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LADIES!!! How many men have you met that couldn't get it UP??

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By *lackNBold OP   Man
over a year ago

London

How did you react to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have once..

Wasn't good we both tryed etc.. his was getting annoyed that it wasn't getting up...

He was just over thinking it and nervous so didn't help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have once..

Wasn't good we both tryed etc.. his was getting annoyed that it wasn't getting up...

He was just over thinking it and nervous so didn't help x"

Oh man I can only imagine how awkward that was for all involved.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Only once I was fine by it, there's other ways to have fun, but he acted way over the top about it he threw an hissy fit at himself, got dressed and left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have once..

Wasn't good we both tryed etc.. his was getting annoyed that it wasn't getting up...

He was just over thinking it and nervous so didn't help x

Oh man I can only imagine how awkward that was for all involved."

Ya was a bit.. but we didn't let it get in the way.. still had some fun and just chat and had a laugh really... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes condoms don't help- but has to be done!

The big thing (no pun intended) is that there are other things you can do other then just stick a cock somewhere.

So I say, forget about it and do something else, put all the effort into pleasing the other party and maybe you will feel the cock get harder.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Went through a period of about 6 months a few years back where every bloke I played with at clubs had this problem. My husband thought it was hilarious, the Bastard!

After a while I came to expect it and even started to think it may have been my fault.

Not been a problem since

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By *lackNBold OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I have once..

Wasn't good we both tryed etc.. his was getting annoyed that it wasn't getting up...

He was just over thinking it and nervous so didn't help x"
woow you look so good that you make them that nervous

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By *lackNBold OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Only once I was fine by it, there's other ways to have fun, but he acted way over the top about it he threw an hissy fit at himself, got dressed and left"
woow men do over react sometimes..

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By *lackNBold OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Went through a period of about 6 months a few years back where every bloke I played with at clubs had this problem. My husband thought it was hilarious, the Bastard!

After a while I came to expect it and even started to think it may have been my fault.

Not been a problem since "
woow that hilarious I bet you started panicking too

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Only once I was fine by it, there's other ways to have fun, but he acted way over the top about it he threw an hissy fit at himself, got dressed and leftwoow men do over react sometimes.. "

So do women sometime.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Once but we were in a club and it was his first visit so understandable. The noise a lady near us was making was putting him off. To be fair she did sound like a cat in distress. We had a giggle about it

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By *lackNBold OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Only once I was fine by it, there's other ways to have fun, but he acted way over the top about it he threw an hissy fit at himself, got dressed and leftwoow men do over react sometimes..

So do women sometime. "
Yes of course we very similar.

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By *lackNBold OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Once but we were in a club and it was his first visit so understandable. The noise a lady near us was making was putting him off. To be fair she did sound like a cat in distress. We had a giggle about it "
Yes I can relate to that some women do too much..

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

once, but fortunately no one got too up tight about it, he was a bit embarrassed but i explained it was fine

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not really but im 51 ive been round the block a few times. Men and women are not robots your body reacts to different things. Its how you deal with them thats more important

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area


"Went through a period of about 6 months a few years back where every bloke I played with at clubs had this problem. My husband thought it was hilarious, the Bastard!

After a while I came to expect it and even started to think it may have been my fault.

Not been a problem since "

Same! Remember walking out of a club once and actually stamping my feet like a child as it had been 6 in a row at that point I think! Did start to wonder if it was me!

Some guys over-do the drink in clubs sometimes I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost count but as I have mostly done group play in public it's to be expected as even experienced guys have issues...best thing to do is not to Make a fuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am refreshed by how understandable women on here are so understandable and very considerate. So thank you for your sensitivity.

I know theres other ways to enjoy each other without penetration and tbh the other ways usually last longer and be more pleasurable.

Thank you girls for your patience and understanding!!

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I am refreshed by how understandable women on here are so understandable and very considerate. So thank you for your sensitivity.

I know theres other ways to enjoy each other without penetration and tbh the other ways usually last longer and be more pleasurable.

Thank you girls for your patience and understanding!!"

Yeah......hear, hear to that !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not beat yourself up about it.

The more you do the worse it will get and then you will have a real problem.

I think it happens to most of us guys at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a couple of times.

There's a LOT of pressure on men in a meet to, not only perform, but to perform well.

Sometimes men have stage freight, it doesn't help when alcohol is involved either.

It's just one of those things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes once but he made up for it on the second meeting !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few

It's more of a problem for them than me

Most of the guys who can't get it up think that's it, meet over and leave

Where as i feel if they forget about their cock for a bit and do other things that does not involve their cock they may feel more relaxed and things may happen for them

Problem is a lot of guys don't realise there are things to do sexually that does not involve their cock

It don't bother me I realise we are all human and nerves affect men in a different way to women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From here,none that I can remember.

Off here,one I met a few times was a bit floppy,through nerves,but the more we met the less nervous he was.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too many. I get that it happens for a number of reasons but it still makes you feel like shit when it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to drink alcohol

If your fit n healthy it should always rise to the occassion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh good god, this has just bought back the most awful memory.

Years ago I arranged to meet a guy in a pub and we ended up going for a drive in his car. He couldn't get it up and ended up getting very aggressive and was actually shouting at, and hitting, his cock in a rage.

I was scared and couldn't wait to get back to that pub and the safety of my own car.

He then turned into a bit of a stalker and threatened to find out where I worked and turn up because I didn't want to see him again (obviously!)

Was pre-fab and many years ago but can feel the horror of it all coming back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice.

The first guy got funny and pretty much threw me out, although I was cool with it and had met him twice for coffee

2nd time blokes cock kept going soft, after a while I pretended I thought he had cum, stopped, he had a fag and i left.

Neither were off Fab

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh good god, this has just bought back the most awful memory.

Years ago I arranged to meet a guy in a pub and we ended up going for a drive in his car. He couldn't get it up and ended up getting very aggressive and was actually shouting at, and hitting, his cock in a rage.

I was scared and couldn't wait to get back to that pub and the safety of my own car.

He then turned into a bit of a stalker and threatened to find out where I worked and turn up because I didn't want to see him again (obviously!)

Was pre-fab and many years ago but can feel the horror of it all coming back "

Omg that's awful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, had one blow his load before I'd started doing anything really.

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