FabSwingers.com forum: If you saw someone you knew

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you saw someone on here that you knew had a partner but they were on as a single...would you tell their other half?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why, have you been caught out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha no quite the opposite! Found a single lady on here wanting discreet fun and i know she's married! I would never say anything of course, in fact I'd quite like to fuck her

just wondered what everyone else thoughts were

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

Why would you tell anyone??

Such a thing as discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope it's none of my business I would block and move on. For all you know she has her partners permission or it maybe there kink. No point getting involved in someone else's relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you tell anyone??

Such a thing as discretion "
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope it's none of my business I would block and move on. For all you know she has her partners permission or it maybe there kink. No point getting involved in someone else's relationship"

Yep never get involve in a relationship... Unless invited of course

You'll think your doing one of them a favour but before you know they'll both switch on you and you're now the bad guy/girl

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

No; unless she was my best friend and he was cheating on her

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No I would never say anything. None of us know the dynamics of other people's relationships and we should keep our sticky beaks out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, none of my business. And I have seen a few infact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, none of my business. And I have seen a few infact.

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"If you saw someone on here that you knew had a partner but they were on as a single...would you tell their other half?"

Does it or would it be perfectly normal and acceptable to tell someone, "I go on a website for swingers, you know the kind of thing... all about having sex with strangers. Oh and guess what? I found your partner there."

I think most of us on here choose to be discreet enough not to tell people we know, that we are in fact swingers, in fear of being branded perverts or worse. Don't we?

Or is it only me who doesn't broadcast it to the community at large over the Tannoy system at Tesco?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I didn't see a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as IM not the cheater I wouldnt say anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe Her partner knows .

And its what they like doing ?

I've recognised a few people on here now . But there business is none of my business.

We don't know why she needs extra marital sex ?

Maybe Hubs can't ger it up ?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"If you saw someone on here that you knew had a partner but they were on as a single...would you tell their other half?

I think most of us on here choose to be discreet enough not to tell people we know, that we are in fact swingers, in fear of being branded perverts or worse. Don't we?

Or is it only me who doesn't broadcast it to the community at large over the Tannoy system at Tesco?

You shop at Tesco???

eeek

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If you saw someone on here that you knew had a partner but they were on as a single...would you tell their other half?

I think most of us on here choose to be discreet enough not to tell people we know, that we are in fact swingers, in fear of being branded perverts or worse. Don't we?

Or is it only me who doesn't broadcast it to the community at large over the Tannoy system at Tesco?

I don't tell people we're swingers because it's none of their damn business I apply that reasoning to other people too.

I would only ever interfere in other people's relationship if I had good reason to believe that abuse was taking place, then I would consider the tannoy at Tesco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow this is going differently to other similar threads from the past!!!

I'm with everyone else so far.

It's none of my business so why should I be bothered. We're all adults after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow this is going differently to other similar threads from the past!!!

I'm with everyone else so far.

It's none of my business so why should I be bothered. We're all adults after all. "

A refreshing change !

Maybe the morality police haven't logged on yet !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wow this is going differently to other similar threads from the past!!!

I'm with everyone else so far.

It's none of my business so why should I be bothered. We're all adults after all. "

It's usually couched in terms of a woman who just knows that her poor best friend is being betrayed by an utter swine. The emotive language brings out the warriors

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wow this is going differently to other similar threads from the past!!!

I'm with everyone else so far.

It's none of my business so why should I be bothered. We're all adults after all.

A refreshing change !

Maybe the morality police haven't logged on yet ! "

Having different views and values is fine though isn't it? We're all open minded enough to engage bin reasoned discussion I hope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you saw someone on here that you knew had a partner but they were on as a single...would you tell their other half?

I think most of us on here choose to be discreet enough not to tell people we know, that we are in fact swingers, in fear of being branded perverts or worse. Don't we?

Or is it only me who doesn't broadcast it to the community at large over the Tannoy system at Tesco?

Simple yes or no would've been fine pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, none of my business. Unless it was my wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow this is going differently to other similar threads from the past!!!

I'm with everyone else so far.

It's none of my business so why should I be bothered. We're all adults after all.

A refreshing change !

Maybe the morality police haven't logged on yet !

Having different views and values is fine though isn't it? We're all open minded enough to engage bin reasoned discussion I hope."

Discussion yes

But preaching on about morals constantly No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, nope, nope! It is none of my business! If I saw them in a bar on a Friday night chatting up some person of which ever gender they are into, I wouldnmt dream of telling said friend. I might, however, wander across their eyeline and tip them a wink so they knew I'd clocked them

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wow this is going differently to other similar threads from the past!!!

I'm with everyone else so far.

It's none of my business so why should I be bothered. We're all adults after all.

A refreshing change !

Maybe the morality police haven't logged on yet !

Having different views and values is fine though isn't it? We're all open minded enough to engage bin reasoned discussion I hope.

Discussion yes

But preaching on about morals constantly No"

I suppose it depends on whether you agree with what they're saying or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope everyone deserves discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, nope, nope! It is none of my business! If I saw them in a bar on a Friday night chatting up some person of which ever gender they are into, I wouldnmt dream of telling said friend. I might, however, wander across their eyeline and tip them a wink so they knew I'd clocked them

now that's discretion

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was just seeing their profile on here, I wouldn't. While I don't think it's right, I still see it as outing a fabber and to me that is just wrong as we all trust eachother not to. If I caught him out with someone though, I would, as then it wouldn't link back to the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen a few on here I know none of my business they are not affecting me so leave them to it I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it's none of my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, But if it was a close family member or close friend I would,

I would want/expect them to tell me

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"If you saw someone on here that you knew had a partner but they were on as a single...would you tell their other half?

I think most of us on here choose to be discreet enough not to tell people we know, that we are in fact swingers, in fear of being branded perverts or worse. Don't we?

Or is it only me who doesn't broadcast it to the community at large over the Tannoy system at Tesco?

You shop at Tesco???

eeek

Didn't say I shopped there. Only said I don't brag about my shagging there!

Now Waitrose on the other hand...

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"If you saw someone on here that you knew had a partner but they were on as a single...would you tell their other half?

I think most of us on here choose to be discreet enough not to tell people we know, that we are in fact swingers, in fear of being branded perverts or worse. Don't we?

Or is it only me who doesn't broadcast it to the community at large over the Tannoy system at Tesco?

You shop at Tesco???

eeek

Didn't say I shopped there. Only said I don't brag about my shagging there!

Now Waitrose on the other hand...

Phew

I was about to leave this site if that is the kinda crowd it pulls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message the other day enquiring if my last name was ******. It's not so I said not. They replied am I not with ***** anymore. I repeated they were mistaken.

He then called me a liar and several other choice names and said he would be letting the guy he'd mentioned know what I was up to behind his back.

So some poor woman is being falsely accused of cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you tell anyone??

Such a thing as discretion "

spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow this is going differently to other similar threads from the past!!!

I'm with everyone else so far.

It's none of my business so why should I be bothered. We're all adults after all.

A refreshing change !

Maybe the morality police haven't logged on yet !

Having different views and values is fine though isn't it? We're all open minded enough to engage bin reasoned discussion I hope."

It's what makes the world go round!

But these type of threads are usually swamped with comments from the moral police.

I mean really? The majority of society would consider fabs to be immoral and the people using it.

Everyone's "moral compass " differs and as long as it's legal why should it be immoral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a lad I know on here the other day, he has just had a kid and got married a couple of months ago,would I go and tell his wife? No! Not my business, I'm not gonna lie I'm disappointed in him tho

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wow this is going differently to other similar threads from the past!!!

I'm with everyone else so far.

It's none of my business so why should I be bothered. We're all adults after all.

A refreshing change !

Maybe the morality police haven't logged on yet !

Having different views and values is fine though isn't it? We're all open minded enough to engage bin reasoned discussion I hope.

It's what makes the world go round!

But these type of threads are usually swamped with comments from the moral police.

I mean really? The majority of society would consider fabs to be immoral and the people using it.

Everyone's "moral compass " differs and as long as it's legal why should it be immoral?

You said it yourself everyone's moral compass is different. I just don't like the term "moral police".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw someone on here that you knew had a partner but they were on as a single...would you tell their other half?"

No it's their personal life to do as they please. That could back fire on you massively and it's not down to you to tell or judge.

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

What if it was clear from his/her profile they engaged in unsafe sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow this is going differently to other similar threads from the past!!!

I'm with everyone else so far.

It's none of my business so why should I be bothered. We're all adults after all.

A refreshing change !

Maybe the morality police haven't logged on yet !

Having different views and values is fine though isn't it? We're all open minded enough to engage bin reasoned discussion I hope.

It's what makes the world go round!

But these type of threads are usually swamped with comments from the moral police.

I mean really? The majority of society would consider fabs to be immoral and the people using it.

Everyone's "moral compass " differs and as long as it's legal why should it be immoral?

You said it yourself everyone's moral compass is different. I just don't like the term "moral police"."

That term is used purely because it's the same people all the time jumping on their high horse about what is morally right.

If this thread was on the lounge this thread would be going a different way right now. Same as the "white knight" term!

It's the same as the "gushing" thread on this forum the other day. It was very refreshing to read the comments. If it had been on the lounge, within minutes it would have turned nasty with claims that everyone who does has no bladder control!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if it was clear from his/her profile they engaged in unsafe sex?

They may not have sex at home that's why they are here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its none of my business

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wow this is going differently to other similar threads from the past!!!

I'm with everyone else so far.

It's none of my business so why should I be bothered. We're all adults after all.

A refreshing change !

Maybe the morality police haven't logged on yet !

Having different views and values is fine though isn't it? We're all open minded enough to engage bin reasoned discussion I hope.

It's what makes the world go round!

But these type of threads are usually swamped with comments from the moral police.

I mean really? The majority of society would consider fabs to be immoral and the people using it.

Everyone's "moral compass " differs and as long as it's legal why should it be immoral?

You said it yourself everyone's moral compass is different. I just don't like the term "moral police".

That term is used purely because it's the same people all the time jumping on their high horse about what is morally right.

If this thread was on the lounge this thread would be going a different way right now. Same as the "white knight" term!

I don't think anyone should insist they're right whichever side of the argument they're on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im proud of this thread today ..

Full of decent liberal people .

Some C### will ruin it soin by saying we're morally bankrupt

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What if it was clear from his/her profile they engaged in unsafe sex?

I still wouldn't interfere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if it was clear from his/her profile they engaged in unsafe sex?

I still wouldn't interfere."

Why would u ?

Your posts seem fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if it was clear from his/her profile they engaged in unsafe sex?

I still wouldn't interfere."

I would have a word with him/her as that's not fair x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What if it was clear from his/her profile they engaged in unsafe sex?

I still wouldn't interfere.

Why would u ?

Your posts seem fair"

Do you mean why wouldn't I?

My opinion is that a marriage or long term relationship is something that nobody outside of knows anything about other than what they see socially. I'm not sure how to articulate it but I know that neither of us would welcome any outside interference in our marriage unless we asked for it, simply because nobody else knows it like we do. I have no idea if my friends and acquaintances feel this way but I would pay them the courtesy of assuming that they had the same honesty that we do and keep my own counsel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult to say. Would depend on the circumstances, how well known etc. For all we know the 'cheater' is doing it with a blessing, why poke around in someone's life?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, not my secret to tell - if indeed it were a secret. Discretion means a lot to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a friend who had an affair . His then wife threw Him out and made sure his name was mud around here .

But I know how badly She treated him and took him for granted .

I believe people won't stray from a good marriage/relationship.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What if it was clear from his/her profile they engaged in unsafe sex?

I still wouldn't interfere.

Why would u ?

Your posts seem fair"

Sorry you did mean why would you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a friend who had an affair . His then wife threw Him out and made sure his name was mud around here .

But I know how badly She treated him and took him for granted .

I believe people won't stray from a good marriage/relationship."

I believe there are usually 2 sides to each story, which one you hear depends on who you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well then...

I DO know someone on THIS thread who is on here as single (man) but is married. I know his wife who I do know is unaware he's here..... Yes you!! Don't worry I won't say a thing. It's funny actually because your wife is screwing your neighbour and you haven't got a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw someone on here that you knew had a partner but they were on as a single...would you tell their other half?"

Depends who it was

If I saw my sister's husband or my brothers wife then yes I would, I don't care what anybody says about discretion I just couldnt sit back and watch somebody I love being shit on and say nothing, if they found out by another means I couldn't look them in the face knowing I knew and didn't tell them, how do you explain to them why you let it carry on

Anybody else it's nothing to do with me so no I'd keep out if it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well then...

I hope this is true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well then...

Is this an attempt to be funny?

If not ~ HE may well be happy with that arrangement, who knows what happens in a relationship, not YOU that's for sure.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well then...

So you're willing to be discreet on his behalf but not hers. Huge double standard.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Well then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well then...

Oooops well that narrows it down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I'd fuck her and let him watch

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well then...

Ahh you gotta tell us who!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a message the other day enquiring if my last name was ******. It's not so I said not. They replied am I not with ***** anymore. I repeated they were mistaken.

He then called me a liar and several other choice names and said he would be letting the guy he'd mentioned know what I was up to behind his back.

So some poor woman is being falsely accused of cheating.

Funnily enough I had a similar experience the other day too, told the so called Sherlock Holmes to go do what they had to do because they would be in for a bigger shock!! People forget that circumstances change & that they should keep their opinions to themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a message the other day enquiring if my last name was ******. It's not so I said not. They replied am I not with ***** anymore. I repeated they were mistaken.

He then called me a liar and several other choice names and said he would be letting the guy he'd mentioned know what I was up to behind his back.

So some poor woman is being falsely accused of cheating.

Does your Mrs know you're here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a message the other day enquiring if my last name was ******. It's not so I said not. They replied am I not with ***** anymore. I repeated they were mistaken.

He then called me a liar and several other choice names and said he would be letting the guy he'd mentioned know what I was up to behind his back.

So some poor woman is being falsely accused of cheating.

Does your Mrs know you're here?"

Hahaha does yours??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a message the other day enquiring if my last name was ******. It's not so I said not. They replied am I not with ***** anymore. I repeated they were mistaken.

He then called me a liar and several other choice names and said he would be letting the guy he'd mentioned know what I was up to behind his back.

So some poor woman is being falsely accused of cheating.

Does your Mrs know you're here?

Hahaha does yours??

Do you think a girl would be able to put up with me? Come on Weegie

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Depends on how good a friend of mine they were!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha no quite the opposite! Found a single lady on here wanting discreet fun and i know she's married! I would never say anything of course, in fact I'd quite like to fuck her

just wondered what everyone else thoughts were"

Let me know who it is and I'll do her and let you know what she's like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Haha no quite the opposite! Found a single lady on here wanting discreet fun and i know she's married! I would never say anything of course, in fact I'd quite like to fuck her

just wondered what everyone else thoughts were

Let me know who it is and I'll do her and let you know what she's like

charming

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I'd blackmail them for my own sexual needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you tell anyone??

Such a thing as discretion This

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few (they dont know me) but I promised them, their discretion.

Not my problem as I dont meet attached anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw someone on here that you knew had a partner but they were on as a single...would you tell their other half?"

No... none of my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not....not my business, respect discretion and things are rarely that black or white

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

No, I would how ever keep that info for the next time that person judges someone who is the same as them.

Just a little reminder, not to throw stones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is everything on this site, the fact you've even asked this puts doubt to your ability to be discrete x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Discretion is everything on this site, the fact you've even asked this puts doubt to your ability to be discrete x "

You're right, my ability to be discreet is questionable. In fact, I've just ordered a new number plate for my car, DOGG3R. And when I go for a meet at a couples house I put a huge sign in my windscreen saying "I'm nailing this mans wife"

I saw someone I knew, and it made me wonder if anyone else saw someone they knew, would they get involved or not. It was just a question. Silly woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well then...

That is just completely out of order!!!!

Totally ruined the thread.

You've basically outed someone on this thread and then rubbed salt in the wound.

Think before you speak, how would you like it if someone did similar to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well then...

That is just completely out of order!!!!

Totally ruined the thread.

You've basically outed someone on this thread and then rubbed salt in the wound.

Think before you speak, how would you like it if someone did similar to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw someone on here that you knew had a partner but they were on as a single...would you tell their other half?

I think most of us on here choose to be discreet enough not to tell people we know, that we are in fact swingers, in fear of being branded perverts or worse. Don't we?

Or is it only me who doesn't broadcast it to the community at large over the Tannoy system at Tesco?

Simple yes or no would've been fine pal

Is that really the best comment you can think of?

It's an open forum and the rest of the posters on here seem to be trying to have an intelligent discussion on the subject.

If you don't like the posts don't read them there's no need to knock someone for having a valid point to make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well then...

Maybe he does now!

(p.s. it isn't me!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im proud of this thread today ..

Full of decent liberal people .

Some C### will ruin it soin by saying we're morally bankrupt

WE're morally bankrupt!

There you go, I stole his/her thunder. Carry on as normal!

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over a year ago

"Discretion is everything on this site, the fact you've even asked this puts doubt to your ability to be discrete x

I saw someone I knew, and it made me wonder if anyone else saw someone they knew, would they get involved or not. It was just a question. Silly woman"

I think my point is that I wouldn't even think about whether to tell their other half or not. As in, it wouldn't even enter my head. Apologies but since I've joined this site I have found so many morally mental people that it's having its effect lol! I've also met some brilliant and inspiring people so hey ho!

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over a year ago

"Well then...

That is just completely out of order!!!!

Totally ruined the thread.

You've basically outed someone on this thread and then rubbed salt in the wound.

Think before you speak, how would you like it if someone did similar to you?

To be fair she didn't actually mention no names and she didn't tell his partner

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over a year ago

"Well then...

That is just completely out of order!!!!

Totally ruined the thread.

You've basically outed someone on this thread and then rubbed salt in the wound.

Think before you speak, how would you like it if someone did similar to you?

I think it's an attempt to be funny, a spot of cheating bashing, at least I hope it is!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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"Well then...

That is just completely out of order!!!!

Totally ruined the thread.

You've basically outed someone on this thread and then rubbed salt in the wound.

Think before you speak, how would you like it if someone did similar to you?

To be fair she didn't actually mention no names and she didn't tell his partner "

No but they did tell him that his partner was cheating. It probably was an attempt at humour but it also exposed double standards i.e. your secrets safe with me but your wife's isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope it's none of my business I would block and move on. For all you know she has her partners permission or it maybe there kink. No point getting involved in someone else's relationship"
free to Rome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, and I didn't say anything even though it could have been easy. Woman posing as single who was actually my mates sister in law. It's their life, let them live it. I did however have a good look at her pics....

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