FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys who enjoy soft play with couples , strange ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I the odd one out or do other men find it just as enjoyable to indulge soft play or watching with a couple ? I personally find it soo horny to be invited into a couples intimacy and be part of that in any way whether it be watching , touching , being touched or maybe more .. No pressure to penetrate is soo relaxing for all parties , I've had all my couple meets soo far where mostly I pleasure the lady and after they are both finished she pleasures me , there's nothing turns me on more than being wanked , am I the odd one out ?

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

Would not meet just for a wank , no matter how nice she was . A blow job yes , but a wank ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand where you are coming from but it doesn't seem like there are many of us out there!!

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By *uckoldmidsukMan
over a year ago

Spalding

As a role play lover it is nice to set up a scene, for example where one of the couple has run up a bill or not paid the rent etc. The creditor or landlord visits, and one of the couple is spanked for the late payment, then arriving home the other member of the couple is turned on by what they find, sex ensues and the landlord/creditor sits and watches.

I have done similar themes a few times and the couple have always reported after that they were very turned on by it all.

I have attended such meets in my cockcage as well as out of it, I have found sometimes the couple have enjoyed calling me names whilst they fuck in front of me. There is so many variants within sex lives - it's matching those with others that this site is all about.

On other occasions I wank while watching, it really depends on what the couple want

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Sex and eroticism is about so much more than just the act of sex itself it's good to know that there are people who feel the same way we do.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Soft sex is sooo erotic.. my preference is soft sex.. not often i have full penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great turn on with the right couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's a huge turn on and it's more of an intimacy turn on to me , seeing and knowing that both are excited and enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since my boner can be somewhat unpredictable, this scenario would suit me nicely.

Would love to relax and watch a couple bonking each other senseless, without the pressure to perform.

Whether they want someone just to observe without touching, or participate in some small way - eg hands or mouth... is all good.

As for 'wouldn't turn up for just a wank' guy - when you havent felt the intimate touch of a lady, for many months... to be wanked by a hand other than your own, is a treat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like soft swapping as much as full. Theres more to sex than penetration and shooting your load. It's about the journey as well as the arrival.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since my boner can be somewhat unpredictable, this scenario would suit me nicely.

Would love to relax and watch a couple bonking each other senseless, without the pressure to perform.

Whether they want someone just to observe without touching, or participate in some small way - eg hands or mouth... is all good.

As for 'wouldn't turn up for just a wank' guy - when you havent felt the intimate touch of a lady, for many months... to be wanked by a hand other than your own, is a treat."

Most of our meets are soft , with lots of touching , kissing and oral .

However , the one thing the third participant would need to bring would be a reliable hard on .

There's nothing less enjoyable than a guy who can't stay hard or get hard .

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London

Non penetrative sex can be every bit as arousing as "full" sex. Doesn't make any odds with a couple or one to one of you're turned on any enjoying yourself and each other.

Define "soft" though. It is rather variable I think

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London

"I really like soft swapping as much as full. Theres more to sex than penetration and shooting your load. It's about the journey as well as the arrival. "

Well put

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Sex and eroticism is about so much more than just the act of sex itself ."

this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of our meets are soft , with lots of touching , kissing and oral .

However , the one thing the third participant would need to bring would be a reliable hard on .

There's nothing less enjoyable than a guy who can't stay hard or get hard .

I already know we are incompatible - that's why you can't see my profile, which states the situation very clearly and truthfully. It also acknowledges that it might be a deal-breaker for most. This doesn't bother me.

Getting hard, is not a problem but after fucking the same woman for 24 years, it goes flat when I try to poke it inside anyone else. (Psychological, not physical).

It might surprise you, that the selection process of this single guy, does actually take into account what others are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swing is beautiful

The sensual touch and kiss is super horny

I'd rather kissing and oral more than penetration sex

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

We love soft play.

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

We have had as much fun....often more...when soft swinging with both couples and single guys.

We dont like the guys wanting to jump all over J at the first opportunity and have found we are willing to try different things when we are soft swinging...especially if the other couple/guy are a little adventurous.

We feel that the penetration part of our swinging forms a small part of the overall experience when we have fun and certainly isn't the be all and end all of sharing sexy erotic fun with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP we all experience sex in different ways - do what you enjoy doing. There's some very odd people who like the same sex on here (Wow!), then there are those who actually use condoms for birth control purposes (Crazy!).

My point is the penetrative sex, and the biological point to it is not the be all and end all.

Personally I love penetrative sex with women right up to climaxing in them, but lots of other people prefer to cum elsewhere (which is just odd! lol )

Since everyone one else does not share my preferences regarding sex exactly I must say that they look rather odd in so many regards.

So, OP yes, you're odd! But embrace what you like and feel good being an individual.

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By *antyhoseMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Sex is so much better when the mind is stimulated just as much as the body.

While penetrative sex is great, I would find nothing hornier than watching a couple in the same room as me having sex and being allowed to view this. Surely, if you had the choice between watching a couple fuck on a porn video OR live in front of you, the latter would win (given that a wank was all that was in the offing)

Probably not clear what I was trying to say.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love meets with the guy just watching and wanking,

we have also had meets with full swing cples who said that soft meets with us and others are very erotic

foreplay is very important to us, when you play soft you spend more time touching teaseing licking,

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By *laymate guyMan
over a year ago

Leeds and London

Soft swing all day for us: it's so exquisitely sensual, visual and enjoyable.

People who rush past it in the quest for'sex', are missing out so much...

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