FabSwingers.com forum: Does FAB work for any single guys

By *ittle big horns OP Man
over a year ago

nerja

Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.

Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works for some guys and not for others. You need to think about what you're looking for and what you're willing to put in for it.

I wouldn't be on here if I were a single guy, though. I'm much too lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The vast majority of people on here are single guys. A few of them are very vocal and overly aggressive which gives us all a bad name and makes it harder to get meets.

It is a shame but it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I have done ok from it. Key is patience and not assume everyone wants you. Be yourself, treat people with respect and if people like you then that's just grand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met loads of single men. So some obviously are doing okay

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

It works for me to find out which parties are on and to keep in touch with those I meet there. Anything else is a bonus although I do accept it can be tough for a guy to get replies and meets simply due to the numbers.

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By *ussy.loverMan
over a year ago

heswall

Have to agree with you nomessers

Some are way too aggressive and expect far to much on here and the site has lots of guys to 1 girl would love to know the figures !

Get to koow a girl or couple first and politeness never hurt anyone

And Be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works fine. Just use it to complement your real life encounters and don't expect too much from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab works ok for me, depends on how you use it and what you want from fab though I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to workn fine for any of the guys we have met from fab.

But then we try to avoid the whingers and complainers.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

There's some fantastic single guys on here, patience is very much the key (as is reading profiles)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.

Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen."

Your verifications say otherwise. Therefore, is this a look at me thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Working well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it works for some and not for others, as with most things in life

basically you have to put maximum effort in to get anything out of it..

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Have to agree with you nomessers

Some are way too aggressive and expect far to much on here and the site has lots of guys to 1 girl would love to know the figures !

Get to koow a girl or couple first and politeness never hurt anyone

And Be patient "

Been here seven years only meeting single men. The last one I met moved in.

Not once encountered an aggressive single male!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

You have to make an effort if you want to get something out of it.

If you wanted a new job you wouldn't just sit around and wait for someone to offer you one, you would be out networking and applying for stuff. The same principle applys here.

Single women don't actually have it that easy on here. Yes we do receive a lot of messages but 99% of them are from guys we dont want to go anywhere near.

If we want to meet with "quality" single men we have to make an effort too and seek them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.

Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen.

Your verifications say otherwise. Therefore, is this a look at me thread?"

7 varis imo is good going. You also go to a swingers club.... So what is it you are expecting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen hot women and I mean absolute stunners - talking 8/9/10's

Which have met some real monsters of men . Don't know how they do it .

But then I've seen men with great body's and good looks meeting women that are like .... That low in ranks like 1/2/3's you wouldn't even rank them you'd just skip by !

Oh it's a strange place

And even stranger world

Best of luck mate

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"There's some fantastic single guys on here, patience is very much the key (as is reading profiles)

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We have got in touch and had fun with a few guys on fab , but your best bet is a club as that is where we usual arrange our meets .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say your doing to bad! 5 meets in 5 weeks ,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works for me just fine. Always has done

You get out of it what you put into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get urself out to clubs and patience is the key on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you suggesting that single women and couples are only meeting each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get urself out to clubs and patience is the key on here. "

He's a regular at amour according to his Veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad FAB is here, and it has worked for me in the past. The problem is it does not work as well as I'd like it too lol

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

It has worked fine for me OP and still is.

Perhaps you need to look at your approach or attitude?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

fab works great for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its ok I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you should share your tips with us

you silver fox lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to agree with you nomessers

Some are way too aggressive and expect far to much on here and the site has lots of guys to 1 girl would love to know the figures !

Get to koow a girl or couple first and politeness never hurt anyone

And Be patient "

Have you read his Veris they speak differently and he's a club regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet single blokes. If someone takes the time to read my profile, comes across in a polite manner, has some public pictures and a filled in bio i always reply.

I have to say i do enjoy clubs more, but often arrange to meet single blokes at the clubs from fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works fine for me thanks

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.

Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen."

It works for some, not others.

From your veris it doesn't look as though you're doing too badly.

However, if you're surprised that people aren't making the effort to find you, don't be. Guys usually have to actively look and put in the effort to do well on here. Few women/couples do the looking themselves.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I've seen hot women and I mean absolute stunners - talking 8/9/10's

Which have met some real monsters of men . Don't know how they do it .

But then I've seen men with great body's and good looks meeting women that are like .... That low in ranks like 1/2/3's you wouldn't even rank them you'd just skip by !

Oh it's a strange place

And even stranger world

Best of luck mate

Perhaps those people aren't judging each other by the same standards and criteria you are using

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.

Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen.

It works for some, not others.

From your veris it doesn't look as though you're doing too badly.

Thats true, i have never been the first to send a message on here.

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By *ittle big horns OP Man
over a year ago

nerja

"Ive met loads of single men. So some obviously are doing okay"

Gives me hope lol

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Works just fine for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The single blokes who like a moan, seem to be the ones who think this is a second on tap site, and that they can just send a shit message then get laid. As some have already said, this tars all with one brush sadly. I've not had loads of meets, and I should probably make my profile better, but I enjoy chatting on here and elsewhere and have found it good fun.

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By *ittle big horns OP Man
over a year ago

nerja

"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.

Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen.

Your verifications say otherwise. Therefore, is this a look at me thread?"

My verifications are all from visiting Amour, I have yet to meet someone from FAB.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

You have met so it is working for you. Pop more pics up for people to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically you reap what you soe. The more you put in, and all that.....

Having a big cock helps as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The single blokes who like a moan, seem to be the ones who think this is a second on tap site, and that they can just send a shit message then get laid. As some have already said, this tars all with one brush sadly. I've not had loads of meets, and I should probably make my profile better, but I enjoy chatting on here and elsewhere and have found it good fun."

Totally agree with every word of that

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By *ittle big horns OP Man
over a year ago

nerja

"Have to agree with you nomessers

Some are way too aggressive and expect far to much on here and the site has lots of guys to 1 girl would love to know the figures !

Get to koow a girl or couple first and politeness never hurt anyone

And Be patient

Have you read his Veris they speak differently and he's a club regular "

Yeah my veris are all from meeting in a club, maybe I'm rubbish at text communication. Better in real life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically you reap what you soe. The more you put in, and all that.....

Having a big cock helps as well."

Don't agree with having a big cock helps but definitely put the effort in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works, but its harder work that's all - even harder for us Bi men lol

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By *ittle big horns OP Man
over a year ago

nerja

"You have met so it is working for you. Pop more pics up for people to look at

Meets have all been at a club.

Definitely need more pics thanks x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

This site works for me. Although a better one is "women who want to shag Steve.com"

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"It works, but its harder work that's all - even harder for us Bi men lol

Theres more and more couples looking for bi men these days.

I dont seem to have any problems!

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

You visit a club ... something a lot of single guys don't do

You have pictures. .Maybe add a few more

Your verifications seem good so it sounds really as if you are not putting as much in on the site.

As a single female I'm never post looking for a meet (only one if I'm visiting a club)

I don't wink or message guys....

So if others are like me you'll wait a long time :/

Start reading start messaging and good luck

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Fab is certainly easier if you're a woman, a couple or a bi-guy. But as always a lot also depends on what it is you're on here looking for. If you're into clubs then you'll probably do fine but then you don't necessarily need Fab for that anyway.

I think the first thing to do is lower your expectations. It'll save you going stir crazy when things get quiet. Chances are you're not going to be rolling in women.

The main thing that seems to slip a lot of guys minds is that Fab isn't too dissimilar to real life. Just as in real life, be polite and respectful to the women you're trying to chat to. If they like you they like you. If they don't they don't. Nothing you can really do about that. You just have to be willing to put in the effort. Don't go at it like a bull in a china shop. You'll need patience and it may take some time.

Fab can be a very rewarding place when it all works out but you'll probably have to go through a few difficulties to get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.

Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen."

Op it does work I reactivated my profile just over three weeks ago I've been on two socials from here in that time .

don't let the fact nether verified me make you think I'm lying I have listed my reasons for not being interested in being verified in another forum post .

It works best if you really tailor your messages to the type of girl who you know will be interested in what you have to offer .so no copy and paste no messaging women or couple you have nothing in common with apart from the fact you all like to fuck .this approach will get you responses even if its a thanks but no thanks .

Be active in the forums show your personality in them by that I mean don't act like a sycophant be yourself express your opinions you will be surprised by the amount of private chats this can lead to .

Op that's how I roll on sites like this and it does work given enough time .

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By *ittle big horns OP Man
over a year ago

nerja

"You visit a club ... something a lot of single guys don't do

You have pictures. .Maybe add a few more

Your verifications seem good so it sounds really as if you are not putting as much in on the site.

As a single female I'm never post looking for a meet (only one if I'm visiting a club)

I don't wink or message guys....

So if others are like me you'll wait a long time :/

Start reading start messaging and good luck "

Thanks, sounds like good advice and if you would like to go to a club in Manc do let me know lol x

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Seems to work ok for the single guys we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is working for me so far

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"The vast majority of people on here are single guys. A few of them are very vocal and overly aggressive which gives us all a bad name and makes it harder to get meets.

It is a shame but it happens."

I fail to see how a few vocal and aggressive men spoil things for you or for me....they just make the good guys stand out more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly just use the forum, it is comedy gold

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Fab is certainly easier if you're a woman, a couple or a bi-guy."

It's easier for women to get messages and attention, but it's not necessarily the sort of messages/attention we want and it's still difficult for most of us to get good meets.

If it was that great for women here, there would be more. There's a reason a lot don't stay.

Every group has their own issues to deal with on the site.

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By *ripodKeithMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Hi Biscotti,

DerbyTonight is my kik name to be added to your local group, if I may, please...

Can't message directly...

Cheers,

Keith x

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

Fab works for me, Best site i have found. Just be yourself and Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its my view that FAB is best for single FEMS and couples. I have been told my profile is OK but have little success on here.

Or am I just not putting the time in and expecting people to find me which just doesn't happen."

Little success ? Are you sure? You have been on over a year and have 7 verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does but not in isolation.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does but not in isolation. "

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Indeed it does OP, I know of and and spoken to a few lovely guys

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

"Seems to work ok for the single guys we meet

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this..effort in rewards out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen hot women and I mean absolute stunners - talking 8/9/10's

Which have met some real monsters of men . Don't know how they do it .

But then I've seen men with great body's and good looks meeting women that are like .... That low in ranks like 1/2/3's you wouldn't even rank them you'd just skip by !

Oh it's a strange place

And even stranger world

Best of luck mate

These people obviously don't rate body type above sexual attraction. People rate someone as a sexual partner using more than just body shape and size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have to make an effort if you want to get something out of it.

If you wanted a new job you wouldn't just sit around and wait for someone to offer you one, you would be out networking and applying for stuff. The same principle applys here.

Single women don't actually have it that easy on here. Yes we do receive a lot of messages but 99% of them are from guys we dont want to go anywhere near.

If we want to meet with "quality" single men we have to make an effort too and seek them out"

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