FabSwingers.com forum: Next social

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok guys, girls and couples I am leaving this up to you last night was a great success but work in progress and we need more so what is the best night to have a tease social Fridays where the single guys are allowed into the club on their own steam and we have more scope to invite everyone or leave them to a Saturday where we are restricted to couples only. Your choice/vote which day gets the most is what day we will go for. Great function room perfect for meeting up before playtime.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I'm lost. Surely a social is just that... a social for people to meet, put faces to names etc. Why the restrictions???

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

"Ok guys, girls and couples I am leaving this up to you last night was a great success but work in progress and we need more so what is the best night to have a tease social Fridays where the single guys are allowed into the club on their own steam and we have more scope to invite everyone or leave them to a Saturday where we are restricted to couples only. Your choice/vote which day gets the most is what day we will go for. Great function room perfect for meeting up before playtime."

Friday!

no self interest at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i get this. You are looking to have a party on a friday night (that spills into Saturday) inviting as many single guys as you can, then choose those that you want to take with you to saturdays party, is that right?

Shame its so far away as id love to be a judge

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

No the last social was held in a totally separate function room at Club Tease with the option of being able to see around the club.

0f course im sure that some decided to stay and acutally play in the club.

The night problem was due to the fact that single guys are not allowed alone into the club on a saturday night.

I didnt actually attend this one - although intended too

Hope this helps as Shaz has not answered your query yet.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

As Mercedes said. We mailed hundreds of people and wondered maybe to try it on a friday next time so asking for opinions

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Hi Fruit,

Friday is good for me - and gutted i had to miss the last one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have it on a friday x Loads go out on a friday .. look at other clubs like chams mixed night .... lots of couple go and fems and single men x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

isn't the whole point of a social to be inclusive ... and that means allowing everybody where possible...

for example if you had a social where you excluded bbw's or black people for example.. there would be uproar.... and yet socials without single guys is acceptable

in my 7 years of going to socials I have never been at one where single guys have ever outnumbered couples or single ladies......

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

No one was excluded to the social. It was open to all. It was only if the people attending decided they wanted to go inot the club then the single men would be stuck unless they paired up with a lady. Hence why the suggestion of a Friday

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

The majority of the single men that said they were due to come didnt for whatever reason. I think the main reason for them not coming was it is a couples and fems night in the club which is upstairs.

I recon we should do it on a Friday this time and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

No-one was excluded from the social last night and everyone was welcome to have a look around the club if they wanted to see what it was like

I think a social on a friday would allow everyone to the chance to stay and enjoy the club too if they wanted to without any restrictions,or they could just stay in the function room and socialise if thats what they preferred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one was excluded to the social. It was open to all. It was only if the people attending decided they wanted to go inot the club then the single men would be stuck unless they paired up with a lady. Hence why the suggestion of a Friday"

Being honest though, having socials at clubs on a Saturday where single guys are excluded from the club does seem a little unfair. A single guy goes to a social, has chats and a great time with the people hes met, perhaps having his eye on a certain lady or couple etc, then only being allowed to go and have a quick look around the club, and then having to bugger off after all that, whilst all the other couples and single ladies go into the club and play. You can understand why some would be put off by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd happily attend on a Friday night

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Iconic your right but if they paired up with a lady that took their eye then they could enter the club.

The function room was downstairs in a totally seperate part of the building.

The idea of having the social in the same building as the club is so veryone has the option of the club.

It was also FREE.

If we have a social at a pub last the last few times then even if someone caught your attention then unless that person can accomodate then they are a bit stuck on where they can play.

Having the club upstairs gives that added bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"isn't the whole point of a social to be inclusive ... and that means allowing everybody where possible...

for example if you had a social where you excluded bbw's or black people for example.. there would be uproar.... and yet socials without single guys is acceptable

in my 7 years of going to socials I have never been at one where single guys have ever outnumbered couples or single ladies...... "

The social was all inclusive, it was just that as it was next to a club the general idea was that there could be some playing after if people wanted. The problem was that as it was a Sat night there was a no single men rule. Thats the point I think of asking if people would prefer a Fri, when we single fems can drag all the single men off up to the club and ravish them. thinking of which, you driving yet Fabio

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Molly,shaz I recon it wcould be a friday night next time dont you.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well yes I agree if a social was held in a normal pub, then a possible play meet would have to wait. But it does seem a good idea to have it on a Friday night so the option for all to go in is there. Otherwise there might be a situation where not all guys can get paired up, or single ladies may not want to be paired up solely to get a guy into a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops, _ruit beat me to it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, lets try a Friday next time, but can it be at least a month so I can lose soem more weight please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Friday it is then _ruit you work a date when your free and speak to Stu was looking at maybe june or July I could have a Birthday party lol will be 33 years old.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Will do. Wont have any more dates until a weeks time at earliest.

When is your birthday?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

July 2nd but can have party on 1st

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Friday 1st of July it is, as ex is having the kids I know as he is taking them to an airshow.

Will email stu and see how that is for them and run it by them. Can someone check their site to see if anything is sorted for so far away yet please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All thats showing is to the end of April speak to stu and see what he says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I can celebrate my ex husbands birthday, by letting him have his son for the night! Great

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Just got an email from Stu at tease and yes to the social for friday 1st july.

So single males WILL be allowed to enter the club with the correct ID etc without having to pair up with a lady.

More details to follow once confirmed with Stu

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