don't read the profile. It then develops into a list of "demands" because of this frustration. "

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